So My parents decided they would buy a parent control wifi and restrict the wifi time 6-7 am and 6-7 pm ( Im 14 btw) They said I need to go play outside more? I tell them I go outside but they wouldn't believe me because they didnt see me which is so frustrating because they don't believe anything you say. In starting to hate my parents

She will never children again, because the father took them to Russian in violation of a US child custody order. According to the law, she is the only victim, because this has noting to do with children rights or welfare only parental rights. Her children speak Russian and do not speak English.

Is it fair that if an Japanese mother takes her US born children to Japan in violation of a US child custody order, the American father will never see his children again? According to the law, he is the only victim, because this has noting to do with children rights or welfare only parental rights.

I cant imagine one day the people im living with telling me that I been adopted when I was a baby I think it would be super sad knowing somewhere out their your real family is out their I look nothing like the family im living with now I wouldnt be surprise if they do actually end up being my adopted family I would be really sad. I have 5 brothers and 2 sisters my 5 brothers dont really care about me but my 2 sister do they are nice to me I herd girls are more nicer then guys too maybe thats why they are so nice to me but if they really are not my real family I would like for them to just tell me the truth because I look nothing like them.

My boyfriend has an EXTREMELY weird and toxic family. My bf is 27 & lives with his father & his new wife, his little brother & a friend of the family (she's close to 50) I'm 22 and currently staying on campus and its difficult for me to bring non-residents into my building & he insists that his family will be fine with me visiting. Overtime, my bf and I had sex in his room and his parents heard us *they sleep in the basement* my bf told me he needs to move bc his father pulled a chair up to the ceiling to hear us having sex & his wife began crying. Very awkward that they heard me and I'm embarrassed BUT i'm even more bothered by his father's reaction o_0. My bf proceeds to tell me disturbing things about his family such as his father watching him have sex when he was 16...and another time his dad AND his grandfather watched him have sex at 17-18. Also, the 50 year old lady that lives there is his dad's ex girlfriend... so his wife, and ex lives in the same home... it's DIFFICULT to NOT have an opinion or judgement on them. I told my boyfriend that i am NOT comfortable around his family and that I do not want to visit. He understands that they are strange but gets offended when I make those comments. I've even asked him to spare me details if he doesnt want me to judge them, the problem isn't me..It's CLEARLY the family. I know they're not going anywhere, and my bf is moving into his own place in a few weeks..How should I deal with his family moving forward?

They're both nearing their sixties and are thus much older than me and become angry when I offer suggestions. I am reprimanded for asking my father to go to the dentist or doctor (he has heart issues and is starting to lose nearly all of his teeth but is not retired), and I am similarly scolded for asking my mother not to improperly use the antibiotics she is prescribed (for example, not finishing the prescription, then using the last one or two randomly when the infection comes back while she waits to return to the doctor). Am I approaching topics the wrong way? Is there a certain way I should confront them?

My daughter graduated at 22 with degrees in math and physics. Got hired at an aerospace defense company. Soon after getting hired she began dating one of senior engineering managers. Soon afterwards she got pregnant and had the baby 3 weeks ago. She was on the pill, but it obviously didn't work, so now she had an IUD put in. Realistically this wouldn't work out between the two of them with the big age gap. I met him at the hospital when Lexi had the baby and im not sure what a young, leggy blonde who's smart and good looking would want a paunchy guy in his 50s with a beard. He was skinny, but had this belly on him. Just seems strange as most young women would not go for that. He does have 6 other kids as well, two of them are older than Lexi! I mean he seemed okay and was nice, but he did mention he was dealing with 2 kidney stones that he was trying to pass, so he wasn't his usual self. She told me yesterday that he wants her and the baby to move in with him. I recommended against it, but im not the boss. Just dont think there is any future here. Thoughts?

My aunt is a severely mentally ill woman who has wronged many people in her life including her family in many different ways. Because of this, no one in my family really wants to talk to her and she's very isolated. As a teenager, though I didn't know a detailed version and of the stuff she's pulled, I felt pity for her and decided to keep in touch with her on FaceBook so that she wouldn't be as lonely. During this time, I revealed to her that I was molested as a child. That's when my aunt told me that her father, my grandfather, had molested her as a child. he asked me not to tell anyone, even my father (her brother) because no one knew that except me. Fast forward a year or so, I come out to her as a lesbian and she tells me that I'm going to hell, outs me to my dad, and cuts me off. That really hurt me and I still don't talk to her but I've always kept my promise to keep her secret and would never reveal something like that against her wishes over pettiness. However, I've been putting the pieces together as to what she's really like and she's definitely a compulsive liar who likes to lie to get attention and pity from people. I feel bad about this, but it makes me suspicious as to whether what she told me was true or not. I'd be relieved but very hurt because of all these years not telling a soul the fact that my deceased grandpa would do something like that has been eating me up inside, especially being a victim of csa myself. Should I ask my dad about it or something? Just to make things clear, I have gotten therapy for my own abuse and I'm doing very well now as an adult so there's no need to worry about me. As a teenager I was still working out that trauma since the wound was more fresh. Thank you for the concern though!

My 12 year old wants social media, and I said no. She has proven that she is not mature enough and she is under the minimum age requirement. I explained both reasons already. My daughter thinks telling me that "every kid has social media" and "their parents don't care what they do online" will make me change my mind. By making these statements, she's only telling me that some kids aren't receiving enough parental guidance at home and that's it. She understood no means no before, but as she gets closer to being a teenager, it seems like my daughter has been testing boundaries. She cares more about what her friends do, and how she fits into their group. It has been hard for me, especially since she is my first child and the only girl (I have two younger sons, and it seems like she goes through a different set of social problems compared to them).

My family says that success is being well educated and get good job with loving family. Person value is in their wisdom and manners, since money is important but not everything.

even if he doesnt buy anything. another example when the teacher wanted to say something didnt tell my dad and told me instead. we were both hearing. why would she face me instead then.

like when i said dad its not ok to be stingy. we dont even spend as much as a very poor family . he says no im not stingy at all. then when my brother came and said the excatly same thing. can you believe what he said he. my brother said i want money to go study abroad .he told my brother sorry. we live in a country with 50 percent inflation. basically our money doesnt equall to paper version of it .then he says i want to go abroad. my dad says ok if i got the money. wt@? btw im 19 and he is 28.

My twin brother and I haven't had the best of relationships over the past couple of years. So much so until I had to recently block him from contacting me. Over the years I've posted about my brother's sex addiction. He's going through his second divorce right now at the age of 50 because he just can't keep it in his pants. I'll try to keep this short. I introduced my brother to a girl some years ago who has been known to charge for sex. No, she's not a professional prostitute or even an escort but when she needs extra cash you can hook up with her for a fee. How do I know, because I've hook up with her in the past. Well, my brother and this girl would hook up for a while then stop. Now that he's going through his divorce and separated from his wife he's looking for some action. This is a girl who is basically homeless now and has 3 kids, one of which she has with her. If you want to find her she's usually hanging out at a gas station or a Walmart until all hours of the night. My brother would go pick her up and take her back to his place then complain to me the next day about how bad she smelled or how he couldn't do anything with her because her 3 year old son wouldn't go to sleep. Well, this weekend I was chatting with the girl and I asked her how she felt knowing that she had been with two brothers, identical twins at that. She goes back and tells my brother I had hit her up so now he's mad at me because he said I was trying to come between him and his side action. We got into a texting argument and I reminded him about how he'll text me and constantly complain about her but yet, he still goes and picks her up several nights a week and take her and her son back to his place only to complain about her again the next day. He started calling me a few names and then he threatened me by saying, "how would you like it if I told your wife a few things about you?" My brother literally cheated on his second wife the entire time they were married and I never once threatened him like this. "Stop or I'm telling your wife." I would never stoop that low. What you do will eventually come out and his did, that's why he's separated again from his 2nd wife. My brother has this thing to where he feels he has to have sex or a warm body in his bed several nights a week. In the past few months he's told me about multiple "escorts" that he's paying for sex. But is blood really thicker than water here? Was he completely wrong to threaten me by saying anything to my wife about things I've done in my past? And let me say this. This girl doesn't care that she's been with brothers. All she cares about is the money. So me trying to mess up his side action was never going to happen because this girl doesn't care. And no, my brother isn't the only one she's sexing right now. Again, it's all about the money for her. When I told him I would block him this was his reply. "You can block me but your wife hasn't!"

ive read in a text when one the characters was dominant told the other one you dont tell me what to do. i myself believe there must be equations and everyone must be treated good . not treating on good and treat the other one bad.

I was having a HEALTHY & calm conversation between 2 adults (my families neighbor and myself.) The neighbor brought up that one of my brother s is rude to him. I told him sorry & that I ll talk to him, I also told him that my brother is rude to me too. Out of nowhere from about 10 feet away, my nosy & dramatic mother, yells " shut up & stop talking badly about your brother!" I was so embarrassed because there was more people around! I m a grown adult & can do whatever I want! I would understand if I would ve called him bad names but she did that to try & control me like she always tries to. I just told her to please not yell at me. I find it super hypocritical of her to even say that to me because she s always & I mean ALWAYS talking badly about her own sister. She should first be an example if she s going to act that ridiculous. Am I right? I just hate being treated as a child when I m not! I know what I m doing. My mom is always angry at me for some dumb reason.

My aunt is 64 but for the first 20 years of her life she was born and educated in the United States and spoke English. However she married a French guy and moved to France 40 years ago and lives in France to this day. Now I noticed her French is completely fluent however she had become rusty in English. She forgets some English words now and how to say things. The oddity is she was born and raised in San Francisco before .

I had come up to my uncle's birthday party and put out a good amount of money for the food and gift. It seemed unappreciated and like he took it for granted even other family members gifts to him. He can be very aloof and has a nasty side to him. Me and him got into an argument about my career path and he was implying that it was not suitable since it is dying out. I tried to convince him otherwise through accurate facts but he would not agree. He told me you do not raise your voice to me I'm your uncle, I am an adult. I said I am an adult too. He then, responded no your not, you are not an adult until you move out, get a car, drive yourself and pay your own bills. I had been working hard to get a job, I have applied to over 100 jobs and am trying to move out because I just graduated college 2 weeks ago. I don't know how to deal with him. He is full of criticism, envy, and gossip. He gossips about the entire family. He made me feel like I don't want to talk to him. I want to distance myself.

So recently my great-aunt passed away and was in her 80's. But when she was alive she was not so nice to me over the last 10 years. I am in my 30's but when I wanted to visit her she would say "don't visit me, because I don't know what to say/do with you". And she would avoid talking to me on the phone if i phoned her house. Now she recently passed and I was wondering if I should go to the funeral because it's in another state from where I live. I asked my daughter and she told me "Don't go mom, because you're too Busy for her" and then she winked after she said that. Lol. What would you do?

My cousin thinks her mom is too judgemental and critical. She says that her mom blamed her for things that wasn't her fault in the past. She's also mad that her mom is too "overprotective" in her words. The grass isn't greener on the other side. If she had a different family, she'd probably be complaining too. I've met people from so many different backgrounds and they ALL dislike at least one or two things about their parents. She should just be glad that her mom loves her and is able to take proper care of her. There are some kids who are unloved, abandoned and starving to death. At least my cousin isn't one of them, she should be grateful for that luxury.

I wanna runaway to Florida since my parents being ***** any suggestions how to run away successfully?

I'm 16, living with my brother and parents. My mom and dad have never loved each other. Not even when they got married. There is just no love, never have never will be. They can't divorce because it costs $$. The only reason why they still live together is because my father has a criminal record and is a cab driver, he can't afford to go out and scatter around rent every month. We can't move out because our rent is payed for monthly by the government. I don't know what to do. My whole family has always been toxic. Everyone has their own problems. My father is extremely unhygienic, he has not showered for literally years. He doesn't brush his teeth, wash his face, shower, or do anything. He is so gross. I can't even explain how nasty. I wish I was lying. My mum doesn't deserve this at all. My brother is 13, I can see he is starting to get problems too. He doesn't have a proper father figure to look up to. My dad is a disgrace. This man is a heathen. I want my brother, mum and I out. I don't know what to do. We're all depressed. This is only a portion of the story. :(

When i was overweight she use to yell at me to keep thin and smell good and now im thin but im always nervous. I dont have self confidence even when people call me attractive. I resent and a little jealous other girls because they seem to have confidence except me and enjoy life and having friends.

It is sad as she was really close to us when I was a kid and is now consumed with nothing but shear hatred for her father and her brother. Her father enables the brother and the brother is entitled and a bad husband. Not saying this uncle is a role model by any means, but the hatred the aunt has is destroying her. I cannot think of any time I have seen her where she has not discussed her animosity towards them unless they are there at a time like Christmas as well as one time when she saw me at a funeral in the other side of my family and she did not say anything that time.

I'm a middle-aged 38 year old mother of 5 children. Three of them are from a previous relationship and I haven't seen them in 7 years. My oldest son is 17 and then I had twins (both boys) who are both 14. I divorced their father due to me cheating on him with another woman. I was living a lie and I couldn't take it anymore. During the unhappiest moment of my life I met another woman who swept me off my feet and made me feel so special, but the divorce was pretty bad for me and my kids were hurt. I tried my best to make them know I love them and that nobody else will make them feel hurt. I remarried to my now wife whom I adore and love completely, and with her I had two children who are girls and my youngest is barely 5 months and one is 6. My wife was always nice to them, but they were always cold towards her and my girls. After the divorce, my kids lived with me for like 2 years after finally deciding to leave due to their hate for my wife and move in with my sister, their aunty. Since then, they have completely cut me out of their lives. I only hear about their well-being which is not good. My eldest has developed depression and even though he has good grades and is almost graduating, he has a lot of anxiety and has tried to commit suicide. My twins are getting into school fights a lot and one of them has been expelled from his school and apparently they barely see their father because he struggles financially and that he's still single. Please help me out, I'm very scared?

I'm turning 20 in August & freaking the **** out!!!! First of all I haven't enjoyed any of my teen years, never gone out (literally) I was homeschooled due to personal reasons. I never had friends only one that rarely hung out with me, never had a boyfriend didn't even have a first kiss so no surprise I'm a freaking virgin. There's just no memories that never been made, no fun, no enjoying being a kid, no photos no videos to look back on, no stories to tell. Besides that I have 2 younger sisters that are 10- 7 & we don't even get along, as I'm getting older I feel it's just getting more detach we are. I also have been a second mom (literally) took care of my sisters like they were mine that I also took turns with my mom taking care of my grandfather that passed a year ago now. Me & my mom don't get to go out & enjoy eachother its always aggravation, worries, etc., lastly I won't ever get to enjoy my mom I've seen it happened to my uncle so I just know. My mom is 44 wants no more kids but she makes me question sometimes. I see people or like my neighbor that's 41 & has 3 boys yet acts like a teenager more then me, her & her oldest son get to go out have fun like siblings/friends having fun me & my mom used to be like that & she knows she is sad about it too. My mom gets sad since her anxiety attack from after having both my sisters she can't drive doesn't live life either. I have anxiety too so everything is just really hard I feel too sad turning 20 my teen yrs were wasted

I've never had a good relationship with my parents. I make straight A's in school, hold a part time job, and I don't get in trouble. If I do anything slightly that my parents don't like I get in trouble. My mom tracks my location through my phone and how fast I drive. If it says I even went one or two over the speed limit and she notices I get yelled at and they threaten to take my license away. I've bought my own phone with my own money and they still take it from me to punish me and threaten to go through it. (I am 17 for context) Today my mom got mad at me because I had not done anything with my time while she was at work. School is out for the summer, and it was the first day I have gotten to enjoy. She was rude to me all evening and left me out of dinner. I decide to make myself something and she tells me I am not allowed to use the sink of all things. She tells me to put away the dishes so I comply and start to put them away. She then starts to yell at me and tells me i'm lazy and do nothing for anyone. I am at my breaking point so I ask her why she is being a a**hole to me for no reason. She then slaps me hard across the face. I went to my room and then my dad came in and tried to tell me it was my own fault and that I don't appreciate anything I have. Later my mom came in and told me she was done with me and that all I did was take from her and that she never got anything back from me. I understand she's upset and I shouldn't have cussed at her, but do I deserve it?

Say if the two people both have parents that are cousins. If the parents of the two are cousins, what makes the two people to each other?

even though i am not drunk? i set boundaries and if i enforce them she tells everyone i am slurring and am drunk, even though i am not. she does it to gaslight me

I need to figure out the housing situation in the next two weeks. My summer job includes housing and board, and I make ~$200 per week. The apartment I had been renting with my sibling plus utilities $750 per month. The lease expires in July and I dont want to renew but my mom insists that I am drunk (even though I am not) whenever I tell her so. she is just using it as an excuse not to hear me. I really cannot afford to cover the utilities and the room I won't be living in over summer just because my sibling hasnt found a roomie. I think it is silly for me to pay rent since I won't be living there. I am happy to help, I had had several people interested in the room and I had found several studios for the same price that included utilities if sibling couldnt find a roomie. our mom had a problem with every potential roomie i found so my sib still doesnt have a roomie. my Mom keeps insisting I am jerking her around but the plan has been set since February. how do i deal with family who is bullying me for all my income and if I say anything am told i must be drunk? i am completely financially independent, my sibling is not. my parents cover my siblings room and i cover sib's utilities.

she wont hear me at all and just says i am drunk whenever i tell her i cant give her money. she asked for $300 and I gave it to her and she resents me for not continuing to rent a place i wont be living in because my sibling/roomate hasnt found a roomie and so would have to take on the full rent. i gave everyone notice back in February but they act like its news to them. my new job includes room and board and the rent for my empty room at my siblings apartment is as much as i make monthly. i see no point in literally more than i earn going to an apartment i am not living at for the sake of my sibling. whenever i try to explain this to her she says i am drunk. she doesnt understand that my new job that includes room and board only pays $200 per week and my empty apartment is $750 per month and i still need to pay for phone and car. why does she just not hear me and accuse me of being drunk?

I'm 17 and my parents are making me get a job this summer. The thing is, I don't want to work in places like retail or fast food because im middle class and if I work those jobs, people will think im poor. I don't want to look poor it's embarrasing. What should I do?

that too after surviving the jewishislamic state of canada's murder attempt on me for being Vedicc HinduPunjabi after he died, canada government tried to murder me and there are several videos circling around. no conspiracies the jewislamicjesus government wants to kill BholeNath Vedic Tribals in canada for worshiping idols, and i fulfilled his last wishes.. The KingPin Farmer of Punjab in his Prime!