I had sex with this guy once and I told this guy that I like how he touched me and that he was really gentle. And he said he's usually not but that he only did it because it was my first time. I also asked him if he liked it and he said he enjoyed it very much.

We've been friends for 2 months and she's annoying the hell out of me. What do I do other than ignore her

So I graduated and a female friend who was close to me congratulated me and sent me a loooong text about what she liked about me and how I made her feel and she would miss me. I said thank you and wished her all the best. Then randomly one day she sent a rant about how she thought I had not given her proper attention by not sharing all my stuff and not introducing to my friends and even not hanging out with her. Does she want to be friends or is she asking for more?

Why do I get paranoid about stupid stuff. Friend from college came to my house/parents house. Stayed night. Next day we were both hungover and he was acting annoying prob cuz of it. Like he saw my dad's degress and then said showoff. He then said I'm just jealous. Like he just walked in random rooms, but I told him to get out and when I said that he did. Later I told him how he was being weird and he said sorry. Anyways, later I saw some small smudge on once of the degrees and all. I know he didn't touch it but I keep torturing myself by saying what if he did and all. I do this a lot why do I do it. I'm driving myself crazy over stupid stuff like this you know.

So, in October I'm going on a 5 day residential school trip with no friends - since the people I was planning to go on the trip with weren't able to book on time. I'm really nervous bc I have Aspergers and so am naturally really socially awkward and shy. Does anyone have any tips of how I could approach and befriend other pupils going on the trip? - Niamh x

My mom has horrible health problems and they make her feel like she wants to be in a coma. She has had these for 12 years but then there are some new ones. I m just a kid so what do I do?

Months ago now I got really drunk and we went bowling. I had a great time until my friend went off saying how annoying I was and how I'm always annoying when I drink (she refuses to drink). That bugged me, And she kept bringing it up every time we hung out. We had a trip coming up and said she wasn't letting me or our other two friends drink during the trip, saying we get to loud. I told her her saying that makes me feel bad and insecure and explained to her how bad I felt about how she treated me after bowling. She got mad and almost refused to go on the trip, but she came and even after me saying how much it bothered me, she still brought up the night at the bowling ally and how annoying I was. Then a week or so ago we went to a bonfire and I was drinking and she said, "your not as annoying of a drunk tonight" and I told her, "it makes me feel really bad when you say that." Then last night we went to another bonfire and she mentioned again the bowling ally and something about being annoying. It makes me feel like crap being called annoying by my friend. I keep telling her it does to. If I'm so annoying why am I always invited?! Like how many times does she have to bring it up? It seriously upsets me.

Ive decided I'd cut my negative group of friends out of my life. They all switched up on me because I was , and still am good friends with someone they all hate. I told them that im still the same person and you shouldnt stop talking to me just because I am friends with somebody else. They claim that because im friends with this person ive "changed" but I know for a fact that I havent. And because of this , I've felt so down and left out whenever I hang out with them. I stopped contact with them for the past 3 days and my skin and health seem so much better. I feel more free. However still to this day im not sure what they are blaming me for. They told me that true friends dont go after other people but its my life. I just hated how they treated me. Anyone else had similar experiences? And have I made a good decision?

Hi. I ended up in a great house but was cut MUCH more than the normal girl. What's worse is my college is certainly no Alabama or UGA so this is rather sad. My college had 13 sororities. I got 5 back the first round, one was a top house that I ended up joining, but most girls get back 9. I'm a bit confused. I'm certainly not ugly, I dress very well, have money, and used to model so I'm not ugly. I'm not full of myself I'm just objectively saying I'm not unappealing. My boyfriend's friends constantly said I'd get a ton of houses back. I'm also pleasant and fun to talk to, in my opinion, I've never had any trouble making friends. I asked my roommate, who did really well during rush (we ended up in the same house) what she talked about during recruitment to see what she did differently. We talked about word for word, the exact same things. She's a little bit chubbier but she's still cute. I don't know how big of a role looks play in recruitment. We have 4 "top houses" and the one I ended up in was the only house that seemed to be trying to impress me. The other 3 seemed to have written me off before I even opened my mouth. I'm worried because I feel like there's something unpleasant about me that I'm unaware of.

I am a guy in college. My mom told me a friend of hers about her age had bought a new computer and she needed help learning how to use it. I agreed to help her. I went to her house to train her. A better description of her house would be a mansion. When I met her, I thought she was the most beautiful women I had ever seen in my life. She was gorgeous. Beautiful face, figure to die for and I assume very rich. She was anxious to lean all about her computer. I went to her house every Saturday and trained her for about 2 hours. I told her to call me any time she had a problem. She offered to pay me but I told her I don't take money for helping friends. Then I got a call from her husband telling me to stay away from his wife as she might start have feelings for me. This was a total surprise as I did not know she was married. Her husband was never there when I was there and she was not wearing a ring. The next time she called me, I told her what had happened and to say she was outraged was an understatement. She told me she was in the final stages of getting a divorce and her soon to be ex husband had no right to be calling me and making demands. She wanted me to continue the training sessions. Should I? Will I get caught in the middle of a divorce by continuing the training?

I am the only woman in a office of 17 people. I really like the people I work with and they like me. My 10 year anniversary is coming up soon and my fellow employees are planning a small lunch to celebrate it. They plan for each employee to give a small speech about working with me and to present a small gift and to give me a kiss. Former employees I worked with are also invited. The human resources guy is worried that people will think what they plan to do is sexist because the employees would not do that for a man. I think it is a great idea. I am looking forward to it. Do you think it is a sexist idea? Your thoughts please. The level 7 that changes the category of this question has been reported to Yahoo everytime he/she changes the category. You will not be a level 7 long.

I can't figure this out because when he talks to me he smiles a lot, looks down and it get kinda awkward and other times he has no trouble looking me in the eyes when talking? What are other way I can gauge his interest?

Hi ,I'm 25 years old I had everithing going for me in the United States when I was 19 , I had to peace the country because I didnt have money to pay for College so I moved to the UK , in England I became addicted to gambling and drinking and finally became homeless I spent three years on and off the street between England and Scotland , and finally moved back to my home country now I have no real friends , no job , no drivers license and only memories from a good past, I dont know the steps I gotta take plus im on treatment for alcoholism.

I'm a girl and a university student. I went on a night out at my friends house and she seemed to be really angry with me the entire night. She said her mum told her to invite me over for a night out. When we were getting dressed up, I didn't spend long on my make-up, and spent longer doing my hair. She questioned me about this, and said 'why do you not spend long enough on your make up? What do you even have on?' And I felt very cross-examined. She didn't even compliment me once even though I complimented her. Then unnoticed she was saying in an angry way 'well at least you are tall' later on in the night and she was basically shouting. She also let me borrow a belt and it was too big for me and she shouted at me again saying 'you're too bloody skinny' Then I forgot my ID and she spent the rest of the night belittling my intelligence and making me feel stupid by calling me an idiot. Why was she so angry with me the entire night?

We are both 13 year old girls and I have no idea what to give her. I asked her and she said to surprise her. I have no idea what to do. Please help!!!

I struggle finding a real friend. I grew up isolated, so I do suffer from moderate social anxiety. I value true friendship, but it's hard finding someone who does the same. I have trouble trusting people, because I've been hurt and done dirty by people I thought were my closest friends. I see people my age (20-24) have close friends and I can't help but feel like there is something wrong with me because I don't have a decent friend. Is anyone else in the same boat or has/had a similar experience?

I used to be friends a girl but she would get mad at us for things that weren't our fault or a big deal. Me and a friend went to recess instead of the library(i was in middle school last year). Tell her this. Repeat it to her. And she still got mad at us. I can go on and on. That and her excluding one of us a year we stop being friends with her. We felt bad she had no friends but cursing at us and her telling each one of us that she loved us to get us to go back with her(not I love my friend love you as in I'm gay for you) she also texted about suicide and cutting among other things which made me feel terrible and scared I was 13 I didn't know how to deal with this. I still don't. It didn't really help when her mom called me screaming at me that I was bullying her daughter. This year I mostly got over her as she slowly stops messaging me she is in this discord chat and she talks bad about me even on times when I was the last person on it. But, I was walking the halls with a friend when all of a sudden I see that girl(ex-friend) she is taking a video of me as I'm walking down the hall. I had noticed this a few timesI ignored it but walked farther away. Me and my friend who doesn't even know this girl are the only ones in the hallway. Sure I have a witness but this girl isn't the most trustworthy( in teachers opinions) and what are they going to do. My mental health went down the drain after that. I feel like she is always watching or I fear she would do something drastic.

My best friend is one of my sisters friend. She is 6 years elder than me. I really love her fashions and skin tone. I want to place my hand on her thigh and feel the softness. How should I approach?

I'm sick of people saying that me and my best friend are more than that. People always say we might as well date because of how we are. I get that me and him have an extreme friendship but that doesn't mean we're more than friends. Let me explain When i say extreme, i mean the fact that We get very upset and hurt at every little thing the other says that we don't like and it turns into a huge thing We are always bickering We text/call each other all day every day We send each other hearts ( is that a big deal? ) We send each other essays once or twice a week about how much we appreciate each other He said that he cares so much about me and he doesn't know what he would do without me He said he loves me I mean are those things a big deal? We just care about each other deeply. I think it's to the point where we'll be somewhat lost without each other. But isn't that just a best friendship? Let me know y'all lol

She usually tags along Everytime we go to hang out. I try to plan us hanging out around both of our work schedules. I feel like it's a guys night and she shows up which kills the mood. I told him last time he can just hangout with her I'll go home.

He has been with this girl for 4 months and I don't want to ruin his relationship if anything was to may happen.

She does weird things and doesn't talk much. The weird things are tapping her book with her pencil eraser when "reading" (I don't even think she reads to be honest), she walks in circles, she talks to herself, she always has a pencil no matter what in her hand or pocket (we heard she stabbed some boy in the eye in the school she came from), and more. I tried to ask her, but she said no and me and my friends think she's lying (she looks guilty when she says no). Does she have autism?

She's not really a friend (more like bubbies?). But I've taken mental notes on the weird things she does. Here they are: • walks around in circles for no reason • she taps her book with her pencil eraser when she "reads" (I don't even think she reads really) • she talks to herself • she does other weird things that are kind of kid-like, like stepping in puddles of rain and makes foot prints (in a weird way), or watching little kid stuff on youtube, listening to kid-like music etc. She's in special ed I think, and I asked about what she does and my real friend says she has autism. She doesn't really talk either and she doesn't really have a personality (according to my friend).

My friend from down the road came over to my house. It was really boring and we had nothing to do. She doesn't like anything I like. I don't think my friends like me very much. On the last day of school it was only me and my two other friends. They literally left me out the whole time. I got to tell one story and one of them was just on her phone the whole time. Not to mention, them and my friend from down the road have a group chat together. They also can't live without my friend from down the road. Maybe I'm jealous but it really gets me down. I only like two of my friends to be honest and one lives 10 hours away. Honestly, I cry over it. And I hate that. When I said they have a group chat together, they don't really invite me to it. When if I wasn't friends with any of them, they wouldn't all know eachother if that makes sense.

I go to a small town public high school where most students are very "basic" and dress the same. Me and my current friends all moved there at the beginning of high school and quickly became friends. We all dress differently than the others at our school and have our own style that makes us unique. I have started to notice another group of girls copying my clothing, posts, mannerisms, hobbies etc(basically my whole life "aesthetic" if that makes sense). The things that I did to express myself and feel different, especially at such a tight-knit school... no longer feel like they are "mine" anymore. Soon later they started getting with the boys me and my friends were getting with and started taking credit for things they didn't "start". This situation is kinda hard to explain but I hope someone can give me advice on how to handle them because it's like they've completely changed themselves to act like me and it's beyond flattery , it's annoying.

My like #1 best friend, like closest friend ever, refuses to have a handshake with me, they have one with like every other friend except for me, idk y im annoyed about it or if its weird. But it just annoys me cuz ive been wanting on for a while, ive asked many times. But I get a no everytime, hes like, nah and one time i awkwardly resposed with yea we have a mental hand shake u know?? But idk y im so peeved about it.

They laugh at me for not losing my virginity.

So, I have a big problem. Four months ago, I stole a bag of wine from my parents because my "friend" pressured me into it. Like he threatened to tell my parents things that I wouldn t want them to know. He vapes, but he never drinks. His parents are very strict after discovering he vaped. I felt so so guilty after taking the wine and repeatedly lying to my parents about it that I couldn t bring myself to touch it, and he never asked about it. I think he just wanted to see if I would do it. I have drank before, but all-around I like to think I m a good kid- no drugs other than alcohol, 4.5 GPA with letters in three sports for all three years of high school, as well as board of education honors and scholarships offers and stuff. I m a good kid, this isn t like me. My parents have always been really chill, but I freaked out, and couldn t tell them. My parents found out, and put a lot of blame on my friend when they called his parents. Neither of us drank the wine, and in the end, I am the one who stole it. My friend gets off work in three hours, and I know his parents are gonna scream at him, and he is going to blame it on me. I accidentally let it slip that he suggested it, and didn t say anything about the threats or other peer pressure, then immediately backpedaled. But my parents know this "friend" of mine, so they didn t buy it. All the other girls in my friend group hate me except for two, and I have ****** my summer because he is going to make them hate me. HELP. Edit: I took full responsibility for this. I said I did it, and it was all my fault. But my parents know him, and know he was there during that time, and so they won't buy any of it. Originally, they thought he was the only one who did it. ,but then I owned up to it. I am really good friends with the guys in this group, though, and I feel like most of them will back me up? I know he is gonna lie about what really happened to protect his image.

We've exchanged messages at least once a day since he's been gone... it's all been friendly but I'm just wondering if I should read i to this...our messages are mostly status updates... thoughts?

My boyfriend had some friends over this morning to watch a soccer match and have breakfast. While I was getting the food on and helping bring coffees, I noticed that they were all sitting there cupping their bits. After sitting for a while a couple shifted things a bit or gave a short move or rub or scratch. I've not noticed it as something my bf does when we're together in general. However I have woken up to find him holding it in his sleep. But why??? Especially in a group of 5? Why do you do this?