hi is it wise to move to north bay (petaluma), if you work in tech. I don't want to commute, would prefer to either work from home, or commute 20 minutes or so. I have 2 little ones, and want to be able to raise them. I don't see a plethora of jobs in the area, though, in tech. Can anyone tell me more about this? is this a wise move from the nyc area? (my husband will have a job in santa rosa , and most prob working long hours, so we want one of us home or atleast relatively have time for kids)

He doesn't understand I don't like him so I want him to know.

We just moved in together and i told him he shouldnt be buying any more clothes for himself. Now thats not because i dont want him buying stuff, even his mom agreed with me. I brought 2 packs of 25 felt hangers. When he put his clothing in the closet ALL 50 HANGERS were used for GRAPHIC TSHIRTS!! He basically was already taking up more than half the closet and I still havent brought my clothing over yet. (We started the lease June 1st) He took up a full dresser drawer for about 75 socks and i am not kidding either... has packs of socks not opened and another drawer for 7-8 pj bottoms long pants ones. I never seen a man with so much clothing, he doesnt need to be buying more. So while i kept my promise not to buy things I dont need he goes around and still does it. He even complains when I mention he needs to get rid of at least 10 shirts (his mom has been trying to get him to get rid of shirts too). What do I do? I dont want our new apartment looking like a wreck because he doesnt want to get rid of stuff.. He broke his promise by buting more clothing and he hid the receipt because I found it while organizing stuff today in the bottom night stand drawer. He dont need new stuff unless he gets rid of stuff

My Partner was brought up tough his whole life, is a mommas boy says he has died twice but brought back by the hospital hes too logical mean to me says he works harder than I do all the time i have asergers and can t work but I do keep the house clean I only companion with I m sick or had sprained my ankle but when I do he calls me ignorant when we argue selfish & inconsiderate, if I complain about the cat litter or cat food isn t the right kind due to my cats behavior of throwing litter and not eating, he says im self centered if I don t act on how he wants me to when he works SO hard and that he s always in pain, that I m to serious about life & dont have fun at all, that I m to sensitive & need to tough up & respect him, when he id disrespectful to me all the time, he also says I m lazy that I don t do enough for him & to weak when I say I m not feeling well due to the trauma of losing OUR child not to long ago should I do or say to him to get him to see I can t change due to my autism and that I m not what he says I am and do all I can to make him happy when he clearly isn t happy about anything I do for him?

Iam 23 years old and he is 28. From the day we met he always told me about his infertility. He said every woman he's been with never got pregnant but ended up pregnant with their new boyfriends. He's on a lot of meds for diabetes and anxiety and he thinks it is why he couldn't produce. I've neverrrr been with anyone since we've been together. The last woman he was with got pregnant by someone else and had him thinking it was his child. I can understand how that could mess with someone's head but I've offered to get a dna test while I'm pregnant because I am so tired of him suggesting that I'm doing to him what the last person did. We did took a two week break in February but my cycle was on most of that time. I keep telling him that. By March we were back talking and I fount out I was pregnant April 1. I am so stressed with his assumptions and I can't let this drag on until November. I'm to the point where I don't want to have his baby I want to move on with my life. If he thinks I'm this type of woman. Am I wrong for feeling this way because of what he went through?

I got him Star Wars Battlefront II for Christmas and he begged for a three month membership last month so he could play online mode. It turns out he's not that good in multiplayer and everytime he loses, he starts throwing stuff and kicking the coffee table over. I told him if he breaks something, he is not going to get any more memberships and he got mad and tried to hit me with a box fan. Earlier today he kicked the coffee table again and without a word I went down and started moving the coffee table to the kitchen where he couldn't kick it and he grabbed hold of the legs and RAMMED it into my stomach and then got up and started flipping his recliner and shoving it into the walls. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm desperately hoping he breaks his controller. He's not normally violent like this but he's been a complete nightmare since I bought that Playstation Plus membership. He's been abusive ever since I bought him a Playstation Plus membership.

I am 23 years old and he is 28. From the day we met he always told me about his infertility. He said every woman he's been with never got pregnant but ended up pregnant with their new boyfriends. He's on a lot of meds for diabetes and anxiety and he thinks it is why he couldn't produce. I've neverrrr been with anyone since we've been together. The last woman he was with got pregnant by someone else and had him thinking it was his child. I can understand how that could mess with someone's head but I've offered to get a dna test while I'm pregnant because I am so tired of him suggesting that I'm doing to him what the last person did. We did took a two week break in February but my cycle was on most of that time. I keep telling him that. By March we were back talking and I fount out I was pregnant April 1. I am so stressed with his assumptions and I can't let this drag on until November. I'm to the point where I don't want to have his baby I want to move on with my life. If he thinks I'm this type of woman. Am I wrong for feeling this way because of what he went through?