Hello, I've been married going on 2 years now and together 4 1/2 years. About a year into our marriage he admitted to wanting something else pretty much the whole time. But says he wanted me the whole time also. Long story short he was hoping to get back with his ex. Well when his ex clarified that they didn't want to get back with him we got married. He said "I will" I said "I do". It wasn't the excitement I had thought or even imagined it to ever be....! Now almost 2 years of being married andhim telling me "ya I may want something different but its never going to happen not like I' m going to go out and do it...? And in the same sentence says " I lied I don't want that, that was in my past...." I'm so frustrated I feel like it's a game. Please help me. I feel like Im all alone and dont know what to do. Expecially when he says he wants to be with me but not like this. Not if I cant trust him.

I just need help I have no one but him family stopped talking to me don t know where anyone lives . My husbands feels since he pays everything he can talk to me and treat anyone he wants . Gets drunk his an anger drunk so you know how that goes . He just throws it in my face everything you got is his but wants to be treated like a king I don't understand.

Do they watch them secretly in absence of their husband and enjoys it?

My husband and I have been married almost a year. When we were dating and throughout the three years I have known him, he cant keep a job. I love my husband, but over time I have learned he is a very cocky guy. I wonder if this is why he cant keep jobs. He gets very comfortable and has a big potty mouth (many times he has been pulled aside about it). I have never tried leaving him because he has lost a job. I have always had one myself except one month I had TRIED to be a stay at home mom (he wanted me to try it out). I hated it and told him I'm getting a job because this isnt for me. Lucky I did that because he lost a job shortly after. My husband doesnt do drugs, he drinks with family or times like tonight-when he loses a job. He mentioned I should divorce him because he ***** everything up and me and the kids (I am pregnant again) would be better off without him. A little while ago he told me I should go back to school. I lowered my hours at work to start attending school... I feel like that just screwed us more. Not that I make nearly what he did, but Idk what to do or how to comfort him. I have proven I wont leave him because of money. Does he really want me to? He did have a drink tonight, he only drinks with family on holidays, or times like this-losing a job. I really am at lost.

Up until a few months ago, my ex husband and I didn't really get along but we tolerated each other. Lately he won't text, instead he calls several times a day. Even things that can easily be talked about by text he calls and calls just to talk about his day. He use to hate talking on the phone. He's also become very attentive. Our son has been sick and after work he has been bringing me dinner and Starbucks. He's also being a lot nicer, his bad mood and hate seem to have vanished. What is going on?

My ex-husband and I have been together for over 5 years. He is from Uzbekistan. He never told his family about me and felt psychologically forced to have the marriage. I am still in love with him and I want to continue the relationship, but now I've been downgraded from Wife to mistress. I feel sympathy for his new wife, he claims he doesn't have any feelings for her and I believe him but I know it's not right. The main problem is we have a 10 year age gap and I haven't been able to give him a child. He is desperate to have a child. I know most people will judge me and him. I guess I'm wondering if anyone else has ever been in a situation similar and what the outcome was for you.

We're friends, we joke around, sometimes we'll text each other (nothing crazy). Recently he told his wife that she and I are the only people who call him out on his BS. I've never met his wife but that comment bugged me and I'm guessing it bugged his wife too...thoughts?

When I met my husband (then boyfriend) he was the member of his childhood church. He's been there all his life, born and raised there. We met when he was in his mid 30's so he's seen quite a few kids born and also raised in that church. One particular girl in general is starting to get on my nerves. Granted, we're no longer members of that church but we live in a neighborhood where this one girl lives down the street from us. Anytime my husband (now almost 50) is outside doing anything like washing his car or even coming home from work and she happens to be walking by she'll stop and I'll see them through the window talking for a few minutes. This girl is not about 20 or 21 years old. Didn't graduate from high school and looks to be a little on the loose side. Well, when my husband walks in the house he'll act like nothing is wrong and I'll look at him and ask, "what did she want?" He's seem to have an attitude and give me a smart answer, "she was just saying hello!" My husband is very close to a lot of their family members but I just don't feel comfortable with this girl just stopping by when ever she sees my husband outside. Should I say something more to my husband or do I wait till I see the girl and tell her not to stop by our house anymore?

My soon to be ex wife got credit cards in her name only, I did not know of this. My name is not on these cards. am i responsiable for these depts??

My grandma told me people don't get married and have kids like when she was a girl in the 1950s and 60s anymore. She said most of her friends were married by 18 and had kids by 19.

He has asked me to meet him outside of work and we've done things a handful of times. We haven't had actual sexual intercourse, but we've done sexual and kinky acts. It's not sexual harassment or anything because we both agreed to it. Nothing at work has changed, and nobody knows about it except the two of us. He's married with 2 young kids. Is this wrong to do?