My wife and I are celebrating our 7th anniversary and this year we are going to do something different from last year, we just went for dinner, because our child was 4 months old and we couldn't something else. This year, my sister-in-law offer to stay with the kids and we obvious said yes. We are going to spend a weekend at Napa Valley, but I'm completely lost about what should I give her. Last year and the years before, I gave her jewelry and before we had children I gave her a puppy,she really wanted one. But this year I would like to give her something different, anyone has an idea what should I giver her? Nothing really expensive, something that will complement the trip So, what should I give to her? Thanks

Im in my 20s and so are the guys

So my wife and I, both 26 just recently moved to a new neighborhood. Myself being an auto body technician for a large corporation and my wife is an optical technician at an eye doctor. Considering when we moved to this city 5 years ago, we were in over our heads with debt and barely paying our bills, we put our heads down and did what it took to dig ourselves out. In the process we bought a fixer upper for a house 3 years ago, in a not so great neighborhood or school district. Fast forward three years, we worked morning noon and night at our jobs and on the house in order to pay off debt and set up our future. In the process we were able to sell our house and pay off most of our debt. No credit cards and no auto payments at 26. Flash forward to now, we found a great house in a great neighborhood in the best school district in the city. All in hopes to start our family out right. Come to find out we have houses double the price of ours up the street. With all of this my wife and I are finding it hard to fit in, amongst these house people drive brand new cars, do yard work in expensive clothes and are at least 10-15 years older than us. Our vehicles are a little older, may have a little rust and I don't tend to wear any flashy cloths. Mainly blue jeans and a t-shirt. While out walking the dogs or working in the garage I can't help but feel alienated. These people almost look down on us, like we're not worthy. We've worked so hard to get where we are, what are we doing wrong?

How often does your spouse yell at you? My husband will yell at me a few times a week and I'm not sure how to change it. This morning he woke me up and yelled "f you. You f'ing lazy sh*t bag" over and over because we didn't have eggs in the refrigerator. He's never hit me but he pokes me with his finger during and backs me into corners during arguments and a couple of weeks ago he ****** his arm back and walked towards me like he was going to slap me but then stopped and said "you're attitude sure changed that time." He does curse me out fairly frequently probably once a week or so and has called me pretty much any derogatory term you can think of over the course of our three years of marriage. Anything from the b word f'ing idiot, leach, twit, sh*t bag, f'ing child. I asked him to stop but he says he won't because it's not insulting he's just being honest and I need to understand that I am not right. He isn't a bad husband he just gets angry at me so easily and I don't know how to help. How can I help my husband not get angry?

Has anyone tried completecase.com, living in NC, for an uncontested divorce without knowing where the spouse has fled to?

stain her underwears all the time, she said she was lazy, all women are lazy. is this why women have to buy undies all the time?

he's 5'11 and about 150 pounds and too skinny can i make fattening foods and feed him second and third helpings every day? what foods would help him fatten up?

For the last 9 years I've been feeling very disabled due to my wife's morals, expectations, and her ultimatums. I never really considered if me following her many rules was disabling me, but it could be. What is the difference between an empowered marriage and a disabled one?

My father says i can't travel to mexico to see my mother because in the divorce papers it says i cant. I havn't seen my mother since august. Im fifteen and i dont want to be here with my father. Sometimes it feel like he's sufficating me and i just want to go home to my mother. California is great, but mexico is better !! What can i do? is he lying?

My husband fr a week now has treated me horribly after he said he wanted to kill himself and everythig was my fault, check last question for info He wont speak to me he somtimes is nice and gets my hopes up that we can reconcile then he tells me to leave him alone I havent been able to get one word In in how this is making me feel physically im getting sick barely have slept or ate my aniexty is through the roof ive begged him to give me a chance to help him he wans nothig to do with me. Hes leaving at all hours of the night to his brothers house and staying there its like hes avoiding me just so he can hate me more. Living in my own home has become difficult and nerve wracking how can I fix this? How do I talk to someone who over night seems to just hate me.

I'm frustrated and angry it keeps happening. All I get is angry now when he asks. It's either always "Do you still love me?" Or "how much do you love me still?" Or just things to that effect. Every day... For five years almost...Sometimes two to three times in a day. And when he feels like being a nice guy... He tells me he loves me every 2 minutes until I tell him to stop after the fifth or sixth time and if I do get angry about it he calls me names or puts me down. It's irritating...Not normal to me. I want to scream sometimes when it happens! What do I do? Is there a more proper way to react?

My husband is 54 years of age, I'm 45. We've been together for almost 6 years. Couple of months back, we were looking for total overhaul of our house, so we were both dealing with different interior designers, furniture makers etc. 2 weeks back, I was looking up an anterior designer's phone number on my husband's phone and I came upon some flirtatious messaging going on between my husband and a female receptionist working in that interior designer's office. It had been going on infrequently, but persistently since December 2017. The conversation, at first professional, had recently turned more personal. And my husband told her that he was a 'single parent' and that he wud like to meet her...and that she has a beautiful voice, so she must be prettier in person. When I confronted him, he said that it was nothing. He was ashamed of this happening, he was just trying to entice her to get better deals , he was already not going to chat with her any more.... etc etc What breaks my heart is not his praise of her..or light flirting that he calls it....it is the fact that he told her he was not married. This single sentence has destroyed my peace, my trust, my faith in him. It literally broke my heart... he apologised, repeatedly. But I can do nothing about the hurt that I'm constantly facing. Am I over-reacting? How can I forget this and move on? Can I really trust him again? Please, please help me... I'm going through so much trauma, I'm depending on all of you to help me, guide me

So my husband and I have been together for almost a year now and sometimes I overhear my husband telling his friends about our sex life. For example: Wow man Kady and I had an amazing time last night she sucked me up SO good my eyes rolled at the back of my head!" and would go into deeper detail. It really upset me. I talked to him about it and he said he would "calm down" but I still overhear him. One time my husband went to the bathroom and his friend wanted tips he could offer his girlfriend and my husband was encouraging it. :( Its making me really uncomfortable. How can I get my husband to stop doing this? He sent a few videos of us to his friends and I just feel really uncomfortable :(