I borrowed my best friend s hard drive to me for copying for games and movies to my pc at home. Late at night i was looking for movies when i found his wife pics on it. Although she wasn t naked, but there were some selfies in her bra, showing lot of cleavage which he might have sent to him. I was aroused how she looked, so i searched for more but there weren t any. When i started thinking again from my brain and not my junk. i felt extremely guilty as i betrayed him and broke his trust. I dont know if i should confess this to him or forget it? my conscience has been telling me to apologize to him but i fear he would be really angry or least wouldnt trust me anymore. What should i do?

to get away from the wife in a loveless marriage?

I am 39, living the bachelor life. All of my friends are married with kids, which is to be expected at my age. I hope all my married friends stay married, and I love being a part of their kids' lives. But I see many benefits to being single. I live in a condo in the city. No commuting from suburbia, and I'm close to everything. My job rarely requires me to work > 40 hours per week. That leaves me plenty of time to stay fit and play rec sports. I get paid $75k per year and get 5 weeks vacation, so I have plenty of discretionary time and income to travel (and I do group travel for individuals, which is great, and I don't need a +1 to travel with). My married friends: They have no free time, little disposable income (most of them make less money than I do, with more mouths to feed and much greater expenses). Many have dadbods or worse. Their weekends are spent taking care of their kids or house. No time, no free money, no freedom = prison. Do I get lonely sometimes? Every so often, but I'd rather be occasionally lonely than constantly overwhelmed. Will I have to worry that there will be no one to take care of me when I'm old? I suppose, but if that's the reason you have kids, that's pretty selfish. Do I get tired of the bar scene? I was never really that into it since I don't drink. So why am I telling you all this? Because I get chastised for my way of life. And I want to know why this is acceptable for others to do? As a clarification: I do date around, and maybe one day I will get married. If it happens, it happens. If not, then that's cool too. But I certainly don't want kids or pets.

My girlfriend is 20 years old. She was out drinking at her friends house, and drank a little too much. Cops came for a noise complaint, she yelled at them (belligerent), and they arrested her. She went to the drunk tank for 8 hours and was released. They marked her public intox as "M" or "Misdemeanor", instead of "Infraction". Mind you, I told her not to drink. She did anyways. This is her very first charge, and first time being arrested. I am a member of the military. If she is put on probation, this may affect her access to the base I am living on, which is bad. Will she be put on probation? Will they probably reduce it to an infraction? What should I expect? This all takes place in California. Thanks

My employer writes my pay checks to me, so my income is my own right? I can decided how much of my income to share with my wife and she is free to do the same, so why is she so upset that the bank will not give her access to my private bank accounts?

Also, what would happen if two people were dating (as say teenagers) and then one parent on both sides fall in love and marry (meaning the two dating are technically brother and sister) are they not legally allowed to marry? This isn't happening to me or anyone I know. It's just a shower thought and I'm really curious. Thanks in advance!

I'm engaged but I'm having my doubts about marriage. There's just some things I can't seem to get past with my fiancé. I keep tryibg to convince myself that once we get married everything will improve. Am I being delusional? Should I end my engagement if I'm having major doubts?

My husband does not want the ceiling fan on and he likes to keep the central air on 75 degrees, anything less than that he complains. We live down south so it is pretty warm down here. I try to deal with it sometimes since he works longer hours and he has bad sinus problems, so he gets soar throat. But it is really taking a toll on me being that I already have a bit of insomnia and I have a hard time falling asleep. So it results in a lot of sleepless nights. Sometimes we sleep in separate rooms but I don't like sleeping in separate rooms because I like to be close to him.