My mom was planning a visit in 2 weeks that we've been planning for months. There is a church event we have that weekend which is why she's coming that weekend. 2 weeks ago my MIL asked my hubby if she could come that same weekend to go to the same church thing. I asked my hubby to tell her that my mom was already planning on coming that weekend. We live in a small house and I really just wanted to hang out with my mom over the weekend. To make it fair, I told my husband we should go visit his mom this weekend for Memorial Day. I thought everything was fine but now MIL is super mad saying she doesn't understand why she can't come over next weekend too. She's like well Your mom can stay in your sons room and I'll just stay in the living room. Like seriously? I don't want everyone on top of each other at my house. My MIL is sending my hubby these nasty texts like I don't understand why your wife doesn't want me there I deserve to know why she doesn't want me to come. We only have one extra bathroom so my mom would have to share a bathroom and it's just really a hassle! Honestly if I tell my mom she'll probably just want to come a different weekend even though she's been planning on coming for months. Am I crazy? Am I making way too big of a deal?I feel like shes blaming this all on me and of course my hubby says he supports me but he never really stand up to his mom either.

I know you can just bring your spouse or fiance, but what if the family member just wants to spend time with you? Is it disrespectuful to your partner to alienate them to spend time with family members who just want your time?

My friend husband just received a 15 year prison sentence for drug possession, what would you advise her to do, wait for him or divorce him, I didn't dare say go on with your life yet because she's emotionally attached to him, they been married 3 years no kids . Honestly if he was a repeat offender I think he didn't think of the consequences or about how this would affect her , pretty selfish I'd say, honest opinions ONLY.

Another question: Even If the wife remarried?

I'm a woman and just turned 28. I feel like I'm in a good place I have my degree, a good job and start to my career. I recently noticed so many of my friends are married and having kids. This didn't bother me really before, but lately it has been causing some anxiety. Am I behind? Should someone my age have been married already?

to photos of her daughter from a previous marriage?

Hello, am going through divorce right now but am already scheduled for IVF next month, I want to have a baby so bad. Can I go on with the procedure or just let him go? But am so scared of starting all over again. I will be turning 32 by August, pls I need to opinion

Let's say that you married your wife because of a serie of unfortunate circumstances and family pressure. It was a kind of an arranged marriage. So you have no feelings for her, but you still think that she's a good person.

Ever since I had my baby whenever we go out anywhere my husband gets so overprotective of our son. He sometimes won't even let me hold him when I ask. He's never like this when were at home but the second we get out of the house I pretty much have to be okay with never holding the baby and my husband telling me what to do like he's all of a sudden in charge of everything. It's so annoying especially because everytime I tell someone it makes me upset when he acts like this people tell me he's just being a protective dad. Can't he be a protective dad without completely alienating me? We go to the zoo and he has the baby the entire time and I'm literally just following them around with his stuff but my husband hands him over to me to change the diaper and feed him. Also when he thinks the baby needs something he gets upset at me for not bringing it... as if he can't pack things for the baby before we leave. Am I making this more than what it is? This can't be normal.

My wife has this thing to where when she's sleepy and ready to go to bed then I too mush go to bed. WE typically hang out in our bedroom with the TV on and just chilling. I have a lamp on my side of the bed. When she turns over to go to sleep then all of a sudden the light bothers her even though she has the covers up over her head. She'll make smart comments about not being able to sleep with the light on so I'll turn it off. Then if I grab my cell phone and play a game on it while watching TV with the volume plum near on zero because the sound bothers her then the light from the cell phone bothers her too. I have the volume on my phone all the way down but again, the light from my phone annoys her. Her back is turned away from me and again, the covers are over her head. It's not like I have my cell phone right in her face playing a game and plus, her eyes are closed. She has this thing to were if I do something that she doesn't like I'm suppose to change it to accommodate her but if she does something I don't like I have to just supposed to live with it. How am I wrong in this situation, because according to her I'm not accommodating at all. When she's tired I'm suppose to go to sleep too. One more bit of info. My wife's 23 year old son sleeps on our sofa because he had an argument with his granddad last Thanksgiving and they put him out. So the idea of me leaving the bedroom and going to the living room is out of the question. I have to be quiet in the bedroom even though I'm not making any noise. It has to be completely dark but I can't go to another room because her son is on the sofa.

Like seriously I'm like so over it all. It's like I'll go thru his phone and find little ****. I kno I'm wrong for looking but I feel like if I didn't look n see it myself I wouldn't know. It's like he tells me how he always talking bout me to his female co workers yet when we went to his job for drinks a chicks jumped up ran to him to hug him. I think that was a bit much. My family think I'm tripping cause they see one side to him n they say oh he a good man yet I don't tell them my business. He called his co workers babe or boo. Inappropriate if u ask me. Things like this makes me not wanna have sex with him then it's like we go back n fourth bout how I don't sex him enough. How just maybe if I did give it up everyday then maybe things would b different. It's like a slap in the face. I saw that one night he texted his co worker saying they like hang out but I was at work. Had I not looked I wouldn't have known. It's like he so sneaky bout **** like that. Idk maybe it's a reason why we don't have kids yet or maybe that's why we haven't excel in life like we should b. It's like I kno what I see but he says oh it's nothing. I was cleaning one day n found a piece of paper n it said star aka tiny love u. So when I asked him he said his co worker gave me money for making a errand for her n she paid hi . How he didn't look at the note which I kno he lying. It's like total disrespect. Meanwhile he wanna move his mom in with us. For some reason my spirit ain't with it

Is it strange that my husband and I lives with his dad although it's my husband's house? Also my husband don't let me allow me to make friends especially male male friends. What should I do? He gets mad easily.