My husband and I married a little later in life. I was 32 he was 34, we've been trying to have kids now for 2 years. (I'm now 34.) Out of nowhere he recently filed paperwork for a divorce. He told me he wants children and that he's not getting any younger, I'm extremely hurt. In a way I don't blame him for leaving though. Any advice?

I married last july 2017 im from algeria my husband from Pakistan. I grew up in usa since i was 5 & he only has been here 5 years hes 33 ans im 25 now.we loved each other & met online & married right after 6 months. He resided in new york and moved to where i am as I've gotten used to this state & lived here 19 years. It is ramadan now and my husband doesnt eat my food maybe a spoon full and that all. I mainly cook pakistani fopd to the vest of my abilities but hes always saying ur doing this wrong add this stir that put this that etc. I feel like im not pleasing him or just a robot he doesnt like tp eat jusy anything of course so food from my country in north africa he wont eat says its too different. So i never cook it i jusy cook pakistani. Its ramadan my hin invited us to eat and he said no i dnt want to disappoint u or ur mother ur food is too different. I thought that was rude but yes its different but delicious. So i told him ill go eat at my moms he said he will eat out. Hes akways sayinf he has issue w cooking and im not like his sisyer i said ur sister doesnt woek and shed Pakistani im not im trying my best and hes always saying something about what i do in kitchen. So i get irritated because i shoild be able to cook and he should not stand on my head he wants me to use gloves hes a super hygenic person thats not a bad thing. Bur he wont kiss me if he does he has a tissue box and wipes his lips all the time its so strange to me. What do i do!?!!?

Some random person on facebook (not sure if its a real person or if they were banned) sent me a message request on facebook. She sent me a picture of my husband who just so happened to have his penis out taking a selfie in his truck with a seatbelt on. I know its him for a FACT because not only has he sent dick pics to transgendered women in the past and invites them to hotels (which they never show) but this time he has his work clothes on. He just started a new job and the company logo is showing in the background. Not sure who he sent this to because I never got one...ever. After possibly considering ending my separation from him I see that the arguments still go on and he is emotionally distant after still after him swearing up and down he loves me. I haven't confronted him yet on this and not sure what to do because in the past he has told too many lies and getting the truth is like pulling teeth. Any tips?

A few years ago, when he was drunk, my alcoholic neighbor grabbed my vagina in the hallway. I told my husband who didn't have much of a reaction at all except to say that the neighbor is an idiot and a drunk. A week ago, the same neighbor made a comment about me being sexy, then asked if he could grab me while lunging towards me, I got out of the way in time, but if I hadn't moved. he would have grabbed my breast. He then followed me down the hall as I tried to walk away telling me how sexy I am and asking me to slow down so he could get a better look at my ***. My husband, again, did not get upset and even made a joke that only he was allowed to sexually assault me. We got in a huge fight that really never had any resolution. He assured me that he was very angry when I told him, but didn't show it because he didn't want to upset me further (which I don't really believe) he also said he didn't want to "bang on (our neighbor's) door" or have some other type of angry confrontation since we have to live next to him and he's sort of a loose canon. He didn't actually confront him at all, today our neighbor found him and apologized. My husband told me he stated how "pissed" he was. But he's a mild man and I doubt he said anything more than a passing comment. He said he told him that the incident had caused us to fight. I think our fighting is what he is the most upset about. I'm devastated by my husband's lack of reaction especially as this not the first time.

i got a ****** carrot up ***, wife comin home soon please elp me get it out its really in there sorry for language im jsut scared my wife is going to ****** kill me it censored the word, so its my backside, thanks

Side note: We made $2700 today alone. We are on course to make like $200,000 this year. We're very financially successful. My business that I own, is growing steadily and well known in the community with great reviews. Me and my wife have gotten into good physical shape, too, at the gym. I'm just as attractive as her. We have a trip to Florida planned and have been to Cayman Islands, Puerto Rico etc. I treat her well and am pretty much always in a good mood with rare exceptions. (When I'm not, there's a legitimately good reason to cause it and I "get over things" as soon as it's resolved.) I shower her with love and affection yet I'm also confident, dominant and a man. Other girls would be glad to have me but I'm loyal to my wife. And yet... my wife is almost always in a bad mood. She consistently sees the bad side of things instead of the good side of things. We can sell a contract for $6000 and she'll find a way to stress over something stupid with an easy solution. my wife always worries and resents things in the past. She worries about the future and she's mad cuz I cheated on her a year ago even tho I married her and have been totally faithful and good to her since marriage. Note- she was an au pair from Portugal, so maybe she misses her family? But that shouldn't result in her being a Debbie downer in our marriage 24-7. Im beginning to get concerned and am not sure if counseling will fix, if she needs medication or if the only solution for her issues is divorce?

My husband and I were fighting a ton. He had had an emotional affair w/an online woman and I was angry after he lied and said he would seek counseling for addiction and didnt. I was joking with a male acquaintance and told the guy some nasty stuff after we joked about an affair we never had. My husband hacked into my phone and shared screenshots of this text with his family and they in turn distributed it without my consent. They have told anyone that will listen that their son is an unblemished lamb and that his harlot of a wife cheats and has stds and hiv. My attorney has copies of their end of things and mine and said he can see why they took it literally but that his parents are breaking the law by sharing that stuff. He refuses to tell them that it was all a cruel hoax on my part to get back at him (also for him putting his music career ahead of the kids and I) and said "I am not mentioning it unless it comes up". Shouldnt they explain it never happened? His answer to everything (the sexual internet relationship that his parents choose to overlook and pat him on the back for) was that I was being too domineering (asking him to help with the chores, kids, things every wife would ask for help with, etc) and that I "provoked him by going to the mall with my ex boyfriend across state many years ago" (which led to a huge fight between the ex and I and nothing happened).

Did you have a plan? Did you just pick up and leave randomly? What was your breaking point? What emotions did you experience?

My husband and I have been together 17 years and married for 11. I am 31 and he 34, he's my first and only love. About a year.. my husband lied to, manipulated, cheated on and left me and our two girls. We are back together and he seems to be really trying but he is recently out of jail we're he was for 3 months and in drug court before that he was still lying to me and anytime I tried to talk to him about how I was still feeling he would get mad and cuss me then if I started crying he would even madder and yell and cuss me more.before a year ago he was never like this he treated me like his queen and I never worried something like this would happen because I knew we were rock solid so I was completely blind sided. He's not doing that anymore but I'm still hurting

I got married to my long time bf of 4 years we ve known each other longer but didn t really get to know each other until we came together. We ve been married 3 weeks now and he s acting like he doesn t have any ties to anyone. He s been having covo with a old classmate telling her how unhappy is. Really?? If that s the case we should have never married. I feel like crap I gave every consideration before going through tying the knot for him to do this? He pushed more for marriage all to have covo about wanting to sex someone else. Like we always talk about whats going on between us and try to fix the issues. How an the hell do you deal with this crap?