In my opinion, wedding ceremonies are an absolute waste of money. We could save the money and buy a car or fourniture for the house. I talked to her and she wants the ceremony. Her family are the reason why. They told her that if she doesn't have the ceremony, people will say that I don't value her. Nonsense. She's more important to me than anything in this whole world. Her damn family is playing on my nerves. Nobody of them is ready to help, but they're always ready to talk.

The wedding is in Wisconsin and I live in Pittsburgh so with all going on in June I just cannot make it. I haven't seen him in 9 years so not a best friend but as kids we were best friends forever which is why he asked me.

We originally wanted to elope, but decided we wanted our parents to be a part of this special moment but still keep the ceremony small and intimate. When my fiancé told his mom over dinner that he would like her to be there.. she cried and yelled (not happy tears) because we were not including her sisters… I don't have a good relationship with nor does my fiancé, but she is being so dramatic about our choice that it is upsetting her son. Should we just not even include her all together? I just want my fiancé to be happy and her reaction is really upsetting him.

At my sisters wedding the preacher asked for anyone who had objections to speak but when I did everyone seemed mad and they made me leave the wedding. Now my mom won't even answer the phone. Why would they ask this if they didn't even mean it? I wrote that wrong. My sister is marrying a catholic not her husband who is one.