I have tried all my life to find one woman to spend it with and have got to where at 41 years old I'm starting to realize that kind of Love does not exist anymore....and I'm just tired of being judged for what other men do to women that deep down its destroying what hope I had left in me as if i have to be that kind of man just to find happiness....Abusive, Controlling, and I just can't

I was raised to values that have to do with Family and every single woman I've ever met has went behind my back and stabbed me. I have got to the point where I'm so afraid to trust someone around my heart that I just wish God would take it back and shut this body down....I am to the point where if a doctor told me I had Cancer I would see it as Good news with as much as I have been hurt......and hearing Good men don't exist as much as I have has made me realize I'm never going to find a woman to spend my life with due to the fact that now adays to find love you have to be willing to allow stuff like Open Marriage and Open Relationships and i can't. It hurts when your the kind of guy that has never cheated on or hit a woman to be labeled as one because of what other men do I have had to deal with that all my life and its not fair....not to mention I have the kind of heart that could Love another man's child as my own....and now adays that dont even help

Should i be upset? He bought the ring because he was eorried about non rubber rings getting snagged. His ring costed 20 dollars and he never wears his ring to work and he delivers stuff to various places. I dont want other women to think hes available

My neighbor has been nasty to me for some time. Today I lost it on her. She is constantly making comments about my son who is autistic. Today I finally lost it on this women and flipped out at her. I told her to f*ck off, told her she was the absolute worst neighbor I've ever had to deal with and that if she ever made another comment about my son I'd come over there and kill her. I then proceeded to tell her to go back up north to New York where she belongs. I was very loud and I'm quite certain other neighbors heard me. I generally have a very calm even temper but my mother has been sick in the hospital and Im going through a hard time and having an autistic son and a neighbor who's so judgement about his condition i just lost it on this women. The AC repair man was here and made a comment about how I spoke to her. Should I apologize or let it go? I'm so embarrassed!!! I've been thinking about it all day. What do I do?

I'm 29 and my husband is 32. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids and I'm pregnant and feel tired and moody all the time. He's close to his parents and they come over often and stay during the weekend. His mother is awful I can't stand her, she always thinks her way is the right way. Something awkward happened last weekend. The guestroom is next to our bedroom and my husband woke me up in the middle of the night and we were intimate. The next morning she said to me you know the walls are paper thin. I said nothing I mean how dare she? This is my home and why is she listening in the middle of the night. Anyways I don't want his parents in my house. What do I do?

My husband took me to his friend's house who is also his boss. He had a gathering at his house and a bunch of coworkers were there. After we got there, a friend of my husband who disrespected me one day showed up. Right before he got there the boss's wife and I had gotten into a conversation about how much I hated him. Here he came in and I felt so out of place. I wasn't planning to leave but my emotions got a hold of me and I started tearing so in order for people not to notice how upset I was, I walked out. I told my husband that I was sorry and I knew he had to be there but I simply could not be in that place with that guy. Of coarse my husband got upset at me but and he wanted me to be the bigger person and stay but his presense just reminded me of what he did amd at the time my husband was there and disn't defent me. So was I wrong for leaving?

He is a manager at a store and I have notice a girl kind of flirting w my husband he says it is not true. So one night I went and parked outside and waited , she was supposed to clock out at 10pm and end up clocking out at 1am. At that time another employee and my husband were still finishing work. 30min later once the other employee finished his job he left, and the girl had been waiting apparently for my husband . So my husband turned off all the store lights (it is a very small and has big windows) and stayed like that for around 40min they were in the back area inside the store and maybe only the enrgency light were the only ones on.. I knocked the door it took like 3 big loud knocks for them to come out , she rushed to her car not even turnig to find out who was knocking and i screamed and she didnt even look confused. He says they were only talking.

Regardless of the circumstances; if it's normal for you to kiss people hello or goodbye, if it was in a dare/a game of spin the bottle, if you were drunk and there was a random person who was giving everyone a peck on the mouth, or if you were having a full-blown affair.

my friend has left her marriage and she feels afraid of her husband. Some founded fears and some unfounded never the less she will not allow their children to speak or see their father. He wants to see and talk to his kids but she won't let him. I feel this is making the situation worse for herself but she won't listen to me and in fact, it has driven a wedge between our relationship. I am just wondering if I am in the wrong for telling her she should let her kids have a relationship with their father. My point of view is that the kids didn't do anything that they should have lost their dad. He may have been a crappy husband but he was a good father. The kids loved their dad and he loves them. She keeps saying they will be fine without him. I don't agree and now she hates me for saying that. She feels I have sided with him but the reality is i have sided with the kids because they don't get a say.

Some of my friends have been pressuring me somewhat to get married to my girlfriend. We've been together for coming on 3 years now and we've haven't had any major hang ups. I'm a very introverted and solitary person by nature so I can't completely relax and unwind unless I'm completely alone (my significant other is no exception to this). There are times when I want her to leave our place for a little while so I can be alone. Nearly all of the time I'm not upset at her or anybody...I just want to be alone. Does this mean I'm not suitable for marriage or long term relationship commitments in general? Also, does this mean I'm not fit for parenthood? I would appreciate any feedback.