They made me bike to school every day uphill for 2 miles. I had to get up at 6 am and I reeked of sweat.

Today me and my brother got in a fight cause I wasn't going downstairs and he was so I told him to take this down with him. He didn't so I threw it at the end of the stairs and he assumed I was throwing it at him. So he grabbed me by the throat and part of my back, he kept trying to push me down the stairs assuming I would catch myself, which I did. Then actually getting me to go downstairs, he told me to pick up the object on the ground. While squeezing my neck with his leather shoes on my feet. I was on the ground gasping for air then I kept yelling continuously "stop". My mom came out to see what was going on but just said for my brother to stop but he didn't and told her lies about me throwing the box at him. Then I thought I actually saw red cause he started to squeeze my throat harder. I let out a yell that hurt my throat due to his hand being on my neck. After that he let go of my neck and still had his shoes on my feet. Eventually my mom got him to stop and still let him buy stuff with her card. Does she not care that I was gasping for breath and she just rewarded him? I got to my room and I thought a panic attack was starting but it was just my throat being too sore. Is this wrong?

My parents REALLY hate me. They yell at me, they send me to the corner for no reason, I like to play with a basket, but when I do my mom says to leave the room. I only have 5 mins to brush my hair or i'm grounded. When I try to change the music in the car my mom yells at me, My mom tries to ban me from my fav game and she says to stop playing with my bffs. She forces me to go to the store. I'm tottaly abused. If I don't clean my room for about 3 or 4 days I have to clean it for 30 MINS. If I start crying I have to do an hour. When I'm in the corner crying my mom makes it go higher each time. If I just go to ask my brother a question I have to go to the corner. They snap at me and make me cry just bc I ask for something. Once there was a wasp RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. I have THE biggest fear of wasps. AND MY MOM MADE ME WALK PAST IT. My parents refuse to ship ppl (For example, Broppy) They embarrass me by yelling at me in public, I told them I have insomnia (cuz I do) AND I GOT IN TROUBLE FOR THAT. Please help. I really wanna kill myself. Once I drew a picture saying My mom hates me :( and I got in trouble for it. HELP ME!!!

My boyfriend's sister has never been cordial to me as long as we have been together. In the beginning, she told me that her brother wasn't ready, therefore we needed to break up. Bc I didn't listen to her, she has grudged me since. She went around talking bad about me to their WHOLE family (it got back to me). She's been a passive-agressive bully. Ex - when she started dating her now husband, she wanted all of them to go on a trip with her (her bf, my bf, and their brother). My bf & I had been serious, together for 3 years at that point. He decided not to go bc it was disrespectful to me. She got engaged around the same time as their cousin. We all went to dinner & tagged everyone except for me with, "family only". Xmas time she would say, "my fiance can be in this picture bc we're official & no one else should" even though her parents never had a problem with me in it. She obviously used the issue of family/being official to exclude me. I did my best to be cordial - never sucked up but be nice. She gave me the vibes of "don't get close to me." My hunch about her being a PA bully was confirmed when she recently said, "omg my sister in law has the brattiest/rudest kid! I was making my SIL feel so shameful & told her a clue, so she would feel shameful of her child's behavior." I thought it was rude that she shared that publicly in front of everyone, including her husband. In the past 2 years, she's been desperately trying to get her/her husband to spend more time with my bf& I I don't have a problem if he spends time w. her (brother-sister time) but she is PUSHY. When we did go out w.them, they were rude. They would speak into each other's ears in front of us, to make it feel as if they were talking badly about us, make snide comments to each other or give us looks, so bf & I decided to keep it distant/cordial. My bf & I have been together 6 years & we'll be getting married soon & NOW she's being friendly to me. Last December, she demanded we go on a vacay w. them We needed to decline. I also notice she's been picking up on my traits. She's very masculine/loud/aggressive & on a recent family outing, she would tell us, "omg you guys are loud/uncivilized" and apply lipstick right after I applied lipstick. Anything feminine I would do, she would do after. I caught her taking pictures of me! Again, she's been pushing us to go on vacays together, "you're bday is in December - we should ALL go on vacay." ALSO, she's been finding every excuse to take pictures together at EVERY event and post it on facebook! Anytime I tried to get a pic of all of us a few years ago, she would never smile. She even tagged me in pictures from 5 years ago so my feed/tagged photos is FILLED w. pics of me & her...and we're not close at all. I don't trust her motives & I don't know what her agenda is but I don't think it's genuine...it's kind of scary... I guess I don't feel comfortable trusting people who are not genuinely nice. If she's naturally someone who is nice, nice to others, then I would translate her attitude towards me as a "protective sister" but if someone is suddenly nice to you out of nowhere, then I find it very manipulative...

My sister has to have her wisdom teeth out she's kind of scared. She was born without a palmanary valve so she has to be monitored while she's asleep through it. Shes worried about waking up during her surgery she's afraid she'll feel it while she's sleeping. It's too risky for her to stay awake her pain is so high tolerate sometimes she gets hurt and doesn't tell us other times like with an IUD or a needle she feels it she screams like hell. She's really worried also we won't be allowed in the room with her. How can I help her ?

I am a Junior in college and for the past winter and summer breaks, my mom has always make me feel like a problem. my mom and I are the only people living in the house. The rest of my siblings already moved out. This is understandable cuz I am now the only target; however, I am getting sick of being let down or receiving outburst for several things about me that weren't even bad at all. Those things include my new passion with fragrances, my love for motorcycles and my gf. My mom tends to make those things such a big deal and would try to make me feel crappy about it. "Are you a fag or what? Stop buying those perfumes!" "You think riding your motorcycle make you look cool? Such a show-boater" "What is with you and your gf? are you going to get married, cuz she is not allow here and if she come here, you both are out of the house!" Several times I stayed in my gf's apartment until late at night, but I usually cannot stay since her parents are not entirely comfortable with it. For next break, I wish there are places that let me stay for a short period of time, but it is not common. I am on internship and saving up, but I do not want to spend it all on one summer, cuz after I graduate, I would want to move out and find my own place in a heart beat! any suggestions?

I met this very interesting girl. She's very intelligent and gorgeous, but used to have a drug problem. She has kind of a rough home life and doesn't seem to like her parents that much. She doesn't like orgasming. She's into extremely degrading sex. She likes gagging on my dick, calling me daddy, being choked, having her hair pulled, and has even mentioned that having a gun pulled on her would be hot. She likes being hit, held down, and just being generally degraded. She said she watches rape porn. I got kind of concerned and asked if she had been raped before. She said she had. Is it weird to continue to degrade her?

I've lived with my dad and stepmom for five years. My stepmom has pretty much always hated me, even before I moved in with her and my dad. She bitches about everything, yells a lot, talks **** about my mom, talks **** about me. It's led to me doing stupid things, but that's irrelevant. She really hates me. So a few weeks ago I was like really pissed off at my stepmom. I was pretty done and just ready to talk to my dad. I told him how much I hated living here, because of her, and that i just wanted to live with my real mom. I also told him not to tell my stepmom, I told him I wanted to have a private conversation with him. Anyway, I didn't benefit at all, he pretty much defended her and I just left it at that. I was really upset and angry. Thursday, my stepmom rolls in on her scooter and said something about you that really ******* pissed me off because any time my real mom is mentioned (I didn't mention her, my dad obviously told her about the conversation we had) she insults my real mom. So at that moment, I realized I couldn't talk to either of my parents because I couldn't trust either of them, and my stepmom is always talking **** about my mom. I didn't say anything to either of them about it but it was eating away at me all of yesterday. I was really stressed and angry and I was all over the place. I had no clue how to deal with my emotions

she is 14 i am 13 years boy and i find her feet very sexy which is weirrd yes but i want to now lick and smell her feet after school but how? usually after school shes tired and goes straight to sleep so hopefully tomorrow when she comes back she goes to bed, how do you think i should lick and smell her feet? I know she has stinky feet often because i smell her shoes and socks and now want to get close to real feet smell.

I'm 16, my dad is 60. When I was little he was a really bad alcoholic to the point where him and my mom would argue and argue and argue and fight until the cops were called by me or one of my siblings. He eventually stopped bc he soon realized his family is more important than that. And now, he started a couple weeks ago drinking a couple beers a night, just enjoying himself not getting drunk. But now, every night he gets trashed to the point where he walks around at night and sits in his room and talks to himself. Then the next morning he sleeps in late, some days not even going to work. He does have PTSD from being in the Vietnam war. I don't really know what to do, and I hate seeing my dad like this. Should I talk to him about it? Or let my mom handle it? I was thinking if I as his daughter talked to him maybe he would get it but I don't know

She verbally attacks him saying how useless he is how miserable he makes her life and that he complains that he feels unwell and that no men should say they feel tired etc. I feel bad for my dad his health not good and their relationship not good . My dad trying not to argue but she attacks him by words even infront of me .

I don t know if this is some self-esteem issue. Or whatever. My little cousin is 2 yrs younger than me and I swear, she s better than me at everything. She does sports, had her first kiss, best grade in school, has many friends, has a job. I never had my first kiss, I have a smaller circle because of trust issues, I don t have the bestest grades, and I quit my job at McDonalds last year. I never realized how perfect she was until last year when my Dad started comparing me to her. He told me to join sports, to get a job like my cousin because that improves responsibility which your cousin has and you don t bla bla bla. It hit me that everyone started comparing me to her. "Your cousin has such a nice body, Ooo you already have a boyfriend, You should be more like your cousin". You know how annoying that is. To constantly hear those lines. I know that it s stupid, but I feel like I have low self-esteem issues because my Dad has been comparing me with my friends. It hurts tho, and I don t know what to do about it. I feel like my dad never had interest on what I want to do. I want to be a lawyer, I got into university 3 mnths ago. He didn t even show me the slighest smile. I feel like he just gave up one me and hopes that my little brother will be perfect.

Me and my fiancé have been together for over a year she has a 6 year old daughter in the beginning she was nice and friendly to me then things changed and she started with the I hate you and not listening and being disrespectful. Some times she'll call us both mum but normally she only calls me it if she wants some thing. She'll ignore me and some times walk away when I'm talking to her asking if she wants something, my partner tells me that I need to let it go because she's only a child. When she doesn't listen or goes on time out her reasoning is because she doesn't like me. I hate the way she treats me the dirty looks she gives and the way she talks to me and I don't know what to do. We also have a little boy together and I'm currently 5 and a half months pregnant and I'm getting all these types of worries now like what if my daughter picks up on the way she is to me and starts treating me the same or even our son? And since her nanny told her that I don't matter and I'm not her mum her behavior and attitude has gotten worse what can I do? It's been going on for over 9 months and it's really starting to affect me and make me resent her I know she is just a child but she is old enough to know what is right and wrong and what hurts other people. And she definitely knows she is being mean...

So me and my brother have been dealing with my dad's unbearable behavior for awhile now, and I wouldn't really describe it as physically abusive but he does have anger issues. As of today however, I am willing to call the police on my father because my brother had enough and decided he wanted to move out but my father got angry and started to physically throw him around, at one point I think he choked him a little, and he ended breaking my brother's door down that led to his room. I cannot sit idle by just watching my father do this to my older brother who already his issues of his own that lead him to suicidal thoughts. The only problem is I am afraid of what'll happen to the rest of my family, especially my two year old younger brother since my dad is the only one in my house who has a career and makes the vast majority of the income. I am also going to be continuing into college this upcoming year so I definitely need all the financial help I can manage to get but I just do not see how I can put up living with him any longer. We have tried talking and have had many discussions but they all end up with my father supposedly being right all the time and that me and my brother are just horrible sons. We can't even move out now without fear that he will physically hurt us like he did to my brother today and we cannot call the police on him since he himself is an officer and he is the only one who makes money. I don't know what else I can do other than conform to his every word.

I have always felt that my sister is overfavored than me. My mom loves to blab to all her friends about how amazing my sister is. She is always talking about her infront of me. I never hear her talk about me. She also comes to my sisters defesne more than she does for me. When ever there is a problem, usually simple, my mom always takes my sisters side. For exsample, my sister will ask to borrow my expesive top or purse or something else that i had bought with my own money. I politley say no. My mother will then interject and say things like "You will let your sister borrow it, I don't care how expensive it is" or "Your sister always lets you borrow or do it" which is not true. Don't even let me start about the gift giving. Last year at Christmas we had a "economical chrismas" meaning that were were expected to get small gifts that we needed such as cloths. I get cloths, my sister gets a brand new pair of pearls. My sister got a pearl necklace strand for her first communion. I was offered, but did not want them at 7. I asked for them again when I was older, 13, and my mom said no. Again for my 16th birthday. She said no again. And again before my senior portraits. She said no again. She could go to any private college no matter the price. And I am exspected to stay instate becuase they dont want to pay an out of state or private tuiton.

My parents are very wealthy and do almost everything for me. I'm 19 and I don't know how to do my own laundry or a lot of other simple tasks. Everyone tells me they're great. On the bright side, I'm going to a really elite college and have a great resume. On the dark side, I'm kind of a wreck. I've had problems with drugs, am addicted to sex, and really mentally unwell. I've been sexually abused a lot, my parents kinda know but didn't take action. My mom isn't stable. When bad things happen to me she gets physically sick and will be on bed rest. I can't tell her much for this reason. When I was raped my parents got mad at me. I find that I'm happier not with my parents. Every conversation we have involves them making fun of me. Every time I talk to my dad we pretty much end up screaming at each other. They both have good qualities but I just don't like hanging out with them. My parents don't like any of my friends. When they're mad at me they say I look fat, when they're not I look beautiful. When I was upset once and was crying I messed up a word and my dad made fun of me for that for like 3 days. My mom found out I got chlamydia and called me disgusting, asked if I was a sex worker and said no guy would want me with my body count. When I tried to hang out with a friend I hadn't seen in a while my mom said, "Why would he want to hang out with you after a year?" and that he'd probably try to sex traffick me because he's Hispanic.

I suffer from bi-polar. I don't get along well with my stepfather (alcoholic,cheater violent,pervert) easy I ignore him im a not a little girl. I cannot stand the lady I call my mom I feel shes dumb as bricks or pretends to be to avoid the truth. im really wishing my life and parents could be someone else's.i can sinsicerely say I do not like anyone in my family even my real dad behaves like a kid so I truly believe my stedad or moms boyfriend is disgusting hes ugly inside and out stinks like evil. ive never wanted a boyfriend or children all I want is my bed to sleep,sounds like im going through a downer now but I know ill come back up. im an only child happy I am too

My brother lived with my mother for 14 years my mom just passed away in February it is gone to Probate Court but he lives with my mom like I said used her internet he watched her table use the electric he use her gas he used your AC so when it comes down to her condo being sold and her three kids splitting that money whatever bills my Mom owes give two ducted from the balance we get from the condo so shouldn t my brother be paying half of that since he lived there with her and the other half of that which my mom would be responsible for shouldn t thst get split 3 ways I mean me and my sister didn t use her bills we didn t live there with her for free she only has like 2 months of bills that she has to pay but I don t think that should be coming out of mine or my sister s money that we get from the condo out of our portion.

So I'm a 17 year old female, and this happened in 2014. My younger half sister and I have to share a room, and while I was trying to get dressed, she would always try to play with my breasts. She knew full well I hated that, I always yelled at her to stop it, but she always ignored me and just busted out laughing as she played with them while I'm fighting her. It went on for about 2 months. It took my dad to intervene for her to finally stop.

My sister and I have never been very close. When I was little I was very sick and spent two years in the hospital. It turned out I was just severely allergic to a long list of things. Because of this my parents were overly protective of me. But my sister was too young to understand what was really going on. All she understood was that I was getting more attention than she was. Over a decade has passed, my sister and I are both living independently, and yet I get the sense that she still isn't over it. She's also about to get married. I'm a brides maid. But one night she got drunk and admitted she didn't really want me to be her brides maid, that she'd asked me out of obligation. She's gone out of her way to make sure I'm not included in any of the wedding events (bachelorette and wedding shower.) She's admitted, also while drunk, that she prefers our brothers company over mine. She's never once invited me to spend time with her, unless our mom asks her to invite me. I genuinely want to spend time with her and I want her to like me. I look up to her, she's my big sister. And she's a good person to every one else, she's got a great personality. But she's terrible to me. Should I give up and move on in life or should I keep trying?

My father was an alcoholic. My mother separated us from the family for our protection. All my father's other children are from his 1st marriage so they were a lot closer to each other. I have always kind of been the 2nd rate one (I am a half sibling after all). I am 51 and very lonely. My one half-sister includes me but that's only once a year in the summer. I tried hosting something the last two Christmas' and no one could come except this one half-sister and she brought a nephew. The summer event I hosted not a single person came other then one teenage nephew. I feel like such an outsider and it makes me so depressed. I see on Facebook activities the family does and it is not a lot (probably 4 or 5 times a year) but I still am missing out. I write "hope everyone is well, would love to see you all" and others write back, "thanks, best wishes" and nothing else. I see them once a year and they see each other 4 or 5 times a year. This is why I am 2nd rate I feel. My half-siblings despised my mother, now deceased, as she left my father and that is when his social drinking went to fall down drunk. They blame her and I guess I am guilty by association to her. Please advise. How can I reach out in a way they will not exclude me or convict me by association? Talking to them about it is tough as like in any alcoholic family they beat around the truth.

I am 18 and taking classes nearby but I know one day I'm going to have to move out and I am scared because I barely know how to do anything my own. I don't mean to sound spoiled or lazy, but I don't know how to do basic stuff like cook or do the laundry or even clean efficiently because either my mom or her helpers did it. When I do want to learn, they don't teach very well and i'm always told I am doing it wrong. I can make money and find jobs that's fine, but I wouldn't understand how to file taxes, get a loan, or get my own car insurance, etc. Googling/Youtube-ing on how to do everything is a bit of an overload. Any advice? Please nothing rude or obvious.

Today, I was home alone, in my room, watching a movie with my earphones plugged in, when all of a sudden, one of my dads workers opens my room door. Since it is summer and my room receives the most sunlight, I decided to lay in bed naked with only a thin sheet to cover me up. When he opened my door, I don't know how much of my body was covered up. I told him to leave and he immediately did so. My parents are currently away on vacation. When I called my parents to tell them what had happened, they said that he had come to pick up his check which was left outside in a hidden and predetermined spot he knew about. He was never supposed to have come inside the house. I don't know what to do.

I'm in between jobs so I have a lot of down time and seem to just sleep a lot. When together she taljs too much, seems way too high strung, or is depressed and very moody. When we watch t.v. she constantly peeks at my face to study my facial expressions then giggle. It gets anoying, or when im driving. She over analyzes me then freaks out and storms out sometimes when Im just sitting quietly. Sex to her is quick spontaneous and aggressive, and it feels aukward. Plus she's fat and promised to lose,weight. Then she acts like Im unhappy with her and,am going to leave her but she hasnt been fun to be around unless I get drunk. Then she always sticks her foot in her mouth. Or kills the mood a lot. She's lazy and unmotivated as a person but van hold a job. I feel like I shouldnt complain though, but a lot of its common sense and I get upset a lot. Like if she buys the wrong thing, wrong order, or nags.

To give some info, my father died of cancer when i was eleven, and he was in and out of the hospital for most of my life. (i am a sixteen y/o girl, youngest of five) my parents always had a loving relationship (married 25 years) and stuck together even through hard times. i was hanging out with my mom and i used her phone to google something because she asked me to, and when i opened her phone it was at her texts & she had written a a long passage to her 'boyfriend' (this is in quotes because they used to date, got into a fight and date on and off now). her phone froze on the screen because it's an older iphone and it's slow and i read the message. apparently they've been in a relationship for ten years, even though she introduced us to him a year ago under the guise of meeting a few months before at work. if you do the math, they were in a relationship for five years before my dad died. in addition, she has been coming home way later than usual under the guise of having extra work but she has actually been seeing him secretly (also in the message). i know i shouldn't have read what was on the screen so i am at fault, but what do i even do? i understand that my dad was sick and couldn't exactly be the 'model husband' all the time but to cheat is just unthinkable. should i confront her? should i tell my siblings?? what do i do i'm so confused and upset.

He asks me questions over and over when he doesn't like the answer.If I ignore him. He says are you ignoring me over and over until I snap. He also mocks everything I say as a joke which really irritates me. He never says I am sorry excuse me or seems to care he has upset me. We had a screaming match in front of our friends because I didn't want to try something at a bbq and he would not let it go. Again I have no sense of humor he says. He kept pacing around my chair at the dmv bothering me. I couldn't find my birth certificate so he made a big deal about that and made sure the entire building knew I forgot it. Then he disappeared for an hour and 'found my birth certificate in his pocket". He also says he knows where my license is but won't give it back. I blew up and NOW HE is saying it was just a joke and he has no idea where it is. I know I whine and get mad probably too easy, He threaten to call the police because I pushed him away from me because he wouldn't get out if my face and kept mocking me and criticizing and provoking me. I asked him to get out of my face like 7 times sometimes I do wanna marrying him , but lately all he does is annoy me. I am 34 and my chances of finding anyone else are slim to none.

I have a baby brother right now and I feel that he isnt my brother. He s getting more attention than me. Is it wrong to be jealous of this?

They keep setting me up on dates when I don't want to. I am not in the mood at all due to mental and physical pain. Plus who would want to date someone who has no job, no money and overweight? Probably no one.

My Dad is the type who is happy to fork out thousands of dollars but won't give emotional support. I recently got baseball tickets and he came and offered to repay me for the game and repay the tickets for the two grandkids who came (his grandkids) as well as his sister who came. My Dad is distant when he senses I am hurting, even refusing to tell me when my Mom's family is getting together. disclosure---My mother is deceased.

Hi! My daughter is 13 and my son is 15 and earlier today my daughter kicked my son in the nuts, not too hard but enough to make him moan and fall to the floor! She was laughing a lot and I must admit, I thought it was quite funny but should I punish her? Afterall, she shouldn't be doing that unless she has good reasons.