I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I went snooping through some of his messages and I found out in the first 3 months of the relationship he had sex with my cousin one time 5 years ago. My cousin is 43 and we're in our 20s. I saw in the message that they both said they regretted doing it and would never do it again and they don't want me to find out. A lot of people would hate her and I don't care. Should I confront him and her about it or let it slide? Should I tell anyone what she did? I read she keeps having panic attacks because she's afraid someone will find out and how much she regrets it With my cousin not his

I was adopted as an infant but both my birth parents are alcoholics, as well as my bio brother (who is actually in rehab for it, but he doesn't have a very good home life like I do, so turned to it as an escape). I've never had a drink in my life, but I'm turning 21 soon and want to try it. But my adoptive parents are super afraid I'll have one sip and become addicted like my birth family. And tbh I'm a little worried about that too. I tried Googling but all of the results that showed up were about the affects of alcoholism on families and how at risk you are of being an alcoholic if you were raised by alcoholic parents. What's the risk if you weren't raised by alcoholics but are genetically related?

When I talk to this girl she tries to get close to me and often approaches me close with her friend. Well she's wanted several selfies with me and her friend and me to sit next to her she tells me to get closer before every picture with her and she wants me next to her in all of them. Whenever we talk she wants a picture tries to playfully tease me. She wore a shirt that showed a little bit of cleavage when she NEVER wears anything like that shows cleavage and her friend walks up and asks me to sit with her for a picture so her best friend takes it so she can bend over towards me a little and puts her arms close together and she's blushing. I was minding my own business asked for a picture with her. She sends the pictures to me so I can post on Facebook she likes them to tell me the next day she likes them. She finds any way to compliment me. She liked a picture with my dad tagged in it so it notified him and the next day she told me she likes it. What kind've tactic is going on. Is she trying to show me her boobies. Girls why would you do something like this ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

Okay. So this is kind of crazy but this has been going on for awhile now and i need answers. Honestly i have no idea about phones or hacking...lol. I have a Galaxy j7v with unlimited data with Verizon, and i suspect my ex is hacking into my phone. I know. Sounds insane but hear me out... My ex knows about computers. He even invests in Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies, so i know he at least has basic knowlege with that sort of stuff. Anyways, Sometimes i wont get any notifications for anything, such as snapchat. Then later everyone asks why i didnt reply to their messages. Also, sometimes while i am internet surfing, a bunch of french dialog popups come up. ( my ex was from paris and spoke mainly french ). A weird notification came up on my phone saying another device has timed out. At times, My phone gets so hot it cannot charge and its been slower than ever. Am i being hacked or am i just crazy? Also, my apps will come in and out without me even touching my whole phone. It will be sitting down and the apps will change from snapchat to youtube or something. Every 3 days or so, i will get a call from a random number. All these numbers are very similar though, like they all start with the same 4 digits and when i try to call them back, it says my call cannot be completed as dialed.

I would never ever think to actually kill myself, I just said that so she would freaking stop fighting with me

This pretty girl (I'm a straight girl) is in my lunch period. I also see her in the hallways at school. In the hallways she has cut the distance between us, by that I mean got closer to me when she was far away when we were walking opposite directions. One time she was pretty close and stepped forward towards me while smiling. She has gotten closer to me 3 times.

do I tell the priest next sunday or just let it go?

Just want to get guys and girls point of view

My boyfriend lost one of his siblings last week and it had been really hard on him. I have tried my best to be there to support him and be there for him through this time. Over the past couple of days he has been really mean to me. We will be having a normal conversation then out of the blue he will make up accusations of me "talking to someone else" telling me I'm "a waste of effort" and "life is too short to waste on people who don't care" even after I literally give every second of my time, every bit of my energy and all of my love to him and I always have.. and especially right now. Then he will go back to pretending like nothing happened the next day. I understand he is going through a difficult time and I couldn't imagine what he must be feeling. He is grieving and I will not fight back and just remind him I am here, that I love him and give him his space. Is this a normal part of the grieving process? Is there something I am doing wrong? Is there any other way I can help him or give him peace of mind?