I'm going with my boyfriend to his cousin's wedding on saturday. I was starting to pack for our weekend when I realized my dress may be too white. I haven't been to too many weddings but I know your not supposed to wear white unless you're the bride. This dress has a white background. The pictured dress os the one I bought last summer and was planning on wearing.

Everyone was having a great party then the next thing my mum dashes out from the dance floor and my sister found her struggling to breathe outside. Initially we were panicking and I was saying call an ambulance!! Luckily we had a paramedic friend who insisted she didn't need an ambulance and she was fine. He stayed with her with two of my work colleagues who are also medically trained for the next 3 hours! After 2 hours my mum was laughing & joking, asking me to get her sweets from the sweet cart. I felt like I couldn't be seen to have a good time as everyone knew she was ill and kept asking after her. I missed out on valuable time with my guests,didn't get to say goodbye to most of them,they all ended up leaving really early. It just ruined my evening as I kept getting told to leave her to it then next thing I was told to get back in there & be with my Mum. My mum just ignored me the whole time didn't say anything to me... My mum since hasn't apologised once and kept saying she has a severe asthma attack. I said in my whole life she's never had one, she snapped and said I was too young to remembe! My sister is older than me and made a comment saying she's older and doesn't remember it either... Since the wedding everyone I've seen has just been like "omg how's your Mum?!"Not even mentioning the wedding which has annoyed me even more. The paramedic,my colleagues & most of my family all say she was faking it for attention& I now believe them as not once has she felt bad.

I ve been dating this guy for four years. He proposed three months ago and since then doesn t want to talk about setting a date, choosing a venue, etc. He says he wants to get premarital counseling first, which I agree would be a good idea since this will be a second marriage for both of us. The problem is he hasn t made any effort in contacting anyone to get the counseling started. We have a great relationship, are established in our careers and money isn t an issue for either one of us. He told me a week after his proposal his greatest fear is marriage. His hesitancy is making me rethink this whole thing and I need advice. I don t want to push things but it s been four years of dating and three months of being engaged with absolutely no talk of when he wants to seal the deal. HELP.