I'm going out with this guy after talking to him for a couple months. He constantly sends me snaps of himself and has never been dirty or sexual In those months of chatting. He doesn't flirt either but he told me he really wants to see me. However, I'm worried because yesterday he sent me a partially nude photo. Nothing he's ever done before...if he was only looking for sex would he have bothered talking to me for months...

The other day I was going through pictures on my moms phone and then for some reason I decided to look at her web browser history and what I found put me in shock. It was a bunch of videos that were about "long black d***" and foreign woman" and other interracial search's. She also searched Assyrian/Chaldean and black couples, which are very hard to find. It made me really uncomfortable and what's crazy is that she is Assyrian. By culture our people are not supposed to date or marry outside our race (Christian Iraqi) especially not with a black man. My mom would get disowned by her parents if they knew what's on her mind, but one passed and the other lives out of state. I also can't help but think of my dad...is she going to cheat on him? He's Assyrian like her, and they're both good-looking middle eastern people in their late 30s. My mom is especially beautiful and I've seen men of all kind hit on her when we've gone out anywhere. But now that I think about it whenever it was a black guy who approached her it was always different. She'd blush and seem so anxious, almost as if she didn't want the conversation to end but knew it had to... but what's wrong with my dad, why doesn't she seem to be head over heels for him when they've been married 17 years?? Maybe I should mention that their marriage was arranged by their parents back in Iraq before they came to Detroit as young adults in the 90s, but you would never notice that about them. I'm freaking out whyyy is she doing this

He text me at 1AM and we were chatting then he told me "Take care and goodnight" I said you too and good night and sweet dreams" and the he said "you too💜" and yesterday I saw him at work and it was my last day, he told me to see him and I went there and we were chatting about life and movies. and then after I left he immediately sent me a direct snapchat "Glad to see you and I'm so happy for you" "please be in touch" and I said "of course" and then he sent me "💜" What does that mean? He never ever talked about his wife to me or children, which is weird. Also one time he said that our personalities are so alike. Not to lie but I have a crush on him, but he is married so no chance of course. I'm confused with the heart emoji and the "please be in touch"..

I have been seeing this guy for about a month, and its going well. I am in no rush to make things official as I like how we are getting to know each other before calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend. What I have going with this guy is very different than what I have been through in the past. So i am not sure how this goes when having 'the talk'? We both have told each other we are not seeing other people, he assured me he doesnt see this as a fling and he is introducing me to his friends and co workers. We did sleep with each other twice, but then i told him i was not ready to keep sex as part of whatever we have going on especially since he is not my boyfriend. He respected that and even times when things are getting too far, he will stop and say no im not gonna disrespect your wishes. So he is definitely proving to me that he means well, and I am curious to know when 'the talk' is typically supposed to happen?

We have been dating for a couple years now. In the beginning I would do so much to help get him on track (He did not have a job for the first 8 months while we were dating and I know... crazy me.) Well I have a bad knack at remembering things like food orders, unless I write them down. Thing is, he hates repeating himself and thinks he is so smart and be in comparison I am a retard. I feel each year it escalates, and all I am trying to do is stay in college and make it through my job. I work with him as well, he is in a more senior position that holds the possibility of me losing a job. Also I have no family to call my own, both parents have passed at young ages. I am so scared right now. He has already had the last hissy fit he possibly could with me, and has now begun belittling me more. And making me feel like ****. I am also scared to tell my friend anything. And tonight while I kept telling him that we both need to go to bed after he drank a whole entire bottle of vodka, said he may kill me before he drifted off. And asked what I would do. I of course have no response to that. All I can do is ask, and pray that the day tomorrow I will wake up and see all of your answers.

He likes weird stuff like being called heartless and having a black heart. What do submissive guys like?

My mom wants me to call out for a family event that came about last minute. I havent called out since december even though i left early a day in januaruy. I have enough sick time (25 hours) and personal hours (12 hours) Why am i so nervous though? I am calling out early so my job can have time to call other people so they can find a replacement for the night. I work retail

When I text her, she replies fast, but when I take an hour to reply, she does the same thing. I took 2 hours to reply because I was working and she took 4 hours to reply this time. Do you thinks she's doing this on purpose??

Is that fair...she's a good girl but 3 months..

We broke up and when I tried going back(6 months ago) he said he wouldn't forgive me for saying something about his mom when he said something to mine first(idiotic).I didn't chase him. We ran into eachother one day i expected him to ignore but he smiled and said hi.Now he keeps looking at me, making eye contact and i caught him looking at me sneakily through the door crack. He's started coming out about the same time as I do and he said hi hesitantly and smiling. Few Sundays ago I was going down the stairs and he was behind me. He was "on the phone" saying he was leaving church and would call back which wasn't necessary since church was already over. I feel like he did it so I'd know he was behind me. We walked next to eachother he smiled and said how are you. We had a few exchanges and I asked him about his sick brother. The following week he didnt show himself inside church(he's a deacon) as I was leaving he was behind me going down the stairs. I turned around just saw a glimpse of him and turned back around didn't say hi. He would look to lock eyes with me and smile when we'd be close now even though throughout church he keeps staring but when we lock eyes these past two Sundays he doesn't smile anymore and looks away. It's weird that since he was mad he constnatly stares and started smiling. But he's not making a move? Does it sound like he doesn't want to or too prideful?

I'm an awkward and shy person, and there was just one teacher who always told me, "Speak up!!! Talk." It only made me more quiet. I thought if I didn't say anything, she wouldn't have anything to say. But the more I didn't say anything, the more she had something to say. She didn't like that I was shy to the extent that she humiliated me in front of the whole class, and said, "It's like you want to slap her because she doesn't talk, she just stares!" And when we got back from school vacation she put me on the spot and only asked me what I did, when it wasn't even school related, and it took me 10 minutes. Then she laughed and said, "Hahaha It took her an hour for her to tell us what she did!" And she told me, "Nobody even knows what to think of you."