I'm in my 40s, hes in his 50s. So we arent exactly young anymore. We've been dating a little over a year and I'm ready to move forward. I made my goal of marriage clear before we even officially met. He said he had the same goals, but now, when he speaks of the future, it doesn't sound like it includes marriage. Hes made it clear he doesn't like talking about it, but I dont want to waste my time on someone who isnt willing to get married.