One of my best friend called me fake to my other best friend, we are a group of three. When my friend asked why she said it was because I called her to complain then hung up. But the real story was I called her when I was sick and complained that I was in pain because I had mono and I've been battling it for now 3 weeks.i was saying how I was in pain but then I couldn't breathe again and my ears were pounding so I hung up to try to get myself back to normal and passed out so I didn't call her back. Then she **** talked about me behind my back to my best friend. Was I wrong to hang up on her or is she over reacting

I have 1st period Chemistry and we do nothing in there, some students from other classes who know the teacher would hang out in our class for a bit and go on to their classes. Well one of them happens to be a person I had problems with, had been bullied by her and almost got in a fight with her. I BEEN let go of what happened then and brushed it off of my shoulder, but as of now, I don't even want to see her face. I usually does make up work or on my phone, listening to music (I have social anxiety). How do I ignore her?

- I was speaking with another guy about something we have covered in class and when he saw me he said are you cheating on me b/c i was talking to the other kid. -he also said that my boyfriend is lucky to have me... then I said that I don't have one. - He compliments my hair and how I look. - He blows me kisses in middle of conversations... Is he just flirting and he is being friendly? or does he like me... I can't tell

Ever since both of his parents died in September last year, my friend feels like he has to go out with me every single time I go out - whether if it's with one other friend, a group of friends, or by myself. Both of us are 23 years old and finished university last year. Today, I went to town just to buy a new coat and then go home. But he found out where I was and wanted to hang out with me... again. Every time he suggested we go some place, I tried to say no, but he dragged me along before I could say so. I reckon he deliberately cuts me off from saying no, but it could be just be a coincidence. Would I be rude if I said "no" to him wanting to hang out? I'd be alright if it was a couple of times every few weeks, but it's all of the time.

I am only allowed to sit at home and play videogames. I cant buy a real gun, i cant go out and do things, i feel so lonely and depressed and if i do try to do things, i only have one friend and he never does anything too. I want to buy a BB gun but i most likely cant too. I want to buy a hitomi porn dvd imported from japan and ill most likely be allowed to get that since they d rather me watch that than drink, smoke, go to clubs, or anything. what can i say to them to let me get the DVD i want and to let me buy things i have the money for?

I know this women who has 5 kids by 3 different dads. She is 34 and the oldest is 17 and youngest is 3. The last guy she was with was a white rapper guy. Hes not really good but he does shows. She has 2 kids by him and the relationship didnt llast a year. It was back and forth. Now she is with some guy who just got out of prison for a high speed chase with the police. Yet shes a mother of 5 kids.

My friend called me last night. She was crying and scared. She said that when she was walking back home some drunk guys harrased her but thankfully she quickly escaped. I felt helpless I didn't know how to answer to that. It's my first time in this kind of situation and I don't know what to say to comfort her. What should I say to let her know that she can rely on me?

Some friends of mine decided to pull a prank on me after watching a prank on Youtube where a guy puts a mask on and makes out with another guy (who thinks he's a girl). Then the girl walks in and they pretty much reveal he just intimately kissed a guy. Of course, my friends decided to take things a step further where I was supposed to kiss a girl blindfolded and let her perform or*l. Midway through it, the person who I thought was a girl started talking and I realized they were pranking me. I was really pissed off so I got dressed and left. They've been calling and texting me that I "can't take a joke" and "I'm being dramatic". Since then Ive just been feeling weird about the whole thing. I'm not sure what I should do. I just feel like they took this prank too far but I dont know if im overreacting. I started to tell them that what they did was illegal but I'm not sure it was seeing as I didn't say "no" and I agreed to be blindfolded make out with a girl anyway. I don't know I'm just really confused because it was just a prank but I just feel really unsettled. Is what they did illegal? if it is than what's the crime. I know it wasn't rape since there was no penetration and I'm 19 but I dont knw if it would be considered assault or molesting or whatever. Theyre all acting like im overreacting but I just feel really embarrassed and uncomfortable about it. I only agreed bc i thought it was a girl that i liked. when i realized it was one of the guys i left

My guy friend and I text almost everyday. The other day he texted me and I didn't get a chance to respond. A few hours went by and then he texted me again and said "Are you hanging out at home?" My brother had just dropped me off so I said "Just got home. What are you up to today?" His answer was "So you were out all night partying until this afternoon? Cool ...." Then put a winky face at the end. Ever since then, he's been acting different. Texting less, hanging out less. I don't get it. Is he upset that I didn't message back quicker? I usually do, so that's all I can think it is. I asked him, but he says nothing's wrong.

She has everything she wants. A perfect house, money and goes on travels every two months. She s drop dead gorgeous but single. I can t help but be jealous of her she has everything she wants but she works hard to get it. Why don t good things happen to people like me? I m talented at sports but she snatched the team from my nose. She wasn t even talented all she did was work hard. It s not fair. I know she s my best friend and I love her but why is she always competing with me? She has everything anyway yet she s never happy. I don t know what to do she s at the point of making me throw away everything. She s successful yet unreachable. A good friend but she just makes me so jealous!!

I recently won $145,000 in a lottery drawing. My friends heard and now they're all trying to get some money. One stood out to me particularly... he never really talked to me before. Just occasionally about music and some bands. He revealed he had to have surgery on his back about a year ago and he owes a lot for the surgery and also he's just divorced and needs some money to get back on his feet. He also told me his mom has a tumor and he's paying for that too. He asked for $10,000 if I could spare it. Should I just ignore all of them?

So I had this crush on a girl that I made fun of occasionally. I made fun of her a bit too much I feel, and she got pretty sad. Her friend which I am still friends with her told me I almost made her cry. I then apologized and she said she didn t care. I told her I knew I almost made her cry and she said i don t really care to be honest. I then said it made me feel better telling her sorry. The next day she ignored me like I wasn t even alive. She had never done this and I knew it was because she was mad. Later that day I messaged her on discord asking why she was ignoring me. Then she blocked me. She is still ignoring me and I can t even apologize again. Her friend asked why she s ignoring me and she said because I was "spamming" on discord. Now every time I look at her or whenever shes happy, I think that I m the one who s doing this. It s also the end of elementary school, so that stress is already on me. Whenever I start thinking about this whole situation I just get really really sad. For example the other day on a field trip, I made a joke and she laughed, then looked to see who said it, and once she saw I said it she turned and stopped laughing. All her friends are friends with me too so whenever I have a friendly conversation with them she just drifts away. This also makes me feel like I might be hurting other people that I don t know about. It makes me feel like a terrible person and idk what to do.

I'm a 7th grader now. And people don't really take ANYTHING I say seriously. I can say anything about me and they'd make jokes and laugh. Like I would talk openly on my feelings about how I feel. I feel like they don't care. I would tell my friends how I hate my body and I hate this about me hoping for them to understand me better but all I get back are jokes. So when I started to cut myself (I got help already) they'd say "Oh, why didn't you tell me?" "We didn't see the signs you'd do this" "You're so pretty why would you do this?" "We care about you!" Words are meaningless if you don't show it, is what I think. I hate it! Nobody takes me seriously! Nobody listens! I want people other than family to hear me out. Help me please, should I ditch all my friends? Should I do this or that? I don't want to be taken as a joke.

every month he texts me about something in my life and ask me to let him know the outcome of it, but I don't then he would text me to follow up on what happened. I honestly don't want to text him because I feel it is a superficial conversation. How to deal with situation?

I've been being cyberstalked by a group online for almost 6 Months now, Police won't help me. One of my Online Best Friends who lives a few states over has been trying to help me stop the person cyberstalking me. About 4-5 times that Friend has joked about "Seeing him (The cyberstalker) in town" "at a restaurant" He contacted me" and then a few minutes later put on a Smile over Video chat and say he was joking. I'm really starting to think he is involved in the group stalking me. Although, I Don't know how to possibly catch him. Any ideas?

He thinks that vaping causes cancer when it doesn't. I use big words around him that normal people understand but for some reason he doesn't think they are real words, so I'm a "liar" who makes up words apparently. He's fat as hell but he literally thinks it's all muscle. Like he'll put his arm out as if he were flexing but it's all flab. If he gets straight A's and you have almost all A's but one B, he calls you a dumba$$ and thinks he's smarter than you no matter what. Oh and get this: We were watching a movie one time and there was this scene were a girl got hit by a car, and he says "How do you bleed when you get hit by a car? It's a blunt object not a sharp object" and he was literally being serious, too. He thinks he's gonna become a neurosurgeon and make millions right away and I told him it doesn't work thay way. He b*tches every single day about how difficult his honors classes are, so I don't get how he's going to be able to take 16 years of med school. For some reason in his mind he believes that i'm failing all my classes because one time two years ago I said sarcastically "Yea I'm failing everything" and anybody could tell that I was joking but apparently he couldn't. So he thinks I have no future and I'm just a failure. Apparently if I don't get into the best college in America then my life is ruined- at least that's what he believes.

So my sisters friend who is also friends with me recently found out that I had a boyfriend. Before I had a boyfriend she was always telling me that we would both still be single in our thirties and fourties and that time was running out. My friend is obsessed with marriage and romance. Bearing in mind I'm in my early twenties. Ever since I've been with my boyfriend and posted pictures of me together with him, she has been constantly ringing messaging my sister asking her who he is and asking her to tell all the details of our relationship. She didn't message me to ask me, instead she tried to get information through my sister. Anyway when I bumped into her recently she asked me all these questions about him and how we met and how long we have been together for. She then preceded to tell me that he looked a lot older than me in pictures together and I told her I had been with him nine months and she said she thought it was only two Why is she so interested in my personal life with my boyfriend?

So, I moved into an apartment building. My mom s friend lives in the same one, the reason I chose to live here, so she could help me. I been living here for 3 months and haven t told her yet because I wanted to get a bit of space from everyone and get used to my apartment on my own. I ve ran into her a few times. The conversations seem to be awakward. Any advice would be really appreciated. I never been good with keeping any relationships, friendships, ect. I have always lost friends who mean a lot to me. And this one, I don t wanna lose. I wanna fix it. And I am not comfortable admitting that I was wrong and that I m sorry face to face. I d rather do that through text. Please, help me ASAP. PS. She won t text me unless I text her first.

I'm Abby. My best friend since kindergarten (I'll call him Jeff) is a great guy and a sweetheart, but he can be naive. He's a hopeless romantic with no dating experience at all. We've never had feelings for each other, we've always been more like twin siblings. But this horrible girl in my cheer squad (I'll call her Grace) has been flirting with Jeff, trying to get him alone. She clearly wants him. I don't trust her - she talks behind peoples backs, back-stabs her friends. She cheated on her ex. I don't want her to hurt Jeff. He could do so much better, be with someone who actually cares about him and will treat him right. While he always trusts me, he's also optimistic and promised me I was wrong. Jeff was excited and was thinking about giving her the chance. I wanted to show him he deserved to be happy in a relationship, and in frustration I snapped "I'm about ready to keep you for myself if you don't see sense." He looked stunned...but then I just sorta followed the impulse. I kissed him. A lot. He sort of took it and after a bit he clumsily tried to reciprocate. Realizing he would keep fumbling, I switched gears and pushed him against the wall. Things...escalated. Eventually I was sucking him off. I think he was too overwhelmed to process it. I got picked up soon after it was over, but he didn't seem embarrassed or upset. We haven't talked about it since. Did I make a mistake? Will this change things? I just wanted to protect him. What's going to happen now?

I graduated from high school last June, so it's been almost a year now. I've struggled with mild depression on and off for years, but the summer following graduation I was in shock and depressed for most of the summer. Most of my friends went to different universities and some even to different states; I was one of very few people staying in my hometown to attend community college instead (I was accepted to all the universities I applied to, but chose community college because I didn't know what I wanted to study and didn't want to waste money going to expensive universities). I struggled immensely that summer knowing that I would never see any of my friends from high school again. And I haven't; over the past year, not one of my friends from high school has attempted to get in contact with me. I was heartbroken because it made me feel like none of my friends even cared about me. I reminisced over old photos for long periods of time and looked at faces of people I knew I'd never see again, who I desperately wanted to see again. It's hard to make new friends in college on the quarter system because every time it seems like I've become friendly with someone--which can take a while--the 2.5 month quarter is over and you never see those people again. I'm not a person who makes friends quickly and easily, I need a lot of time and the quarters are just too short for me to form new and lasting friendships. I'm more depressed and alone than I've ever been and it's killing me inside. Continuation: I've enjoyed college as a whole very much throughout my first year, but I have never, ever felt so alone in my entire life. I see pictures of my old high school friends enjoying themselves at university with their new friends and I just can't seem to find that same joy. It's really sucking the life out of me, and I have no one to talk to about how I'm feeling. I've thought about counseling, but counselors are expensive and it's hard to get spots in their busy schedules.

Last summer I just moved back to go to school with my two best friends, Josh and Jacob. We were pretty tight until the end of the summer when Jacob started to act different, he started to be an asshole when he was around girls and he would talk **** behind our backs. We were all still good until Jacob started dating a 14 year old, he thought he was the **** for having a girlfriend and would make fun of us for not. So we had enough and kinda teased him about... but he's Insecure and couldn't handle it. Jacob is so insecure to the point where if somebody made a comment about his hair he would get a hair cut that very night. He tries to fit in with everyone instead of being himself and idk why! He also self projects a lot, for an example he called me an awkward virgin just because he hasn't had sex yet... which isn't a big deal right? But anyway we teased to the point where one day he got his mom and complained to the school and stated that josh had a gun in his car which hopefully he didn't cause if he did he would of gone to jail, the next week he reported me for one too and a bunch of cops search my car... then we just basically just left Jacob behind because who dose that instead of saying how they feel. But recently they been hanging out a lot without me, idk what to do or why he's hanging out with him again after him having a tantrum like that. Sorry for this being so long I just wanted you to have some insight on the situation... please help me to figure this out thanks.

So I have this close friend that I always talk to. We like each other but they picked up a job with pretty long hours, and they've been tired a lot. We also haven't been able to talk much or see each other very much. How do I cope with this, it makes me feel kind of alone and just all around sad because of how different it is now than before, and I miss how it was before.

I live in a very crowded mobile home closed street neighborhood have a driveway that only fits one car and I have this neighbor that allows her friends/family to come over almost every day (which I really don't care) but none of them care if they are blocking my way in or out of my driveway sometimes I have to go back and forth a couple of time just to get out or in. What should I do about that because a year ago my parents talked to them and they started hating us and of that my parents decided to stay quiet just so that there are no more problems but I've had it it's too much I'm not as nice as my parents and won't stay quiet anymore.

I'm a 17-year-old guy, I live with my older sister and my mother. My sister is a few years older than me. We have a relatively good life, with a loving mother who's there for us. I love my sister, but she has a really bad habit of making poor choices in life, including the friends she makes. She tends to be really easily influenced by any little thing, and she seems to love looking for trouble. She tends to hang out with dangerous people, gang members, drug dealers, homewreckers. She tends to go to dangerous places. She tends to live a life where "Everything is LIT AF FAM, whens the next high?, when the next friend hangout to get LIT". She goes to parties in the middle of nowhere, with dangerous people. She hooks up with men who are dangerous and at times abuse her. She lived with a pimp for a while because he offered her a place for cheap. She's been in situations where her friends get hurt. I tried to warn her, many times, that she should choose better friends, better environments, to be responsible and not live life thinking it's a game. She always shuts me down and goes "I know what I'm doing" After a long time of trying to protect her, and warn her, I just gave up and tried to stop caring. I kind of just sat back and let her do what she wants. Well, 2 weeks ago she went to a party, she was doing meth and crack, and well she got raped. Honestly, I don't really feel bad, I kind of feel it's her fault for putting herself in that position. Thoughts? I've made dumb decisions before that has gotten me in trouble or hurt or almost died. But I accept the consequences as my fault, I take responsibility for my actions, and I learned from them pretty quickly. Plus she's older, so she should me more mature. TLDR; sister makes poor life choices, hangs out with gang members, pimps, drug dealers, she does crack and meth, she got raped and I don't feel bad, kinda feel it's her fault for putting herself in that situation.

What is play fighting???

To boil this down shortly I once had a really good friend in college but he always "busy" with things. I wanted a close friendship but he never had time...there was always other things to do and other people to hang out with. Eventually I read this as he didn't have time for "me" specifically and I started distancing. Wasn't hard because I was always the one who texted first etc. when I left all the contact up to him we went from hanging out weekly to hanging out once a semester. So fast forward a couple years... After nearly two years post-graduation, (and his marriage whichI wasn't invited to but many others were) he messaged me a day or two before Easter...asking about my dog by name! (Weird) We exchanged some texts, and he asked about my life and my plans for law school, I answered and eventually, he quit responding after I answered one of his questions. No drama, he just never responded...Like he usually did. About a month later (roughly two weeks ago) I checked my emails one day, like I do everyday, and I see he has responded to an email I sent to him over two years ago. Just a paper I wrote I thought he would find interesting. In the email he said "thanks for sending this, I didn't see it at the time. Must have been busy. Hope you're doing well." What's going on? Why is he doing these odd things after two years of not speaking? Is he just checking on me, is something bothering him, or is this just some kind of gag? Should I respond?

OKAY. so i live in a little neighborhood with my 2 roommates. my neighbor has a crappy little kid, like 5 years old. there are never any kids at my house, ever, we have 2 pets and are in our early 20s. so this kid has been hitting our cars with his toys, peering into our windows, and generally being a weird little creeper kid. today, i was leaving to go pick up pizza for dinner and the kid and his part-time dad were playing baseball in the front yard. why not the back? where there are partitions. so i get in my car to back out the driveway (no garage) and the kid throws the ball at my car, the dad picks it up and repeats two more times. my windows were down and nobody said anything at all. but when i got back my roommate said that the dad apologized to her. does that make any sense?? i really want to run this kids toys over. i have never felt so vengeful towards a small child.

Hi, I'm gonna keep this rlly short but I get bullied. A LOT. Im talking about getting shoved, hit, and verbally abused ****. I am not socially weird or awkward and am nice, but everyone hates me and either tries hurting me physically or emotionally, or just avoid me. Its nothing wrong with my personality or anythjng but does anyone have advice?

everyone in my grade hates me, and I am nice to everyone. I try to be as good of a friend as I can be to anyone, but still everyone hates me. They all call me names, embarrass me in front of girls, hurt me emotionally by bringing up stuff about my parents that are going through a divorce (it used to be calling me fat but now that I lost all my weight and am skinny, they had to find other stuff to tease me about). And it really hurts because recently i thought I was beginning to fit into a friend group, as they were nice to be for a few weeks, but that was only because they were getting me to do favors for them. And now that I provide no use for them anymore, they have gone back to shoving me in the halls, sometimes slapping me in the face and teasing me, and I try to ignore it, but sometimes i just start crying and cant take it anymore, which fuels their laughter even more. I don't know what to do anymore, and frankly wanna give up. I haven't been invited to anyone's house or any hangouts since 5th grade (4 years ago). And its not even like I'm a repulsive person. I think it is because the popular group in my grade hated me, their influence on the rest of the grade makes everyone else hate me to. For example If I ask any question about homework or anything like that to a fellow classmate, everyone will just call me an idiot or tell me to shut up. Any advice?