My wife just told me she's pregnant she's really upset I don't know why she's upset. It's almost 12:30am she can't sleep. How can I comfort her ?

My wife cries when we make love but she has depression so she cries at everything. Is this normal ?

This past weekend I went to see him, and so he can see his son. I was looking into his drawer of lingerie found 3 condoms with exp date 2019, I cried, and felt aweful.... I confronted him about it, he questioned where I found them, I told him where he stated he put it on our sons life that they were not his they belonged to his sister that past away 5 years ago, I still hurt... I don't know what to believe please give me advice

A couple that has been together for 6 yrs and has one child go buy tires. One person in the couple (the main driver) pays 100 dollars. The other person pays 300 dollars for the tires making the total 400 for the tires. It is later found out that the person who paid 300 dollars actually won 4 thousand dollars the previous day and was hiding it from the other person. Should the person who won the 4 thousand give anything to the other one or at least pay for the tires completely? Honest answers please.

So if one spouse works and earns income, or buys something (especially something big like a house), why shouldn't they be able to keep their income THEY earned and the house THEY bought? theirs ikik in the event of divorce

I was about to take my husbands everyday leather jacket for drycleaning when I found a pair of tights in his pocket. I asked him about it and he confidently said he bought them for me. Mind he couldn't tell me where from, when, show me a receipt or even explain why they were unwrapped and roughed up in his pocket. All he had to say was that he bought them for me. Obviously I didn't believe that and a fight started. Few hours later he comes up with another story saying he got them in my drawers and was gonna ask me if I'm still wearing them, then put it in his pocket and forgot. So the first story was a lie now he wants to make me believe this one that still doesn't make sense. I told him I didn't believe him and he got angry and now accuses me of persecuting him, breaking the peace in the marriage and insists he's done nothing wrong. I asked him for a STI test. He first refused saying I'm overreacting. I insisted and now he will get it done after another long argument about it. I'm i overreacting ? Should I believe him and let it go. ? Ps: he has cheated on me twice before

So my husband doesn't see the point of date nights. We haven't been out together in 5 years. The last time we went to the movies or did anything that represented a date was during my pregnancy with our daughter back in 2013. Then our first son was born a year after she was, and we just had our second son 7 months ago. He feels time is better spent staying home and cleaning house (yes, we're behind on housework), except when friends invite us out to the park or over to their house for a bbq. Our fifth anniversary just passed, and we did nothing. He worked all weekend. My boss--who is more of a father than my own dad--told me just to go alone. But getting out of the house alone is a complete chore in itself. My 4 y/o thinks that just because someone is leaving, that she can automatically go too. IMO, he's kind of holding a grudge that I got pregnant again last year. He completely changed after the baby was born. He used to bring me coffee in bed in the mornings. Now if he just pours into my mug is like...wow! It's crossed my mind a few times that he only stuck around because of the kids; that maybe we wouldn't have made this long or far if it hadn't been for them. Now it's to the point where I don't care if I go out with HIM; I just want to go out and do something without the kids. But he acts like I'm being a bad mom for even considering it.

My husbands going to his best friends bachelor party in Vegas (which I'm very against but he's set on going). I need ideas on how to keep distracted I don't want to be sitting on the couch crying for 3 days and wondering every second if he's got a stripper around him. If I go to Vegas too it'll look like revenge and I don't want to do a spa day that just gives you more tome to think and panick. Any ideas? Im desperate? I live in California so anywhere I can go to totally distract my mind from paranoia?? :( Thanks!

My husband and I are in our second marriage. My husband has 2 kids from his earlier marriage. I have one. We have none together. My questions is how will the combined assets be divided between the children? Should everyone get the same share (that would mean 2/3 for my husband's children and 1/3 for mine) or should my son get just a little more? I'd like to know your opinion and also your own experience if any. Thank you

Initially she refused saying she liked her hair long and i was ok but some how i kept popping the question and in the past year she has agreed to cut it gradually but not enough that i like it and but she looks beautiful than before and we have good moments together .She now understands her husband has a crazy fetish so the question is am i being fair to her ? Also i always wanted her to have my surname which she readily agreed before marriage and changed it after marriage .I know i am going to labelled male egoist etc but i want honest answers

My soon to be ex and I went to mediation a month ago and agreed to a parenting agreement. My daughter was not happy about what was agreed on because before mediation we had a different agreed on schedule. When I told my daughter what the schedule was going to be, she had 2 melt downs that night, then again the next morning. Now that she is scheduled to go with her dad tomorrow for most of the summer with me only having her every other weekend, she is having continuous melt downs. I want to get her into counseling but am unable to while she is with her father and I doubt he will get her into counseling either. I could use any advice on how to help her through this. I also have a 14 year old son that he adopted when he was 5 that absolutely refuses to see my stbx.

I confronted my husband about his late nights and strange behavior, he told me the only one acting strange is me ! We used to go out to dinner, come home, snuggle in bed watching tv, now we hardly speak, ever since we found out that I cant have children he's been this way. I never knew he even wanted kids, he never mentioned it, but now he uses it against me, saying im no real woman, The last clue was kind of smelling another woman on him..I know--but cant prove it 100 percent. isn't this enough evidence he commits crimes against me? viviene--learn to spell for cripes sakes.

if u received a message like this from someone who gave you their phone number and you had an interest in talking to and meeting from a dating site...what would u think? would u be upset with them? or appreciate their honesty? thanks and will choose a best answer "i just simply dont have time for the next few weeks for much of anything else but work. i have to catch up with some unexpected bills. I know you seem extremely eager to talk and./or meet but unfortunately I just dont have time right now for things like that and to be honest I am also a bit irritable due to all of this too so would probably not be in the right mind for a meeting or even a conversation for that matter and I am just being honest. I only come on here in the middle of the night while I am working so anyway, sorry, I know you have an interest in talking but i just dont have time right now..hopefully you will understand...if not, good luck and I hope u find what you are looking for.

I have a hug problem! On Saturday I went with my husband to a family party , everything was going great , but then his brother who was drinking and already had to much to drink was carrying our 4 month old baby girl , I didn't like the idea so I asked for my little girl back nicely and he got upset so I tried to avoid it but then my husband got mad and me and said I should have just left her and I said no it was not safe for her so it went on for a little while and I got up and walked away and I thought about it and I knew I was not comfortable so I decided to leave my husband with his family and I took out 2 kids home with me but we were 1 hour 30 min away from home I left him with out letting him know since I was so upset. So after all that me and my husband talked to next day and now we are ok but know I have a proble with his family who is his mom and dad and his brother who wanted to hold out little one ,we live all close together is a triplex . So on Tuesday I seen his dad outside and I said hi how are you and he ignored me so since then I want to stay away but I'm not sure how since we live so close together me and my husband have been married for 2 years 1/2