I went to school with this girl who's older. At first didn't really talk to me but I was going through puberty and body changed to be like a man and I got a haircut (I was 6 feet tall btw). After those changes she tried to talk to me all the time and started getting crazy and blushing, staring at me. She was dating this guy. I barely did anything, I was distant and ignored her most of the time. I did not really show personal interest. Well she laughed extremely loudly at stuff I said and started talking to me to then playfully tease me. She'd start butting into every conversation I had and interrupting me. Her friend tried to get me to start talking to her and flirt. She'd find out information about me and tell me every small detail she found out about me. She'd find any way to compliment me. She'd approach me with her friend and try to start a conversation and if I walked away she'd follow me. She'd stare quite a bit at me when she should've been paying attention. She'd find out information that's none of her business and confront me with her friend to chew me out one time doing it by interrupting me when I was talking to someone else. She'd want a lot of pictures next to me and if I talked to her first wanted me to get close to her for pictures. She'd ask me where I live and already knew something because she mentioned a car in my yard her parents know about. She'd like a picture of my dad tagged in it on Facebook to tell me the next day she likes it. She'd take selfies with me to send to me to put on Facebook to like it then tell me the next day she likes it. She has said something questionable to me "nobody else is as you". She'd say and mention stuff about my size. Like how much I'm taller than my dad by in no context. Her and her friend went "He's 6' tall oooh". If I just started a conversation she'd playfully tease me or have me get closer to take a picture like I'm trying something with her. If I looked at her she'd giggle and say my name like I'm flirting. In conversation she'd have long lingering eye contact and smiles, I break eye contact and she doesn't stop she's just sitting there staring at me complete focus. She'd tell people about stuff I do or talk about because a teacher she hangs out with told me she's mentioned me. I joked about moving away during a vacation her friend told me I hurt their feelings and she stopped talking to me as much for the rest of the year. Well she graduated and I saw her around town and broke up with her bf. I went to her work and she is in one spot at a restaurant then moved to a spot that had a clear view of me and so I could see her. She stared a little bit. Almost a year later I see her and look over. She's in a car drunk laughing and I make the mistake of looking at her. She might've been staring at me when I was in the store before. Well I look at her she stares at me raised her eyebrows and widens her eyes and lowers her head and has it tilted. She stares and doesn't stop even when I look away. I worked with her and I was putting on a jacket. She's talking to a coworker not really engaged in the conversation but facing me and I felt her staring a bit. She's looking at my arms chest and lips or something, I stare back and she doesn't stop. I don't know if people like this want a friend or what. Before you assume I'm distant. Hardly shown any interest maybe a little personal interest. She supposedly tried to "get with" one of her friend's dad (who's a married man) because she had a thing for him and tried something with his friend too. She says stuff like "I want to **** your dad" and saying stuff about how guys can do sexual things to her and she will perform oral sex on them. Why would someone be like this for 3 years, being in a relationship and harassing and stalking me. Doing weird stuff after she graduated and everything. I don't know if someone like this needs a friend or what, I don't know what to do for her. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

I love it how people, namely single people, like to tell you how you are supposed to conduct your relationship. My wife and I have been together some 15+ years. She came in with two sons and I came in with a daughter. We don't have kids together. Both our parents are still alive and for Mother's and Father's Day we usually spend it apart because we're with our respective parents. For Mother's Day I get my wife a nice card and she gets me one for Father's Day. Today, a female co-worker asked me what I had gotten for my wife and I told her nothing. When she asked why I explained to her how we do things. She said that even though we don't have kids together I needed to acknowledge her as a mother. Isn't giving her a card acknowledgement enough? My mom is alive and I spend the day with her and my wife does the same with her mom. I love it how people like to push their views off on you. My sister and brother-in-law don't exchange Christmas gifts because they say they do enough for each other during the year. That works for them. Who cares what anyone else things. Why do people love to tell you how your relationships are supposed to go?

In my late twenties Boyfriend and I are both financially stable His mom is moving in with him (she is a widow) We do not live together yet, but I was planning to move in with him I am from the United States he is from India I have spent time with her, she seems nice, but there is a language barrier. He has to translate or I use an app/learn some of her language. She stayed with him for 5 months previously I was there every other weekend. I will admit I felt weird and out of place, my fear is that will not go away. ( I can imagine she did as well as this is all new to her). He and I have a very good relationship but I am not sure if this will affect that. Can't help but I have a weird gut feeling about this going forward. She Currently lives with his sister in India, but will be moving in with him. Not sure if it is forever or for 4-6 months per year. Depending on what he and his sister decide. Any advice from someone who has been in this situation?

Sorry for the length. My boss (late 30s attractive male) has a somewhat playful demeanor in the workplace but rarely pushes the boundaries of professionalism. I've gotten several haircuts recently, lost a few lbs, and started dressing up more due to new office regulations. I noticed he didn't acknowledge any of my appearance changes and cited a very conservative stance on sexual harassment in the workplace when I casually brought it up. I told him I don't mind innocuous comments such as "you look nice today, I like your haircut, etc" - still nothing. Soon after our conversation, I started overhearing conversations in his office between him and another female employee of the same age and rank as me who works very closely with our team. He commonly tells her "wow you look really good today" and "damn you look super pretty in that outfit." She is more outgoing and flirtatious than me and goes around the office relaying the conversations to everyone, so he obviously isn't concerned who hears it. The inconsistency in his manners is bothering me, and I feel that his line to me about sexual harassment was bullshit. My question is, what would cause this repeated inconsistency? Does it have to do with her being more outgoing? I'm a bit more reserved but still affable and even a touch flirtatious (but always very professional) at work. Just trying to understand the male thought process here and if I'm doing something wrong or giving off a bad impression.

I'm trying to find out if guys that stare at me/smile then make comments and talk to me means I'm very pretty to them? Let's say while in the sauna at the gym for example.

(For context I'm in high school) I have a very good friend who I have known for about 4 years. He was a semi patient but kind of ADHD-type personality, generally fun to be around and talk to. Over the past year he has completely changed. He became an athiest (I do not believe in judging someone based on religion but the fact that he is very aggressive and very snarky/hateful towards christians isn't nice). He became, again, an aggressive vegitarian calling meat "poison" and "completely disgusting" and yelling and freaking out if some gets near him. He bleached his hair and cut it into an "emo" look. He listens to only emo/metal/sreamo stuff. He's also become very easily offended and just mean spirited and touchy. I wouldnt mind any of these traits in somebody at all but because he's barely the same person anymore concerns me. I have never said anything negative towards him yet he continuously is becoming more of a d!ck with every passing month.

We were talking about connecting with people for a project and he asked if I know a person named (first name) Woodcock. When he said the last name it was louder than how he said the first name. Thing is there is no one with that last name in that department.....