I texted my friend Anna because last time we hung out and she ignored me. I ask her if we are cool and she never replied. That was a few days ago. So i texted my other friend Christine because she's also good friends with Anna. I told her the situation and she dismissed my hurt feelings. She didn't want to be there for me or at least tell me why Anna is being cold towards me. And Christine told me she knew why Anna didn't reply to my text. But she wouldn't tell me why... for some reason. I'm sitting here like Anna is ignoring me for some reason. And Christine won't tell me why while also ignoring how I feel. Am I being over dramatic?

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When around people of my own.. i feel closed out, ignored, no one basically want to give me a time to say anything.. with other people its the other way around.

My friend was supposed to be sleeping at mine tomorrow but instead she chose to go swimming with another friend then go to a meal with her parents. Her parents only told her today and I asked her yesterday. So after she said she couldn't come she said do you want to sleep at mine on Thursday and I said no sorry could you just come after your meal. She answered no it's to much messing around. The reason I didn't want to sleep at hers on Thursday is because it's my nans birthday and I haven't seen her in a while and also she's been quite sick this past week. Should I be mates with my friend or what should I do

2 weeks ago I went on excursion. This girl, who used to be almost my best friend in the past, started talking to me and previously we didnt talk to months. Last year she found new friends and she acted like she didnt know me and since then I was always the second choise. I was doing many things for her and when I asked her to do one simple thing she didnt do it so i stopped talking to her. But on this excursion she started acting really nicely to me, i tried ignoring her but she kept talking to me, i couldnt avoid talking to her.. we went in a club and she was following me the whole time and after the disco we went back together in our hotel.. the next day i asked her to go to lunch together but she just ignored me and after some time she just smiled at me but i ignored her.. after this i blocked her on fb.. should i feel used? I think yes. I am feeling so bad right now 💔😓 in addition,the last time she talked to me in school was when she needed a calculator (ONLY then). i promised to not talk to her but it just happened on this excursion. i really regret it rn.. and very rarely she would smile at me when in school.. whenever i saw her i would just ignore her and act like she wasnt there.. i didnt deserve that kind of a friend in my opinion.

DD16 wanted to go to a party Saturday night where there was heavy drinking. She had gone briefly to retrieve a friend who was drunk, and said a number of her other friends were there (also drunk) so she wanted to go back. I was dead against it. In my opinion, no good can come from a party like that. DH was overriding me and told her she could go - that it's a "rite of passage" and it would be good for her social status. He claimed there were other things to do at a high school party besides drinking (he suggested "dancing" and "talking to other kids"). A). DH isn't super social B). There wasn't dancing - they were playing beer pong So we got into a HUGE fight that ended with her staying home and DH and DD telling me how unreasonable I am. Quick back story - DH is 9 years older than me and was a partier but also didn't graduate high school. I didn't go to high school parties, but did go to our local bar with DH before I was old enough to. I admit, I'm a pretty strict mom. DD just got her license a few weeks ago and has to check in with me before she goes somewhere and when she gets there. She's a VERY responsible kid who is active in our church and respectful to most people (she's not perfect). So my question is: was I out of line by not wanting her to go the party? DH did know the adults who's house was hosting. Is it really acceptable for a 16 year girl to go to a party and get drunk? Am I being too strict by not letting her experience this?

my friends who are brothers worked with this shady person they became homies with. In time, this dude would hang with us. One morning, this person was able to steel 10 dollars from me. Told the bros about their friend and we all agreed that this guy was shady. Has a burglary background, has a kid he don't ever see nor care about really. Days later, they hanging with this shady person. Shady person eventually got a loan from one of our friends and hasn't been able to pay it back. The one bro, gave him a loan of some hundred dollars, and he still didn't get payed back. And they still chummy with the guy.

I'm at a point in my life, in my mid 30s, where I'm very active. I exercise regularly, eat right and love to be out all day. I have a lot of energy but it seems not a lot of people I'm associated with who I WANT to spend time with can match my energy. My best friend is overweight and is more "comfortable" doing low-key things. I've lost 2 other friends in the past year who don't have the same level of energy as me and it's sad because we could have a great time together if they actually wanted to meet up and go out. I don't like to be home sitting around watching movies or TV when it's warm out and there are so many places to go! My boyfriend also said he can't keep up with me - that I have too much energy for him even though we go running together and trek different places, he burns out really fast and wants to do nothing some days, which is ok. At my age I'm finding less and less people are active and energetic. Is this normal??

This isn't quite the correct term, but do you know anyone that hangs on your every word, like everything you say they repeat to you and others? Like if you say you like something just casually and in passing, then they repeat its the thing you like to you and others and act like you LOVE it? Or if you say you don't like something or don't prefer something, it's the same thing, then they repeat you don't like it to you or others or make a big deal of nothing? And they remember everything you say? So if you just give an answer to give an answer, it becomes gospel and has to be said again. It's hard to explain. But every once in a great while I come across people like this and they are simply exhausting. Everything taken in by them is then put back out but more extreme. And it's not that they're extreme people.

I hate them!!!my friends and my brother want to manipulate me really bad... They get very angry and insult me when i say something they dont wanna hear or when i dont do what they want... I am not their pet!!i am a free spirit What should i do????

I'm in AP Theatre Studio, alongside an old friend. (I'll call her Ann) We've been performing together since we were little, and now we go to the same school. The program is a joke, no one takes it seriously except us and we always slip away to the sound booth to run lines together. She's pursuing this as a career path, and I've always been blown away by how dedicated she is. Course, her family is rich and they've been financing her dream since she was five. My family is different. We make ends meet, but that's about it. Our political/religious/social views are all different, yet that's never been a problem. Our parents get along well, Ann's family likes me. Her mom carpools us to rehearsals, and sometimes I go over to her house after school and hang with her and her sister. When her family goes on vacations, they invite me to come along. Ann's cousins all think we're sleeping together, have joked before that we act like a married couple which makes us laugh - but is there any truth to that? We've never dated or talked about that. We snap-chat every night and sometimes she'll snap me while she's in the bath. When we go to the beach I'm the one who rubs sunscreen onto her back. She sleeps on my shoulder. We made out once at a cast party last year, but it was mainly post-show euphoria, and nothing came of it. Is this going to go somewhere or am I imagining things? It's never been awkward, we've always felt relaxed with each other, but are we becoming a couple?

So my prom is in a few weeks and my friend and I have no interesting way to get there. We don't want to go in a limo because its so cliché. We have been trying to come up with something original and inventive because everyone will see and we don't like to follow expectations. We would would really appreciate it if anyone has any suggestions. Thank you so much

Not justifying my feelings, just expressing them really. I actually have a couple people i consider my best friends. One of them a pretty long time ago met one of my acquaintances and they became inseparable. They were like the same person. sometimes I ll catch my friend saying "we" instead of "I." I m really glad they were able to find a friend who was so much on the same wavelength. It s really rare to find people like that. But can t help but feel left out, inferior, like we lost what we had when they met the other person. it s probably wrong to feel that way, but it certainly seems like we grew more distant as soon as they met the other friend. damn. Anyone else ever feel like this? what did you do?

What does it mean when a friend who I like doesn't make plans with me BUT when I make the plans she wants to come and when we are there she shows all the signs she likes me? My friends say let her make the plans but I know she won't so I'm making the plans. Kinda wanna ask her on a date

I got this friend who I like. And she shows all the signs of liking me too. I'm not going into detail on the signs but yeah. How do I get this girl to like me more, I plan on going to this fun place with her and our mutual friend this weekend, so should I keep making plans with her to build more attraction? Like should I keep saying let's go here and there so She can build more comfort towards me or should I make at least 2 more plans with her then ask her on a date right away because like I said the signs are pretty good. And Am I supposed to flirt because I'm always just being myself and she seems to like that a lot.. so how do I get her to say yes to a date

There's this girl who used to be my best friend. We went through some stuff and we don't speak anymore. I wouldn't say it ended super badly, but it definitely didn't end well, either. I've been thinking for a while about sending a text, email, letter, at least something. I've written a letter so many different ways, all filled with things I've wanted to say, and they sit in a file on my computer. I'm the one that pulled out of the friendship, officially, but I feel that I left some things unsaid and there is some closure that needs to be given. I just don't know if it's a good idea. I don't think she hates me, but she definitely doesn't like me very much anymore. I'm trying to weigh the pros and cons here. Pros would be potentially picking things back up if she's receptive. Cons would possibly include her being angry with me and sending something insulting back to me in response to my sending a letter, or her flat-out ignoring me. I suppose the worst that could happen is, well, nothing happens. Part of me is like, well what have I got to lose? But the other part of me doesn't want to push something if it's clearly over. I'm struggling to determine if this is something I should give another shot at or not. Opinions? What would you do in this situation?

I have an extremely special friend, were both girls, shes a lot older than me. We have big age differences, she is 57 i am 20. We talk every single day, she has helped me through so much as I have helped her. We've known each other for 3 years. In that time we have developed a special bond, we both like to call ourselves kindred spirits. Shes special to me and she has said the same about me to her. Today she said she is like my second mom, which she definitely is but why did she say it so randomly?

My best friend just left for deployment. This is our first deployment, so I am absolutely crushed. I didn't even get an address before they left (they told me they did have one, but it hadn't been tested yet to see if it worked/was legit). I was told I could start sending mail to them once it got verified as working and stuff. How long does that take to happen? I have been telling them from the start (even since finding out about them having to leave) that I'd be sending them mail. They were happy by that. I asked what they wanted to receive and they said literally anything I want to send will be perfect but did ask me for pictures to be included, so I'll honor their wish. I'm just worried I didn't get an address BEFORE they leave. Is that a common thing to happen? I am also saddened to know that they likely won't have internet at first. Any ideas when they may get it? We will primarily be using email to stay in touch, so I want to start being able to send and receive emails (and send actual mail) ASAP. Their safety is my biggest concern naturally, so I'm so upset that we may have to be without any contact for awhile. I will be extremely worried and anxious until I hear from them. I'm also worried about the address thing again. If there is no internet at first, how can they tell me the address has been verified? If anyone can help me with my questions I posted here and also maybe give me some good tips on how I can survive this first deployment I would really appreciate it! And no, they are not National Guard, in the Reserves, or in a special forces team (like SEALS, Green Beret, etc.). They are fully active duty though. I'm just really scared, worried and anxious. I hate not knowing when I can hear from them once they arrive to the country they're going to (or if they've even arrived safely for that matter) and stuff. Just hearing from them once a day or so quickly to say "I'm ok" would be enough. I just want to know they are safe and sound. We are very close. Another thing I want to ask about - we have been considering dating. Now, we both knew about this deployment... so we were a little leery on trying to start a relationship RIGHT before leaving and stuff. They have told me they want me there waiting for them when they arrive back home and I have agreed to it. My question is what if we would decide to go ahead and start dating DURING deployment? Any tips on that aspect? Could I get some tips for homecoming? I've never had to go to a welcome home ceremony for a service member. I know they are so amazing, beautiful and emotional though. I also know there are rules of course. We aren't sure of a date right now because it just started. I was just looking ahead and hoping to maybe get some tips. Should I be creative and make a sign for them? Also, with packages, are there are theme ideas anyone wants to share? I have my own list made but I'm open to suggestions. I know their email already. They told me to just use their usual, personal email I already have/know and I told them to use my email that's on my phone so I can get their messages easier. They are going to be in Afghanistan for 9 months. I'm not too familiar with "snail mail" so I'm not sure how long that might take to get sorted out. I'm just concerned over the no contact right now because I'm so worried about things. This is not a scammer. This is a well known in person friend. Thank you Mark B. I do understand daily contact isn't likely but I do want to send emails often when I can l just to keep him happy. I know he will be busy a lot. I also know that with security, no, you won't know a date. I was just wondering some tips for when that does happen. Like what to wear since it will be winter, whether a sign would be appropriate, etc.