My cousin is getting married this year on June 9th. I just got engaged a month ago and my fiancé and I picked our date for June 22nd of next year. We haven't even really told hardly anyone, but I think my cousin found out through my dad or her mom or something, and she's all upset saying we're trying to "steal her thunder" by getting married in June because her wedding will have been in June...even though ours isn't on her date and is a whole year later. She's saying we're being insensitive and should pick a different date in a different month because June is "their wedding month." Am I crazy or is she totally overreacting? It's a year away and not even near her date. I don't think she should really get to claim the whole month of June just because she got married first. I would understand if I had picked her date or something really close to her date but I didn't. It wouldn't be that much of a hassle to move the date because we haven't booked any vendors or anything yet, but I've always dreamed of being a June bride and my fiancé for other reasons really wants to get married in June. Are we being insensitive and should we move our date? Or should we keep the date and hope she gets over it? I really have no idea what to do.

So in the beginning of my brother's engagement he said he would make me his wive's honarary bridesmaid. I was very excited After six month in the engagement (today) my future sister in law sat me down and said, she would prefer to have close friends and her sisters to be her bridesmaids and insincerely apologized. This pisses me off. So I later confronted her and told her how much of a controlling ***** she is and just jealous because my brother loves me more and I even threatened to ruin their relationship. She was in tears and my brother was very upset with me and hurt that she didn't want me as her bridesmaid. Who's in the wrong?