I'm still very angry about it too. he told one of my other friends "no one cares about you and no one likes you so maybe you should just go away" now he meant to be sarcastic of course she got upset who wouldn't? I told him he needs to apologize but he refuses to do so. Since he claims he already did but knowing him when he doesn't feel like he's on the wrong his "apologies" are half-hearted. He refuses to actually and genuinely apologize to her. because he believes he did nothing wrong! he told me "I'll just avoid her i don't like her anyway" I tell him He NEEDS to say sorry and own up to his actions. yet he still refuses to do so. He refuses to admit he's wrong and own up to his actions and apologize. So for the past few days I've ignored him and shunned him out. he's quite upset at that. I've known him since kinder so I really don't want to end my friendship but if he continues to do so I will. The friend he insulted is a good friend of mine too I like her a lot.

Ive got a 1000 acre ranch and I invited some friends to come chill, have some bbq, and shoot some guns. Well I invited 6 friends. One of the guys invited 4 other guys I DO NOT LIKE. Should I just deal with it or cancel the entire event?

Hi everyone, So, a bit of a back story about these so-called "friends" We sat together way back in Middle and High school, playing yugioh and other card games. Sure, we played video games too but they'd always mock my choices in games. One of these "friends" invited me over, and his family ate dinner without me. Turns out he was also the first one to break off. Others started abandoning me over time, one by one. Sure I wasn't the nicest to them, but these guys were so fkin weird I seem normal, LOL and I called em on it. Looking back, the gang of Oddballs, Misfits and Freaks just stuck together to have strength against bullies. They found power in numbers. However, for the few I had left 10-15 years after the school years, I turned a bit hostile because all they'd do is play video games, with no ambition to move up or out in life, nor college (I was taking 12-16 credits) and it was annoying. So I distanced myself from this group, and they slowly but surely stopped associating themselves with me. Looking back we had barely anything in common. I liked adventures, hiking, cycling, academics, and liberal politics (they ganged up on me, dumb cons lol) I think it may be a two pronged scenario where I did some damage and they retaliated with their own nastiness. After many years without them, in a new setting I'm thriving, with new friends and currently two love interests I'm trying to balance. They're all still virgins. Losers Any feedback appreciated. ~Aizen

- I was speaking with another guy about something we have covered in class and when he saw me he said are you cheating on me b/c i was talking to the other kid. -he also said that my boyfriend is lucky to have me... then I said that I don't have one. - He compliments my hair and how I look. - He blows me kisses in middle of conversations... Is he just flirting and he is being friendly? or does he like me... I can't tell

I have a friend who I met a few months ago. Today we were texting and I mentioned something about us going to out together. I know she is hesitant about it mainly because of the place. But I sent a joke back saying she is coming no matter what we ll just have to figure out the details. She then sends me a text about how I need to let her decide...bc its a courtesy type thing. She sent a follow up text about how everything she said is in a caring tone. ^Am I a bad friend?

I am 13 and i want to have a party at my house. my mum said its fine but i want a PARTY. You know the ones with WKD BLUE and spin the bottle and having fun. I want to be able to have alcohol and invite about 30 people. All of my friends have these parties and my mum wont let me go to them. Is she being too over protective?? i really want this party and i really wan to just live a little like all of my friends are :( So how can i convince her to let me have THAT kind of party and how can i convince her to let me drink? x

That's just the type of person i am, I have anxiety and my parents told me to be home by 5 and it was already 6 i didn't want them to track my phone and i would get in big trouble. My friends are saying that they don't like how paranoid i was as if i can change the way i am. They also blamed me for making them throw the bud out the window, when that was their choice. I was just telling them to drive me back home because i didn't want to go home high when they are home.

Lol so it's mostly women . On rare occasions, I'll get a couple girl and a guy eating lunch together. I walk in the restaurant and his girl is laughing at me , then he starts . I notice people pay so much attention to me . I'm normal looking . 5'4, 115, black hair brown eyes . No tattoos nor piercings. Even if I did , why do people pay attention so much to other people's face ?

An older girl started laughing loudly at my jokes in class and she started talking to me and when I responded she had a big smile on her face and waited after class giggled with her friend and she scared me. She laughs loudly at stuff I say. Well whenever I make the first move and talk to her without prompting me to she does the scaring thing (Is this a nudge to ask her out)? She also tries to get us closer to each other if we talk and I start talking to her. She smiles a lot and from basic conversation gets red and has a big smile not standing still making poor eye contact. She finds out information about me to tell me what she heard. Her friend tries to get me to talk to her and asked me to chase after her. She can't start a conversation but will take my words and respond to me to try to talk to me she acts like a dog that wants its owners attention. Her friend has me talk to her and make propositions to me the girl can't do it. She wants a picture with me every opportunity she gets and when I'm minding my own business does it. She compliments me a lot too. Mirrors my words and I think I've seen her stare at me in class. Her friends inform her of my presence and a teacher she talks to told me she talks about me. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

After our friendship ended, i was able to separate from us being coworkers and friends. She has not. Now she is my boss. She has her eyes and ears on me a bit more than the others she supervises.,And....iI am the only female that works under her now.,Should I be concerned??I can hold my own so will need to confront her about anything, but I do not feel I can advance anymore in my career now that she is boss. I could be wrong,but why is she watching me?why?

I've had few male friends before, and only have one now. My mom wants me to make more male friends (I have much more female friends. She said "it's good that (my sister) has a group of boys she could call friends, because I don't think it's good to isolate." What are your opinions?

I've been friends with a girl I used to work with since 2010 and she quit in 2012. However her life is nothing but drama, for years I've listened for days on end about her problems... Hours on end through text. I've given her so much advice, and she always has done the opposite...When she is down she's clingy, when she's doing good she acts superior... She's in counseling, but I feel like she uses what she learns there to diagnose me with a illness... We are both involved with men who are divorced and have kids.. She's abused by him, and his kids hate her. However, I'm happy and his kids are ok with me... She trys to convince me my boyfriend is the same way but it's not at all... It's just so draining.. The other day I open my text and she had sent me a picture of her with slit wrist she had done a few moments before.. This friendship has become more of a burden than pleasure... I've been limiting my time with her and she's noticed and blames it on my boyfriend she thinks I'm being controlled... I've been feeling this way for a long time, way before he came into the picture.. I'm just tired of the constant negativity. Could I just not reply to her text, or should I give her a reason? I just want good people in my life, not toxic ones.

I have done much more in life than most 24 year olds I meet. Ive been holding down a good salaried job and have my master's degree, but I love to get wild and party. I longboard, travel to a new part of the world at least once a year, play music, write and more. Most people I meet who have traveled the world and are acedemics are stuffy and boring. They do not like going to camping music festivals, or taking psychedelics, like me. But my friends who are wild and party aren t able to talk about things like economics and differences in cultures they have observed through travel. They just always say "wow you know so much!!!" But I get tired of being the only one contributing to a conversation. Then people who are well educated like myself bore me to death. They just follow the rules and tend to have lived privledged lives and I seem quite jaded to them. Lately I have been meeting girls I think I have more in common with online. I am a bit nervous to meet up with strangers from the internet, but I also really would like to meet like minded friends. How do people feel about meeting people from the internet in person?

I'm 15 and she is about to be 12 she's kinda annoying at times and childish but really fun and goofy we've been friends for about 5 1/2 years 😭 I really miss talking to her our friendship always gets ruined over something dumb I wanna reach out to her and talk things out but I don't think she cares about being friends with me no more 😢 and she has me blocked on everything idk what to do she has gave me so many chances and i always ruin them so should I talk to her or just forget about her but she was basically my only friend that knew so much and understood me 😪

I am completely deaf(From a freak accident in my early childhood), but I read lips. I also have synesthesia. This makes me being deaf seem almost impossible because I can "hear". It's confusing, but when people speak, I see all these different colors and images and I can "hear" sounds, and every person has their own special "sound", color, and image. I have what's abbreviated as "PTSD". I was abused physically and sexually in my early childhood. I have bad visions and I flinch and cringe a lot when I see or "hear" certain things in public. I have a problem with stuttering too. Also, I sing. When I sing, it's pure, and smooth. I don't stutter once and it seems as if I am an angel walking on clouds. Everyone says how lovely and amazing I sing and they ask how I do it being deaf. Strangers always give me weird looks, and people in school are always making harassing me and telling me to kill myself because I am an "unwanted". They say that I am not special, I am just a "freak" and other people are lying when they praise me because they just don't want me to feel bad about myself. I hate myself for being good (if I even am) because people basically hate me for it. My parents love me so much and embrace me everyday as their "angel sent from heaven". My three closest friends say that I am a very special person. My other friends are good to me but when I turn my back they are talking trash about me. I just want to die. Just give me your thoughts. No hate please. Thank you so much for your support and comments. *Throws kisses* Oh, I am a female and I am 17 if this helps any. I can't believe I didn't write that, haha.

I mean, I've thought about it. After living for 25 years (as a woman) and not having any long term friends and after all these failed friendship attempts I've had for the past 3 years, I believe that nobody really likes me for who I am and I'm better off as someone else. A lot of people my age don't (or didn't) like me. I won't paint myself as a victim, because I do feel like I did unintentionally do things that made people avoid me. If I wasn't acting all weird and doing strange things in college (and hs/ms, but that's the past), some females wouldn't have been so hostile towards me and I would have female friends already. I should have realized a long time ago that people hate others who look/act different. Where I live, there's a "no new friends" mentality, meaning that people aren't interested in friendship. That's why I feel like It's too late to make friends where I live. I did attempt to talk to my family members about my issue, but all they seem to care about is that I'm doing better than the people who hated/bullied me academically. They think I'm a drama queen for being insecure. Being book smart doesn't make me feel good nor superior at all.

All of the guys overly uses the word gay in their sentences,. They all dress talk and act the same and physically look alike and hang with each other, they don't seem to be variety, They say hurtful things to people to try to make them cry or get upset and they mock then and laugh,. They tend to have this twisted up mindset that anyone who avoids conflict or doesn't fight back is 'weak and deserves to be bullied, If you say anything to them they are quick to start an intellectual argument with you,.I'm talking about shouting in your face abusive talk, They tend to bully anyone that they don't like, or think they can get away with. it is mostly verbal abuse, If you stand up to one you will likely get beat up, All of the women around here tends to seclude themselves around these type of guys, These women are even 40 and 50 and just secluded themselves with these type of guys, The women don't seem to have any other guys to hang with but these kind and that is it, Any suggestions?

Specifically stating at you in a cold way as if they are trying to instigate an altercation.. and by the way, you don't know this person from a can of paint !

Is it a lesbian crush, obsession or do you think I just really admire and like her as a friend only? I'm being obsessed over someone who I shared a brief friendship with during my childhood years. When i was in 5th grade there's a university student who worked as a volunteer at my primary school temporary. She works with me every week in my class. At that time i was only a 10 year old child and she is a 20 year old women. I don't even know why I get attracted to an adult. She's a nice and friendly person, I immediately warm up to her since the first day I met her. We talked together regularly at class and I really enjoy her company. After I left primary school, we didn't see each other again. A few year later, I attempted to reconnect with her via email. She was happy to hear from me again at the beginning but after awhile I tried to message her again for a few more times over the course of several days and she will only give shorts replies and never initiates a conversation. Although she still reply to my message, but I sensed she is no longer interested to maintain contact with me anymore and she's only replying to my message just to be polite. From then on, I got the hint and stopped contacting her again. Now it's been more than 9 years since I last heard from her, but I still think of her from time time? How can I move on and stop being fixating on a person who is long gone from my life.

Noah is a team leader. He gets a complaint that a product's template was incorrect on a particular project. Altho another worker called Karen was responsible for that project, he & the boss are the only ones who do templates. Noah emails back to the building area that he'd have it fixed while CCing Karen. She quickly fixes it in the file, responds that she did that, and then explains herself. Noah replies to her while CCing the building area and whoever edited her work that she has to watch out and that something was missing. She asks how was she supposed to know and that she was never taught how to do templates. He replies to her while CCing their boss and using the phrases, "Logic" and that she should've known better. Karen has no more than half of the amount of seniority Noah has. She replies that she didn't notice, brings up how he copies other people whenever he indicates faults, asks him to read the HR manager's email tips, and then tells him to overcome it. Then he replies to her that she likes to be truculent and that he lets their boss know how she is. She replies that's what he gets for he failing to comply with pieces of advice and that she's not going to tolerate any more of his rudeness. Which colleague would be in-the-wrong? Noah or Karen? Sorry for the typo. "he" shouldn't have been between "for" and "failing"

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We've been friends for over 15 years. We're almost polar opposite in every way but get along very well. She's super smart, sociable, play a lot of extreme sports, emotionally tough, wear athletic outfits, walk and talk fast. I'm more on the girly side, play music, paint and dance salsa, wear dresses, quite shy, not very social, I sit alone at coffee shops reading books on my spare time. We share personal stories, been there for each other in all highs and lows. Barely fight. The only thing that makes me wonder sometimes is why i'm not anywhere on her social media (it's been over 7 years), but all of her other friends are. When we go out, travel or hiking together, she either posts her alone photos or not posting about about the events at all. She sees all of my instagram photos but never once "like" any of them, whereas she "likes" her other friends photos all the time. She did say I look too polish all the time, but i'm not even sure that's the reason. I don't know if it's because of our differences or anything else. Do you experience the same thing with your close friend?

- I was speaking with another guy about something we have covered in class and when he saw me he said are you cheating on me b/c i was talking to the other kid. -he also said that my boyfriend is lucky to have me... then I said that I don't have one. - He compliments my hair and how I look. - He blows me kisses in middle of conversations... Is he just flirting and he is being friendly? or does he like me... I can't tell

Hey, my name is Al. I am looking for advice on what I should do. I live in a town which I'm gonna call it (x) and I live 30 miles from the town (y) where I go to school. I have my license so I can drive to school. I spend a lot of money on gas. I don't want to leave my friends in (y) and my football coach has offered me starting varsity positions. If I went to (x) I'd save a lot of money like 3/4 of how much I make in one summer. I know some people in (x) but it's the same as the kids I've grown up with. Can you guys please give me an idea of what I should do?

I was working as a delivery person with waitress friend who's also my friend outside of work. It was downpouring hard and I asked if I could use the raincoat she has in her car (I knew she has one). She goes "Uh yeah, I GUESS" with this face that tells me she really doesn't want me to. So I say "Nevermind, I didn't realize it was gonna be that big of a deal." and she just ignores me. So I ignored her the rest of the night. Overreaction on my part? Yeah but I had a right to be upset. Right?

He was my best friend and now we are in love with each other and my parents don't want me to be with him because they are strictly religious and I am not allowed to have any associated with non religious people and this guy treats me like a queen and my parents think he is bad and I am almost 18 but still not done with high school what do I do

I used to do cross country and they didn't but when they joined track, they were so good at it. They also usually brag about some stuff like: I did swimming, softball, basketball and volley ball when they know that I didn't do any sports because I didn't have the same opportunities. I also had a crush on a person and I told them and they agreed but later, the decided that they didn't want to and I found out that they liked my friend. Whenever I'm hanging out with them, their friends don't make an effort to be friends with me and they just think of me as my friend's shadow. I was in a store and we were going down an aisle and one of their friends said: where's the pretty one? And the group responded with: there are two. Which one? The person said: The pretty one. We could hear them the whole time and it really crushed me because everyone seems to like them so much more than me. I also made an effort to be friends with this other girl because she is so nice to hang out with. She is never judgey and is really nice but then my friends comes over to track and they become good friends and they do things together because they have more things in common. I just feel like they are liked more than me and I'm just left out because I'm not liked as much. They also say some mean things. For example, When I was on a road trip field trip thing, towards the end we were talking about track and she made fun of me saying that she got medals and I didn't and laughed. That made me feel sad