Men who eat like pigs, are 100 lbs overweight, have no hobbies except watch TV and play video games, who have crappy jobs, who smoke and drink, who is not exciting at all, has no personaity, etc. Women MARRY these types of men. I don't get it. Why wouldn't you want to marry a guy who strive to be good fathers and husbands, who have good jobs, are intelligent, who workout and stay fit and healthy, who have cool and interesting hobbies, who try to be the best person they can be, instead of wallow in their own lard of fat on the couch and fart and burp all the time and smoke a pack a day

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Married man of 30 years wasn't getting enough love or sex at home so he started an affair with a woman half his age who fell in love with him. This girl thinks the world of this man and puts him on a pedestal every single day because she loves him. He loves her too but in a very different way that he loves his wife, and he has no intention of ever leaving his wife. Knowing that he has no future with his mistress but cares about her deeply, he tells her that he wants the best for her, that she deserves a pure relationship with a man who can hold her every night. After 2 years, the mistress is finally starting to show signs of moving on with someone else, and the married man is showing signs of jealously, asking who she's spending her time with and getting upset when she's not there to talk. He told her he wants this for her, but at the same time won't share her and reiterates the importance of being open and honest in his relationships. LMAO, the irony in that! WTF is up with this?

I can't stop thinking about this incident from over a year ago. I've let it go? but don't understand why my husband didn't admit it happening. We took our very openly gay friend in a weekend trip to the city. We stayed in the same hotel and on the second night while we were getting ready and dressed up- I pointed out a stain on my husbands suit, told him it was ok it'll come out with some water. While our friend was finishing up from his shower my husband nocked on the door asked for a washcloth and in the mirror I was using I saw him open his towel very obviously flash my husband. My husband just stood there it made my stomach drop. When I confronted him about the situation and asked what that was about he had no idea what I was talking about laughed like it was nothing and I was crazy.

I attended a friend's gathering only to be at one pointed blindsided by a guy in his 30s who, though I knew existed, had never met personally. Anyway, he tells me out of the blue that he thinks I'm gorgeous, and we exchanged contact info. He asks me to give him the opportunity (to date me) and makes a point to ask me not to hook up with anyone for the night, though we did not, either. After that night he has not reached out and has actually been avoiding me whenever possible. What's even more ironic is that I haven't reached out to him since our convo ended, nor have I made any overt advances, and so I wondered on what basis he is avoiding a person who is not taking action on his behalf. Anyway, seeing him act this way has only solidified my desire to stay away from him and I am now getting ideas about what idiotic things may be happening behind he scenes. I did like him up until this point and now only wondering what's happened.

i just want to know if you think this is normal. My SO has a brother who cheated on his wife while she was pregnant 14 years ago. He has since married this woman and had 2 children with her. Now the 1st wife. She has never moved on and we all think this is a bit odd. She has showed up at family functions to drop off the son (even though she wasnt invited) and also is still in all the exes extended family lives. She has even reached out the nieces and nephews and their current gf/bfs of the ex husband and she doesnt even know these people!! She was in a relationship with someone and he left her because of this attachment. Some cousins and I believe she hasnt moved on. And we are starting to say avoid her..because who knows what she will do next. are we all paranoid...or do you think this is odd

This guy kept staring at me from across the room, our eyes were always glued on each other. I felt we were attracted to each other and we were flirting. One night I said I thought about texting you he said "yea do that". At the end of the evening he told me "text me, you got my number right". He hugged me and said take care of yourself. Few days later I texted him, I got response. So I texted him and asked if I had the right number. He said he didn't realized I had texted him. I asked if he was working out if State, he said "Yes ma'am". I asked if he was too busy to talk. I got no response. I added "BTW drop the ma'am your making me feel old lol". Later that evening I texted and asked how old he was. Still no response. Next evening I sent " you're not much of a talker or texter". Next day I told him, he has my number he can text me if he wanted because I didn't want to look like a weird stalker. A few days later I sent how's work going. I got no response. From any of these. I know he works out of state for 2 weeks then home for 3 days so he could be out of cell phone service. I will be seeing him again in about 1 week at karoke night, not a date but we always run into each other here but now I feel like a fool and feel embarrassed to even face him because I screwed up and kept texting him. I thought he was interested that's why he said to text him. Now I think I was reading mire into this. Like I said our eyes were always glued to each other.

I attended a friend's gathering only to be at one pointed blindsided by a guy in his 30s who, though I knew existed, had never met personally. Anyway, he tells me out of the blue that he thinks I'm gorgeous, and we exchanged contact info. He asks me to give him the opportunity (to date me) and makes a point to ask me not to hook up with anyone for the night, though we did not, either. After that night he has not reached out and has actually been avoiding me whenever possible. What's even more ironic is that I haven't reached out to him since our convo ended, nor have I made any overt advances, and so I wondered on what basis he is avoiding a person who is not taking action on his behalf. Anyway, seeing him act this way has only solidified my desire to stay away from him and I am now getting ideas about what idiotic things may be happening behind he scenes. I did like him up until this point and now only wondering what's happened.

He is a good person with integrity and a good work ethic. I value that how I can I deal with his lack of intelligence. I feel like I make him feel dumb or he may think I'm full of myself. I'm not but I know how to pronounce words and I don't use words unless I know the meaning. He does that a lot.

So me and my Husband, John, have been married for 3 years now, and I can't help but to think that he is starting to catch feelings... I don't know how to let him down easy. I just don't want that guy trying to pull that "I love you" bs.... He sends me flowers and always tries to take me out to eat, so I'm pretty sure that he likes me. How do I let him know that I don't feel the same way?

My husband wants to adopt a puppy. We already have 2 senior dogs (I adopted them prior to marriage). I'm not against another dog, but his timing is off. We have a beach vacation coming up soon. Our two seniors are going with us because they're housetrained & well-behaved. The puppy would come too, but when I told him that the puppy would need to be in a crate when we're not in the beachhouse, he got mad. He thinks the puppy should be free to roam the house. I warned him about chewing, peeing & pooping, but he didn't seem to care. He says I am making a big deal out of it. I told him they were legitimate concerns.