At my wedding. When the priest says I can kiss the bride would it be savage of me to grab my wife's butt while kissing her or offensive

My friend is getting married. It's her 3rd marriage, they've been living together for 3 years. They included a note in their wedding invitation that they want gift cards. I think that's tacky, I think that people in their mid thirties on their third marriage shouldn't be asking for gifts. Yes, she's only 34, has 4 kids from 2 different guys,are and is getting married again. Whatyou think?

I have an old antique engagement ring that is going to be my wedding ring. Who would I contact to get information about the ring? I would like to know who made it, the time period, what metal is used, etc.

Me and my boyfriend are planning on getting married in the next few months, we re both 19 and wondering once we leave the wedding to a hotel, how could we drink? I know you can drink if you re with parents, could they write a letter or something?

He doesn't treat her badly. He just doesn't care about her at all. She never had a dad and it looks like he's not planning to be a dad to her. When I talk to him, he says « she's not my daughter ». What should I do?