becuase my dad was ill from when i was 12 and now im 17 all my life was feeding him and moving him and mom clening him he cant move or talk or anything so we do everything i hope he gets better but its just that all my life never did anything never been out or did highschool girls stuff all i did was taking care of my dad , i want when i get older to live my life and do what ive never done and take care of myself

Can a parent be unattractive and their daughter that resembles them be more attractive?

I feel like she doesn't treat me the same as everyone else here in my dads house. I've never done anything to her. If I feel I'm being attacked by her I'll attack back. Why does she act fake and nice when people are around but when people aren't around she sniffs or coughs at me or only when she thinks I'm the only one around. it's not my fault I have tics and can't control them. why doesn't she mess wit someone her own size and age? Why doesn't she treat me fairly and the same as everyone else?

Need help with a family problem!! There is this woman from our church community who has always tried to meddle in my family affairs. She has her own family. I wish she would just focus on that. My sister and I are 10 years apart and my parents are Kind of permissive. The woman is manipulative and found since I was young she couldn't manipulate me like she did everyone else. My sister however, she got a hold on. She has been acting like she takes her 'under her wings' but in reality she is just brain washing her. Now my sister is turning 18 she would invite her to stuff without the rest of the family especially me. I feel like it's creating a drift between the family as my sister seems to be distrustful of her own family now. It hurts my feelings. The woman in questio, her family is kind of prominent among us. How do I handle this? I feel like she is making us out to be the bad guys.

I had a child who is now one, with someone who is 25 and lives with his grandmother, his grandmother happens to be crazy & really rude. I was working full time to take care of my child and the father had one job, to just watch the baby. I found out this whole time his grandma has been talking crap about me and my son, saying my son isn't welcome at her her house & being disrespectful towards me & mad because my son screams and cries sometimes. I overheard her talking today saying she would never kick out her grandson (my sons father) but me and my child aren't welcome. I also live with my grandparents and they don't mind my child's dad coming over but he can't spend the night, so that's why I had my son here to begin with. I really wanted to save to get a place but I couldn't do it with just one income, I asked the dad to help out and get a job maybe overnight to help but I honestly don't think he will. I never see him do any apps, he always says tho if I leave (me & the baby) he's gonna do this & that for himself. But nothing pertaining to helping me with the baby. I think he's trying to make me be a single mother and take care of my son on my own and I said that was fine but I refuse to do it undocumented because I don't want him to think he can walk into my child's life when he feels like it and I'm tired of his crazy grandma talking about my son when that's supposed to be her great grandchild. What do I do to get him and his family out the picture legally?

My sister is a 23 year old bully (narcissist) enabled by our mother.

I'm a teenager, moody and annoyed because we both have big egos. He has stopped talking to me after an argument with my mother in which it was entirely his fault and he said horrible things about her and her family. So why is he taking it out on me? Because I love her? Well obviously. That guy needs to get less butthurt over things and man up. He can't just stop talking to us. Tomorrow I have a party and I have nothing to wear as it is a particular theme. I never buy any clothes for myself because he's always so conscious about money. I put aside my ego for a few minutes and asked him politely whether he'll come to buy me a dress as he doesn't allow my mother to spend any money. He legit ignored me and walked off. How am I supposed to deal with this? Should I just tell my friend I can't come to the party?

My mom is always mad and she is putting too much pressure on me. She is always shouting for no reason and when she is mad she starts to do things that even crazy people with no mind don't do. She starts hitting her head with her hands and throwing stuff at the ground and acting in a way that is so funny but sad at the same time. She is out of her mind. I can't bare this anymore. She gets mad at things that don't even make sense. We live in a building that has about 6 families and all of these families hear her voice when she shouts and I fear very embarrassed. She shouts at me infront of people and infrot of my friends. I can't go anywhere with her because I feel embarrassed. What he **** is wrong with her. I even thought of committing suicide once. I feel like I am living in hell whenever I am in home. I wish I can go away from this house but I can't. I am sure that no one can stand this life I am living. I can't even describe this. You can't imagine how our home looks like because of her.

Earlier today, I packed up my 1 year old son, jumped in the car, and ATTEMPTED to make a few extra dollars to help pay for my real estate class. 3 years ago, at the age of 21, his 33 year old father and I moved to another state leaving behind all of my family and support (his family lives here). 2 years later, BOOM! We have a son. He told me to quit my job & that he would take care of us. Worst decision of my LIFE! I live with my child's father. He walks around with a $5,000 necklace, $10,000 Rolex, $15,000 pair of earrings, has a paid off 2012 Audi, 2012 Mercedes, & 2014 Jeep refuses to assist me with 450 towards bettering myself (real estate class). He treats me poorly and uses my vulnerability to his advantage. Here's raw footage of what I go through on a daily basis!!!! https://youtu.be/vbyq8bEMmsU I could easily get a job. He'll take all of my money, put it towards our bills, and make me pay for my own childcare. I will be left with crumbs and never have enough to move back home. After all, he wants me to feel TRAPPED! I have $60 in my bank account. Today, I tried to sell my old iphone to someone on OfferUp for $180 to make some of the money. I met the man at a public library for my safety. Long story short, he STILL managed to rob me for my phone. He blames ME for it happening. (As if I'm not already going through enough) "If you want to take the class, you go out and make the money yourself"

I live with my mother, her mother and my uncle. He keeps throwing same jokes every day that after 20 years is making me sick. My grandmother follows me around the apartment whatever I do and trying to make me do things her way. My mother keeps scolding me for not "following their flute" repeating that there are other people around me and denies me even 10 min. of reading which helps me to fall asleep, instead I have to be ready to listen and hear whatever they have to say. I am an English teacher of adults. Every day I have to ask people: "What do you need/, What is better for you? and so on. I am working for no less than 10 hours every day but don't get even 300 euros. I have been looking for another job for 2 years without luck, so I can't afford moving out because renting prices in my country even for one room apartment is no less than 400 euros and 600 in winter.

I'm 16 and I hate my parents telling not 18 I hate living with them

I feel so mad cause these two family members aren't looking for my grandmas best interest. One said"A" that if the other one didn't do work around the house then she would leave, I told her that she needs to talk to her sister and not take it out on my grandma. My grandma lend her car out to a childhood friend that had helped her out a lot in their time and every birthday she takes her out to eat up to this day. This other family provider"B" said she wasn't going to take my grandma anywhere cause you are not supposed to lend out a car. My grandma is old she is almost 90 and I tell her that when she needs a ride anywhere to call me and I will gladly take her. My grandma is sick from her heart so I don't want to tell her what I think about her providers/our family members. I fell like telling them what I think and its not a pretty vocabulary. All I care about is my grandmas well being but she sees me as less, she sees these two other people as better people than me. I love her with all my heart, I take her to appointments and I stay to explain what is going on. Recently she showed a lot of care for my brother and I was excited to see she didn't forget him but she didn't care about me she knows what my brother did to me and she chose him. I understand but I want to know why she chose him and not me

If your teen was sober when they did it? what about if your teen was drunk or high too when they did it? btw I don't have kids im only like 16 and just wanna know peoples answers for a story im writing

So my little stepsister thinks she's boss get this she claimed my cats were hers at my house my house!! So how do I make her cry and feel so hurt and so depressed that she will fear me and won't tell trust me she's the big bully

I have a rare condition called Russell Silver Syndrome, it comes with being very small, poor vision and hearing and mild learning disabilities. I wear hearing aids and glasses. I can cook, clean, use washer and dryer and take care of myself and our dogs and cats, but she still refuses to let me live on own. The few other people I know with RSS live on their own and two in particular have worse and a little more impairments than me and get by just fine on own. I am fed up with her and living with her is just making me miserable and rather be dead. Now that our lease is going to be up in a few months, my mom is looking at houses for us and it just makes me more angry and depressed when she talks about and/or shows me one. She'll say like, "isn't this cute," or "don't you like this one?" I just say yes. My sister asked her if I could move in with her, but my mom said no, because of this job training I don't need, because my last job lasted for 5 years. I was forced into the worst six month job in my life making $7 an hour. Now my sister has a roommate, so living with her is out of the question. My mom doesn't like me looking for places, even online or in newspaper. She hides the classifieds and home section of our paper and looks at my history on iPad and phone. I have no friends and am still single going on seven years. I also hate where I live and I most certainly don't fit in, but I was forced to move 5 hours away from my sister and dad (divorced). What do I do? I have a better job now, but before this one, I was in the cruddy job training job. I can't just move out. I tried that and she called the landlord and said I wasn't mentally stable to live there. She brings the legal crap into it too, like she'd be thrown in jail if she let me live on my own. I ask for proof of that and she can never find it, because it doesn't exist because I've looked it up and asked our state head of housing division about it and they said there's no such thing.

This is about my uncle, he's temporarily living in our house and it's been absolute hell. He's in his 50's and he is extremely immature. He likes to get in my face and scold me for the way I talk, which he thinks is disrespectful (which it isn't) and does the same to my little brother and sister. He has also eaten my expensive snacks I buy from Amazon, argues with my mom (who is disabled and has paid my uncle's damn medical bills), and moves my dad's stuff around in the bathroom. He's generally just a nuisance and a waste of air... so thanks in advance.

First off I do want to move out on my own but I've got a few things stopping me, I'm not financially able to as my checks i get goes directly to her and I don't see a cent of it and two... I have literally no where else to go. It's gotten so emotionally draining at times that I will literally go into my room and contemplate whether I should just pack some bags and leave,then figure out what to do later but I know that'll end in disaster. I honestly feel trapped with no way out. Is there places or like organizations that help with moving from situation like this or should I just keep trying to figure out a way to leave?

It is my Mom's brother and his wife. They are having a graduation party in June for their daughter who is graduating from high school. They did not include me and if I go without being invited they will be mad. I want to be a part of the extended family clan so even though this uncle is not the nicest I have to know him to know the other 26 people in the clan. My Mom and siblings and I are not in the clan cause my Mom disowned her father years ago for suffering from alcoholism. I always feel so sad when excluded from an event over my Mom's wrongdoing. Since it is an alcoholic family I cannot speak openly about it. (apparently a common symptom of alcoholism).

I'm 27. My dad has something negative to say whenever I bring up an accomplishment that my boyfriend makes (example getting a raise getting a book published), all because my boyfriend didn't finish his degree. My dad even told me to tell him to finish it or I'll break up with him. I told my dad no in response. The amusing thing about that is my dad would make those type of threats to me all the time growing up... that's why I moved out as soon as I could. This conversation with my dad is still bothering me today. almost a week later. I am annoyed that he wants me to carry on the negative patterns that he showed me as a kid. My dad never had a successful relationship (parents divorced and he is still single). Obviously any sane person wouldn't want to date someone who makes threats. Should I talk to him (dad) directly about this?

I'm so lost and confused and I don't know what to do or say to her. I caught her watching nude movies on our tablet when she knows it's not something she could watch. I might have overreacted and cried when I discovered her and she lied! I think it might have been happening for a while and I know it is entirely my fault for not keeping a closer eye on her. Does this happen to other parents at such a young age? What did you do? What do I do? I'm lost.

I had a half day yesterday, so I only had to go to school on the afternoon. After I went to school, was around the time my brother had lost his wallet somewhere around the house. When I came back to school, my brother was frantically looking for his wallet and messed up the entire house in his search. I agreed that I will help him, but my parents were constantly telling them to give him his wallet, even when I told them that I didn t know anything about the wallet and he lost it after I left. So, I eventually found it after like half hour of searching, and they are still accusing me of hiding the wallet before I left to school, instead of being grateful that I found it. They believe since I found it "so fast" I must ve hidden it. ughh telling me***