I am Catholic and my family always taught me the importance of marriage in the Catholic Church and all that stuff. My Mom is trying to push me to have the full mass for the wedding but I feel that its too much. Its beautiful and meaningful I get it but lets be real most people are waiting for the reception. I know it will only add an extra 15 minutes but we already have readings from the Bible and lighting unity candle. I think thats Catholic enough lol

I have two ring bearers a 5 year old and 3 year old. I really don't think that they will be able to stand throughout the whole ceremony. Their father is in the wedding party but mother is not. Im thinking of just sitting them down with their mom. My flower girl is a bigger problem though, she is only 4 and I don't want to risk her standing up at the altar and having her complain. Both her parents are in the wedding party though and she has no other family members coming to the wedding. Who should she sit down with?

I want to surprise my sister and brother in law with a vacation for their honeymoon. Where do you guys think would be the best place from these 4 choices: London, Paris, and Amsterdam (8 days) Bali and Lombok (11 days) Japan (8 or 9 days) Greece (9 days) I know it's also personal preference based on what they like but I have no idea on how to ask them indirectly without giving the surprise away. I don't want to be like, "If you could hypothetically go anywhere..." That's way too obvious, you know.