When I go to this one area i get snubbed and bullied by the people, people tends to get critical with me and they carry the likliness to cause a fight, Other than that I find myself told off, chewed out, put in my place frequent, When I go back to my home area, I don't have any of this stuff, Why is it like that?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months & I love him. I immediatly noticed he was the type to ALWAYS get a few drinks when we went out, but did not think anything of it. A few months in, i noticed he would call me occasionally slurring a lot and realized he may be drunk, but assumed he went out with friends. Over the past 5 months of us getting very close, i have smelled alcohol in his breath so many times. I have the key to his apartment and when I sneak by, i see huge new bottles of vodka, rum, whiskey...each finished to its entirity in a day or 2! i finally decided to confront him 3 months ago and he laughed saying he has control over it & already recognized he should "probably" cut down & will do it. Despite my efforts several more times since then, he just bushes it off & tells me not to worry, mind you, he has attended MED school & is doing surgical residency right now. With his ego, telling a doctor he has a drinking problem & needs help will never get anywhere. I still continuously see a new large bottle in his trash or drawers, smell it in his breath (despite his efforts to hide it from me w/ mouth wash), & it is beginning to impact our relationship & intimacy bcuz he often gets VERY h*rny when he sees me and initiates great sex, but cant stay fully hard/c*m. He is going through a very hard time right now with intense surgical residency making him exhausted, bad relationship with his family, money concerns/life changes..but all is NO EXCUSE. He is VERY good at hiding his drinking, most of the time you would NEVER suspect he has even had a drink! Today I went over & could actually really tell this time by his slurring/strange behavior & 30 mins in he threw up REALLY bad. That was the last straw. I sat down and had a serious talk with him but he kept brushing me off/giving me attitude. It just ended up with him going to sleep and ignoring it. I love him so much, but i dont know what to do anymore. I am 22 and he is 28.

I am in a relationship we've a daughter together and I've 4 other children. I have my own money he has his. I earn very little he earns a lot. He has his hand out every week for half the rent on a council house he got because of my kids. I pay half the rent, all the food, all the electric, all the heating costs and I also support our daughter. I'm angry that he has his hand out for half the rent every week. While he brags he has 1000s in his bank account, constantly buys take away and I'm worrying have I enough money to get through the week. He complains about what food I'm giving him that here isn't enough and he's going to buy a2000 car while I'm struggling to get 300 together for us all to go on holidays. Advice please. Is it ok for him to expect money off me every week when his contribution to the house is half the rent and nothing more😡

I will be turning 30 this July. I don t know what to do though? It falls on a weekday, Wednesday. Should I just spend my Saturday at the Spa, getting a hot stone, deep tissue massage w/feet, hand and face treatments, solo? I don t have kids but my BF... oh, he is practically my baby. Or should I co to Six Flags since we have season passes, we can get in for free. I could invite my sisters, their kids and we d have a pizza party while riding rides and hanging out at the water park. OR should I book a few campsites and go hangout outdoors again, BBQ and hit up the river. I am so undecided, please what would you do given those options or what else would you do to ring in a new year of LIFE! :D Maybe I should invite a few girls out and go dancing... haven't done that in awhile. :)

We've always been fine with each other until this year. I'm on a gap year and (thankfully) leaving to uni in September. Lately, everything I do seems wrong in her eyes and she always seems frustrated with me. The fact that I've got a first boyfriend is foolish to her (I am 19) - she told me she was "ashamed" of me when I stayed over at his house (we didn't even do anything, if you know what I mean!) - it feels like everything I do is wrong in her eyes. We've had so many arguments (well, her shouting at me and saying she can't take things like me loading my worries onto her anymore) that I constantly feel scared of when the next one is. I feel anything I say or do will upset or anger her. Is this a common thing with mothers as their kids grow up? We used to be so close and I shared everything with her... now I feel like I am the biggest disappointment to her in every way possible

Hace tres años en la universidad una chica me rechazó. Hoy en día he superado el sentimiento de afecto y el de rechazo. Pero lo que siento al día de hoy es envidia de ella (muy diferente a celos) ¿Por qué? Siento como si hubieran dos vidas de las que tienes que ocuparte: La vida que dedicas a tu vocación y la vida que dedicas a las personas. Siento que a duras penas puedo con la primera, y que me va mucho peor en la segunda. Mientras que ella ya es una celebridad en mi carrera, algo que por cierto pasó tiempo después del rechazo. Todo el mundo la conoce porque está en todo: Muchos docentes siempre la mencionan, es auxiliar y (por lo que todo mundo dice) es excelente en ello, en el grado en el que estoy ahora estamos estudiando un proyecto suyo que nos enseña a nosotros como hacerlo, todos dicen que es bonita (y YO SÉ que lo es porque tiene una belleza singular) y como cereza sobre el pastel ya tiene novio Y sin embargo yo, a mis 21, jamás he tenido pareja (de hecho ella fue la única a quien me confesé) y actualmente un amigo y mi hermana ahora me odian, y siempre solo he sido visto como el amigo a quien le cuentas tus problemas pero nunca con alguien con quien quisieras divertirte y menos como una potencial pareja. Y créanme que yo no hago nada como beber, fumar, etc. Y sin embargo siempre siento como si yo fuera quien siempre se tiene que llevar la peor parte.

How do I tell my roommate he has to go? I'm really anxious about confronting him. I live in a 3-bdrm NYC apt with my best friend, my fiance, and this other rando. Rando doesn't do anything egregious like steal; he's just awful in 1000 small ways & I can't stand him. He's always the victim. No matter what's happening, he has it worse. Fiance has a brain tumor? Well he's depressed. Our workplace is cutting our pay and hours and threatened to fire my fiance entirely when we're in a medical and financial crisis? Well he has an unsubstantiated paranoia that MAYBE his boss might cut his job. He pretends to be so vulnerable so he can say no to everything, like doing his share of cleaning. A few months ago while my fiance was visiting, she wound up in the ER and they found a brain tumor. They did emergency brain surgery and we've been battling this tumor ever since with no family support at all. This roommate barely let her stay so I can take care of her (had to bribe him with $200/month), ignores us, never asks how she is or what's happening with her health, doesn't clean, NOTHING. We are his personal maids, actually. When he had elective, gender-affirming surgery, he required round the clock care and we all had to step in and cook for him, do things for him, etc. when his friends & fam didn't show up. It was a nightmare. Now he's better and he can't even ask us how we are doing when he comes home and finds us crying because we have more bad news. I HATE HIM HELP WHAT DO I SAY

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My boyfriend just got cleared to go back to work from the docs, he had to have surgery on his wrist. 3 months ago he got in a car accident and had a bad concussion so he went to physical therapy but hasn't gone in 2 months about to be 3 now. I work mostly every day with one day off to pay the our car payment, car insurance and then my half of rent in total it's $860ish. He then asks me for money to go get something to eat or whatever else he needs and I keep telling him no because I need the money for rent or the full car payment since he can't pay his half. His mom is currently paying his rent which is 490 a month. The car payment is 370 and the insurance is 152. I keep telling him to go get a job and apply and he keeps saying he can't he hasn't been cleared by the doc for his concussion... but it's been almost 3 months! He drives,smokes,plays video games, does regular people stuff that's why It's starting to annoy me because he could go get cleared and start finding a job but instead is at home all day smoking or sleeping or playing video games. I don't know what to do at this point I'm a very patient person but this is getting out of hand...