I'm 19, she is 56. I have been friends with this lady for 2 years, we are both girls. We have been through it all together. She has helped me through school, trainings, personal things. We have gone through happy times, sad times, we laugh together, we cry to each other, we have so much in common and our lives are so similar. We talk every single day on the phone, she will call me every single day in the morning before work Or during the day in her break times she will call. We tak at least 4 times a day, each call about 15-20 minutes, its sweet. We text, share exciting things, we talk about EVERYTHING and anything, girl stuff, boys, life, family stuff... I absolutely just love talking to her. We have a special bond, we have both mention what a special blessing we are to each other (her to me, me to her) she even tells me how I have become a special person in her life. Why do you think we are so close?

Lately I feel like I've fallen out of friend-love with my best friend. I don't really enjoy spending time with her and a lot of things she does annoy me. Also, I don't really like some parts of her personality and I'm tempted to try to drift away from her. The problem is, she's popular but doesn't actually have many close friends, and she often tells me that even though she's friendly with a lot of people, she doesn't feel like any of them are really her friend, and she thinks that I'm her only real, close friend. I would also feel bad about it because she considers me her best friend, so I feel like I would owe her an explanation but it would be mean to just say that I don't like her anymore. What should I do?

I'm boring, I have no friends at all and I don't work at the moment (I volunteer but only a few days per week), as I don't work my options for making new friends or finding new hobbies is limited due to finances. I literally spend most of my time jut flicking about different sites online. I know I'm boring but not much I can do about it. I've made a new friend but I must sound so boring to him as I never do anything, he'll ask me my plans for the weekend etc. but I'll literally have nothing to do - if I leave the house it's normally just to buy groceries, even when the weather is nice there's not much to do in our small city when you'v no friends or money! He works and although he's had no friends either he has the money to go to gigs and go to more social events etc.

I am trying to make a point about someone being a dangerous person to be around because he pressures people to drink heavily with him. We are all of age but he tries to get people to binge drink when they don t want to and gets mad when they don t partake. I;m looking for an articletalking about the dangers of this. Thank you!

I lost my best friend 6 months ago and now I can't stop thinking about her and it makes me so angry that she's not here. We were going to be old farts together and I lost her before we turned 30.... and now I have to exist without her. We were friends since we were 12. Inseparable. I feel like I've lost my twin sister. A part of myself. What do I do? Everything reminds me of her. Movies, books, television, there's always a friend and now mine is gone. Every activity I do I'm thinking of our friendship. Driving and singing in the car, late night taco's, wading the dishes, cooking certain foods. Who's going to be my partner in crime now? I disturbing I'll ever relate to anyone like her ever again....

If a woman asks a man what does her vagina feel like is that weird?

We broke up and when I tried going back(6 months ago) he said he wouldn't forgive me for saying something about his mom when he said something to mine first(idiotic).I didn't chase him. We ran into eachother one day i expected him to ignore but he smiled and said hi.Now he keeps looking at me, making eye contact and i caught him looking at me sneakily through the door crack. He's started coming out about the same time as I do and he said hi hesitantly and smiling. Few Sundays ago I was going down the stairs and he was behind me. He was "on the phone" saying he was leaving church and would call back which wasn't necessary since church was already over. I feel like he did it so I'd know he was behind me. We walked next to eachother he smiled and said how are you. We had a few exchanges and I asked him about his sick brother. The following week he didnt show himself inside church(he's a deacon) as I was leaving he was behind me going down the stairs. I turned around just saw a glimpse of him and turned back around didn't say hi. He would look to lock eyes with me and smile when we'd be close now even though throughout church he keeps staring but when we lock eyes these past two Sundays he doesn't smile anymore and looks away.

His birthday is April 4th, but on Facebook it says April 10th. I asked him why, and he said: "I don't like as media only added for pool game to win free stuff."

This is a person I have known for a long time, and we had a great friendship, but recently it seems that he has become distant, and doesn t want to talk about it. Sometimes if I do things that might annoy him, he storms out of the room and starts walking around and swearing in the bottom floor of our dorm. Whenever I ask him what he was whispering about, he denies even knowing he was doing it. The thing is, I have very good ears, and I ve heard him repeat the word "a$$-hole" many times. I have also asked him if I ve done anything to annoy him, but he always says I m a perfect roommate... What should I do?? It s taking a mental toll on me. :(

So long story short me and this girl who by the way is a drama queen screams and text curseing me when ever I do one thing that doesn't go the way she wants. For example she got mad at me when I told her I couldn't walk with her to her class sincei didn't want to be late. The next day she left the second I sat down at lunch. Now so much more drama has happened

my best friend just told me she doesn't want me in her life anymore, I've been a toxic person, always depressed, made her feel guilty and said i would kill myself many times, mostly because I have depression, anyways, I sent her a letter apologizing for everything and that I didn't mean to hurt her in anyway, I asked her if she wants to revive the friendship, she said no, so I said that I'm gonna miss her and I blocked her on everything, she said that she forgives me but she doesn't want me in her life anymore, told me to have a blessed life, i said the same thing back to her, but now it hurts so much and idk what to do to move on, i did everything i could to fix the friendship, I would love to get a comment from you regarding my situation, help me see things more clearly, was my friendship with her unhealthy for me? what should i do next? Also, we share a class together, how should I act around her?

Without exaggeration, college has been hell. I had homework every day. My health was terrible, had flu 4 times over 2 months and might have throat cancer. My friend called me many times in the past but I hadn't had the opportunity to answer the phone. He stopped calling. It is not like I don't want to visit, which I actually do, but I was crushed by college and sickness. I do not want our friendship to break. His mother is busy and I don't have a ride, so I don't know what to do.

Who was I more disrespectful towards on Facebook between Megan or Brittany? Megan: There were a couple times whenever I would write to her on FB and she just reads my message without responding back, one day I've gotten pissed off over it to where I've lashed out my anger towards her because I've wanted us to continue where we've left off from high school, that got her to respond back to my messages and she ended up apologizing to me for not being able to respond and has told me she is a very busy girl. Brittany: Me and her were staying in touch on Facebook but she all the sudden started giving me the silent treatment for no apparent reason, then I've all the sudden had a falling out with another friend because he had a violent temper, then I've started letting her know about what happened between me and my violent tempered friend, I also asked her what I can do to improve myself and to be a better friend for her and for others, she just kept on ignoring me, then I've decided to go apologize to her about what happened between me and my violent tempered friend and asked her again if there was something she wanted me to improve on, I also complimented her on what a nice girl she is in hopes of getting back on her good side again, then she all the sudden blocks me on Facebook. I sometimes wonder who I've acted more disrespectful towards between Megan or Brittany.

So weve been talking for 5 months. We to the same university. she's going to study abroad next week for a month. So i texted her, "Yo before u leave to germany u mind dropping off my hoodies or i can pick them up, either or" and she texted me back, "I thought u were gonna say before you leave for Germany we need to hang out but anyways yeah I'll drop them off one of these days" this was on Monday. I texted her back saying i just wanted to remind her about the hoodies before i forget. Then i asked her to hang out because she leaves this Saturday. She texted me back saying she suggests going out for drinks at this place we went to a few times. I texted back "yeah sounds good" Since this night i didn't hear from her and its Thursday. Do i have to be the one to text her first now? I know she likes me but i dont get why she's playing hard to get.

We broke up last year, spring 2017, but a month or so ago she reached out to me and she was in very bad shape, like 220-230, asking me to help her lose weight. I just, I feel weird, like I'm helping her but the end result will just be her, thin, looking to find a new guy. Should I keep helping

Someone asked me if I have been good this year, and I have a thing with truth. Thing is, i don't want to tell them that I've been secretly taking control of my school's computer networking domain, They'll think I'm dangerous. What should I do?

I'm in college and what would happen if I tell my friends I'm still a virgin. Would they look down upon me? My personality is great I'm a wild dude and I'm pretty good looking but what would they feel like if I said I'm a virgin

I have a friend that I have known since middle school, we were really close and in 8th grade I told him that I liked him. It didn't go well but we were still friends. He almost asked me to the 9th grade dance but I was going with someone else. After that we didn't have many classes together so we didn't see too much of each other until senior year. We instantly reconnected and became best friends again. That summer was the toughest thing as I was in love with him as I watched him date one of my other friends. She treated him like trash and all I could do was watch, anyhow they broke up and he couldn't get over her. I went to college and dated some people, nothing serious and then he was finally over her. We were both single, finally! However at this point I had already fallen for my roommate(I room with guys). I went to a party with this best friend, and he confessed his love to me an kissed me! I didn't know what to do but I told him that I liked my roommate and went on to date that roommate. Now my best friend gets uncomfortable when we hang out with all of us and it makes me feel super guilty all the time that I make him feel sad. It is approaching summer so I'll be spending lots more time with the best friend and my bf is okay with this. However, I don't know what my friend expects out of me, he told me he'd wait for me. Sorry this is so long! What do I do???? I do not plan on breaking up with my current boyfriend, big no no. I have no intentions of leaving him, I think the question is what to do about the best friend. Am I leading him on even though I told him the truth? I don't want to lose him, is that selfish or okay?

if you were doing online dating would you prefer?? a) a female looking to start as friends and if more happens it would be great and if not you can still be friends? b) a female that just wants an immediate long term relationship? would you prefer a or b? Thanks and will choose a best answer...and please...I am interested in responses only from men on this because I am curious to know if it is really different then females. ..thanks

I don't have a car so unable to start driving towards where she is .. Thinking of taking a bus after final exams are done next week though.

A guy friend did not reply to my text message for over 1 month, and then today he is texting me how have I been and what's new in my life. Should I ignore his message?

My friends are wanting to take a trip together but I cannot afford it. They are mad at me for this but I do not work full time, I only work 3 1/2 hours a day while they all work full time. I calculated for last month and I made around $600- and the trip would cost that. However, I still have to pay for phone bill, food, and saving for a car, grad school, future etc. Are they being illogical for being angry at me?

She was a peer of yours in this claas and she was barely talking to anyone and seemed nervous during speeches and rarely spoke during them

There's a girl I was friends with. We've never met and only through Twitter. I closed the door on her the 1st time a few years ago by ignoring her text messages. The reason why I got rid of her the first time because I couldn't take it anymore when she was controlling me. When I got back together with an ex-boyfriend, she got angry at me and told me to be careful because I didn't know how committed he was to me. She said that I couldn't wait for him forever and didn't want me wasting my time. Then when I got rid of her the 1st time, I didn't hear from her again until 3 years later. Why would she try to reach out to me a few years later? I closed the door on her a 2nd time because she was at it again. Six months later after getting rid of her, here's the email I sent to her: Hi, I know it's been six months since we last spoke. I'm very happy with my life right now. When you contacted me on Facebook after not speaking for three years, I thought it was a mistake when I accepted your friend request. I've moved forward and I don't think it's a good idea to rekindle our friendship. I wish you all the best. Take care! She never replied to that email. Do any of you think you know why she didn't? Do any of you think she's angry, sad, or hurt that I sent this email? How do you all think she reacted after reading this? I have her blocked from FB, Instagram, and most of all her phone number. I'm curious to hear what you all think.

also what kind of people do deserve happiness do you think?

I was raped, molested, physically abused, and verbally abused. I want to vent to my friends, but I'm worried they won't believe me. Should I vent to them or keep it to myself?

I've had no real meaningful relationships with anyone in the past few years - friends, family, romantic, etc. Really, I don't know what else to add to that; I'm exhausted as all hell, and I'm ready to get out of this frame of mind where I feel like I can't talk to anyone. It's ridiculous.

A guy friend did not reply to my text message for over 1 month, and then today he is texting me how have I been and what's new in my life. Should I ignore his message?

I'm a 23 year old female and still and a virgin and I've also never smoked weed at all because I've never had the chance to. Never went to house parties or any other kind of party as a teen because I had a strict mother who would've found out. I feel so lame and like a loser.

I have to spend 10 hours in Downtown (of our home city; Sweet Home Chicago), wearing a "Make America Great Again" hat. For safety *The hat is purple rather than red, so only people in front of me will know it's a MAGA hat. *I'm suppose to travel around the city on my bike. So if case anyone wants to confront me, people can't keep up with a bike.