So my husbands parents are the type of people who only want their kids for cleaning their house basically as they sit around. If they clean wrong they would get screamed at. All the while fostering kids and treating them like best friends. For example, His mom helped her son cut himself so she could send a pic to her own mother so she's come over from Florida to help with the house, but she wouldn't come so the mom left her kids with their father that his kids would hide from in fear. And she continuously threatens to leave the family. My husband and I have been married a year, the whole time his mom would call weekly telling my husband to come clean her house or she'd yell at him and say he's a terrible human. So my husband cut them out of our lives as I tried to stay out of it by remaining quiet, which seemed to just caused his mom to blame it all on me too for ruining her son cause I didn't prove otherwise with my quietness. We haven't talked in months. But although my husband seemed in distress everyday when we were in contact with them, and I felt I was constantly anxious and just get extremely anxious at the thought of talking to them again, I still have respect for my own parents, however, and can't help but wonder, are we making the right choice by cutting them out of our lives? Or are we just being ungrateful?

I was on my computer I couldn't hear her

What does this mean? My super attractive professor asked me to dance at my university's anniversary celebration

Ok so I am in this group chat with my class and they were talking about senior skip day and I was like "Oh they should just excuse senior skip day" and I knew it was dumb as soon as I wrote it and all of sudden people start saying I'm losing brain cells" and "Dont even go to school tomorrow"and "just go to sleep". BTW that dont come to school got 12 likes too. Like do I really deserve that? I'm just getting angry that people take things so seriously that they need to make fun of me. Its ridiculous.

Within the last couple of months I've been watching so much porn, I feel so bad afterwards. I have been testing counseling but I will not tell him that. It's to the point that I feel so bad afterwards. I just don't want to be intimate with someone to fix a temporary fix.