I talked to this girl in the 6th grade and once she moved we stopped talking to each other. Well now 6 years later she went to this party that my friend went to and he told her to add me on snapchat because we talked back in the 6th grade. She snap chatted me a picture of this bear I got her back then saying she still has it. We talked for a while and then we talked again the next day and she left me on read. Then my friends and I were talking and the friend who told the girl to add me on snapchat said he was having a tough choice because her and other girl was all up on him at the party. Then the next day the girl from the 6th grade snap chatted me and said this is my song " A song that I use to listen to in the 6th grade." We talked again for a little bit and then she left me on read and we haven't talked since. But I was wondering should I keep talking to her or not. Like do you think she just added me to please my friend since she was all on up on him at the party?

I have a huge crush on my aunt who is my grandpa's and step grandma's daughter. We see them every week and I always just catch myself staring at her. I really like her but I understand it's weird. I believe I should confront her alone about it but I'm really scared. She's 30 and I'm 16.

my friend is all of those aforementioned things and has also gotten many offers to fornicate with several people both male and female. but they want a girlfriend and not a one night stand.

I'm gonna be as short as possible with this cuz its a long story. I had a crush on this guy, who liked me, but ended up dating my best friend (long story, not gonna go over it). She broke up with him after a couple months. After, he told me he liked me. I had been in love with him the ENTIRE time they dated but didn't know how to tell her I still had feelings (I know i should have). About a year ago he started to like me again, and at first i was resistant, but the two of us started telling each other we liked one another. At this point me and her weren't really friends- we had gotten into a few fights. Again, not an excuse I know, but I felt less attached to her and wasn't sure we were gonna be friends in the future so being horrible, i told him i liked him back. Me and her got back on good terms in the fall, but then I slept with the guy and told her and of course, she freaked out. Granted I was drunk so she forgave me. Then me and him started sleeping together for the next 7 months until last week. I finally ended it. Theres more to this story than I can give here, but I thought I was in love with him, I still think I am, but thats not an excuse. I don't want to be a horrible person and I know I am. I have no one to turn to or talk to about this, and I don't deserve sympathy, and I'll never do anything like this again. Can I ever recover? Am I going to hell? It was so shitty and I am more sorry than I can even express in words.

She had abusive relationships so she decides to ulforget about relationships. Right now she uses me for sex. At first I had no issue but I started growing a liking to her. My lover on the other hand admitted she has developed feelings for me but is trying not to. I kiss her and she blushes but then pushes me away. So this means we have a good possibility?

So about 2 and a half years ago I dated this one girl and before that we were good friends, and I'm not sure if she dated me because she didn't want to ruin our friendship or if she was actually attracted, but as she was a year older than me, we broke up when she went to high school. But, I could never get over her, and I think I'm in love. But I don't know and since I'm heading into high school this year I just wanted some advise. Also, we do t talk as much over the phone but if we see each other in person we talk a bit.

me and this guy were more exclusive, more in a relationship but we ended things because I wanted more and he wasn t ready for commitment.... we haven t talk in about almost a year so now we are more in friends with benefits and he is hanging out with other women but doesn t take me out, so every time I asked him if there is something going on like If he likes her, he doesn t want to talk about, so why? What s going on?

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Can I pleasure a girl with a 4 inch penis that's skinny?

why are some green, grey, or blue when there name and number comes up. What do they mean?

just to start off, I've known this guy prior to the date.. and we are both college students who live on campus just to give some context Throughout our first date the guy I was with kept subtly referencing sexual things, like if we were having a conversation about going out and going to clubs he'd mention something about hooking up Mentioned his balls for some strange reason, mentioned something about sex in general, and even his bedroom. .. So yeah. I kind of got the hint he was trying to get it in that night But the strange part was, he knew that his roommate would be back home before he even offered to go back to his place. He texted his housemate to ask if he's home. Then he said let's go back to my place to me. When we went back, his roommate was home! We still hung out just the two of us alone, and the opportunity to hook up was still there. He just didn't initiate anything once we went to his place We just spent time talking about a lot of different stuff, both random and personal. Like really personal stuff too. But no more sexual things were brought up; and nothing initiated My question is why would someone work so hard to bring you back to his place and not make any kind of move? Update: oh forgot to mention his roommate left a little after we went back to his place and umm... because I wanted to bang just as much as he did........

So i've gone on a couple dates with this girl, and they have gone really really well. We connected instantly, there was no awkward stage even though we met online. We are going to the zoo, then out to eat then to watch fireworks. Ive never...i guess been with a girl, im a very shy guy, but i was never shy with her. I feel like i should kiss her; and i really want to, but idk when to do it, how to do it, or how to move in, we have hugged, just not kissed. So how do i do all that? Please and thanks for help!!

he turns on the waterworks?. I've had this for eight years. Constant push pull drama. My head is screwed. I know he has mental problems and at one point I was willing to be patient and help but now I'm just exhausted and have decided to take my happiness when it comes. I think I deserve a little given what I have been through at his hands

Theirs this guy I been talking to for about 8 months now and he always comes up to me and talks to me but when my mom or dad go and I'm not their he asks them for me and says he misses me then tells them to tell me to go visit him while he's working?

Iam in a relationship with this guy for 1 year and 3 months now. He has a very dominating personality. He get upset from time to time when he starts to think about my past.Then he starts a fight about it like I can change my past. He has a past too, he had many girlfriends but I understand. That was his past, why should I create an issue about that. If I can understand why can't he. when we would fight he would always be like lets take a break, I need my personal space, I cant keep you happy you should consider other options. I get so hurt and upset because of all that he says, he would even call me a whore, would abuse me during the fight. As we both are now 27 and being from an Asian family we start thinking about marriage. I have convinced my family that I want to marry this guy. But he on the other hand has not been able to convince his family, its been like 8 months that he is still trying and always has to give me this excuse that these things take time. Now he doesnt even talk to me properly. He is always using his phone when Iam around watching videos and when he is with his friends he doesn't even touch his mobile, he doesnt reply to my texts for hours. I am so upset as I really love this guy and Iam trying me best to keep this relationship going but when the other person continuously talks about taking a break, needing personal space etc whenever we sit together and discuss the matter, I dont know what to do. Can you please help me out with this.

If so please let me know. I'm 24

Hi I'm a skinny Indian guy and for some reason I keep fantasizing about the girl in this photo, and I keep imagining us holding hands and walking on the beach completely naked, and later making love on the sand with me on top while she spanks my naked butt. Is that perverted or normal?? I just think she's really hot for some reason does anyone else agree?

I had this friend for two years and me and this kid are legit best of friends. We had the best of times. So we met this girl at our high school dance and she asked to slow dance with him which believe me if you think you know awkward, you don't. They were both as still Anyway so I asked the girl if she liked him repeatedly. She said yes. So I told him and said he should go for it. For a while he was saying Idk and I face timed this girl everyday after school and she told me I had pretty eyes and I was cute etc. So eventually the girl made the first move after I left his house one day and kissed him. Than he asked her out and it went on. It was all fine until slowly this girl kept like being a jerk him by saying hes a bad boyfriend each week when they break up and make up. She says bad **** like saying shes gonna get a new boyfriend who doesnt give up so easily and someone who isnt a dick. And he isnt a dick. But even after all of it, they get back together. About 2 weeks into them dating (Theyve been dating for about 3 months now). Us hanging out would never be the same, we would always just screw around and make each other laugh. Now hes always texting her, talking about hjer. When I try to change the subject he changes it back. Now I always pay like 20-40 dollars for our meals its never him helping pay Me and this girl really dont like each other. What do I think? Do I put it on myself and blame myself? Find new friends? At this moment in time now he doesn't answer me.

This past Sunday my gf and I got into a petty argument in the morning. At this point some of my friends invited me to float the river I said yes. I asked my gf if she wanted to come with and she said no. I told her there would be girls. I really wanted her to come, so I asked her on 3 diff ocations but she refused. By the time we all met up one of my friends had invited a friend of ours (a girl) that my gf doesn t like without my knowledge. One of my friends posted a snapchat story in which my gf saw the girl she doesn t like floating the river with me and my other friends. My gf saw the snapchat story, called me and asked me who had gone.(she already knew from the snapchat story) I told her and she was pissed. She deleted me off of Facebook and Instagram and she ain t answering my calls. Who s in the wrong? Her or I?

So I'm a 16 yr old girl and I'm kinda crushing on this 14yr old boy. We both really like each other but I just feel like he's too young for me. Im about to go into 11th grade and he's going into 8th grade. Is he too young for me? Should we just be friends?

-I am Lesbian- I'm stuck with a crush on a very sweet girl who has a girlfriend. I'm not trying to make any moves yet. I'm just building our friendship some more, waiting if she becomes single. Fortunately, I showed our texts to a few people in my life and they all say our texts are way too flirty to be just friends. Lately though she has been pretty kind of distant. I'm almost always the one messaging her first. I want to tell her how I really feel about her but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. :( I don't want her to get upset and stop talking to me completely. I need some advice please. :( Thank you so much as this situation is stressing me out :)

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So I have found porn on my boyfriends phone several times. And I really don't feel great about it. I feel kind of insecure. I have read some things that gave advice. I tried talking to him about it and just telling him that I don't like it and it makes me feel insecure, and he tells me that it shouldn't make me feel that way and that he loves me and I'm beautiful. He said he would stop but I found it on his phone again. Then I tried to ask him if I'm not pleasing him in bed and if there's something he would like to try, I would consider it. And he said that he loves what we do and he doesn't want to try anything. I even asked him if he would like me to watch it with him, I thought maybe I would feel more comfortable with him. But he said no, that's weird. I just don't know what to do. I talked to my friend about it and she said if it's really bothering me, then maybe I should rethink our relationship. But we have been together for 2 years and I don't want to end our relationship. We are a young couple. In our early 20s. Any advice? And please be mature about the situation.

Today my boyfriend left me alone at my house today because I was upset and he kept hinting at having sex or doing something. He later texted me saying that he's sorry for leaving me and how he's sorry that he turns into a b*tch when he doesnt get what he wants (his words). I'm not always in the mood for sex and I've discussed this with him, I'm not the biggest fan of doing it constantly, it makes it less special and meaningful.. to me. I was going through minor withdrawl symptoms earlier but was still being kind and spending time with him, just depressed. He told me he wasn't feeling well, and I could tell he was fine, I knew he was going to leave because I could tell I was boring him and he was disinterested. And he doesn't really do anything to make up for it. My boyfriend is such a sweetheart but I just feel like he doesn't pay mind or effort to actually trying to make his significant other feel better. My therapist tells me I'm just insecure, and co-dependant and depressed. I don't see my relationship ending anytime soon, I just have doubts of him caring and wanting to do something. My boyfriend is my bestfriend but I would never even hint at him to do something for me or help go out of his way to make me feel better, it makes me feel like a pain in the asss and it should be the other person's decision to do those things. Just looking for advice overall, ask questions I can touch on due to limited text space.

I really have a disability that keeps me from working full time. Do you consider me a loser?

Long story short I got hella drunk after a highschool dance and texted her stupid **** like: do you want to **** cause i do rn, is this my mom wtf are you texting me, and I called her hoesy and a pervert what ever tf that even means. I havnt talked to since this cause it's hella embarrassing and I think she probably lost interest after this. I've decided like 4 months later that I still like her but don't know how to start up a conversation with her again.

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and his friends all have girlfriends and there okay with it. Would you be? He s suppose to be DD but I just wonder if I m over reacting.

My really really weird next door neighbor goes out in her back yard at night with flash lights and looks around then gets out other lights like strip lights that kind of resemble light sabers and she waves them around, then turns them off and does this ritual all around her back yard! Any ideas what's she may be up to? I have no clue, she won't speak to any of the neighbors unless she's saying something mean and nasty!

Am I really very ugly? what do you think?

I went on a date with a guy that's 5'7. He's 25. I am 5'5. The majority of guys I've gone out with are tall like 6'2. I've always had a preference for tall guys but mine is strong because I've just always associated it as a sign of masculinity and that's attractive to me. But I'm trying to step a little outside my normal preferences because I'm looking for someone more serious so I'm trying to look for guys that I have more in common with instead of whether or not they're "my type". So this guy is taller than me but not by much. Like when I met him, I was like we're like the same height. I felt a little weird about it but the guy is 25 and he's only 5'7, I'm sure he's met plenty of people that are taller than him so he's used to it and he IS taller than me just not by much. But I was wondering if shorter guys in general feel emasculated by women around their height NOT by women taller than them.

So I've been dating someone for 2 months now, and I really care about them. But I don't feel mentally healthy enough to date them. I feel like I cant handle a relationship if I can't even handle myself. I don't know want to hurt them though. So I'm just really confused. Any advice would be useful (please no bullis**t thanks)

My ex was perfect in every way, he was loyal, smart, successful, laid back, handsome, romantic, confident, protective, active, exercises regularly, doesnt get mad at me easily, caring about my feelings, and used to be shy around me but eventually it became long distance and we saw each other less and less, long distance caused many misunderstanding and many arguments. Eventually we broke up. Because he was so perfect in every way, it is hard to find someone else. He is the type I am sure if I was to have sex with another guy, he would never take me back or will think about it for the rest of his life, even if we get back together. I know him very well. The problem is I know if I do get a bf, the bf would eventually want to have sex. I really dont know if I should completely move on and find someone else and have sex with the person, knowing my ex will never forgive me and will never take me back. He still likes me but sometimes he is not very communicative, I am someone who have many emotional problems and sometimes wish we spend more time together, wish we can hold hands, hugs more, cuddles more, I wish I could see him more often, wish he was more communicative, but yeah, what should I do?

Say if they've met a guy that was new to their area. And the guy says to her "you know I've lived here a couple weeks and haven't really met anyone yet. Do you want to get lunch or do something sometime?". How would most girls respond to that?

My good friend has been seeing this guy for 3 years. She wants to marry him. He is Muslim and is almost 15 years older than her. He's in the army and was stationed at a military base and they met in the same town. For 2 years all they did was have sex, and she fell for him, and she gave him her virginity. He never defined the relationship but calls her "cupcake" (instead of her name) which I find unsettling but she finds it affectionate. When he was in the US, he would go days without talking to her except to have sex and to get her to run errands for him because he has his own company. He would occasionally give her money too and helped her buy her first house. 6 months into the relationship, she caught him texting another girl to have sex with, and the next day she dismissed it and never considers it cheating to this day. Now about a year ago, he got deployed to Iraq (and now Turkey I believe) and they are long distance. He was suppose to be back several times, including with his parents that are from Iraq (his home country) but plans always seem to cancel last minute, Also, my friend is running his business for him whole he is deployed for free and uses her own money to keep it going. He was suppose to be back by now. I want people's opinions of what might be happening here. I have very high doubts about this guy. All of our other friends don't like him either. Also they have something called a "marriage contract" which I never heard of. Is this real?

I'm gay and I met this guy a few months ago and we really seem to hit it off. A week or so ago my straight friend, who was in town, needed a ride. He was in trouble and needed a place to stay. I don't stay with my man, in fact I live two states away and seeing each other is difficult for me, and my man being a nice guy let my friend stay with him. Ever since they met that night, they're practically inseparable, hanging out every day, texting me their "fantastic times together", and I'm left like a fifth wheel. My whole life I've been self-conscious about being boring or uninteresting, only because stuff like this actually happens to me. Two people that I like, respect, and generally want to be around find something better in each other than either of them do with me. They are so incredibly enamored by each other, they both feel the need to rub in my face all the f*cking fun they have without me. I've talked to my man about my feelings and what I want to happen, like having them spend less time together. I feel like my man doesn't understand that, asking me if he can still talk to him on the phone. They've already told me, both of them, that they'd still be friends with each other regardless of what happens to my relationship with my man.I have plenty of regret and self-blame for letting this happen and I'm willing to let them both go so they can have their perfect f*cking friendship together. I feel like a worthless piece of sh*t, and I'm fat, and I'm ugly and I'm stupid.

I grew up with divorced parents. I live with my dad who now has a girlfriend. They have been on and off for almost 2 years. A while ago I brought up to my dad how uncomfortable I feel when he is really affectionate with his girlfriend. I would walk downstairs and they would b laying on top of each other, he would be massaging her, foot rubs, and cuddling and stuff. They were always touching, feeding eachother food and everything. This made me feel extremely uncomfortable and I told my dad. He now has a lot of resentment about it. They have gotten better but i still feel uncomfortable and me and my dads relationship has suffered. My question is is it normal for me to feel uncomfortable? and also... I had my boyfriend over and we were both on the couch and i had my feet on his legs. He wasnt touching them or anything but my dad reacted really badly to it and said how dare I do that after telling him how uncomfortable I was with his girlfriend. So basically is there any difference? or was i just being hypocritical? Maybe its not correct but I feel like in our society its more natural for teenagers to have a touchy relationship and it doesnt bother parents as much. But to see my dad like that with his girlfriend is more of a big deal... IDK if thats correct or just my own perception since I did not grow up seeing loving parents. Any replies are appreciated thx..

Here are some of the details to help me determine if does he like me or not: when he was dating someone, he placed his hand on my upper thigh "to calm me down" and grabbed me by my waist to play foosball with him. This two things happened at school. A week after these incidents, i asked his help on a paper cause we have class together. First thing he told me when we met up at the mall to help me do my paper is "I broke up with my girlfriend and you're the first person to know who's one of my school friends". Secondly, one of my friends who has a major crush on him, hosted a get-together party. Throughout the night, my friends noticed him staring at me the whole time, watching my reaction, and me ignoring him cause i kept my distance for the friend who was throwing the get-together. Thirdly, I stopped talking to him for a month and i was out of town for Christmas break. I got a snap from him singing and that was the first time i heard him sing. After break, we met up at the same mall after new years. talking what our plans are for the year 2017. he told me something he didnt tell any friend of his at school, other than me. and i felt different for him doing that. by then he knew i had a crush on him. One time, a friend of mine, me, and him went to a store where i had to leave the store because i felt nauseous. my friend told me he was looking for me and went outside and sat beside me instead. every time we both go out together, people always ask me if were dating and i tell them no because "we are just friends" which is true. but everyone kept telling me how we both have the look we give to each other that we are MORE than friends. One time, a friend of mine, me, and him went to a store where i had to leave the store because i felt nauseous. my friend told me he was looking for me and went outside and sat beside me instead. every time we both go out together, people always ask me if were dating and i tell them no because "we are just friends" which is true. but everyone kept telling me how we both have the look we give to each other that we are MORE than friends. i go to him for guy problem advices and he gives the best ones BUT there was this time where i asked him what do i do cause i was seeing this 36 year old guy and he sounded pissed at me via text. he texted me a loooooong paragraph about how i should end it instead. After that, we hung out for the first time in months and told me some stuff that he doesnt seem he would tell to someone at all such as his family like how he's distant with his relatives and stuff like that. i go to him for guy problem advices and he gives the best ones BUT there was this time where i asked him what do i do cause i was seeing this 36 year old guy and he sounded pissed at me via text. he texted me a loooooong paragraph about how i should end it instead. After that, we hung out for the first time in months and told me some stuff that he doesnt seem he would tell to someone at all such as his family like how he's distant with his relatives and stuff like that. he always looks after me and when my mom met him for the first time, my mom said, "Take care of her because shes my only daughter" and he said "dont worry, ive been taking care of her for a very long time now." so idk what does this sound like to you but he also admitted that he's attracted to me and has developed feelings for me but idk how to approach this since im confused as to what is this "relationship" anyways..

I have been with my current one for a long time,longer than I ve been with my ex gf. I felt like I ve been through alot more with my ex in a short period of time,maybe that s because she was the last person in my life who knows,today I actually felt sad/mad when I think about her like I should of been there,yeah we argued and such,she cheated on me she kicked me out when I was just trying to be there for her daugther(her kid which isnt mine) and her..why do I have these thoughts of my ex? what is currently missing from this relationship? I feel kind of messed up...

Girlfriend's been with 19 guys and she's twenty six is that alot of guys?

For some reason tonight I've been having a lot of silent, smelly farts. I'm going over my boyfriend's house in an hour, and I don't want this to be annoying while I'm over there. So what can I do to limit the amount of farts, if it doesn't decrease by then? this is a serious question

Like if you just flat out asked her, and the two of you were in a private place. Answers?