Friends: Question: My friend thinks that she can get her other friend arrested for using her bank card and stealing her money? What do you think? |
- Question: My friend thinks that she can get her other friend arrested for using her bank card and stealing her money? What do you think?
- Question: Why don't people in my hometown like me or be friends with me? How can I deal with this?
- Question: My school is full of girls who want to start trouble with everyone, including the shy kids. How do i avoid drama this year?
- Question: What is the best way to tell a friend they should slow down on smoking? I want to tell her cause I care about her but how do I go about it?
- Question: What would you do if your wife cries, "Husband, no!" after you threaten to report her affair with the lesbian teen next door?
- Question: What the fuck?
- Question: A lot of people are mad I dropped my guy friend, was i wrong to?
- Question: Can I date my best friend's sister?
- Question: Coworker always puts me on blast...?
- Question: Ugh I don't know what my problem is in life?
- Question: Do I reach out or completely let go?
- Question: Some father called me a pedophile and threatened to report my account, what should i do?
- Question: Ex freinds family made freinds with me, they seem false, some advice pls?
- Question: I had a bad trip on acid and thought a girl was into me. I tried to get with her and she said no. Afterwards my friend doesn't like me?
- Question: I don't like my current friend?
- Question: What is the best way to end a friendship? Would cutting her off cold turkey work or should I tell her it's over?
- Question: Is this person a real friend?
- Question: Am I the one people hate in school and if so... what do I do.?
- Question: Should I Keep my Cousin around?
- Question: Should I clear up this awkward misunderstanding or leave it be?
- Question: How many 15 yr olds have had sex in U.S ?
- Question: Was this inappropriate or sexual for me to say this?? 10 pts (please serious responses only)?
- Question: What is a nice way that I can get the neighbor kids to stop coming to my house so much?
- Question: Given you like her attention but not her, how do you feel when that girl finally gives up on you?
- Question: How do I know if a female coworker that is married wants me ? Or is just friendly..?
- Question: Can Jay be a nickname for Judy??
- Question: Help me think of a lie about where I was for my parents??
- Question: Do guys even like big boobs anymore?
- Question: How to stop intimidating people??? (PLEASE READ, SUPER IMPORTANT)?
- Question: Is she undecided?
- Question: What do i do in this summer?
- Question: Is it wrong to pay a person for sex?
- Question: What should I do about my best friend?
- Question: Do guys like girls that don't hold grudges and get along with others?
- Question: How do I get a girlfriend?
- Question: My friend attempted suicide?
- Question: Can you text other people while you are at a friend's house?
- Question: I m taking one friend camping and my other friend doesn t know. What should I do?
- Question: Thinking of blocking a long time friend?
- Question: Why does everyone I talk to say that I'm "closed off" and "hard to read"?
- Question: Is this shirt too tight?
- Question: Was it drugs or something else?
- Question: How should I treat an old frenemy?
- Question: Why don't I put myself out there? please help.?
- Question: All I wanna do is socialize is that normal?
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- Question: He won't talk to me if my mom is there?
- Question: Does this lady I met at the park have bad intentions?
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- Question: Is it wrong if a woman pays a man for sex?
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- Question: Can time heal our friendship????
| Posted: 01 Jul 2017 05:41 PM PDT My friend let her other friend use her card at the ATM to drawl out $60. But when my friend got her card back her friend drew out $380. Her limitwas $60 but she drew out more than what she was allowed. And my friend never seen the $380 her friend drew out. I told her that she let her friend use it and she gave her friend all her information willing so there is nothing she can do at all. Because she did it willing. Yes it's a shame her friend stole her money but she allowed her with all her info. She's calling the police but its pointless because her friend didn't commit fraud because she was handed the card with all her info to draw out money so technically it's my friends fault. What do u think can my friend get her other friend in trouble |
| Question: Why don't people in my hometown like me or be friends with me? How can I deal with this? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 05:38 PM PDT I've lived in a small town in Illinois my whole life. I am now 21 and ever since I've been in school I had a hard time making friends. My mother was always very over protective so I could never go to anyone's house nor play outside with them. Even in a small town with multiple schools, the kids my age have always befriended one another despite going to different schools. Infact, they are still all friends with eachother to this day but they all still hold anger and rudeness toward me even though I've never done anything wrong to them. I went to an all white school and the white kids called me n(....)s a lot and the black kids always said that I was weird and that I sound white. I had no friends and just would play on the computer all day and make friends online. Even just being around them, others in my town would stare at me, make fun of me, and treat me completely awful and leave me out of everything. I was never invited to parties nor get together in high school and even now in college. Now out of school, the kids I use to go to school with and that use to make fun of me for just being me, they still give me dirty looks and talk mad **** about me. I just don't know what's wrong with these people! I haven't done anything wrong to them! I barely went outside and what's worse, its a large amount of them treating me this way! I want to move but don't have the money because there are no jobs here... what should I do? :( -Loner |
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| Question: A lot of people are mad I dropped my guy friend, was i wrong to? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 04:43 PM PDT My guy friend and I got into a heated argument because he was only siding with my ex best friend's story and would not give me a chance to explain things from my perspective, I told him he's only siding because doesn't want to listen to me, that set him off and he said "I wish i would've just let you kill yourself. Clearly the world would truly of been better", I was shocked and he looked really angry like he didn't regret it, so I stopped being his friend. Now my ex best friend came at me saying how bitchy it was for me to drop him because he cared about her and I said what he told me to her and she said "He said it because he was angry; and maybe he was right". Was I wrong to drop him and does she have a right to be angry? That seriously pissed me off because he was that one friend that would drop me as soon as he found a gf but yells at me for dropping her without any explanation. |
| Question: Can I date my best friend's sister? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 04:35 PM PDT My best friend of about 3 years has a sister who's just a year younger than him and me and her really like each other (we even say "I love you" like every day) but I'm worried dating her will ruin my friendship with her brother. |
| Question: Coworker always puts me on blast...? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 04:09 PM PDT So ima try and make this short and simple... lol I work at a dental office and i have a coworker we both are in the same position but she is the one that trains me/supervisor... she knows only a little bit about my life she doesn t really know much but so far what i have told her she tends to throw it out and tell everyone what i said, my personal life... etc.... i don t really appreciate it and it is my fault but honestly i don t have anything to hide never told her anything i know is to personal... but what bothers me is that she seems to always make fun of me for it.... like the school i went to(i went to a continuation school), whenever i make a stupid mistake she goes off and tells everyone and puts me on blast... etc... maybe im being overly dramatic lol im a sensitive persona and being here i feel low about myself i work at a dental office front desk im honestly learning as i go and i learned alot so far but i still feel low and little about myself.. her putting me on blast does not help... this all a little knew and idk how to deal with it... has anyone been throuhh something similar if so please help! |
| Question: Ugh I don't know what my problem is in life? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 03:17 PM PDT It's been a perpetual issue for years - I just don't have many friends. I feel like I don't have any friends, really. I almost never have plans on the weekend. I'm never invited to things. I think I am friendly to people. Sometimes I go way out of my way to help people, but when I need help nobody offers. When I post stuff on social media, I rarely get likes, but I always like my friends stuff all the time and give positive comments. Same deal on snapchat where I give feedback but people don't even look at mine. I'm tired of being so alone in the world :-( I love who I am. I think I'm awesome. But I guess I'm the only one who feels that way. My ex used to get on me saying my life was too perfect but no I am ridiculously alone. I think one thing I could try is inviting people out to something, but I'm scared to death nobody will come. I've never done this. I have one friend at work but I usually go to lunch by myself. And the worst part is our boss says we spend too much time together so he split us up and now I am completely alone. |
| Question: Do I reach out or completely let go? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 03:11 PM PDT Long story short, I've been talking to a guy since the end of March. We met at school and everything was great during the semester (which ended in May). From the beginning, he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship, but he wanted to get to know me and see where it went. During this time we hung out a good bit - grabbing food, hanging out on campus, cuddling/watching movies, etc. Although we're just friends, it has felt like more. During the beginning of the summer, everything was still fine. We were texting a few times a week, he checked up on me after surgery, and we hung out before I went back to working my full time job. The day was perfect. He kissed me goodbye and thanked me for an amazing day. Ever since he went back to work a couple weeks ago, the contact has greatly decreased. We went a week without talking so I texted him and the convo was normal (he did tell me his days have been very long). Once again, this whole week we haven't talked. He's never had a bad thing to say about me and this has been the only red flag so far. I'm not sure what to do. We talked about different things we wanted to do this summer and everything. Do I reach out? |
| Question: Some father called me a pedophile and threatened to report my account, what should i do? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 03:09 PM PDT i added a girl on ps4 and she always messages me when i get on because we play the same games, she started calling me BFF and even put it on her About Me that i am her BFF.. i thought it was funny didn't think too much of it, she confessed something to me she said something like "i know u don't add kids but i can't keep this away from u, i am really 12 please don't delete me" i am 24 so i don't really reply back to her as much.. recently her father got on her account and sent me hateful messages saying he will report me and calling me pedophile, he also made her delete me. She made ANOTHER account and is trying to add me back.. remember we played games together and only messaged about games, no grooming, i thought she was an adult thats how i messaged her |
| Question: Ex freinds family made freinds with me, they seem false, some advice pls? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 02:17 PM PDT An ex freind whom I started getting feelings for romantically and I fought. I told her I liked her, she asked for space, I probably did not give to her. She got very angry and rude, and ignored me (we gymed together). I then ignored her back, she then did crazy stuff to get my attention but remained angry, rude and disrespectful. After a year I tried to chat to her, she said I hurt her and that I stalked her (not true) and we can take things slow. 2 weeks of her rudeness and I went back to ignoring her. She left the gym for good. 6 months later her close family and freinds are at my new gym, the freind invited me to church and I slowly started to chat to them and hang out a bit ( I original ignored them for a long time at new gym). They all very religious. The thing is I feel they may be fake sort of people, just freind lay cause of their church. They say they going to hang out then drop me, or take hours to get back to make arrangements for gym or church. I'm starting to dislike the church now as well, any thoughts on what these people are acting like this? |
| Posted: 01 Jul 2017 02:10 PM PDT When the girl said no I left her alone and after coming down I apologised and haven't even tried to talk to her since it happened. Also this girl is just from the same town as my friend I have no idea why he is so mad because of it |
| Question: I don't like my current friend? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 02:10 PM PDT I currently have friends right now who I feel like we stop connecting, I started a Business and of course I have more money. They are free loaders and expect me to always pay gas and truthfully no matter how much money someone has just expecting from others annoys me. I been friends with them for a while but how do I find fun entrepreneur related friendships ? This is what makes me happy entrepreneur. Is it hard to make new friends at 27? |
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| Question: Is this person a real friend? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 01:58 PM PDT I have an autistic friend (I have mild autism but hers is severe.) We met through a special needs program and we instantly clicked. But for the past year, she s been much different, I don t know whether she secretly doesn t want to be friends anymore or she s fake. She is 2 months older than me. She has been obsessing with her birthday since April when her birthday is in august and I tell her to stop because it s a while from now still, it s all she talks about at cheer practice. We are both 15 almost 16. She still watches Sofia the first and GIrl meets world when I watch PG13 stuff and mild R rated stuff, throws tantrums when public places put music she hates. Acted like she was so hungry when she didn t complain on the way to bowling practice... is she avoiding me or is this autism related? I hate her at this point |
| Question: Am I the one people hate in school and if so... what do I do.? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 01:54 PM PDT So I m 14 and the incoming freshmen on my summer vacation. And I was thinking today about my friendships. Today on Snapchat I was looking at someone s story and they appeared to be hanging out with someone else. Nothing out of the ordinary right you know people like to hang out over summer so and nothing really new. And then I saw on Instagram that they were doing a live video so I decided to check it out. So there pause the video and when they came back they noticed that I was watching the video and immediately they stopped it. Then I knew that something was up then I went back to Snapchat and noticed someone else posted to their story one of the two people previously mentioned. And get this they were at a carnival. So when I asked where what they were doing they didn t give an answer and on the live video this is what they said "it s _______!!" and they ended the video. Now I don t know if I m overreacting or anything but this has happened before I am never tagged in instagram posts I ve only been to three different peoples houses three times total and I have never hung out with anyone this summer so far and it s July and we got out June 1 . So am I the one that people will be eight or think I m annoying or something or am I just overreacting? |
| Question: Should I Keep my Cousin around? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 12:24 PM PDT So I don't usually go out at all. I normally work a lot over 120 hours but when I find time I go out. Lastnight I invited my cousin out for drinks. We went and had drinks at one bar and it was fine. She asked if she can bring a male friend I said that's fine. Side bar. My cousin and I went to NewYork and she had me around a disrespectful weirdo that she was seeing. He was complimenting me telling me how beautiful I am and everything in front of her. Just being very disrespectful.I didn't like that situation, so I cut her off for about 6 months. Recently we started hanging out again. Back to the story her friend came and he wanted to go to another bar it was in the same location it was cool, so I obliged. Her friend had several more friends show up, and they were very touchy feely. By the end of the night I was tired and ready to go the cops said we couldn't walk up the block where my car was parked on the corner so it made us detour. As we were walking we all were laughing cracking jokes. And the random fat boy got serious. He kept touching my hair. I'm like stop I have to find my car. He pulled off my wig so I maced him. We started tusseling. I was fine. I only lost my toenail. It just seems to me everytime I'm around her it's always nonsense. Long story short I am wondering if I should countinue to be around her something ALWAYS happens when we go out. Please help me its a tuff decision to make! You |
| Question: Should I clear up this awkward misunderstanding or leave it be? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 12:14 PM PDT So 2 days ago , I was in the gym working out when I saw a new friend walk in who I was supposed to help the following day with his workout plan since it was his 1 day off from work and I would get off early. After my set, I walked over to confirm the meetup. I gave him a handshake & half bro hug (the kind guys give). We talked for about 30sec & I was about to go back to my workout when I decided to give the same handshake as before but due to the way we were standing (sort of an " L " formation, his front view facing my left shoulder) my left hand gave the half hug before the handshake & the right hand came up too high (near his right shoulder) & it appeared like I was about to hug him up high! I snatched my right hand down, said sorry, he said it's alright and I played it off by saying "alright so I'll text you when I am ready to meet tomorrow." The problem arose when he texts me the next morning saying he can't make the meetup with no explanation. I replied "That's cool". I feel like he misinterpreted my honest mistake. I was extremely tired from work that day and feel like I should explain or maybe not. I am not attracted to guys and am very confident but I think he is embarrassed and confused as was I. I don't want rumors to spread although I don't really care but don't like lies spreading. Should I address this or just take it as he may not be as secure with himself in public and leave it be? Thanks! |
| Question: How many 15 yr olds have had sex in U.S ? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 11:47 AM PDT What percentage of teens have sex/lose their virginities at 14 or 15 ? In U.S ? Reporting point gainers, trolls. |
| Posted: 01 Jul 2017 11:36 AM PDT this is a pic of a friend of mine joking around and I only posted it so you would know what I am referring to and not to be silly ...anyway, I sent a message to him saying the following.. "I am curious about one quick thing..were your pants really as tight on you as they looked in that pic? or was it just the angle of the camera? because if they were that tight ..how did u get the banana in there?? LOL:)" he said that what I said was inappropriate and sexual and made him feel awkward. was there anything wrong with what I said.? was it sexual or inappropriate? I was just joking with him. please advise and will choose a best answer. |
| Question: What is a nice way that I can get the neighbor kids to stop coming to my house so much? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 11:16 AM PDT I live in an apartment complex. I'm at home a lot during the day with my kids and home alone sometimes when my kids are at preschool, etc. There are some kids in the complex that come over to my house multiple times a day. It's my fault because I would let them come in and give them popsicles if we were having popsicles, etc. Somehow it's turned into an every day-multiple times a day thing where four boys show up to my house, banging on my door wanting to come in. Lately I've just been quiet and won't answer the door in which case they come back every 30 minutes knocking through the day. I think they're looking for treats, popsicles etc. I can't think of a nice way to say that they can't come in and can't have any snacks. I wouldn't mind if they came by 1-2 times a week but multiple times a day is excessive. What can I say to them to get this to stop without being rude? I don't want to hurt their feelings. |
| Posted: 01 Jul 2017 11:06 AM PDT The she used to send you gifts and give you loads of attention |
| Question: How do I know if a female coworker that is married wants me ? Or is just friendly..? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 11:00 AM PDT |
| Question: Can Jay be a nickname for Judy?? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 10:56 AM PDT im asking for a friend shes in college if that helps she feels like Judy doesn't really fit her personality she feels like Judy doesn't really fit her personality |
| Question: Help me think of a lie about where I was for my parents?? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 09:53 AM PDT So, I m not allowed to stay the night at my boyfriends house and I lied to my mom last night and said that I went to my friends house around five and stay the night. At one point my mom even FaceTimed me and help me send her a picture to prove that I was at my friends house which I did... Little does my mom know I was actually staying at my boyfriends who lives a few blocks from my friend in which when my mom was attempting to FaceTime me, I just ran to my friends house to answer. Long story short, today there is a birthday party for my cousin in which my friends parents are going to and my parents will be there as well and I m scared that they re going to talk about me being at their house last night. Is there anyway that I could think of a lie without getting my friend in trouble for "having someone over without asking" and for myself ? Something believable that we could both tell her parents a little bit of and if our parents end up talking today, the story will match up and be okay? |
| Question: Do guys even like big boobs anymore? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 09:51 AM PDT All my friends keep telling me that I'll never find a boyfriend because they don't like big boobs anymore. I'm only 15 and a 34DD (in nordstrom). My friends keep saying that it's all about big butts, something I don't have. They all have big butts. They are lucky. Nobody talks about boobs anymore, and it was the only thing going for me. Is there a way to grow my butt and shrink my boobs? |
| Question: How to stop intimidating people??? (PLEASE READ, SUPER IMPORTANT)? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 07:50 AM PDT I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm really friendly and I LOVE making friends! However, ever since I was about 11 making friends was a huge deal for me as I would always "fail" at trying to make friends or start a conversation with a stranger. It's a natural habit of mine to kinda intimidate people too. I'm really quiet around strangers and people I don't know, but around friends I'd be really normal and all- But the problem is that I don't really have friends..only 3 or 2. Not even close. I hate being alone and I always try to make friends but it ALWAYS (Literally) Ends up like this, I say hi, I try to talk about something and see if we can be friends, they're kinda quiet around me too and barely talk- as if they're intimidated or scared of me which I really don't like because I really don't mean it...It sucks that I'm always alone at school and such, I really hate it even though I try alot. i really need help, I would love to make a few friends. I think that I look like a loner in public because I'd be extremely quiet and such, but that's not my true personality...Please, anything can help, I just wanna make friends properly for once- I always wish i'm a part of those fun groups I see hanging out together. I wanna experience it myself. Thank you. |
| Posted: 01 Jul 2017 07:24 AM PDT Believe my friend is going through something and is undecided in letting me know. She did not answer my text with a everything is going well etc which would have led me to not text her for a while. Instead she texted I am working which gives her time to think if she wants to tell me what is going on. Do you agree? |
| Question: What do i do in this summer? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 06:19 AM PDT i dont have friends to hang out and i cant even get a job. I am stuck in the house like i always do. I have nothing to do. |
| Question: Is it wrong to pay a person for sex? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 06:07 AM PDT I'm 30 years old and I met this guy online he's 43 he and I live in different states. We are not in a long distance relationship but I've met him in person a few times since 2015. He temporarily lives in California and I live in Chicago he sleeps out of his car so I amuse he's homeless. I send him money sometimes he does work when he can he's a comedian and writer in LA. So I told him I would pay him for his services. Do you think it's wrong to pay him for sex? |
| Question: What should I do about my best friend? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 06:04 AM PDT A few weeks ago, my former friend and I were talking on the phone. The topic of minimum wage came up. She stated that she thinks it should be abolished, I said that I thought it should be raised - reasonably. She flipped out and started screaming at me on the phone, basically trying to 'school' me in economics. I told her that I was tired and that I'd talk to her the next day, then hung up. The next morning, she's flooded facebook with passive aggressive posts and several which basically question my intelligence. We haven't spoken since. I'm not angry that she disagrees with me, I'm angry that she treated me like crap because of it - but I do still miss her. She very pointedly told me that I don't matter to her as much as this issue does. She's telling people that I don't support small business - when I never said that at all! She's acting like I purposely ran over her dog or something and I don't really understand why I'm being treated this way over something as small as a difference of opinion. Should I be trying to salvage my friendship with her? |
| Question: Do guys like girls that don't hold grudges and get along with others? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 01:22 AM PDT For example, if a girl has an argument with some guy about something pretty serious but a few weeks later they seem cool and friendly with each other like does a guy see her as forgiving and chill or more as fake? Basically what I am asking is if Guy A knows that Guy B and the girl got into a big argument and weren't't talking. Then a few weeks later when they all see each other the girl and Guy B are totally cool and nice to each other. Does Guy A think the girl is being mature and forgiving or does he see it as her being fake? Is it good for the girl for Guy A to see that she's able to get along with everyone and doesn't hold a grudge. |
| Question: How do I get a girlfriend? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 01:18 AM PDT I come from a small school so there are not many options. I guess it is harder for me because I have made a bad image for myself sadly. I used to get angry and very rude when in arguments. I used to be loud and disruptive and people just didn't like me much. I worked on changing that and obviously I wasn't perfect but I wasn't terrible I have lots of friends and I get along with mostly everyone but I just don't know how to go beyond the friendship stage. How do I get people to look past my past? |
| Question: My friend attempted suicide? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 01:15 AM PDT I can't believe it, one of my closest friends tried to kill themselves, and I feel so at fault. While I was ignoring everybody while grieving the anniversary of my cousins death my good friend sent me multiple messages asking to talk, saying he needed to talk to someone, but I just ignored him, being the friend that everybody talks to when they need help, I simply have to be alone while dealing with things, so I ignore Everyone for a couple days to get through ****. But yesterday, on the anniversary my cousin died, my friend tried to kill himself, and I can't help but think that if I was there, if I hadn't ignored him, he wouldn't have tried to OD on prescribed medication. I talked to him for the first time afterwards a few minutes ago, but I'm out of town so it was just a phone call, but he sounded so emotionless and dead, and it's all my fault. How do I move on from this? Because I am so devastated right now. And I'm sorry for the long repeating paragraph, I just really need help right now |
| Question: Can you text other people while you are at a friend's house? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 01:04 AM PDT My friend gets upset at me because I text other people while at her house. But it's not like we were talking while I texted someone else, she was playing on her tablet or is busy doing other things. |
| Question: I m taking one friend camping and my other friend doesn t know. What should I do? Posted: 01 Jul 2017 12:36 AM PDT I m going camping in about two weeks. About two months ago while planning this trip my mom let it slip that I could bring a friend on the trip and one of my best friend she immediately thought she was going. Let s call her J. J was really excited but she wasn t the friend I was wanting to take on the trip. The next day I told her that my mom said I could no longer bring a friend and she quickly got over it. Now I have invited my other friend to go camping with me and I haven t told J hat I ve invited someone else. We ll call my other friend P. I really want to take P and not J. The problem is is that I m really afraid that J will find out that we went and that I lied to her and we didn t tell her. I really just don t want to hurt Js feelings. Should I tell her or try to hide the fact that we went without her? |
| Question: Thinking of blocking a long time friend? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:56 PM PDT I've been friends with this guy for about 8 years since high school but he has been getting on my nerves lately and don't really care to have him in my life anymore. He's in the military and acts really cocky now and constantly sends me selfies. He is in some other state now but tells me how he's drunk like every weekend. He expects me to message him all of the time. He gets upset if I don't respond and calls me names like mean, butthole .. nothing too harsh lol... But I have a 2 year old son and stuff like that doesn't really interest me or impress me. He's a real good guy but I think he's just really lonely and has no one. I hate that he replies on me to fill that void. Would it be harsh to block him ?? |
| Question: Why does everyone I talk to say that I'm "closed off" and "hard to read"? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:34 PM PDT Hi everyone. I'm an 18 year old girl. Essentially everyone I've talked to has said about me that I'm extremely difficult to read. They've said I'm nice, pleasant, engaging, have a "mystical" presence but that it's basically impossible to see what's going on in my head. Even my friends don't know what I really think about them, and my boyfriend frequently gets annoyed because he can't read my emotions or how I'm feeling. I suppose I'm charming but people just can't understand me, and many people have also said that I'm closed off. I don't know. I guess I had a traumatic childhood. But it's just weird that everyone I talk to says the same thing. Btw I want to go into politics lol |
| Question: Is this shirt too tight? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Was it drugs or something else? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:50 PM PDT My friends and I went to a sleepover. We got there and we're getting wierd vibes from the parents but dismissed them. We ate pizza and brownies from Pizza Hut. Everything seemed normal but then we all started getting s stomach ache and headache. After that we all started acting really crazy, more so than usual. We were trying to figure out what was making us act this way but couldn't think straight. Then we went to bed, woke up the next morning and everything was back to normal. I told my parents and they made me take a drug test which came back negative. So what could have caused us to feel and act this way if it wasn't drugs? |
| Question: How should I treat an old frenemy? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:38 PM PDT This girl and I were best friends and then we were both super rude to each other. Each one thinks the other was the cause. I switched schools so I didn't have to deal with it anymore. Next year we will be going to the same school and I'm not sure how to approach the situation. We did come to some sort of agreement to put things past us but I have a feeling there is still anger there. How should I handle this situation? |
| Question: Why don't I put myself out there? please help.? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:30 PM PDT I just left my college and moved home. People I became good friends with there live 30 minutes or less from my home. I still care a lot about them, it's very easy to reach them, but I just don't have it in me to make plans. I will message them, have a small convo about what we've been up to, and end it with "we'll get together soon" or something like that. I'll see one of these people rarely if they suggest something to do, that's only like once or twice ever. I find it impossible to figure out why I don't persue it. Nothing happened to suggest not being close outside of school. I whole-heartedly miss these people very much. Or at least I think I do. Is me saying this bullshit because if I really missed them I'd go and easily see them? Am I afraid that they aren't interested in remaining close? Perhaps because I wont be in school with them? Or that I think they didn't truly see me as a friend, rather someone to occupy their time with at school? Is that how I really see them? Am I nervous that if I do see them, I won't know how to behave in a different environment? Do I just not know what we'd do together without a dormhall or normal spot to hang at? Or maybe i subconciously don't really care to remain in contact with that person. If so, should I just stop responding to them, delete them on social media, and would that make me a bad person? Will it soon be too late? Or is this all just a big display of my self-absorption? Please help, I fear this is turning into depression. |
| Question: All I wanna do is socialize is that normal? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 09:40 PM PDT I am 25 years old and work full time but I also have a high urge to socialize a lot. I work full time and almost every day I get off work I wanna do something whether it is barbecue with my boys,some yogurt socializing with cousin, I love it and need it at least 4 times a week. Is that normal? |
| Question: Is having a foot fetish wrong? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 09:09 PM PDT Hi I'm a guy and I have a foot fetish for girl's feet. But I always feel like it's wrong to have a foot fetish. And I feel like most people would find it really weird and wrong if they knew. But I can't help it, I've liked girl's feet for as long as I can remember, whenever a girl passes by wearing flip flops or sandals I just have to look down at her feet and toes. And if they're nice I can't help but stare or take multiple looks. Is this wrong? Thanks. |
| Question: Why did she give a neutral response? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 09:00 PM PDT I texted my friend and asked are you doing okay? She replied with a i am working. If she was doing okay like before, she would say so. Why is she being mysteriois? |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:58 PM PDT Hi, i'm 15 years old and i feel like im a loser. lemme explain I don't really have a life outside of school. My friends invite me over to their house, but my parents say no, so im stuck on my laptop. This morning, my mom called me a loser becasue all i do is sit on my laptop and snapchat. Literally all my freinds snapchat all day, yet my mom doesn't get it. aurond noon, my mom legit kicked me out of the house for about two hours because i needed some exersise. it seems like i have no life. and to top things off my mom tries to compare me to some kid in our class who got arrested because he smoked weed and played gta 5 all day. What do you think, am i a loser??? |
| Question: Should I wish her a happy birthday even if sje didnt for me? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:54 PM PDT Too keep things short, I had an arguement with a girl who was supposed to be my best friend. We both agreed on just being friends, but she acted weird to that and kind of didnt want to be friends at all. I guess she was hurt by that, but our interactions are like two random strangers being kind to eachother. She didnt wish me a happy birthday, and if im honest it kind of bugged me but i didnt expect much. I dont plan on being close friends with her again or whatever, but i know her birthday is coming up. She knows my birthday, so i know she ignored it. Out of courtesy would it be the more matrue thing to do? |
| Question: He won't talk to me if my mom is there? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:39 PM PDT I have this older, married friend who I have had feelings for, for a bit. We used to work together, he was my boss. Back when we worked together, he was very flirty with me. I don't think he meant anything by it. Even on his last day there, he was looking at this clipboard with the schedule on it and I kind of peered over the clipboard to look at it, too, and he playfully poked me in the nose with the top of the pen. Anyways, he got a new job and left. He invited me to his church after he left so I've been going for almost a month now. Whenever our (guy) friend is there, my crush, our friend and I will chat for a good 10 minutes (his family will sometimes be hanging around, but they're usually elsewhere). When it's just me and my mom there, my crush will come say hello to us, but won't even say goodbye when he leaves. He'll look at me, but then just leave. Why won't he talk to me when it's just me and my mom? Does he feel awkward because he doesn't really know her? He's a very social person. Even somebody I work with said that was strange and that it wasn't like him. I am 26, he is 37. No it's not a joke. He's not a gross person lol you're ridiculous. You only say that because you don't know him. If you knew him, you wouldn't think he's a creep or gross. Nobody has ever gotten that impression of him. By the way, this is a nondenominational church that is very casual and friendly, so people tend to hang back and chat after the service is over. We (him, me and our friend) chatted for a good little while after service that first Sunday I went and he even introduced me to his wife and one of his closest friends. It's just for some reason, when our friend isn't there, he won't come chat after the service. houseofyum-Excuse you. I don't have any STD's. And who said anything about having "relations" with him? We're friends, that's all. |
| Question: Does this lady I met at the park have bad intentions? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:37 PM PDT I go to the park with my 2 year old son almost everyday and I meet many mothers. None of them ever ask for my number are are overly friendly but I met this one lady who seemed way too friendly.. she is from Australia and just moved here to California a few months ago. She talked about how her husband and she know a couple out here who have their own assets and businesses. Her husband and she decided to move out here because life seems more interesting in America and the couple they know are going to mentor them to have their own assets too. She asked if she could have my number and maybe they can mentor me too to help me out. She called me two weeks later and said she spoke to the couple and asked if they could help me out. She said since she barely met me, they decided they want to develop a friendship first and go from there. She wanted to set up a meeting at starbucks. Doesn't this sound weird? Why would she want to help a random person at the park? Do you think she's apart of sex trafficking?? Her kids looked nothing like her. And does it sound like she chose Starbucks to gain my trust? Or am I being delusional lol |
| Question: How to tell a friend you don't want to talk on the phone everyday? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 07:47 PM PDT I hate being on the phone. 1. I feel like I don't get anything done because I don't multi-task well and 2. I just prefer texting. I was never the phone type. I am more of an introverted person. My friend keeps calling me. She has anxiety issues and I get that but I feel like it has reached the point where she is constantly relying on me. Sometimes I am at work, or out, or cooking and she calls. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be an asshole and say "I don't want to talk", just text me! But at the same time I feel like I am forced to be doing this. |
| Question: What's your thoughts on the argument "If its popular/main stream then it has to be good!"? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 07:14 PM PDT I'm curious about what people think when someone says this in an argument. I have a friend that thinks anything that's popular/mainstream/trending it has to amazing. Am I the only one who disagrees? |
| Question: Is it wrong if a woman pays a man for sex? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 07:07 PM PDT I'm a 30 year old female and I met this guy online he's 43 he and I live in different states. We are not in a long distance relationship but I've met him in person a few times since 2015. He temporarily lives in California and I live in Chicago he sleeps out of his car so I amuse he's homeless. I send him money sometimes he does work when he can he's a comedian and writer in LA. So I told him I would pay him for his services. Do you think it's wrong to pay him for sex? |
| Question: Is he trying to make me jealous or something? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:49 PM PDT ((Names are changed)) So I met Steve from my best friend, Molly. Molly and Steve have been friends for like a year over the Internet.(I know molly in real life, we both don't know Steve in real life) molly eventually introduced me to Steve. And we have texted and talked on the phone almost every single day since. So I told Steve I had feelings for him but I wasn't going to do anything about it because we don't know each other in real life. He told me that he did too. And he's been talking to me more since then. He's been nicer to me too. He told me not to tell Molly though. Of course I did because we've been friends for 7 years and we tell eachother everything. Molly doesn't like him or anything but we think that Steve might thinks she does and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. So the other night Steve molly and I were in a group call with other people and Steve made a comment on one of our friends relationship and in which they replied "Steve shut up you don't even have a girlfriend" so then Steve replied " well I have molly." I mean he always jokes around about stuff like that but after I told him I had feelings for him and he told me he had feelings for me I don't get why he always talks about my best friend like that. He's really nice and never gets mad at anyone so I don't even think he realizes he is doing it.side note he's not a catfish, we've facetimed him, both of his friends, and have talked to his brothers, sisters, and father. You can't fake that over FaceTime. |
| Question: How to get weed during summer with no connections? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:39 PM PDT i usually get weed from my brother but he's moving across the state this summer, all my friends are extremely straight edge, and theres no chance of me getting a job, does that pretty much mean i'll have to stop smoking for now, or are there any other ways to find a dealer? i have money btw, lol |
| Question: What do these dreams of my old best friend mean? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:26 PM PDT Long story short, I had a best friend and everything was great. We had a pathetic argument, and during school pretended almost like the other never existed when we sat by eachother. Our interactions were now always smiling awkwardly like we met a new person. She has a new friend that kind of treats her badly. I was doing good not thinking about her, until someone brought it up. Now I'm having constant dreams of being in parties where everyone is having fun, and find her alone and try to talk to her but she looks at me coldly with her friend and I run away. |
| Question: How do convince your parents to let you go out with friends? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:13 PM PDT My friends invited me to a movie, and I want to go but my mom is extremely over protective. Although she let's me have sleep overs, and dye my hair she won't let me go out without her. The movie's next week. She said I'm never going to be allowed outside without her, but I literally walk to school alone. How do I convince her? I already asked them but they said no. How do I convince them? |
| Question: Can time heal our friendship???? Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:10 PM PDT I'm a guy and dude and a few years back I became friends with a girl. We became like bestfriends, but 4 months ago we had a fight. She came to my apartment To speak in person, she needed something cleared up because she thought I had lied to her. I was explaining but she just walked away, I slightly held her for 40 seconds so that I could explain. Later she sent me a text and told me to never speak to her again. that apparently I made a big mistake by not letting her leave, and that she was also abused In the past. She blocked me soo I decided to write her 2 long apology letters, and I sent her a teddy bear but she went to the police. The police asked me to leave her alone or I can get in trouble, ( but I don't have a restraining order.) I know it's stupid to ask, but would she ever contact me again????? |
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