Ex dumped me because he said he's not perfect for me. We still text often and say gm and gn. He still says I love you. I asked "what would you do if I don't love you" and he said he'd be sad. He said he'll always love me. We don't talk about sex anymore or send kissy/heart emojis. I told him I can't be just friends with him, and if he just wants to be friends we'll have to stop talking. Nothing bad happened in the rel. no cheating, name calling, or abuse. Nothing. I asked if he wanted to be just friends and he said he can't answer. I told him to take his time and tell me later. He said he'll tell me soon.

I met my husband 2 1/2 years ago overseas when my dad went on vacation back home and passed away. It wasn't the first time we met we knew each other since we were kids he was a neighbor of our families home. We got married a year later and have been awaiting the visa process for about 8 months to bring him to the US. I have seen him 4-5 times since then for months at a time. Everytime we are together we are so happy and consider him my best friend. He surprises me in the sweetest ways, makes me laugh and we almost always understand each other. we have small arguments but get over them fairly quickly. Everytime I leave we both cry a lot and wish this waiting can be over. However, as soon as I am back in the states we seem to argue about everything. We can hardly stand talking on the phone anymore. I overthink every situation and have become a clingy monster. He curses at me and I curse at him we always threaten divorce but never pull through. We have about another 4 months of this hell. Is this normal? I am afraid to lose my husband.

I am getting grief because I think it is none of my business. Husband says he wants counseling and will do anything to forgive her. He says she is cheating with this guy she has met and only leaving him because of this guy Paul. Meanwhile, she says Paul (the boyfriend) is no more then a friend and nothing romantic. She says she is leaving her husband because he will not provide her the emotional support she needs and is always at work or golf on Saturdays. She says she wanted marriage counseling and that he wouldn't go. He says he is begging her to get it and that she is having an affair. It is the family drama of the century and I want to stay neutral but everyone wants me to take a side. Mom and Dad back my Mom's cousin's husband as does my Mom's brother. Both my aunts back the cousin and condemn the husband as a "pathological liar". My mother says her cousin has been taken by the devil. One other uncle is a priest and he said just to stay out of it as a 15 year old but to be sure to know marriage is sacred. He says we can't judge but if she is cheating it is wrong. However, he notes we don't know if she is cheating and that God will forgive her if she is remorseful if she is cheating. My mother says he only says that because he has to as a priest. So whose side do I take? Mom and Dad are livid I saw Mom's cousin and acted nice as they wanted me to lecture her about her sin. It is all everyone has spoken about since April. My opinion is Mom's cousin is wrong but it is not any of my business to get involved in. Everyone is mad I am not siding with someone.

Me and my wife have been married 3 1/2 months. We first met this year at a new years eve party we been together ever since. We had sex the first date. Then she got pregnant. We got pregnant we soon got married in April. Our friends and people judge us think I just married her because she was pregnant that's not true. Even though I hadn't known her long I still loved her. Me and my first wife did the same way but people back then didn't judge us. I don't know why they're doing it now. What's wrong with people ?

My husband slept with my sister on our anniversary last year and now all this day does is bring me sadness. I was with our second child at the time. And even a year later no matter how hard I try I can t forgive him or my sister. I need some advice on what to do. Please.

About a year ago, my ex husband cheated on me and left me while I was pregnant with our second son. I never thought I would ever consider taking him back but about a week before I had our baby he came back and we had long talks about everything leading up to me having our son. Since then we have been trying to make things work and I have repressed a lot of our issue due to us not being in a good place (mentally, emotionally, physically) to be able to really talk about EVERYTHING (mostly because I moved back to my home state with our kids with his support also while he stayed to finish up college and transfer his job). June 1st 2016 marked a year since I caught him cheating and since that anniversary I have been reminiscing on all the paid I felt. Even though we aren't fully together, I can't help the feeling that this is all wrong and I shouldn't be trying to make things work. Mostly because of the thought that I feel he slept with the woman he left me for even though he persists that he has not. We are divorced and I am telling myself that when we really get serious again that if I found out he lied about sleeping with her that I wouldn't be able to take him back fully again. I feel like I am wasting my time because I don't trust him and he probably is lying, but I don't want to discard him if he really didn't sleep with him. Am I making a mistake in even trying to get back with a person that would leave their pregnant wife for their mistress? I go in and out of emotions... Sorry for typos!

We always have had a passionate wild sex life, he is very ambitious and the loss of his job has destroyed him What can I do to get the spark back?

I've been with my girlfriend for four years. Together we have two wonderful children. She's great, works hard, and is months away from having her masters degree. We share a house in a great neighborhood. We are happy. So, why are we pressured into marriage? She and I talked about it a long time ago. She said marriage is archaic and is designed to provide a false sense of security. I am all for it and support her. However, our families have gotten very aggressive about us marrying, even baiting our kids into asking us. Why the push to get married? I'm fully committed to her, with or without a ring. My mother said saying "girlfriend" makes her sound like a tramp!

I've met two smashing guys but when it got down to the wire, I was so horny and wanted it so bad, yet didn't at the last moment because I get overwhelmed with guilt because I think I am cheating!!! How do I move on?

My husband is a great father. He has raised my 2 children and our one all as his own. He treats me really good in the aspect of getting me coffee in the morning,making dinners and all of thethings tar you would want of a husband/ dad he has a great job and works very hard. He helps around the house and is really a great person. But....... I found out he messaged a woman that he used to work with, telling her She was beautiful, also found out he has messaged other women. He s also added certain ppl that I would not approve of- there has been quite a few more things i caught him lying about also. Lastly- he never wants me. He s not attracted to me, if it were up to him, he would never have sex with me again- im 99percent sure of that. I ve told him in DETAIL my feelings, I ve wrote it in a letter, I ve emailed it to him, texted, told him in person- he jyst starts to get loud and I m afraid the kids will hear, so i just let it go......but he wont answer my questions, he won t even talk about it. At all. I m starting to lose my mind over it. Cause everyone in our lives think that everything is just perfect. What in the Heck can i do???

My husband's ex-wife recently moved back to the town that we live in and I see her periodically around town. I don't like her because she's not a very nice person! What would you do to avoid someone you didn't want to see (besides move lol)?

I am recently married but have been with my husband for 6years. I recently found out that he is smoking. He s smoked in the last but haven t im 5years. I came to him about it because he has been hiding. When I told him that weed would jeopardize his job because they do random drops, he got defensive and called me controlling. I also talked to him about leaving the house in the middle of the night, without letting me know. I feel disrespected even if.it.is going to a guy friend s house. He called that controlling and said I.was treating him like a child. If I were to do something like that, to him, I would be called a cheater. What should I do?

Long story short. The father of my girls has been dating a woman for 6 months. I thought we were on agreement that any partners of ours would not post our children on social media until we know for sure its serious. WRONG. His girlfriend post my girls to her facebook 1 day after meeting them. Well I have since learned she is currently going through a custody battle with her own children with her ex husband. Over a 4 week period she has posted numerous pictures of my girls using captions such as "my family" "our girls"is there a possibility my children or their father will be sucked into her custody case? He is now living with her. She was ordered to take an anger management and parenting course. Their are social studies coming up as well as a pretrial soon. Anyone else experienced this before? Please advise

Okay so my husband's close friend (the best man at our wedding) gave me a letter confessing his love for me. He said things like I am the only woman he thinks about and he will love me even if I'm not with him. I've been with my husband for 10 years and married for 6 of those. This guy had been friends with my husband since they were kids and friends with me since highschool (when hubby and I started dating). The tricky thing is that this guy has been through some stuff. Very few relationships (all failed), bad home life, and the last person he loved killed herself. I am a very empathetic person and I do care about him but this situation is so inappropriate. He even alluded to the fact that I saved him from suicide so I'm afraid he might do something. I have apsolutely no interest in anything romantic with him. I though that was clear but I'm just generally nice to people so maybe not. I love my husband more than anyone on this planet and I have made that very clear. I have a pretty extreme anxiety disorder and this whole thing is sending to a panic. I don't know what to do. Please help me!

If they already have a house and 500,000 dollars in bank account, do you think his wife will get mad if he quits his job to finally get his degree that he gave up when he was younger? He might still have a part time job at night.

My husband has a disorder that is and has affected his ability keep his opinion to himself. Today he screamed at someone who was riding a motorized bike on the bike path and almost again got into a fight. His stregnth is poor and he seems to just scream at people when they do stupid things. A lady almost hit him with her car and he chased he down the parking lot to scream at her. etc. I had to protect him from a man who was ready to kick his a** when the man was acting like an ***. My spouse can't walk away.. Today I told him, maybe your should get your a** kicked and learn a lesson to keep your freaking mouth shut...... and I meant it. Should I just let it happen? It may teach him so STFU.

So my parents have decided that they were going to get a divorce for awhile now and I have no idea how to tell my friends. I ve almost told them a couple of times now but every time I try it just doesn t fit into the conversation or I feel uncomfortable about telling them. Would it be weird if I texted them something telling them about it or should I tell them in person? Also if I texted them how should I word it?? Thanks!!

So my dad and his girlfriend are not married but they have been dating for 7-8 years. I met her when I was 13 and she was nice at first, but that changed very quickly. She was very emotionally abusive (in many ways, too many to go into details) every time I went to my dad's house for the first 3 years, until I said something about it. After this, I thought the issue was taken care of but recently I found nasty comments about me between her and my ex, proving that she has not changed, 5 years later. The emotional abuse has caused me to have major trust issues and self esteem issues 7 years later and I do not want her in my life anymore. She has already taken so much away from me by causing extreme anxiety and frequent panic attacks throughout my teenage years. Is it wrong to cut her out of my life?

My wife and I have almost been together for a year. She has a few male friends that she refers to as hot (kind of an inside joke) and just calls them really good guy friends. I swear if she wasn't with me she would be with one of them. She has known them for a long time. It just makes me really uncomfortable, I know they text and stuff too but its nothing that appears too flirty. What should I do? My wife and I have almost been married for a year. She has a few male friends that she refers to as hot (kind of an inside joke) and just calls them really good guy friends. I swear if she wasn't with me she would be with one of them. She has known them for a long time. It just makes me really uncomfortable, I know they text and stuff too but its nothing that appears too flirty. What should I do? : My wife and I have almost been married for a year. She has a few male friends that she refers to as hot (kind of an inside joke) and just calls them really good guy friends. I swear if she wasn't with me she would be with one of them. She has known them for a long time. It just makes me really uncomfortable, I know they text and stuff too but its nothing that appears too flirty. What should I do?

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My husband & I are in between our parents while we wait on our own place; I am almost 25, he is 35. I am 8 months & have made it a priority to save $5000 for my leave for bills. He wants to get our place & has factored with rent, our bills combined, our insurance & the babies basic needs that he would still have $500 left over. He has a salary increase & $2000 bonus soon. He said once the baby is born the insurance will increase $80 a week & he will need help once I am back to work. I told him a few days ago I am freaking out knowing I only have 3 more pay checks until the week the baby comes & I am hoping I will be able to save up to $5000. He then asks if I wasn't going to be helping towards my insurance anymore. I tell him he has been paying for my insurance so why is it an issue now when I am trying to save as much as I can? He has no rent/car bill & only bills are car insurance, cell, $100 to my parents once a month & our insurance that is already taken out of his check. He tells me not to worry about money but then makes me feel like I can't comfortably take this leave w/out expecting me to pay my bills in addition to insurance once I am back at work. It bothers me that his income is higher than mine & he wants to move out/me still cover my bills when he has done the math & has seen that he can afford to take care of both of us but I still feel like he doesn't want to man up & do that b/c it upsets him that he won't visibly see any extra money in his account.

So, I keep reading stories about husbands going on and telling their wives how their old, ugly and wrothless around the kids then the kids find out their dad is either cheating on their or just being in general a asshole. Is this normal husbands?

I am almost sixteen and all I want is to be a wife and a mother. For the longest time I knew I was going to own my own medical practice but lately all I can think about is becoming a mother and a wife. I plan out an imaginary wedding and a house and a nursery and all I want is to have sex too! I am a virgin and staying a virgin until marriage is important to me, but lately I have felt the urge to break that vow all because I want a baby! I know I am way to young but it is all that is on my mind! I feel like my priorities aren't straight here because I have always had a dream of going to college and making a nice salary and having an amazing home and being successful and now I feel like I could care less! Is something wrong? Am I delusional?

I daydream and fantasize a lot. I m not happy with my life. Im depressed. Hate my job. I m being harassed at work by management. I m in an unhappy marriage my husband abuses me mental, emotional and sometimes physically. So I m unhappy at work and home. I see no peace and happiness for me other then in my daydreams. I have physiological damage and so i fantasize about this dream guy whose name is James and I love that life better then my real life. What happened is I actually met a guy coincidentally named James and I feel in love. I told him up front that if either of us wasn t married I would love to be with him. He s a decent guy compared to my husband. I can t talk to him because everything I say or feel is stupid. Well things lead to another and James and I got physical and my feelings have only grown. I don t know if he is genuine about his feelings as well. I don t know if I just concocted this relationship between us that I m the only one in love and he s only taking advantage. I feel like I m going crazy. I can t stop thinking about him. I wish I could be with him but I know it won t work. I don t know what to do I can t focus.

so many companies .have a exciting life full of expensive vacation.has a beautiful wife.very influential..he wants to have affair.i think everything he has.expensive car.why still he wants to have affair?.he can have anybody with his money..but why he choose me to have affair.im too married.. why he wants me to be his girlfriend

Well one of my step-mom's sons (step brother) is an annoying, ridiculous, weird, and full of **** person (he will be living independently soon though so i won't have to deal with his **** much longer). My step-mom is a poser, dramatic, bossy, and sometimes full of crap (like my stepbrother). My other step brother is full of crap (like his brother) at times, he also just likes to think of anything and everything he can to cut me down or make me feel bad or dumb. If I ever do something skillfull or smart or something that requires effort, he always looks for excuses and is not impressed (even when he is worse which is just hypocritical). My dad always sides with my step mom and will always choose her over anyone else no matter what. I honestly would not mind if my step mom and dad divorced (they likely will eventually because majority of second marriages end in divorce, my dad married my real mom before my step mom and my step mom married another man before my dad). They have been married for over 7 years now. I see no signs of divorce but I think it will eventually happen. However I kinda wish it would end sooner. My sister (real one) would likely be sad if it ended. Anyone know if there is much I can do to get them to divorce? Should I try or hope they divorce (sister would likely be sad though. I would also have to give up my step moms dog and have to split time with our mutual dog)?