I thought of adding my ex online. I didn't in the end but i still looked into her cool profile. She knew somehow i had looked and she requested me to be her friend. I ignored her friend request it's still on pending. I then got new message from her and it said "Is this who i think it is". I replied and we talked but when i asked her out to get a drink near my house she said "NA I GOT MY OWN PLACE NOW". We both lived under our parents roof 3 years ago when we dated but today she lives alone. Every time i sent her a message she would reply within seconds. I ended up saying bye because it got awkward. She instead of saying bye changed the subject. I didn't reply anymore. Could she still have something for me? my friends are saying she didn't turn me down when she said she had her own place but i think she deff turned me down you tell me

So I was the nerdy kid in high school but now I'm 24 and not to ego stroke I've made something with my life I started working out and I wear contacts instead of glasses but I didn't stop getting smarter. I've thought of reaching out to the girls who rejected me in high school but I don't want to seem like I feel entitled and for me it would just be dates nothing serious I know the money is a good look for me but I'm not sure

it is muslim tradition but it just bothered me so much afterwards since she cried and let out a blood curtailing scream for help

I am a 15 year old boy and I live with my mom (who is single). But lately for a few months now,I am always worrying about her. When she is at work and doesn't respond to my texts,my mind will start racing and I have to call her to check if she's ok. But this isn't just at work,it's every time she goes somewhere. I really love my mom and I would die if anything happened to her. She's only 34 so she's not old. Does anyone know why I am like this?

Me and my sis live with our grandma together. My sis loves it there (everywhere on the planet!) because she gets away with lies about me. Once she made up this really big lie and told it to my grandma. Then before I knew it my grandma was screaming at me and my sis was fake crying. I tried to tell her my sis was lying but she didn't listen and then she threw me at the wall REALLY, RELLY, hard and when she left the room my sis was laughing! And I was crying. I need help with my sis because after my sis did that she can't stop making up really big lies about me; and each time she lies about me to my grandma I get thrown harder and harder at the wall. What should I do? Please, please, help I really want her to stop telling our grandma these lies. What should I do? what about my sister. should I do revenge? write serious answers please.

To start things off I love my girlfriend A LOT but I also run a business and have to be mindful of underlying themes. I stand out from the crowd my girlfriend and I are both Latino the thing is I'm very pale so you would think I was Caucasian and she's brown skinned. We're both in our 20's and the majority of people in this industry are elederly white male of course I'm not accusing anyone of racism because I've been treated with the upmost respect these are very sweet people but this is also just business. And while none of these people have been discriminant towards me I have run into the occasional bitter white male some not even the stereotypical hill billy. But growing up my dad didn't want my mom and I around his frineds or family but that's because we were considered an embarrassment to him as to where here I want my girl to be safe but I also want the money the Hispanic version of an Uncle Tom I guess

I and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years and the past month we have had some serious problems that seem to be over now and this past month his family has been putting so much pressure on him about some life decisions not related to me. However I have heard that his mom has been telling everyone that i am the reason for his depression and this really hurt my feeling because im getting hurt myself in this process and i don't think i have done anything except trying to be there or save the relationship . do u think i should go over and talk to his mom and confront about what she has said about me?

....girls of Irish, German, British, French, Dutch and Scandinavian ancestry nonexistent without having recent Eastern European, Italian, Greek, Spanish, Portuguese, Black, Native American, Asian, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Indian and Polynesian ancestors ?

I feel that the guy is a stalker to me. He's really odd, awkward, awful, and strange looking. There's no proof I really talk to him personally, and I'd be like he's not part of 'home'. Without talking to me, he can spread a vicious aura because I'm always happy with myself, but people besides him started to say I look unsatisfied. In studentroom, I think that I've talked about him, and the discussion I typed really isn't vicious either, but people here started to get angry. I'd say it's contagion. Because I've heard the piano tune which is my repertoire and also which is not familiar with anyone in studio on campus. Because of him, it's hard to talk to students on campus. He shows up anywhere. When I met up with white friends, he looked odd. He's meant to be an Asian. I'm a guy, and I feel that there's a male stalker like that to me. He's not meant to rob. He's not meant to sneak in my SNS. He was in that colour in clothes on that day after SNS. I can't work on music which I like recently. I'd say what's wrong with his environment and awkwardness. I can't meet up with white male friends recently. He freaks me out and he makes me ill. Is he kicking me out of campus? Why? What should I do?

I understand that you cannot do everything you want in life, but I've consistently been around people who tells me what to do and makes me feel like I am below ****. Even when I become assertive, people remind me of their authority status. It feels like I am powerless.

These guys mostly have an athletic build. They have fuzzy hair all over their arms and a beard and increased facial hair. Most of the times you see them with a dark slick hair across their arms, some of them have Popeye arms. Some of them wear a pink t shirt, white baseball cap pointed to an angle. Others wear polo shirts. Most of them have their hair bald or with a buzz haircut. They tend to always pick fights with each other, and get in each other's face, throw things at each other, and when I am around them they try to beat me up or bully me and and make fun of the way I talk look and act. The women that I meet normally hangs with guys like this, why?

So since the beginning of this week, I had been depressed a lot. So yeah I wanted to die as well. I will let you know the possible reasons why I feel like this. 1. I don't have a job. I don't have a job for around 5 years, so do some of my friends but most of them have a job and experience. I even forgot every little I learned in college. I had applied in almost every company I know, including fast food and stuffs. They either not reply me, or they say that currently the job opportunities are only available for Senior Managers or Only for Arab Nationalities [I'm Indian btw, wassup] , or only for Ladies. Some even just say that they will call me back about it [which just means sorry we can't continue with your cv]. I am basically a fresher. 2. There is a girl I love, who I want her to be with me. She said she loved me the most and still decided to chat with me because she is concerned (that is what she said). I love her too till now, but it hurts me that she decided to fall in love with another person. I don't want to talk more about this. 3. My mother is sick, my dad is getting older. Since I am jobless, I am not helping them in their health. Which is really bad. So these things may sound so little, but it hurts me soo bad. I always wished I was dead, never tried to end my self, I will never do that. But I wish I would. It never lets me sleep properly. It kills me emotionally. Sometimes I just want to scream so loud like how Hulk does, but I don't want to disturb anyone.

It's so uncomfortable talking to people eye to eye. Even with my own friends or family when I talk to them I look at their shirt or something. Is this some antisocial problem or something?

My son's father just texted me from the hospital saying he had a Heart attack at age 26. I left him 7 months ago but we were talking about getting back together recently and I texted him about not being sure if we should.. obviously there's more but this is the jist. I guess he had such a bad reaction to that, that he ended up having a heart attack. I don't even know what my question is... I'm just freaking out and don't know what to do? Hes an hour away and cant get to hom so im sitting here freaking out

Hola qué tal miren,ya tiene rato que termine con la que era mi novia,fue en buenos términos aúnque en el fondo los dos sabíamos que nos queríamos,bien pues ella rompió el contacto cero con mensajes de WhatsApp, aunque esporádicos pero lo hacía,cuando se enteró de que una ex me visitó,me lo dijo y dijo también que no tenía que darle explicaciones, de ahí ya no me hablo ni me mando msj,solo hasta el Día del padre que me dijo que ojalá y que me consintiera y que a donde fuera mi ex me buscara, a lo que solo le dije que gracias. Al otro día en la madrugada me escribió y me dijo que si estába con ella pero no le respondí, pasaron unos días y me hablo por telefono como dos horas y me lanzo una indirecta que si estaban con ella pero no le seguí el juego, siguió mandándome msj y me pidió según ella en broma que la llevara a donde estuviera, y hace unos días me dijo que porque seguía con el mismo número, no sé que quería que le contestara pero su pregunta se me hace absurda, presiento que la está pasando mal pero no quiero preguntarle ya que cuando terminamos decidí respetar su desicion y no buscarla más. Que me pueden opinar?

I m 37 and my husband is 48. Are people looking younger? Because it seems that people are getting carded at an older age. As a little girl in the 80s and a teen in the 90s, I noticed as people got closer to 30, they were seen as more grown up. Are people actually looking younger in this day and age? Also, is it because crime has gone up since the 80s and 90s? What has caused carding laws to become so strict? At 37, it is a little annoying. I feel like a 21 year old young adult instead of someone going into her middle years. Also, do tattoos or piercings make someone appear younger.

Que opinan Llevo una relacion de un año y hace unos meses me acompañe a mi amiga a ver el tarot y yo tambien quise y me dijieron que mi novio era mujeriego y que me seria infiel pero el nunca jamas me ha dado motivos ahora no siento confianza ni seguridad en el y me esta haciendo mal psicológicamente

Something really crazy happened to this boy at my school, who has harassed my sister and me before. And I wanna know what you think. He was recently using a vacuum cleaner to masturbate (he's 16 years old btw). And I guess it was an old vacuum or defective or something, because his penis got minced! Like, he made it to the ER in time to save himself, but not his penis. It was totally cut off, and too damaged to reattach. It was sad for most to hear this and all, and all the boys feel sorry for him. But the boy was known as both not attractive but also a big pervert at school (I guess that's why he tried to get pleasure from a vacuum). He once grabbed my friend's boobs against her will, and always stared at mine. Plus, what he did was obviously kinda dumb. So some of the girls at school took a bit of humor in what happened. I wanna know what you think, so: 1. Do you feel sorry for the boy? 2. Do you think it's at all funny, what happened? (& why)? 3. He still has testicles, and hormones. But will he feel any pleasure, without his penis? Or any sexual "release"? 4. How will he get a girlfriend now? Or ever please a girl? 5. And how should us girls react to him, if he does act badly again? What should we say to him? ?

What is their true personality like?

I know it sounds silly but, for my last year of high school I plan on attending online school. Now they have a graduation ceremony like regular highschools but, I don't really care to attend it. I mean I'll hardly know half the class anyways and my family couldn't care less. I'll still celebrate it of course but, I just don't want to attend the ceremony. I just wanted to know in general can I not attend and still receive my diploma? Can they really take my diploma from me if I don't attend?

Is love real? Is true love real? Or is all fake?

Just broke up with a man I'm deeply in love with because I cannot imagine my life with his two young kids and my son together.. our only issue is the kid thing. I want to travel alot and I don't know how I can do that with 3 kids in tow.. is this a reasonable thing to break up eith someone over?

I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school so when I joined high school I decided to do something about it There was a new boy in town that had autism, he attended special school because his parents knew if he went to public school he'd get bullied incessantly. I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him & convinced his mom to cancel his schooling, claiming to always be at his side & the kids at our school were nice. As he entered school he inadvertently shifted the target off of my back & plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the special school he was in, Thus he is forced to live a miserable high school life, & I am now spared from the abuse I bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" & told me to defend him the next day or I would get grounded & she would get him back to his special school. I didn't do it, but I escaped punishment through pure luck due to the boy telling my mom that I defended him, in hopes that I would be his friend again. However, I did not become friends with him & said it was nothing personal, but if we did I'd get bullied too. Everything ended so peacefully for me. It's been four years since high school, I'm in college, doing well. I googled the autistic boy & discovered he became a loser in life. He is now a criminal & he blames it all on the bullies. I am starting to feel a BIT bad about what I did, not enough to regret it tho

I'm was sent to another store to help a brand new manager in day to day operations, I'm currently an Assistant at my store. I asked the new manager permission to do this and that bc to not my store and I did not want her complaining that I did stuff with asking her. The manager was very excited and said do what you want I appreciate your help. And with that she went on vacation. Two days into her vacation, I had reached out to my District Manager to notify him why the entire surveillance system was being worked on (apparently he didn't know it was broken) which caused our POS system and the store internet to be down of most of the day. He text me back saying that I did not need permission because we both were managers, with a wink eye emoji. Know I have told my DM couple of times that I want to be promoted as a store manager, and he agrees but has not happened yet, so when ever we talk it's like he rubs it in my face. So what you think about the comment and the wink eye emoji

so I took my son back in my home , under a few conditions--no internet activity and no more taking my panties from laundry hamper, . It didn't work, he brought home magazines which I found and mysteriously I've lost 3 pairs of panties. So, A friend of mine told me there is hope--she told me to tell my son that almost all the women that my son is masturbating too are likely dead or in drug rehabs. I told my son this and you should have seen the look on his face--long story short, my son is back working and going to marry his long time Gf.

Everyone in town knows exactly when your wife picks up your kids from exactly the same door everyday. Isn't that reason enough to not start trouble?

For example, would you get mad and kill yourself if I said "please thank you" and bought a soda. Or do you expect that I and every other customer ask about your wife and kids.

If my mother is a member of Zeta Phi Beta, would I be a Legacy?

So just recently my brother is getting a divorce, and our family is quite pleased with the situation. We didn't feel like it was our place to tell him not to marry her, but we also didn't feel like it is our place to tell him to keep her. We tend to stay away from their martial issues. Now since the divorce is being filed she has been blowing up all of our phones and even phones of family members she doesn't even know.. We don t know how she got their numbers.. Well after none of us said we couldn't help her, she started bashing our family. Asking why we couldn't do anything? Why we couldn't help fix it? Why are we abandoning family (her and her kids)? They only been married for 6 months, they only been together for 2 years all together, and they aren't my brother s biological kids (she uses them to make us feel bad a lot). But now she is gathering a bunch of people on Facebook telling them a sob story and bashing us. Is this normal? Are we terrible for not wanting to step in?

He sounds very childish.