I'm just ready to ******* end her, all my life all she's ever caused me is misery. Iv'e seen her treat my mother like complete and utter **** ever since I was a child, she's a burden I am so happy to just remove. I've seen other people say they feel guilt when they think about killing their annoying grand parent but I honestly do not, in fact I wouldn't mind blowing the heads off of all of my family members (except my parents and sibling). I just got blamed for something that isn't even my fault, I won't go into details but this honestly feels like the last straw I just feel so much anger, I literally pray she dies I couldn't care less about her or anybody else.

At the end of the school year I got my first boyfriend on the last day of school I lose my virginity. I started sleeping over his house..at first he used a condom than I told him he dident have to because I loved him and what was ment to be was ment. I dident think it would work because I had sex with him almost every other day in the entire summer and never got pregnant. But For the past 2 weeks I been sick but I only thought it was from drinking beer and partying. My friend who is 18 drove me to Wal-Mart and brought me a pregnancy test.. I later found out I was pregnant..I'm shocked but feel happy to be a teen mom..I told my bf he's content, how to tell my mom? Btw every since she got her new job I have been partying and changed a lot..I'm afaid when she finds out I Will not have the freedom I do now..how to tell her? I wanna be a mom because I love my boyfriend

I went into my ex instagrams. I debated to add or not. I decided not too and minutes later i got a friend request from her. I ignored it and 3 days later today she sent me a dm and this is what happened: Girl: Hi is this who i think it is? Me: idk Guess? Girl: John? Me: Yes how you been? just wanted to see how you are doing and hey i saw you with your little bro (she must of known i visited her page somehow) Girl: Where did you see us by? Me: By your job and would you guys like to hangout soon maybe grab a drink soon? Girl: Nah i got my own place now Me: That's cool well keep doing good. Hey i gotta go btw bye take care of yourself. Btw your little bro is not so little anymore he's taller then me wow!. Girl: Yes he is huge and he play's sports I didn't txt back. It was a huge ugly break up. You think she turned me down or actually meant we can bring this to my house type of nah? Read her 4th txt when she say's nah it was because of this i thought she turned me down.

My dad didn't live with my family during his affair during high school. I'm 24 year old female. I took care of my unwell mom. I started to become independent in college and they moved downsized and I didn't even have a room in the house. This pic is from my brothers. I just remember my dad taunting my and losing my cool throwing weight at my brothers door yelling leave me alone And him coming crashing thru pinning me to bed about to kill me. Ever since I have panic attacks anxiety went a little off deep end and I'm even back home not working so I can get better. Haven't seen my dad since moving home yesterday. The only thing that grounds me is looking at this pic and remembering what he did. He is a lawyer and so manipulative I feel gaslighted just me or scary situation?

When I was in vacation, my aunt and my mom reported my school for a tutor, they reported him for stealing which he was not stealing any money. They just did not like him so they decided to report the school which my school ended up having him to sign the no contact contract. So, my mother and my aunt been sending evidence to the school which turned out that my aunt was logging into my computer every night to look for evidence, also she saw my browsing, my conversations with my counselor and the dean of the school. And the messages between my tutor and me. Also, she brought evidence to the dean, but she LOGGED into my computer every single night to see what I was doing and talking to. She took pictures of everything what was on my computer. I m a college student and I did nothing wrong either the tutor. Even took a picture of my profile picture in my college website.

My mum seems to think that I bully my 11 year old brother(I'm 16) but I try to tell her that it's just how siblings are like we just don't get along sometimes(he is really naughty btw) and she said to me she wishes that I get bullied so I can learn not to "bully" my brother despite the fact that I was already bullied in primary school for years and she knows this and I said it to her and she didn't care.

help me because i can't handle it. i'm 14 and i can't be around her.

Okay so the 4 year relationship with my boyfriend is ending soon and we got into a huge fight. First of all I'm 22 years old. I saw my ex boyfriend and I didn't wanna talk to him. We dated in high school for 1 year (he was 16 and I was 15). So we were waiting for the bus and so and so. Then we ended having sex at his place (I couldn't help it. He's still so HOT!!!). Then I realized what I did and I put on my clothes and ran out. I told my ex to never contact or see me ever again! I never told my boyfriend about the affair. We had sex a month ago. Then last week I found out that I was pregnant. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and I don't know that can be an we used a condom. And birth control. Same with my ex. My ex found out about my affair and butcher at me at it and called me a lying "slut" RIGHT if my face! He kicked me out this morning (we were living together for a year in a half). We had a DNA test last night and my boyfriend is devastated that the baby isn't his and it's my ex boyfriends. My boyfriend dumped me. I called up my parents and asked if they can help me and let me move back in. My parents refused and told me I can't move back in and why should they bail me out. My mom said if I wouldn't have slept around with my ex having my boyfriend and act like a slut, none of this would have happened. I was shocked when she told me that in my face. My dad said that I would have to find a way to support myself and the baby since it's my own fault that I screwed up and got pregnant. My dad also said mom and I aren't obligated to let me move back in and don't expect them to bail me out and I should have kept my legs closes. He said I am being a selfish backstabbing person and acting like a whore. Then he said he guess I'm not woman enough like he thought I was and I shames them both. I starter crying but theg didn't give a damn. I'm their little princess and they should help me. My mom said, "YOU NEED TO DO THIS ON YOUR OWN! YOU'RE AN ADULT! ACT LIKE IT!" I have no place to live since my mean *** parents wont let me move back in. My boyfriend kicked me out and said, "If he leaves you and the baby, don't come crying to me because YOU broke my heart! Have a nice life with your new baby and ex you filthy slut!" I really hurt him very bad and I didn't mean to. He treated me so good in all. Now my ex boyfriend who is the father is treating me like **** now that I'm carrying his child.

I really do like my crush but he's always catching me on a "bad day". Whenever I'm in the worst mood possible he's there..he never shows up when I'm actually looking cute and am in a good mood it's always during a fight with my mom or a private personal moment. Since I'm unhappy it's hard to just "drop everything" and be nice to him especially when I'm not even expecting him..it's like he's more comfortable with following me around when I'm with my parents vs being alone.. Sometimes he makes me mad to where I feel like punching him in the face for invading my privacy..overall how to not take my anger out on him?

Everyone always tells me how great and funny I am. Everyone laughs hysterically at my witty comments. I'm not sure how to handle the accolades. Any suggestions? I thought about saying, "I know".

My older sister found out that i watch porn. She saw it in "My files" but didn t directly confronted me about it, but instead called me a loser( im 17 and shes 24 btw ). I know she saw the videos becouse it was in "Recent files". I just feel so embarrassed and can t even talk to her. Please help!

I m 16 and I want to move out of my mom s and live with my dad. The problem is I don t know how long it will take. Things with my mom are bad now but they will get much worse once I say that s what I want to happen. So I want to know about how long it would be. So I know whether I can deal with things being worse for however long it ll take or just stay in this house that isn t really good for me for 2 more years.

She was scared of her parents, could this be a motivator to expose me to this scary man. The uncle would rage at his wife and kids and yet we would be forced to vacation with them due to my Mom. I am wondering if it was my Mom's dreaded terror of her own parents who she was terrified of disobeying even as an adult.

So two days ago two men kicked in my front door while my 15 year old was home alone. Thankfully she reacted quickly and scared them off before they grabbed anything or had time to hurt her. She called police and a report was filed. The problem is now she is anxious and paranoid.I understand being fearful about being in the house alone but she actually doesnt want to leave the house. We forced her to go to the park for lunch yesterday and she had a severe panic attack and didnt stop crying and shaking until we brought her home. Is this normal? Shouldnt she not want to be in the house? How long until she gets over this?

It is my late brother's son who recently moved back to the area with his mother. The son is 20. He runs into me wherever I go so I know he is following me. He drives past my house a lot. I kind of feel sorry for him but can't deal with him, I have three kids of my own.

I am 23 years old and my parents have never gotten along since I was a toddler. They always argue and now they rarely talk to each other. I just graduated from college and trying to find a full time job to move out, but am having trouble with that. I don't have that many friends nor do I have a lot of people to talk to. My mom is trying to control everything in my life. My dad works until 9pm at night. My mom eavesdrops on every single phone call in the house which drives me crazy. I am getting extremely stressed and irritable at everything. I cannot talk to my mom about this (rarely anything) because she only sees things her way, gets mad whenever. I say anything to my dad, doesn't want me to date anyone and doesn't want me to move out bc she will be alone -but I'm moving out as soon as I find a full time job. She is so rude and has said so many hurtful things to me during my childhood and adult life- so there is no "talking" through this; that would be pointless. Can anyone give me advice on how to deal with this? Please?

Hey I'm 19 years old yes I do live at home but my parents don't pay my college schooling. I have 2 part time jobs. But I don't drive yet. I want more freedom from my parents. Lately my friends are making fun of me how I should get home on time because it's "pass my bedtime". My mom and dad only let me go out sometimes and only til 11pm. I do everything they say and never say no. That's crazy!!! And they are really old fashion. I want to talk to them so I can go out later and they should trust me right?

I love her and it saddens me to see her this way. But she just always need money and lies to get. Like and steal. She's not on drugs but loves money. She'll manipulate her way to get it. She'll say she's at the hospital, she has an illness and all types of scary lies. Any time of the night, she comes to my house parks in the drive way for money. Will also think for her birthday you are suppose to give her all your money and the said part is that when she's doing well I don't hear from her and Everytime she calls it's about needing money for food, her medicine or bills or to just borrow it. She'll cry and get upset. I can't ever sit down or talk to my Mom without the topic of money coming up or her needing something. This stresses me out everyday makes me feel like a bad person, she says its my job to take care of her. I'm in college barely working and cannot finance her. She's only 45. She doesn't take her meds because she spends it on other stuff. What can I do?

My main pressure comes from my dad. He forces me to study electrical engineering when I'm not interested. Today, when I didn't put a bottled tea in the fridge, he called me an idiot in front of the whole family. It was not only insulting but embarrassing. I usually don't see my dad because we have a different schedule and he's always working. These past few years, I've started to keep my distance from him, such as not eating lunch together, avoiding family activities, and studying in my own room. This year though, I've started to resent him. My bitter feelings toward him are toxic. It makes me want to cry every single damn day. He has always been sarcastic and insulting. His words are very sour and will say "bullshit" when he doesn't believe anything. His word choice is hurtful. His facial expression just shows how he feels about himself— his superiority, and that he's the one always in control. The fact that he's so controlling over my life and my emotions are just not helping. I know that I'm not stupid. I'm a valedictorian, I skipped a grade, and I do my best to study. Facts: I'm a 16 yr old girl. Only child Chinese family High expectation parents Want to be independent ASAP Applying to uni's + my dad's dominance is just giving me so much pressure and I'm constantly breaking down. Anyone know what I should do? Or has the same experience?

So, when my sister was 20 they bought her a house, car and paid all her monthly bills. They also gave her extra money on the side so she never had to get a job or work. 8 years later she makes 30-40 thousand a year My mom still gives her money, pays her bills and buys food whenever my older sister needs it. My mom says that my sister barely makes any money and she needs to support her as much as possible. Now they expect my older sister to be independent and live on her own money, help us out with bills, and take care of me and my little sister since they're getting old and they're upset that she's not doing so. Do you think my parents screwed up my sister or raised her wrong?

I'm visiting my boyfriend for about a week at his parents home in California. I live in Florida. So what the gift, it has to be somewhat small because it's going in the suitcase. We've been seeing each other since February and I've briefly met his parents when they came to visit him in Florida a couple months back. Apparently his parents don't have much taste for alcohol. His dad to my understanding likes motorcross, cigars, and is an architect. His mom is Brazilian, likes making food (don't want to bring a cookbook though) and is a Pre-School teacher at a local church. Price wise, I don't want to spend more than $60 combined. I just need ideas for both.

Hi. I'm in a prank war with my brother. I have some ranch soda that I bought online, and I want to pour it down my brother's buttcrack while he's passed out, but I know he's going to punch me. What sort of spells can I cast to make me immune to its? I am not opposed to gathering various herbs that are available at CVS, but my curfew is 10pm, so keep that in mind.

everytime she is with dad, she complains about going out and how much she has to get dressed. She always talks about wanting to sleep. We are going to Florida on THursday. All she wants to do is just sit at the hotel at the beach for two hours. Maybe six.

So my dad and my mom are separated since I was like 10 years old. I don't see my dad often, but he came down from New York to take me on a college tour so that I can start thinking where I want to go when I graduate next year. So last week we were at the hotel and I went and took a shower and when I came out I remembered I had not taken my clothes in with me, so i wrapped myself in a towel and walked out to get my stuff. As I am getting my stuff from my bag, my dad says: "What's the big deal, just change here. I'm your dad, it's not like if you are in front of a stranger." I though about for a minute, and then I thought "Oh what the heck, he is my dad" and I got rid of the towel and then changed without caring what he saw. Now I feel guilty, or I don't know what I feel. I just feel that I should have done it, or I don't know. Can someone help.

So I am 16/F and I just met my dad 6 months ago. He has invited me along with his wife to a clothing optional beach. My mom told me it was ok if I decided to go. I do not know though. For one, that means seeing him naked and then that would me going naked in front of him and his wife. On the other hand, I think it would be a cool trip. Should I go?

When I was little, starting at 8 years old, my mom used to make me go with her to work during the summer and help her. She cleans houses and does dog sittings. I m almost 17 and my mom has been "sick" for the last month. She is now making me go and do her job for her, not with her. for her. She wakes me up early in the morning and has a list made for everything I have to do for her. I understand she s "sick" and I wouldn t mind helping, but it s summer. It s getting tiring having to go do her job, not get paid for it, and then go home and get ready to do my own job...during summer. I haven t been able to hang out with my friends one time since summer has started. When I tell her that I m tired and I don t think it s fair that this is happening, the starts screaming at me and telling me that I never help her do anything ever, and it just stresses me out and makes me depressed. Is she right to be doing this?

...gave me back the memories of abuse in which they would come into my room as a child and abuse me in voodoo. Of course, there's nothing I can do. They've framed me a threat to society, making me live a mile away from them. I guess I don't have a question, I'm just alone in being abused, so venting.

I'm 15 and I've lived in this very small, old house my whole life. My town is particularly unwealthy, yet where I grew up all my friends typically lived in these very nice houses, some of them even in mansions. I've always dreamed of having parties and stuff but not in my house out of embarrassment. Almost my whole family has wanted to move all my life and now that we finally are I realize the same problems will follow me. Just bare with me here. One of my siblings has this really bad odor and idk why and I'm worried that he'll stink up the new house (my brother obviously.) my brother also has lots of parties (he's 17 btw) and often when he gets mad he tends to break furniture, like literally punch holes in the wall or will throw a chair, my parents pretty much lost control over him and I'm honestly scared he'll wreck the new house. And on top of that I've shared a room with my sister my whole life and I'm finally getting my own room. Problem is there's one bigger room then the rest besides the master. I keep explaining since I'm the youngest I'll be in the house longer so I should get the bigger room but me and her have been fighting over it ):

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We moved 5 years ago I'm 25. Parents split and had a breakup during that time things went downhill. After I graduated moved away for two years to do service and I got worse. During senior year of college dad came after me in my brothers room pinned me to bed screaming at me when I asked him to leave me alone and ever since I disassociate badly. I need to b home now to refind myself and get healthy but even hearing my dad causes me to disassociate he is a short lawyer w anger issues and is kind of creepy. My only room is brothers room in this house and it reminds me of him coming thru the door. How do I ignore these feelings? I had managed to move away for a week but I cannot feel safe anywhere since this happened and I need to get grounded. I am nOw home because I need to get better but is this my best option. My dad and mom separated for 5 years and he wasn't home when he was having an affair and I did really well but now he is home and attached me etc but I need a place to call safe and get better

So my mom went through my phone and read a message from my boyfriend saying he wanted to have phone sex. Keep in mind that I'm 21 years old and ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 6 years. When my mom read this she was so furious with me and said that she thought she raised me better than this and that I don't respect myself. She said that my boyfriend doesn't respect me either but he does. He treats me like a princess and always goes out of his way to make me happy. Even though I know it's no excuse and I shouldn't argue with my mom I feel sad. She doesn't even talk to me anymore. It's been 3 days and I'm so embarrassed to be around her, she used to be my best friend. I know she's disappointed In me but it is my choice on what I decide to do with my boyfriend. It's been 6 years for goodness sake, she was even younger than me when she got pregnant but I know she wouldn't understand this and it's ok I don't want to argue with her. I just feel ashamed of what she thinks of me now, we used to be best friend but it's been days and she looks so angry when she's around me. I want my relationship back with my mom. What should I do? I feel like crying sometimes.

My grandfather s birthday was yesterday. Sadly, I didn t get to celebrate it because of my mother. So, here s the story. My uncle is usually a childish immature person, so on Father s Day this year he was playing around by bopping my mother s head, my mother got mad because she told him to stop and he did it once more. So she left and refused to come to back to my grandparent s house when he s there. She got so mad because she has vertigo which thankfully is getting better and almost gone. She s been mad over that since last month, which I find ridiculous. So, my uncle was over my grandparent s house to celebrate my grandfather s birthday, and I m guessing because of that you already know I didn t go over there. I called my grandfather and to tell him happy birthday and sorry we couldn t come over. He seemed very sad and tried to convince us to come over. He also stated that it would ruin his birthday if we didn t. My mother did not care and blamed this whole situation in my uncle. I am very angered by my mother because of this.

Lately I've been feeling like my life is falling apart. I know there are people who are worse off but that doesn't mean I have a great life either. When I was younger I never once questioned my parents relationship but as I've grown up I've come to realize that my parents were never truly in love and now their differences cause arguments all the time. We're not very well off financially, we almost lost our house earlier this year, my dad doesn't know how to spend his money, my mom is very short tempered, my brother who is 17 is always getting high, he's also become more aggressive and disrespectful towards everyone in the house, the police have come to our house several times because of him and I just feel like all of this weighs down a lot on me and my little sister who is 11. I feel like I'm just trying so hard to act like my life is perfect towards everyone that doesn't know my situation. I go to school, get As, dress like everyone else, participate in marching band, everyone thinks I'm the nicest person ever but I feel like any moment everyone is gonna find out that I hate my life right now. There's so much more problems that weigh me down but we'd be here all day if I named them all.

I know a family who is to be losing a family member soon, and before the said family member passes away, they are all saying they want this and that in the persons home. I get that when a family member dies, the family goes through their stuff and take what they want AFTER the person dies. I have had many family members die in my family, and no one had ever called dibs on what they wanted before the person passed away. I don't know if it's just me feeling this way, but it's just sickening to hear of these people being eager to call what they want before the person passes away. Is there some kind of etiquette about wanting something from a soon to be deceased persons belongings? Or am I the only one repulsed by this kind of greedy behavior? It's not like they have other people to fight over it with, the only other family to claim anything lives states away and won't come to get anything themselves, so there isn't a rush to pick what they want.

What should I do!!!!???? So my biological dad raped me on multiple occasions so to me he is dead. Anyway, my little sister was in tx with our other sister(was supposed to stay for 2 months) she's only 15 yrs. Old and our older sisters husband raped her so she told our older sister and she didn't believe her she she booked her a flight to get her out of there as quick as possible. Hanna had no one to pick her up from the air port or no where to stay cause our parents were out of the country on vacay and wasn't gonna be back for a week. No one but me was able to pick her up so I had to leave work and in order to keep getting fired I had told my boss that my biological father had just passed away (he's dead to me anyway) I told them that so I wouldn't loose my job and so I would be able to pick her up from the airport and keep here with me till our parents got back. My bio dad never actually died but now they are asking me for a death certificate or some form of paper work. What do I do?

Alright so one thing i hate is that my little sisters talk to me like they grown and disrespect me but only when my mom is around. Ok so when my mom is home they talk to me like they grown and ofcourse i dont let them because what i look like letting some little girs talk to me like that im (15 their 10) so i usually talk back to them bad and sometimes but my mother of course shes on their side and gets me im trouble instead of them. Now my dad he lets me talk and hit them because their not about to disrespect me. But ok so when my moms not home they act so good and talk to me with respect because they know better , they know that my mom isnt around to defend them and they know ill beat they as* , i dont play i like to fight sometimes they get me so heated but its whatever .

I'm heartbroken, I've always looked up to my sister, I just turned 19 on July 23rd - she's 32 and has 3 kids who I'm very close too. me and her weren't the closest because of our huge age gap but I'm very upset. I care so much about my nieces and nephew. I know she didn't forget my it because our mother and I same the same birthday. She always expects me to come to her college graduations but never attended my high school graduation or ever says congrats or happy birthday....until I tell my mom and she has to remind her. Idk what to do because I want to be apart of my nieces life but not around a sister who doesn't care ... mind you I always say hbd to her and congrats and happy holidays.

So my parents want me to give them money, but I want to save up for a car because they wont get me one. I am 19 years old in college, and my community colllege is 30 mins away. my dad takes me I have no car. so Im going to save for one. Then we had an argument and apparently Im a piece of **** and stingy. I have no where to go..

For example I wake up very hungry and decide to cook eggs on my own. Then when it's ready, one of my siblings come and say "I want some!" then scarf down half of it. I tell them that there are other eggs that they can make on their own, but they insist to share mine. I mean, I would understand if it was the only thing we had left, but there's still more. They just have to cook it. (They can cook btw) I know I'm kind of bantering right now but what are your thoughts? :/

Before now I kind of just thought of it as he whole sibling rivalry thing because that's what my mom always said but seeing other people's reactions to what she's done made me take a closer look at everything, any time she does anything though my mom says that either I'm overreacting and it's normal for siblings to fight or that she can't help herself because of her bipolar disorder.

So hello guyz. I was talking to this girl and ask her about dating guys. She be like " i dont wanna date right now. I care more about education and my family. " She is like 16. Does that mean she trynna curve me 😂😂😂? I mean im a guy and I have that goal too. To get a good job in life. Im 18 byw

My grandma is currently dying in the hospital rn of cancer. The doctors started giving her morphine today ( about 4 mg every 2 hours, I think, I might be wrong and/or that might just be a crazy amount and I misheard it) anyways we know this is the last week we have with her most likely and I want to know how to have closer with her. I'm 15 years old and I'm so thankful that I had a grandma for this long of my life ( she's 91). I wanna talk to her even though she is sleeping and probably won't wake up but I wanna talk to her and tell her how much I love her and that me and everyone will be ok after she passes. I dont know I'm gonna talk to her yet but I think I need to before my family says that they all talked to her and told her it was ok to let go and that she may be waiting on me to tell her that I'll be ok cause Im the one who takes care of her most of the time when my aunt who lives with her can't. I've been at her house for the past 2 weeks helping her walk and go to the bathroom, making sure she eats etc. i don't want to be the last one cause I was the last one to tell my other grandma who died 13 months ago. I told her I'd be ok and later that night she had passed. Any advice to help with closure before she dies. Should I tell her that its ok to let go and that soon enough I'll see her again?

so my dad has a bad temper. I would forget to turn off my light or mess up in any way and my dad would yell at me calling me an idiot,stupid,and moron and most of the times he would hit or slap my in the face/head i just can't deal with it anymore.I cringe whenever I call him dad.

I don't know if I'm over Thinking, but this is what happened, and I need someone else's perspective on what just happened. So my step sister and I are close, but we keep our distance at times. So today I visited my mom and step dad, I havnt seen my step sister in like a week. (I only see my step family on the weekends), so we went to visit some of my moms friends, and we went to the beach, and ever since I saw my step sister she's been acting very flirty, but this is normal because she acts flirty with everybody. Through out the day I catch her staring at me, sometimes I even acted like I didn't see her but I could see her in the corner of my eye. she does so many other subtle things that I can't explain, that lets me know she likes me, she's done this for a while tho. But ANYWAYS, all that happens a lot, which is pretty normal. But today specifically was really weird, so we got home, I sit down in the living room to watch Comedy Central stand ups. She comes to join me, but she's wearing these shorts that easily expose everything, so I'm watching it and then the guy doing the stand up starts talking on a topic (BARE WITH ME this all adds to the story) the topic is about how girls shouldn't be mad when a guy looks at a girls *** because it's built in our DNA, but yah, I couldn't help but laugh(like crying laugh, it was really funny) so I guess she thought it was relatable To me,

That they'll try to get at everyone else as much as they can, if they can't get at me. Like sabotaging my Mom's PC. They can see all the traffic that's coming in and out of the residence, those dumb fcks. It's just what I said, it's got no benefit for them, it's just that little bit of feel of control. What about me? NO, I don't do things just for the feel of it. I've got my objectives. Such as my Mom at least having internet and PC using privileges.

My dad is not assigned to my families section 8. And he got a job that is a half an hour away so what can he do?

She refuses to get her things out i told her she had by tonight to get every single thing that belongs to her. She had a week to do this btw and now she is saying she'll be back tmr but the thing is im turning in the keys tmr and i need to have this apartemnt clean by wednesday. She refuses to open the door to my own apartment she locked me out and btw she is not on the lease. Letting her stay with me was a huge mistake i just need help right now. She keeps on threatening on calling the cops on me. And making false accusations About how i stole her money which is not true But shouldnt i be the one calling the police on her since she refuses to leave my property? HELP

Was bored and went into my ex Instagram and was debating to add or not. I decided not too and minutes later i got a friend request from her (something had let her know i had visited her page obviously). I ignored it and 3 days later today she sent me a dm and this happened: Girl: Is this who i think it is? Me: Guess? Girl: John? Me: Yes how you been? just wanted to see how you are doing and hey i saw you with your little bro (she must of known i visited her page somehow) Girl: Where did you see us by? Me: By your job and would you guys like to hangout soon maybe grab a drink soon? Girl: Nah i got my own place now Me: That's cool well keep doing good. Hey i gotta go btw bye take care of yourself. Btw your little bro is not so little anymore he's taller then me wow!. Girl: Yes he is huge and he play's sports After i didn't txt back. It was a huge ugly break up. Moral of the story you think she turned me down or actually meant we can bring this to my house type of nah? like re-read her 4th txt when she say's nah it was because of this i thought she turned me down?.

So my mom had me really young. And from what I remember, we never fought, I always wanted to be around her, she expressed she loved me, she took me almost everywhere especially when we lived with my grandma who was emotionally/mentally abusive. well now I'm almost 20, we moved in with her new fiancé which I'm happy for her because she always wanted to get married. But even before we all moved together, my mom never likes to be around me. She hates talking to me. We fight a lot and she says a lot of hurtful things. If she does something to screw me over, she doesn't care or apologize. She treats me like I'm 12. She makes me last priority when it comes to everything. When it comes to her fiancé and her friends, she wants to be around them all the time. But with me, it's like she wants to get rid of me and it hurts me. I've tried explaining my feelings to her and she just says I'm ridiculous and that I'm being dramatic. She breaks a lot of her promises to me, but only with me. I'm leaving in a couple weeks to transfer to college and I feel like her and her fiancé are counting down the days. He complains about me to her. Meanwhile I've lost a lot of my friends since they all went to college and I'm now moved away from them. I feel like I moved for them to be together and she never takes that into consideration. It hurts because I wanna hang out with her and have a close relationship, but it's like she rejects me. I feel like I'm meant to be a lonely person, what do I do?

I m 23 years old and have been living with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. ( I got kicked out for doing theatre). My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years. Recently we got an acting opportunity in Atlanta, Georgia and I want to take advantage of it. His mom (who lives in Atlanta) has got us all an Apartment in Atlanta and has told us we won t have to pay rent but we will only have to buy groceries every few weeks. We will be taking classes online and we both get about 5,000 dollars a semester so we should be okay financially. The problem is that My mom lives here and we don t have any family. She s sick but she s know how to get around pretty well. She s a little codependent and I m having a hard time breaking the news to her. I leave in 7 weeks and I don t want to hurt her. She s not the most understanding person and will be very upset about this decision. I just want to be happy attempt to become successful follow my dreams so that I come back and take care of her. I just want her to understand that I don t want to be 25 or 30 years old still living with her and taking care of her and unable to establish my own life. If I can help it I don t want to settle for just any life, I want to live my life and try my hardest to be successful. So back to my original issue , how do I tell my mom ? Will God punish me for making this move ? If my mom feelings are hurt , how do I cope ? How do I not seem selfish ?

my mom has custody of me (im 12) but my dad has custody of my brother (hes 16). i only see my dad once or twice a month in the weekends cuz he lives far. i want to go live with him but my mom said NO. i asked my dad if i can live with him and he said yes but only if my says yes. my dad is really nice and cool and loving and good and never did anything wrong so I don't understand why he can't take care of me? my brother lived with my until last year but he chose to move with my dad and my mom said its ok since he's old enough. i ran away once to my dad's house and my dad got in trouble. my mom said if i ever do it again i wont see my dad til im 18 but its not fair. my mom is a biitch now. i hate her ever since she got married to my stepdad and had a baby. i hate my stepdad and baby sister. my mom never pays attention to me anymore. i dont think she even loves me anymore. i begged her not to have a baby but she didnt listen. she REPLACED me with a new family. well my dad still loves me and pays attention to me so I don't understand why i cant live with him? what are the laws? and what can i do to live with my dad fulltime?

Ever since my mom got married to my stepdad and had another baby she never pays attention to me. we used to be very close but now shes like a stranger. it makes me really sad. i dont understand why she had to have another baby. wasn't i good enough for her? i feel replaced by her new family. i begged her not to have a baby and she didn't listen. i hate my baby sister and stepdad and im starting to hate my mother too. i want to go live with my dad but he lives in another city far away and i only see him on weekends once or twice a month. my mom said i can't live with him but i don't understand why. she said i go to school here but i can switch schools. my dad said i can live with him but he said its my moms decision. why is it her deicison? its not fair. my older brother is 16 and lives with my dad but mom says no for me. i ran away once and took the bus to my dad but my dad got in trouble and my mom said if it happens again she won't let me see him at all but it was my decision. i want to run away but its not an option so what can i do?? (i'm 12 by the way)