I got a legal separation October of 2016 I didn t ask for alimony at the time as I thought we would be able to work things out it turns out we aren t and i started the process of filing for divorce am I able to still get alimony or will I be denied it because I didn t ask for it in the legal separation?

So I was having a really bad day. I have two jobs. And one of them is the middle of the day and one of them is a graveyard shift. So I only had one hour of sleep today. So I went into work feeling really bad about myself and this guy hit on me and asked for my number and I politely declined and told him I was engaged. He was polite and backed off But honestly his comment made me feel a lot better about my day. My fiance' text me and asked how my day is or going Should I tell him about this guy and how he made me feel better about my day?

...women have rosecolored glasses and men have bluecolored glasses on...

Possibly seeing my mom cheat on my dad 5 years ago has something to do with it. Also maybe because we have 2 young kids and we are usually in parent mode. Anyone else ever get this feeling but have no reason why?

So this girl was very close to me at some point, but she's kinda shallow and so impulsive and always want to have all the attention .We're from the same country and we got closer to each other, but i wasn't flirting with her so i guess she became curious and kinda started flirting with me. She knows that I'm virgin and she said it so many times that I'm innocent and comfortable to talk to so i started showing her my attention. One time , she was asked to vacate her apt and she had no where to go , so i offered to rent a Uhall for her, and when we packed her furnitures in the truck, she said that she had to go to an appointment and let me hanging in the truck for 3 hours , and later i realized she went on a date while i was waiting for her in the truck. Anyway, i noticed that she started using my good deeds and tell the popular guys( like one of my friends and her teacher ) about what i did for her, which is unfair and out of context. All those guys had a good impression about me, so that made her look wanted and made me look obsessed, as if she was using me to market herself.She started hanging out with me and my classmates. and after a while i figured that she was using me for emotional support and when she needs some real help , also started hanging out with one of my friends and asking about me as if she was digging for my imperfections . I started distancing myself from her, and then my friend who's a player told her that another girl likes me , so i felt she became jealous and started calling me more frequently. I decided that she will just break my heart and i deserve better, so i cut her off a year ago. now i somehow feel she became curious why, so she started to hang out with that friend and another fried whom i consider very close to me. they both hide that from me , and i feel humiliated bcz she tells her side of story which makes me like obsessed with her. they also hide her stuff from me yet they share mine with her. I feel it's unfair, bcz one of these guys is the player and he's kinda boring so he uses me to keep her interested and to market himself so i distance myself from him , the other guy is a nerd and he'd do anything for a girl and he's my best friend. but he hides the fact that they hang out from me, yet i feel he share my stories with her. Also he always pick other people's side if I'm complaining to him . i really feel angry and wanna save my reputation. what shall i do ? I feel it's unfair, bcz one of these guys is the player and he's kinda boring so he uses me to keep her interested and to market himself so i distance myself from him , the other guy is a nerd and he'd do anything for a girl and he's my best friend. but he hides the fact that they hang out from me, yet i feel he share my stories with her. Also he always pick other people's side if I'm complaining to him . i really feel angry and wanna save my reputation. what shall i do ?

In a nutshell I just want to be informed on this situation and what can happen. My sister is 18 and her ex is 19 he has had a bad record of smoking marijuana going to juvy twice, history of attempted suicide/overdose, and anger management issues. He s about to get evicted at his moms apartment (he doesn t work) because he screams to much. The cops know him by name and how he is. He recently forced his "daughter" (MY dad has always been a provider for her for 2 1/2 yrs.) to stay with him and cops couldn t take her out of his home. My sister is going to get full custody or at least try with him onlybhave supervised visits. Is that possible? Or would the baby have to sleep over with him on weekends with his record. He states that his record is clean even tho he just ended his probation. What can happen in this situation? Can sperm donors like this really get any custody at all?? HIS poor grandma told my sister many times to find a better "man". That should say it all. Like I said I just want to be informed on the possibilities.

I met my husband about 9 months ago and 1 month into our relationship he proposed and moved in with me. Then 5 months later we got married. Now we have been married for 3 months. We had arguments and disagreements. However there was a betrayal on his part because about a month ago when first time he said that it's over, then he started texting msg with other, way older about his moms age woman. We both are close to our 30's. Yesterday he told me that is doesn't feel the same way anymore and he doesn't know if we can ever have that feeling back and also said that doesn't want to deal with a problem. He wants peace and doesn't want do talk or discuss any problem with me. He left to his moms place for a night then came back got his stuff and left again. He said the he will be back in two days to go over his papers (rest of the stuff). Does it mean it's really over and nothing can be done at this time? What should I do? Will be change his mind and come back? We haven't discussed anything about a divorce yet He is a prideful Leo !!!!

I told her now is not the time. Give me 2 or 3 years at least. I tried to convince her to forget about it. No use.

Two years ago I took my children to see their uncle. When he was in the garden with his fiancé, I took the key for their lounge area and let my children in to play with the tortoise. When my brother in law the saw door open he got mad that I had opened it and then we discovered the children put the animal in the bath thinking it could swim... It was an accident, they are all under 10. He and his fiancé told my husband he was welcome to the wedding, but not me or my children.

Never been married and not sure if I want to. Finding a lot of people who don't want commitment nor marriage. So why waste my time? I have made the choice to be single.

What would you tell someone whose soon to be 29 and never married? I'm at the point I am not sure if I want marriage because some people don't take it serious nor commitment. I can't find a guy who wants commitment in dating less more marriage.

For an man to be still in love with another woman from the past who didn't love him back while he's engaged ? He continues to talk to her a lot but he also loves his fiancé.

His brothers are loud, obnoxious and they love to drink. They also fight with each other at their older age. When they don t drink they are just loud. They also are his half brothers. He thinks our child will be exactly like them.

So I'm not allowed at his house anymore because I don't leave the room and hang out with her or his family outside of just being in the room with him I go as far as to sneak out when no one is there just so I won't have to bump into anybody. I'm this way with my family also . I just don't know why I'm like this but I don't want to change . But obviously people around me don't like it but I just don't care enough to change. But I love my boyfriend dearly I don't want to lose him I just don't have it in me to want to hang out with his family and show them how i can be the perfect "girl next door". Seems like I have to put up front and pretend I actually care about them when I really don't. I know I should do it for the sake of my boyfriend , but honestly it's not enough I'm already 28 I've been this way for years I don't think I want to have to change for his stupid family just for the sake of keeping him . I love him though. I just wish his mom didn't have expectations of me leaving the room and showing my innocent side to her when really I don't care nor want to waste time impressing anybody I don't care for. Does everyone feel this way ?

My ex husband has had his computers confiscated by authorities on more than one occasion. He has never been charged with anything. This happened on two different occasions years apart. He insists it's all a big misunderstanding and it's from downloading movies he didn't pay for. Should I be concerned? One of the reasons we divorced years ago was due to his addiction to pornography. He has not dated since our divorce which was several years ago.

I've been in a relationship with a wonderful man for over a year. He has 5 year old daughter from his previous marriage whom he has full custody of. I care about his daughter very much and am fine with being a stepmom and being put in a full time mom role in her life. However she has some behavioral issues, doesn't listen throws tantrums etc and whenever I try to be spend time with her lately she has been very rude towards me and acting out to the point where I don't want to help. She will throw tantrums to get her way and she decides where we eat, what we do etc. she also won't walk and insists on using a stroller. She won't let me buckle her in her car seat, make her lunch, do her hair etc she wants daddy to do everything and she doesn't hesitate in saying she doesn't want me to do it. As a result my boyfriend has said the problem lies with me and I need to spend more time with her even though she does this constantly to the point where I don't have interest in helping her. What should I do?

Well i'm married and having a rough patch recently. There is this training that i'm currently doing atm. I met a girl there that i fancies. Just after the training, i asked her where she lives. She kinda lives a few miles from me. Well she gave me a lift on that day and we had a good chat. When i got home, my wife asked me out for a dinner to fix things up. She stood by me even when i had nothing and ready to fix things. Then the next day, she came to the training and was acting kinda weird. I asked for a lift and declined. Meanwhile I have already decided that i'm not willing to pursue a relationship with her after making up with my wife. I'm currently feeling guilty about everything. What should i do to move on? We have another 2 days training coming up next week. I need advice

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Is it still incest if you discovered your husband was your brother after you already got married and had kids? This was recently discovered by our mother who I thought was my cousin after a DIY DNA test she did. We can't be the only ones, other fellow incest ladies raise your hands!

Noone is forcing them. Does that mean they secretly want commitment at least from 1 woman? Why be a wuss? They can get a maid...less maintenance than a housewife. Marriage is men's idea. Yet they say women who want marriage. I dont buy that crapp Last time i heard a woman made a man commit suicide and they charged her for it....go jump off a bridge...you did...now i get charged??? Oh fcking jesus..we are in the stone age because they are then guaranteed to get laid No guarantees. You're more guaranteed to get laid by visiting a bar

In ther Quran theres a verse that states something along the lines of "one of the worst sins is exposing ones sins which Allah kept it secret.". So lets say a guy goes out clubbing, islamically thats wrong, but what would be really wrong is if he bragged about it to his friends since hes exposing what he did. Now lets pretend I use to play around and have sex with lots of girls in my past (obviously not marrying). Now i am a better man, I met a nice girl and we have a connection, but she askes me "just curious, are you still a virgin?". What am I to do in this situation? Is it permissible to lie and say yes I am so I dont expose my past sins, or would I need to tell the truth, as lying in itself is also a sin?

She will be heartbroken. Told her our finances are not there and our house is too small. Can't afford another a bigger house yet. Going back to the sleepless nights will be tough too. I love my wife and want to make her happy, but this will make her sad. Any advice ?

A colleague of my husbands gave evidence of him fvcking his secretary, its been going on for 18 months it's broken my heart. I am so angry now I want revenge sex, his brother has made many passes at me over the years I am thinking of letting him screw me and secretly video it to show my husband This would hurt the ba$tard so much

I'm not sure what to think. I'm 48 and my fiancé is 46. We both have children from previous relationships who are in their 20s and teens. We haven't set a date yet. Earlier this year his dad passed away. He didn't have much but did have a home in a small town over from the beach. When he died it still had a pretty big mortgage. He must have borrowed against it or something. I found out when he was having a conversation with someone else that he and his two sisters have decided to "keep" the house and not sell it. In other words use it as a vacation/summer place and pay the mortgage taxes upkeep utilities, forever. He never said a word to me. Never asked me what I thought. This will become my expense when we are married. His sisters are married and I'm sure they asked their spouses first. We Always planned to retire (only 17 years away) and buy a home at the beach together. Not one 10 miles from the beach as this one is. Now he already owns one with his two sisters and their families. I'm not very fond of the house as it is very small, dated, etc. he will have to go there constantly to check on it as his sisters are 6 hours away. I feel angry he never even asked me what I thought as it will become my debt and headache too. Am I wrong? I thought couples made large decisions together.

I want my co worker who is 21 to be the one I tap. My wife is 50 and is concerned that I won't give her enough attention. We have an open marriage.