I am not confident in passing down my own genes due to the fact that I am an ectomorphic manlet. I know that I am 6'3'', however, I feel that I still qualify as a manlet because of my ectomorphic frame. I know that I have height, my tousled bedroom hair, my pillowy lips, my hooded bedroom eyes going for me, as well as my high IQ but thats not enough. I would be willing to have my son forgo all of these things if he could have the robust build of an alpha to ensure his dominance and ability to slay to infinity with women. I lived my life as an incel beta until I met my fiancee and I do not want my son to suffer the same fate. My son will rise not be an incel beta or an ectomorphic manlet! I have befriended a Nigerian heritage man at work who has the robust build of an alpha and he has plenty of success with the ladies. He also has very high IQ for a black man which is special because they on average tend to be an entire standard deviation lower than the average white man on the bell curve. I feel that if my wife carried his son, he would have success with women and be a true alpha. Of course he would still be my son because I would raise him and ensure he becomes a real man. How can I convince my soon to be wife to sleep with him when she is ovulating to ensure that we have his son who will become my son. I already talked it over with him during drinks and he agreed because he said that she is hot and he doesn't see himself raising children anyway as he prefers the life of a bachelor. I think that my fiancee is only opposed to this kind of thing because she is embarrassed by her colostomy bag but I don't think that he'd mind because even high IQ black men have low standards. Why would she turn down a robust black alpha slayer pleasing her and giving her a son? I even offered to be in the room to support her but shes still not into the idea. Is she a racist is that why she doesn't want to have sex with and have a baby with a dark nigerian man?

Everyone in town knows exactly when your wife picks up your kids from exactly the same door everyday. Isn't that reason enough to not start trouble?

I have no idea what to get my wife for our third anniversary. For our first(paper anniversery), I bought her concert tickets. For our second (cotton) I got her a small decorative calendar made of cotton with our wedding date on it plus a more practical real gift. This year (crystal) I'm thinking of getting her a crystal pen holder with an etching of her dog (she loves that dog more than me, I think) plus I found an online retailer for her favorite body soap (no longer available in stores) you think that'll work?

Since I worked for a boss that sexually harassed me a few mos ago, my husband has rapidly gone nuts. I have always preferred male friends to female friends and have always talked to people. Recently, he hacked my Facebook and went through messages from mos ago where an old friend started talking dirty to me (unsolicited). He sent screen shots to my mom so she could "know what a piece of **** her daughter is" and also wrote the man and threatened his life and cursed him for speaking to me. He did this 4 years ago to an ex boyfriend who hung out with me out of town. He goes through my phone and demands he sees all texts from males and females and is convinced my mom is fixing me up with guys (my mom does purposely stir the pot by lying to him about me talking to guys). Is this normal? I have told him I am not in love with him and will not be in abusive marriage #2 (1st husband was this way as well) but he refuses to leave and refuses counseling. He says it is "suspicious" that I talk to my guy friends.

My Husband and I have been together for 2 years and married for 1 1/2. The entirety of our relationship (since the beginning) lack of sex has always been an issue. We connected strongly on a emotional level and everything else in the relationship was very good for the most part. But sex was always a problem. I tried to overlook the problem and hoped that with time it would improve but it really hasn't. Since the beginning we have tried to have sex numerous times to no avail. He always loses his erections and doesn't even seem to have as much desire for me as I have for him. But on the other hand he will go and watch porn away from me and masturbate with no problem at all. So I really don't understand what the problem is. We have talked about this issue constantly over the past 2 years but nothing seems to change. Ever. There is always a reason and an excuse. Being celibate and loyal to this man for the past 2 years has taken its toll on me. I'm only 29 and I feel like an old woman Thats been married for 20 plus years living in a sexless marriage. Its making me miserable and I don't know what to do. What is going on? I don't think he is gay and I don't think he is having an affair with anybody else. but I just cant shake off this gut wrenching feeling that he does not love me and or find me attractive (Which he insists is not the case). I don't even know what to believe anymore. I feel like Im somehow being used and am unappreciated. I feel so Miserable. What can I do?

My husband pays his child support every month, we exercise all the time with her that w possibly can. His child is currently in extracurricular activities which my husband pays half of every month as well. My question is his ex is looking into putting there child on a traveling sports team. Aside from the charges from the team/company is he responsible to pay for her traveling costs like gas, hotel, food etc? Not looking for negative answers as he takes care of his child and is a responsible and loving father. Not trying to get out of anything, just asking since this isn t "black and white" in the court order. Thanks

She does have revealing pictures/videos/text of me and does have my home address, work address & my wife's phone number. I'm scared, I don't know what to do but I honestly don't think she's capable of this

I have been with my husband for almost 3 years married 7 months. I m 20 and he s 23. I feel like we rushed into things because we don t even have our own place we live with my parents. Lately our relationship has gotten very boring and we have sex once a month. I have a friend of mine and he lives in a different state and has told me to divorce him and I could be with him. I get the attention I want and love from my friend. The type of of attention I should be getting from my husband. I think I m falling out of love with my husband and falling in love with my friend. What should I do?

I'm sure there are others in my position and no I am not planning for divorce. I am 30 and she is 34. I don't like the concept of marriage because it creates problems where there aren't, but I'm willing to go for it. I broke up with previous girlfriends for the same thing, but I'm willing to do it for her. The problem I see is the following - She earns 40k and I earn 150k. I have properties from the parents in the US and Europe. I first met her 7 years ago and we dated on and off for a while, and it's not a trust thing. It's just that one cannot predict the future and no one can predict how an angry or bitter woman can act. She has gone nuts when I asked her for the prenup and her friends and family think it's not right what I want.

My wife was previously married to her high school sweetheart for 2 years before he passed away. Now we are bout to have our first child and she wants to name our son after him. Not just the first name but his last name for our babies middle name. I'm totally offended that she wants to do this

Hello everyone, My wife who I love so much just had a baby 8 months ago her body change and no energy thru out the day. I don t care about the way her body looks I still love her and still see her attractive since the day I meet her. lately the bedroom fire had died out. No excitement no fun nothing. We just stick to the same moves. I m on top,she s on top,I m behind. And that s it. I am a bit freaky and try to tell her lets do this let s do that and it always get shut down. I tell her let s go to the naughty store and she said u go u buy it. It s a partnership and I want her to be the level I am. Like I said I love my wife from the bottom of my heart and it will never change. Just wish the bedroom can be exciting like I want it to be. Am I wrong? Need answer or tips. Any body have ideas. What should we do what should be brought into the bed room toys books machines don t care just need answers.

I have a family, anyway... would I be a prick if I just looked her up?

Vice Versace. My husband wants to adopt his nephew, but I don't want that responsibility now. My job is going great, I have a great social life and a kid would be a big damper on my life. How do I convince my husband to send his nephew to a foster family

Is it considered emotional and psychological abuse if your partner refuses to let you sleep? And when you complain, they cover your mouth and say shut up...then say that everyone knows a Virgo like to bs. To me it sounds like a complete disregard for the partner. Make them feel like their needs don't matter and that no one wants to hear what they have to say. Is it domestic violence?

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In January, my wife and I invited the neighbor across the road over for coffee, mainly to discuss an issue about her husband's drunken behavior. Nonetheless, our fears about her well-being were partially correct, but she was fine and appreciated our concern. So my wife decides to lighten things up and brings out the gin and tonic. I had too much alcohol and was planted in the sofa, when my wife comes over to me, and starts touching me and telling the neighbor about our sex life, etc. I thought it was inappropriate, but she then went ahead and unzipped my pants, and pulled my c*ck out and pretended that she holding a mic and began to sing. The neighbor found this hilaroous and couln't contain herself. I felt like a fool... So now, the neighbor walks over and takes hold of my member, and pretends to sing. My wife laughed when this happened, and I was surprised that she would allow another woman to do this. So my wife eventually loses her sanity and passes out on the other sofa, and the neighbor tells me, "I'd be pretty bummed if I don't at least get a s*ck of that c*ck," and begins to perform oral on me. My wife was still cold-out on the other sofa, when my neighbor pulls up her skirt, pulls down her panties, and sits on my crotch, riding and grinding deeper, harder into my pubic region... cowgirl style. Recently, my wife mentioned that the neighbor was pregnant, and all I am thinking is that this child could be mine... How do I explain this? Is this even my fault?

My husband and I have been separated for 4 months now, we had been together for 1yr and a half. We would always fight, big fights mostly caused by me for no good reason. Always got mad at him always yelled I could never have a good time with him... I ve been going to therapy and I m working on my myself been changing I treat him better but he doesn t want to give me another chance he says I broke his heart and he can t trust me that he feel stupid if he gives me another chance. He claims he still loves me but doesn t want to be with me. I love him so much and I can t let him go. What should I do ? I need help. Anyone been thru this before ?

I m making too many mistakes in everything i do.Everything I do like do errands I screw something up.Like I forget something and he gets mad that why am I always forgetting things.Like for ex. he asked me to get him a drink & bread.i kept calling but he wasn t answering.i went home without buying anything.I didnt get him the drink he wanted or bread.He woke up so pissed.He asked me if I got him anything I said no & asked me how does it feel to be useless.i was hurt I can t tell him anything cuz he will win or pin me down.i didn t know he wanted the color he wanted.He said that I should ve known from a previous purchase.Like everything I do is wrong.im trying to do what Im supposed to do.i go to school and work.He s mad that I wasted his time of two years of not going to school.I m trying to help around the the house I buy some stuff I can t work that much cuz I put school first.I just started.when he gets mad he says "only thing iam is nice""I m a burden why haven t I left to my moms"only thing I m good at is bieng nice"when I tell him it s not a big deal that ppl make so many mistakes he dousnt understand why I m not capable of anything. I need to know is it ok to be making mistakes?Am I really making a lot?He says I do.i do forget and I do make a lot of mistakes.i think I have ptsd because it s one of its symptoms I was abused emotionally, physically & sexually.I m trying hard to be independent.So please tell me is this normal?He says it isn t normal to be making so many.

I have been married for a little over a year now. Before the marriage I was a very ambitious and a witty kind of girl. I smiled a lot and had a very positive energy. My husband family hated me from the moment they laid eyes on me & since the marriage they have verbally and emotionally abusive towards me. I am not the same anymore because of a lot of things has taken place. My husband acts like he don't see or hear anything his family says. Our next door neighbor says she slept with my husband and that the family loves her. My husband and his family denied all allegations. She knocked on my door one day and sought out to fight me & hit me with a bat and I proceed to fight back against three people my husband didn't help me at all he just watch me get jumped by a man and two women. I could go on and on about a lot of different things that has taken place this year. Tomorrow I'm thinking about going to a womens shelter with my 9 mo daughter to get away. Should I try to work my marriage out or am I over thinking? Or should I get out???

I want out of my marriage. My husband and I have been together for 3 years and married 2 i don't think this is something I should continue When we got together we set goals and made plans and things are not going as planned. I know for sure if I wasn't with him I would be further in life than I am I believe he's holding me back from my full potential and doesn't want the same things I want in life. I want to end it but I don't want to hurt him.... please give feedback

We had such happiness fullness and love, then a colleague warned me of his affair and I confronted him. He broke down and admitted he had fvcked a girl at work!!! Why for gods sake why do they do that??? He blamed the whore for chasing him, I have had men proposition me at the gym but never ever did anything because I was married Why? Distraught and confused

Look, I totally understand that some men and some women can separate sex from emotion. I understand that sometimes a married man or woman can seek sexual pleasure outside of their marriage in a one-night stand situation, and have it mean nothing. But, how on earth can a man (specifically a man) really love his wife IF he is also committed to a long-term affair that is both emotional and sexual with another woman? I'm talking more than a year. Cheating husband and his other lover are in constant communication with each other daily. They are deeply connected on more than a sexual basis. Sometimes they go a month without sleeping together but they never go a few hours without checking in on each other. HOW can a man who is this involved with a long-term affair partner truly love his wife? Is his behavior not proof of his complete lack of respect for his wife? Please humor me. Power Flower - interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing; gives me something to think about. However in this case, it is certainly not an open marriage. The wife is completely in the dark. Hell would break loose if she discovered his infidelity... again (he was unfaithful 9 years ago, but caught in the act the first night).

I am about to get married at 20 to the love of my life. My bride to be is twice my age -40 years old. We have courted/dated for a little over 2 years and have lived together for half a year now. I have heard countless times from friends and family the familiar words along the lines of: "What are you going to in (10/20) years when she's (50/60) and you're (30/40)? Even my fiancé has expressed her fear of me leaving her when she's older. I have no doubt in my mind that I love her no matter what, she is an incredibly beautiful woman and an amazing person. Either way I recognize and acknowledge that I am only human and that I am not invincible to natural struggles I may have with her age years from now. Is there anyone with similar experience who can share what to expect?

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. We have a young daughter together. He has always had an anger problem, yelling and being emotionally abusive occasionally. However, it wasn't until last month that he hit me. He was drinking and got mad at me and left his mom's house (we were staying there for the night while our daughter had a sleepover). He has drank before but not gotten mad like this. Anyways, he came back while I was sleeping and turned the light on and punched me without saying a word. I screamed and his mom heard and then he started punching her when she came in to help me. He pulled me by my hair, cops got called by our neighbors. In other words, it was a horrible mess. I love him but don't know what to do. We have the no contact order dropped. He says he made a one time mistake. He got charged with 2 counts of Assault 4 (trial is not over yet). He says he will try and change and has gone to anger management but has not been truly honest with everybody. He got mad because I let the police take pictures and signed a medical release (I didn't go to the docs though). I know that it is unacceptable to be physically or emotionally abusive. I don't want it to happen again. He still exhibits control problems with money and parenting. What should I do? I love him and hope he can change. I haven't told anyone about this and need some insight or outside opinions.

I suspect that my husband is in a relationship with someone else. Is tbere any way ro know if he is going to have me served with divorce oapers beforehand? What are my options if that does happen?

My wife and I come from two different backgrounds. I was raised upper middle class, and she was raised lower middle class to poverty (growing up in trailers). Now we have been together for almost 9 years now, and we have pre-teen daughters. She believes that my standards are too high for our children and I should lighten up; ex: I expect rooms clean, to pick up after themselves, chores done everyday, and they have to earn/save for what they want ect. She says I'm being too hard, but I refuse because my parents raised 6 of us and all but one has found happiness and success in their method. Although I'm not saying it will work for our kids, but I want to teach them how to get want they want versus begging for it, and that neat IS better. On the other hand, none of her family even went to college, and they all but one out of 5 still live in poverty. I want my kids to be happy, but how do I get it over to her, that my intentions are for the best of our children?

This afternoon I was folding clothes and putting them away in our new dresser my husband and I bought. Suddenly a black skater dress fell onto the floor. I never have seen it before and I know it's not mine since I don't wear a size small, it also still smelled like a strong perfume. I asked him about it on the phone and at first said he didn't know. I asked him calmly and suggested it should be donated. he responded second time rude way saying "I don't know what your ******* talking about" when I was silent listening. I don't think he would cheat he has been working overtime and weekends he's with our toddler. I was gone for a month to help my sick grandmother in a different state and had my daughter with me, we always FaceTime and on weekends he went fishing with his friends while I was away so it's not likely. Is he telling the truth? It bugs me a bit because he has lied before about sleeping at a female friends house passed out drunk on her couch since he didn't want to drink and drive a year ago before we got married. They are no longer friends and we moved to another state Supposedly they never did anything but this clothing appearing is odd.