Family: Question: Why do people expect you to love your family?

Question: Why do people expect you to love your family?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 01:56 PM PDT

I don't get it, why should I love my siblings just because they are my family? I mean, it's not like I HATE them, I just don't really like them because of their personality. I have an older brother and a younger sister and they are both very boring and lame. They never do something that is fun, never go to parties or anything and are too quiet, especially my sister, she never talks to anyone. They both want to be in the house all day and hate socializing. I just can't enjoy being around them. I mean what should I do with them? Sitting in the house and playing video games? Yeah sure... and when they talk to each other they talk only about weird nerd stuff which nobody understands. They are just losers with no life. I mean my sister is 19 and still a virgin, how pathetic is that? Somehow people can never understand when I tell them why I don't like my siblings and never do anything with them. Why that?

Question: How to rebel against parents?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 01:37 PM PDT

How do I rebel against my parents? Only light rebellion, I'm not gonna like do drugs or anything that will have an extremely negative impact on my life. Just like small things that will get on my parents nerves.

Question: I'm really worried and need advice (5 stars to best answers)?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 01:21 PM PDT

Ok I know this sounds completely ridiculous But here's the story I was eating some ramen noodles and I was full so I dumped the rest in the sink. Knowing my stupid self, I didn't realize the ramen could clog the sink. Now it's clogged. I tried methods to get it out now it's worse. My dad is gonna come home and flip! What do I tell him? I'm extremely worried he's gonna be really angry

Question: If a mom talks about her daughter to you?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 01:08 PM PDT

I work at a country club, and often cross paths with this woman from Housekeeping. She asked me about school (I just finished my Associates in business) and started talking about her daughter, who works in Tennis. She mentioned how close they are, how she graduated high school with honors, and is very good at volleyball. She then asked me if I thought she was pretty, which I do and I told her that. Why would she talk about her daughter to me so much? And is there a chance she talks about me to her daughter?

Question: I got an abortion because my mom threatened to kick me out if I didn't get one?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:59 PM PDT

So I'm 26 and just had an abortion because my mom threatened to kick me out. I had the option to move in with my boyfriend family his mom offered but honestly me and him weren't getting along as he was egging me on to also get an abortion despite his mom being very excited. Now i regret it and wish I accepted her helping hand but now it is too late. I'm also upset with my mom because I'm her daughter why wouldn't she take my hand and help well according to her she said she's done with kids and that the person who got me pregnant should be the one to maintain me so I'd have to move out. Why was this so tough and why was I so weak that there is millions of girls out there with less support than me and still decided to keep it

Question: How can I over come the past and learn from it? Rather than just looking back and just being pissed off?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:56 PM PDT

Ok so whenever I get flashbacks I always get pissed off and mad at the times When I was always being mistreated and the days on how my family would yell as if I m a punching bag..especially when my mom was always towards my brother..my mom loved me don t get me wrong..but it was just ****** up on how she did that..its been eight years since she passed away and I just don t know on who to talk to and what can I do to overcome the past..I m sick and tired of always being mad at it

Question: My brother keeps calling me fat but I m not!?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:25 PM PDT

My brother keeps calling me fat been though I have the average weight for my age. I told my parents but they ignore me and tell me it is fine if he says that. I tried responding to he by calling him a loser, but my parents were mad at me. I asked them why it was okay for my brother to call me fat, but I couldn t call him a name ONCE. They said "Because he s a boy". After I called him a loser he just said you re the loser. At least I have friends. I go to a gifted school and take the bus for 45 minutes, so my friends live far away. My brother has never even seen them because when they come over he s always in his room. And it was a big accomplishment for me to find friends anyways because I have major social anxiety. When he says that I m fat in front of his friends, they just laugh. What should I do?

Question: I am so tired of my sister living!Here. what can i do ti get her in trouble without getting caught by parents?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:25 PM PDT

This mf. I hate her. For years i have felt bad for her when i was younger when she was being really horrible to my parents and getting kicked out and ****. But now, i have grown hatred. Sure im nice to her when she buys me something or goes on coasters with me but i cant take her anymore.shes a HO, lazy slut who cant take care of herself, keeps getting this mini disease or inflammaion infections and had to keep going to the doctors a few weeks ago, had a baby at 17/18? i think or 19,22 and still lives at home with parents, doesnt know baby dad,good for awhile then she ***** up. i want something to happen to her.i want her to get out and never see her again or just anything bad to happen.i am thinking of using an ouija board (not to kill her or anything lol..) but i was thinking of usinng that to make her gtfo of my parents house already. i just want her OUT. i seriously cannot take this ***** anymore. whenever she gets me angry, i want to seriously ******* beat her *** or just do something to hurt her like hit her with something and that makes my anger go away a little and adrenaline go down??and she thinks she can fight but really she probably cant bc she thinks shes tough and talkin all this crap on SCLM when my mom gets her mad sometimes. i dont really want her to die but as much as she puf my family through the past years, i finally realize i cant fully like her anymore or whatever i have torwards her.What canido tomake herget out already?she works but is still kinda poor

Question: Why does my mom want to be around me now?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:08 PM PDT

My mom left my dad and I when I was 6. In a few months I'll be 23. I've hardly spoken to her. Basically she left because she was a very young mom( had me at 15) and didn't like that parenting me was dragging down her social life. Now, all of a sudden, she's hitting me up on texts and Facebook all happy I graduated college, got a job, etc, wanting to meet up some night. I'd like to think that she's making a real attempt to reconnect, but, I cant help but feel there are some selfish intentions

Question: I need to care for my parent but i want to get into dating scene?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:07 PM PDT

Im just worried because i think nobody would want to date me and eventually marry me because i plan on taking care of my parent (living wih parent). Im not living with my parent because i dont have job. I just need to take care of them. any advise ?

Question: Was this rude?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:01 PM PDT

My sister invited me and my kids to her sons(my nephews) bar mitzvah. He is also turning 13. I asked my sister if I could bring a cake and also sing happy birthday to my daughter (who is 3) at his party and my sister said no. I think this is rude because if she asked I would have said yes. What should I do?

Question: My parents and siblings never knock before entering my room.?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 11:42 AM PDT

My parents and siblings never knock before entering my room. I tried talking to them but my dad said that "it's his house and he can open it whenever he wants" How do I get it through to him so that he understands? I'm a 16 year old teenager and I want to have my privacy when I'm on the computer,phone etc

Question: My mom does nothing to discipline my little sister?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 11:29 AM PDT

My "little" sister is 14 years old and does nothing to help around the house. She has chores like doing the laundry but never does it. I find myself doing my own because I know if I put my hamper in the laundry room I'll never get the clothes back in time. She's rewarded with new clothes, a computer, a phone and whatever she wants. My parents make me work for everything that I want or need. I'm 17 and I work everyday except for Wednesday's and Fridays, and have to buy literally anything and everything I need. She gets everything handed to her. She stays up all night and then sleeps all day, does no chores, talks back, fights with my brother and me all day long, fights with my parents all day long and never gets into trouble. My mom does nothing. She never tells her to do her chores but will be up my *** to tell me to do mine. She defends my sister by telling us all to leave her alone when she's the one that starts the fights with us. If she doesn't get her way in the store or gets what she wants in the store she literally ruins the whole shopping trip and then we end up just leaving. It isn't fair. Why is she not getting disciplined at all but the rest of us are disciplined. I don't get it. If I even try and tell her that she needs to get up and do her chores then my mom will tell me that I'm not her mother. But my "mother" won't tell her to do anything. Is anyone's family like mine?

Question: Not sure how I should feel about my wedding?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 11:02 AM PDT

When I got married I had a small ceremony/reception. It was combined. I initially just wanted to have it be a small romantic day between my husband. My family was cool with this. My husband's mother was not. When we brought up our idea she said, "uh no! I didn't get to see your brother get married, so I want to see you get married!". I understand that. I mean most mom's want to see there kids get married. My mom did but understood that we liked the idea of just us, and said what ever makes us happy makes her happy. So we decided to have our parents. That wasn't good enough. His mom wanted his other family members to be present. So we planned to have more people. His mom gave us money for a venue and catering, so we got a venue that provided food. We also planned it sooner because she wanted it sooner. My brother wasnt able to come because of military service. I found a dress at Kohls and she ordered my husband a suit. I was quite embarrassed by the mismatch but no time. Our reception lasted 3 hours. I still feel like I haven't had a wedding. It didn't feel special to me. I actually left feeling mildly upset. My husband doesn't seem to mind. I thanked her because it still was nice of her to pick out stuff for us, but I just don't feel like it was anything I wanted. Should I let my husband know? In a way I would like to plan my own wedding and ceremony so I can actually have pictures and good champagne, and a beautiful dress, and get my hair done.

Question: Does my dad abuse?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 11:01 AM PDT

He only hits me, and my brother is 3 years younger than me. He is ten. He never once hit him, but he hits me EVERY SINGLE DAY. Is that abuse?

Question: Do I stand a chance?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 10:31 AM PDT

My son's father and I have a joint custody with myself being primary custodian and final decision maker regarding our son. I want to move out of state as I am engaged and I feel this would be a better situation for my son. His father sees him for 5 days a month every 20 days. He does not call to talk to him or check on him. My fiancé would be there everyday for him. The visitation situation would not change as we can travel once a month and I am not opposed to extended visitations over breaks and summer. Do I stand a chance if he takes me to court?

Question: Could I go to prison for beating my sister even though she deserves it?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 10:27 AM PDT

So I just found out my sister stole money from me for the SECOND time already. even last time I was extremely mad at her and she promised to never do it again but well... looks like she was lying to me. I mean it's not even a lot of money but I think that shouldn't matter. It's unacceptable to steal especially from your own family, it's just a total breach of trust and I'm gonna teach her a lesson she won't forget. At the moment she's hanging out with one of her friends and it will definitely take some more hours until she will come home. Well when she's at home I'm gonna beat the sh*t out of her so hard she will be in pain for at least a few weeks... I want to make sure she will never touch any of my stuff again and she needs to realize that stealing is an awful thing. Now my question is, what's the worst thing that could happen to me? Like if she reported it to the police, could I go to prison? Would I even get any kind of punishment? I mean, she stole from me twice so she deserves it. I'm 15 and she's 16 if that matters in any way.

Question: Should I go to my best friend's mum's wedding?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 10:23 AM PDT

I've been invited to the mother of my best friend's wedding, who I'm quite close with, and I don't know if I should go or not. Basically, I met my best friend through her brother because I was going out with him at the time. We've been really close since and despite breaking up with her brother, we've remained really good friends, in fact she's my best friend. The problem is, her brother will be at the wedding and I have a boyfriend who I'm not sure will feel okay about it, even though he said it's fine and he trusts me. I'm just trying to put myself in his shoes and I don't think I would like it either. But we're both in serious relationships and it might be awkward but I'm wondering if I should even go? I told my boyfriend I won't go if he doesn't want me to but he seems a little off ever since I've mentioned it. I don't know what to do because he's saying it's okay but I feel like he's just saying it. What do you think or what would you do if you were in my shoes?

Question: Why did God bring me here to earth? Sometimes I wish I was still in Heaven.?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 10:14 AM PDT

I have done nothing in my life that is pleasing to God. I am a loser and a failure. I have nothing going on in my life and nothing to look forward the in the next chapter of my life after graduating from college. My dad's co workers laughed at him because I'm broke living at home at 26 and they kicked their kids out at 18. I know God has to be not pleased with me. Even when my mom talks to people, my mom tell me their facial expressions because i'm not like all the other people my age. Me who just finished college majoring in film work for animation, trying to plan my internship for Japan which is not going anywhere due to not having my tuition money, working on pitching a tv series etc all goes out the window because I work at a stupid zoo job making a little over a $100 a week and it's not enough to help out with gas, rent and other bills at home and I have no car. No major job in the mid-west where I live don't hire recent graduates. I have always been talked about and laughed at since high school. Every part of me, my life/status, my likes my dislikes, my hair, what I wear etc I am awakes different from everybody else and it makes me so mad. All I want to do is fit in and not be laughed at or looked as being stupid.

Question: How can i get away from spending xmas with my grandpa this yr?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 10:14 AM PDT

hi so for yrs we've a;ways ben back to see may grandparents for xmas, but now things have changed my view about grandpa has changed because he controls everyone and everything around him, last yr we spend xmas with them and he ruined it for everyone. I was told by him, yelled by him to not eat before supper, well that pissed me off even more. I wasn't doing well in one of my classes in college (now that I've dropped out of it), i just felt traumatized by everything around me. My grandpa doesn't question or consult anyone, he just makes the decision himself with out anyones' approval. If Im going to eat a snack before supper Im going to. Its my choice, I'm an adult and i can do whatever the f---i want. He always get what he wants, when he wants and no one has a say/do of him. I can speak my mind to him but i know that doesn't change anything. Im at a point now where I dont speak to him anymore and I dont want to have anything to do with him. Im thinking about working over xmas just to not have to go back there and spend xmas, I told the story to my mom and she didn't approve either, but her and her hubby are going to FL after xmas, so I dont know if they'll be around for xmas this yr or not. Again I'm not a kid anymore, I can't have another adult tell me what to do, and if my grandpa is going to be authoritative over his family and be an a-- then Im not coming back for xmas, Ill just find something else to do with my time just to not go back and put up w/the same s---. and I dont want my dad talking me into going bk for xmas again this yr cuz of him, he knows how i feels about it. So theres a good chance that i can get more hrs at work and keep busy that would be great and i would much rather spend xmas with my parents this yr than with a g-pa who is an ****** and runs his house like boot camp.

Question: Would it be wrong to not help my brother buy a house because his girlfriend would be living with us?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 09:40 AM PDT

My grandperants left my brother and a large amount of money before they past on. My dad thinks it would be a good idea to buy a house with it. We found a pretty decent one, and we are going to go look at it. The only we could purchase this house is if i pay half of it. If I dont, than it's not going to happen, well, my brothers girl friend would be moving in with us and I absolutely can't stand her. She's loud, inconsiderate, and she's got this nice happy personality witch i know is fake. The presents of her just puts me in rage, but I've always managed to keep my cool. Now, I know this is probably pretty immature of me, but im a real nice l, calm guy, but I just can't stand her. I was gonna tell my brother if shes going to be living there, than I'm not going to help buy the house. i should mention, my brother agreed to have her pay us rent, but im still not sure if that would be worth having her around.

Question: Can your parent who has custody force you to move in with the other parent?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 09:37 AM PDT

I am 16 and I live with my mom in Michigan and she wants me to leave tomorrow to move in with my dad in Alabama and I do not want to go. Can she force me to go with him?

Question: What should I do if my sister keeps saying annoying things indirectly to make me angry?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 09:32 AM PDT

So I m on holiday and there isn t really any way for me to separate myself from my family and this is getting ridiculous. About a week ago, I told my younger brother to turn his music off by the table we were eating simply because it was annoying and not everyone likes that sort of music (obviously I looked like the bad one amongst my family) so my younger sister joined and started calling me annoying etc. She then decided she d team up with my brother and go against me. Ever since, for the entire week she has been saying things in an annoying OVERLY HAPPY voice, things that she believes would annoy me but she dies it cleverly to not make it seem that way to my parents (I have explained this to my parents but they re just saying this isn t true). So ever since she started I have been doing exactly what she s doing, however, I stopped yesterday to see if she would give in but she hasn t so this is just a cycle of "indirect arguing/annoyance". I know for a fact that we are both pissed off. If I say to her "we know you re saying it on purpose" so goes into a fit saying "OMG I ONLY SAID THIS BECAUSE OF BLAH BLAH BLAH" then my parents agree with her and I look like I m making things up and she s happy that my parents don t notice how annoying she is. I was wondering what I could do to shut her mouth up? She s a little stuck up 16 year old.

Question: Is it normal for a broke 26 year old who has nothing going on in life with no transportation to stay with parents?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 09:22 AM PDT

My dad gets laughed at his job because me being 26 years old and my brother being 22 years old stay at home. They told my dad that they kick their kids out at 18 years old. I just finished college and the only job that called me back doesn't pay much and I can only work 2-3 days per week. No film/animation jobs where I live don't hire recent graduates. I want to move to Japan and live their long term and work in the animation industry. If I am a failure at home, is it possible for me to be successful in another country?

Question: My parents is being unsupportive they only care about my brothers that don't go to collage or have a job.?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 09:21 AM PDT

Everyday in year my parents ignores me and going to my brothers tey don't do anything and my mother doesn't want me to get a job because of the stupid policy that they will take the SSI thing away she and my dad wants me to stay home all my life with them and they never get a job. My dad won't get one he's so lazy and eats up the food and smoking a lot and hurt people that is around him he doesn't have any friends. And plus, he gets jealous at my mother from having a business and money and they never let me have freedom of speech to say what I want to say to them.

Question: Mother is very annoying and one minded?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 09:15 AM PDT

Every time I try to ask a question she will just bounce it right back and say stuff like "your in the wrong, all you care about is yourself" when all I asked was "Can I go to bed a bit later"? This happens three or four times a week, if not more. Every time I try to stay at my grandpa's house, she always annoys me with phone calls that all I care about is my grandpa and not her, and tells me dont come back when all I stayed was less than 2 days. She throws a tantrum at me saying how all I care is about myself and not her needs, when all I want to do is keep company with my grandpa who's lonely. Even the smallest things, like can I do the bed sheets or laundry tomorrow morning instead of tonight, she yells at me on constantly and it becomes a huge argument somehow and then my father blindly sides with her all the time. It was a suggestion, and she says it like I demand it, like if I can't it's fine ill do it tonight but im just really tired.

Question: I feel very limited by my average middle-class background, to the extent that it is causing me mental health problems (depression)?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 08:53 AM PDT

I was not born into either wealth or highbrow culture. My parents are petit bourgeois, and while one of my great-grandparents had official styles it brought little into my personal life. I spent some of my early years in relative poverty; my parents were dependent on my grandparents, and we lived in a tiny attic room in their otherwise very large house (always regarded as leeches even though my parents had genuine difficulties - no, they were not work-shy) and even when we broke free from our early financial difficulties and got our own home, money always loomed over as a shadow. Now I feel limited, snubbed within patrician circles and never quite having the taste, manners and happy memories shared between my more privileged, upper and upper-middle class friends. They grew up surrounded by Raphaels and Michelangelos, contemporary art, the theatre, the opera house and orchestral music; I didn't have such privileges. My cousins are privileged and grew up surrounded by nineteenth-century British watercolours, whereas my mum could only afford imitations. When she used to bring me over to theirs I was made to feel inferior, snubbed by their parents and by the extended family. These early insecurities haunt me today; I can never truly belong, due to a society which dictates that you have to experience an 'proper' upbringing in order to be valued. Sometimes I contemplate suicide, but as a grown male I can't tell anyone about my insecurities. I don't know how to break free, help?

Question: My sister tells her best friend everything and she doesn t tell me anything?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 08:51 AM PDT

So my sister tells her best friend everything but she doesn t tell me anything. Theres a big secret she told her best friend and she s saying she doesn t trust me at all so she won t tell me. I dont even know why she doesn t trust me anymore. We used to be inseparable but now I think she hates me. Is there anyway I can gain her trust?

Question: Girls what to do next?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 08:41 AM PDT

I thought of adding my ex online. I didn't in the end but i still looked into her cool profile. She knew somehow i had looked and she requested me to be her friend. I ignored her friend request it's still on pending. I then got new message from her and it said "Is this who i think it is". I replied and we talked but when i asked her out to get a drink near my house she said "NA I GOT MY OWN PLACE NOW". We both lived under our parents roof 3 years ago when we dated but today she lives alone. Every time i sent her a message she would reply within seconds. I ended up saying bye because it got awkward. She instead of saying bye changed the subject. I didn't reply anymore. Could she still have something for me? my friends are saying she didn't turn me down when she said she had her own place but i think she deff turned me down you tell me...

Question: How to move out at 16?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 07:42 AM PDT

Yes it's legal in my country. I'm 14 at the moment and I hate living at home, I know the only way to move out at 14 seems to be foster care but what about at 16? I just want to be prepared so when the time comes I can leave and finally be happy for the first time in years.

Question: Should I mention her demeanour?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 07:05 AM PDT

We're older women, the very best of friends; more like sisters. I've noticed lately that my bestie is acting a little peculiar. She's fine one time, then a little distant at others. She also says things as though she's an expert, which she is not. Most times, it's not what she says so much, but how it comes out, i.e. "I don't want to be doing this/that, that's not why I'm going"., this sounds as though she's in control rather than saying, "I'd rather not", etc. I'd like to speak with her about this, & ask if there's anything bothering her. Sometimes she's approachable, & not at others. When she's not, she's abrupt. I hope I'm on the wrong track, but if feels as though she may be pulling away. How do I address this situation, or should I leave it alone. We've planned on going to an outlet tomorrow.

Question: Can anyone help me with advice on if there is a possibility to retrieve something accidentally donated to Salvation army?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 04:37 AM PDT

My fiances dad passed away in sept , all he wantted was this cowboy hat that belonged to his dad. His step mom knew that and donated everything of his dads to the salvation army. Is there a way to contact them and see if the hat or anything of his dads is still available? Any other advice thank you

Question: If i am over the age of 21 can i legally devorce my parents?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 03:00 AM PDT

Question: Do my mum and I look alike?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 01:35 AM PDT

Question: PLEASE HELP IM SCARED?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:49 AM PDT

Please someone help me. So my grandparents are staying at my house this week. I always felt uneasy around my grandpa since I was younger but it got worse around a year ago. I had a dream where he was looking through my window and taking pictures of me and creeping and it ****** me up so bad. So yesterday (the first day they came) he wa overly hugging and touching me and I thought it was weird cause he wasn't like that to any of my other siblings or my mom but anyways, so we were cooking dinner and he could like pause and look at me when I was cooking and not say anything and then just leave. THEN I was sitting in a chair and he just randomly ******* came up behind me and like massaged me for like 2 minutes it was so ******* awkward and uncomfortable. No one noticed though. He didn't even smile or anything after like I thought he was trying to be funny or something but he wasn't. So that like ****** my paranoia *** up for the rest of the night. Then today I thought everything was okay but then he kept asking to buy me stuff (but I guess that's normal for like a relative but idk) and then when we were home I was sitting on LIKE our recliner chair and he just randomly came over and LIKE grabbed my foot and rubbed and then looked at me with a straight face and left. I was so confused now I'm laying in my bed scared he's gonna come in my room or some **** and I locked my door but PLEASE an I being paranoid or is he like being sexual with me help please

Question: How to communicate with people, more specifically my aunt texting me?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:21 AM PDT

I m a godmother to my cousin, my aunt s son. She has a habit of sending me a text every now and then, usually containing a picture of my cousin and simple greetings such as "have a nice summer". And I have no idea how to answer. Nice of you to send me a picture of my godchild because I don t usually contact you? (I don t text people without a very good reason, family or not.) Yes, I m hopeless. And pathetic. I know.

Question: If My Mom's 5'3 And Dad Is 5'8. What Do You Think My Height Would Be If I Reach 18 Years?.?

Posted: 29 Jul 2017 12:15 AM PDT

Iam A 13 Year Old Girl And Now 5'4 or Probably About 5'5 Note:Dad's Parents Are 5'4(Grandma) And 5'6(Grandpa),While My Mom's Parents Are 5'2(Grandma) And 5'10(Grandpa).While Dad's Sisters Were 5'4 And His Brothers Were 5'9-6'0.My Brother Was 5'7 And A Half. Another Note:I Had My First Period Last September(2016). Thankyou!

Question: Has anyone ever cut ties with a sibling?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 11:53 PM PDT

I erased my sister from my life completely in the beginning of 2017 it was a toxic relationship I won t get into further detail. Has anyone ever cut ties with a sibling? I would like input of how it has changed your life.

Question: My siblings leave me out?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 11:50 PM PDT

It's mostly my sister, she mistreats me so much and always snaps at me for practically no reason. She's always condescending to me, but treats my brother like an actual person. They both side with each other when arguing with me (they argue with me for nothing). I'm not suicidal or depressed, but I just sometimes wonder why my parents decided to give birth to me, because more times than not one of the children get left out. I cry so often because how I'm treated, and it's gone to a point where my parents have to tell them to stop leaving me because they go places without me. I know I'll care less when I'm older, but right now it hurts to be the one left out. No troll answers please.

Question: How to go on a trip with someone you don t want to be there?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 11:11 PM PDT

So my mom dad and i are going to Bakersfield we are going for my cousin on my dads sides baby shower my brother is staying home to watch the dogs and it was just going to be us until one of my dads friends ( a woman ) wanted to go with us she said that she was my aunts neighbor and my dad has known this lady for a while so i know she isn t lying but none of my dads sisters remember her but she wants to go to Bakersfield with us😕 i personally think she is a great person but i don t want her to go it was just supposed to be me my mom and dad for once and i feel like she ruined that it makes me kinda mad that she wants to go when no one remembers her like she has no reason to go and that is litterally all we are doing going to the baby shower ( tomorrow ) sleeping there coming back the next day like WTH and she wasn t invited she isn t even bringing a gift and my aunt was pressured by her to so ok she can stay so my aunt is giving up her and her boyfriends room just so a stranger can go to a baby shower without an invitation without a gift and she isn t even helping pay for the 4 hour drive😡

Question: Daughter problems!?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 11:08 PM PDT

Hi everyone and thank you for taking the time to read this. My daughter is 16 years old and I'm having trouble with her. When she was 12 her mother died from an overdose and before that was in and out of jail (we weren't together) lately my daughter has not been herself. She met this boy also 16 who has been in jail for a period of 5 months (drugs) she's skipping school and falling behind badly in her grades. I have tried to set rules like curfews, etc. my worst fear is im going to loss her to drugs as well. Or she's going to get pregnant. She use to be so embarrassed about talking about sexual things and now when I ask her does she need the pill or condoms she is so open about it she says "yeah I do need them, why you got a problem with it?" And "his my boyfriend dad I'm not a little girl anymore of course I need them" I ask her if she needs them because I don't want her to have a baby as her mother had her at a young age. I just need help with this whole situation. Can anyone suggest any ideas for anything in this situation? Or anything that might help me I'm really lost and if I can't stop her soon I know I'll lose her.

Question: Do you think this is a cute kid's song?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 10:38 PM PDT

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wuGCZw4mDKg It's about a daughter asking her mother why did she(mom) gave birth to her older brother first, instead of her. He messes with her, but they eventually become closer at the end.

Question: Is it bad that I hang out with my parents?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 10:25 PM PDT

I'm 24 years old and sometimes I go places with my mom. Once every 2 weeks we hang out for the day out shopping, sometimes she takes me places until I get my car. Tomorrow my parents and I are going on vacation to the Bahamas for a week. I will stay in a hotel with my 2 younger brothers. My boyfriend said it's bad that I still hang out with my mom and he made fun of me for going on vacation with them this weekend. He says it's time for me to drop my parents and only be with him or myself..now he's starting to make me think..is it bad that I do things with my parents?

Question: WHAT do I do??

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 10:14 PM PDT

IM 15 and my family feels like I don't belong they make me do stuff even though I'm in the middle of something else they always pick on me, call me bad hurtful names the saying 'sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me' is a lie they yell at me all the time I don't feel welcomed sure we do some fun stuff together but my oldest sister is always grumpy and my little brother always lies and gets me in trouble my other older sister always gets her way and talks my parents into making me do her house work my dad fusses and compares me to my sisters like; ' when they we're your age they did this and that but you can't! Please help me I'm so scared and my heart hurts so bad I can't take the pain please!!!

Question: I’m Amish and I miss my family?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 10:00 PM PDT

As some of you know I escaped my family a few months ago, I moved in with my neighbor, who moved 45mins away from Amish. We went to Florida for vacation (yes we drove! 16 hours!) Now I kinda miss my kids and wife. Although I can't move back in because I hate being Amish without wifi, and now I have a job to. But Can I tell my family by going to visit them?

Question: So I just got a Vape and my brother knows about it. When he wants me to get off the PC, he threatens to tell my parents. Any advice?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 09:45 PM PDT

Question: My dad has anger issues?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 09:31 PM PDT

Don't get me wrong I love my dad and all that but one major problem of him is that he has anger issues, even my mum admitted to it. For example a few days ago we went on holiday so now I'm in another country and my dad got servents for our new house and this morning when my sister went to get milk for her cereal she realised the milk got all clumpy since it wasn't in the fridge then she told my dad and my dad got super angry and threw the whole box of milk across the room which made a really loud now and woke up my mum then he started shouting like a mad man and blamed it on the servents, which is kind of stupid tbh cuz he didn't tell them to put the milk in the fridge so like how is it their fault? And also after that I was sitting in my room then he came up to me and asked me what I wanted for breakfast I told him nothing then he got got pissed and went away. Another example is a few days ago my dad asked me to close the window and all I said was 'dad your starting to get lazier now', since literally if there's a remote right next to him he'll ask someone who's like in the other side of the room to get it for him, and he'll never vget water for himself he always asks people to get it for him he's never bothered to cook or clean up he's superrr lazy and just cuz I said that to him he got mad at me and didn't speak then when my friends came over he told everyone what I said to him, he always does that. Btw it's not depression And he's also very full of himself which is something else that I hate about him btw I'm Bengali don't know if that's gonna help lol

Question: Getting guardianship over my 8 year old half brother. Im 17, i don t plan on getting guardianship until I m stable and doing well.?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 08:49 PM PDT

So i grew up with my mom and her ex (my brothers dad) for about 5 years. Their relationship was very toxic, but now lets call him James, my brothers dad, has custody of my brother. My mom only gets to see my brother on james terms. So on the weekends my mom goes to james house to visit my brother because its his terms. My mom wasn t right when she lost my brother, and still isn t doing okay. Anyways the thing is james uses my brother as leverage to have some type of control over my mom still because that was his thing while they were together. It s very frustrating because i see my mom not doing well and also my brother isn t in the best situation. He s a child that is being raised the way a child shouldn t be raised, in my eyes. His house is always messy and he hardly gets home cooked meals, doesnt get the attention a developing child needs, proper structure, discipline, i grew up with both of those dysfunctional parents and it honeslty messed me up, i eventually got the help i needed, i currently live with my dad who is proper, and gives me the structure and guidance i need, but my point for this is i want to give my brother the proper tools and foundation for him to have a healthy life, and i will need control over certain things for that to happen. Thank you for your time and input.

Question: How do I prove people wrong about me?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 08:36 PM PDT

I am over 21 and I am in college and I live at home with my parents because I am saving up for rent right now. However, no one thinks that I can make it out on my own. I am the youngest in my family and when ever I say I want to move out everyone tells me that I won't be able to last long on my own.

Question: What d you guys opinion on a single man adopting a girl?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 08:34 PM PDT

What's you guys opinion on a single man adopting a girl?

Question: Why doesn't anyone like me?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 08:05 PM PDT

Question: How do I tell my parents that I liked the emoji movie?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 07:42 PM PDT

My dad is an ex marine and my mom is a passive aggressive assbag. My brother recently came out as gay and has yet to have his ribcage relocated and the psychologist whomst he visits three times a week hasn't sunken in yet. I'm not sure it is a good time to tell them this burden.

Question: What would you think of a guy who likes to hang out with his sister?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 07:40 PM PDT

Question: How can I channel my anger into something good?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 07:33 PM PDT

All my life I have felt like a loser ,unfit ,unloved,hated ,ignored etc I have really loathed my dad too for making me feel this way. He makes others important in his life and makes me look like crap. He tags my cousins and his brothers in his pictures on fb and never tags me or like,comments on my pictures. Am in my final year @ college and want to make everyone that looked down upon me pay somehow

Question: My sister thinks i'm stupid?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 07:14 PM PDT

my sister that's 3 years older than me thinks i'm so stupid. she never has patience for me when i say something. she says that it's because she expects more. she thinks shes knowledgeable and i should be learning from her. and that we didn't come from a stupid family so i have it in me. she knows that she hurts me when she says that and she says it in front of her friends or to her friends so when i get mad and walk away she laughs. she says, like you listen to music, what's that gonna give you in the long run? she says she has more patience for friends and stuff because she doesn't expect anything from them. what do i do? i tell her that it hurts my feelings but she doesn't care. she makes me so much more depressed than i already am, like i just want to be gone. we live together, just the two of us but don't act like sisters, just roommates. please help me

Question: Nobody is ever happy.?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 06:25 PM PDT

I love life for the most part. I m spoiled and very thankful for all the hard work my parents do.. But this new job my mom got has been stressing her out and my parents argue daily. They use me to talk to me about problems with the other and I don t know what to do because it seems like whenever I side with one, they use me as a "See even our daughter thinks blah blah blah!" My mom is always sad and crying and my dad is being a jerk and won t help her. Any time I ask my mom what s wrong she gets mad and says "SAME THING AS YESTERDAY" and I just made her cry by asking but I can t just leave her there all mad and not ask wtf is wrong! I have anxiety which they won t get me treatment for and it s gotten worse and their arguing doesn t help. I ve been feeling so stressed that every time I eat I feel like vomiting afterwards because my body simply cannot handle all the stress that is constantly in my house. I try to escape but I can t. What do I do?

Question: I blame myself for my grandma not seeing my uncle when he passed away?is it really my fault?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 06:07 PM PDT

My uncle was sick and my grandma now has a burden of not being with him at the time and I feel like it's my fault.. all those times she and I would babysit my cousins and siblings, I feel like if I were more responsible (though I am quiet responsible) I could manage babysitting 3 kids (my other siblings live in a different place except my 2 other brothers, if that's confusing, I'll try to explain by replying to answers..) by myself and she could go home. She's gonna live with that burden for the rest of her life.. and I am really blaming myself .. is it really my fault? I haven't told anyone I feel this way bcoz It will come off as selfish..

Question: How do i cope with this?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 06:03 PM PDT

my parents are very strict & i hv a superstrained relationship w them so much so that i actually do not love them & it is justifiable or so i am told by many people who say they treat me like "****" & to be honest i couldnt care less about that because i am so used to it but the only issue is that i have absolutely no output, i have no friends as all the ppl my age do things i am not allowed to such as going out frequently & meeting up late, also these rules seem to only apply to me as my siblings do as they please and i have tried taking to them and my parents on numerous occasions but it never works and i am always made the villian in each situation, my bestfriend who has now moved away also had to deal with them & her family was practically the only actual family i had, i had been suffering from depression and anxiety for over a year and during that time my parents said that i need to stop being so miserable all the time because i am making everyone around me miserable and that i dont have a reason and went on further to blame me for their 'anxiety'. but what truly bothers me and keeps triggering it is the fact that i feel so completely left out when every single person i know is having fun and i am stuck at home not being able to do anything, especially when it includes your own bestfriend. who has tried helping me on numerous occasions too but it never seems to work how can i deal w this? nvm dont answer

Question: How do I (a 13 year old) who considers himself mature enough to watch The Wolf of Wall Street, convince my mom to get it for me?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 05:40 PM PDT

Question: Is this selfish behavior or jealousy?

Posted: 28 Jul 2017 05:22 PM PDT

Recently I lost my uncle and it hit me really hard cause I have not had enough chances to spend time with him (he lived in a different country, though my mom, aunt and other uncle have had a longer time apart from their older brother aka that uncle) All that's been on my mind is him, because I'm so broken inside.. my one friend keeps telling me to talk to them but it's been really hard to because my mind is clouded and everyone in my family is lost and broken.. and now he's always like "all you're posting about is him", and "I wish you would focus on other guys except him", I don't get why he's this way.. he's my U-N-C-L-E.. And I loved him obviously. Is this jealousy that my mind is focused on a man who was basically a father figure or selfish behavior?