Ok so I have a slight crush on this woman it's a crush but I'd like to take her out to dinner. She's a single mom she's got two daughters one is a little older than me...I'm turning 18 soon. She's 43 but I just like older women. I'm not friends with her kids and it would just be a night out. I mean I'm not ugly pretty handsome nowhere near perfect though and she's gorgeous she's still got it it's just a date. We both like fashion maybe we could talk about that... I'll wait till September when i turn 18 to ask her out

I am living with my 40 year old boyfriend who is 16 years older than me. ( I am 24). We have been together for 6 months. We are not married, but living in a motel room because of his work. He's an alcoholic, smokes cigarettes, and is sometimes abusive to his 15 year old illegitimate son. He has a plethora of court decisions against him where he owes a lot of money, credit card debit, and back child support. He also has many county court traffic violations and a past protective order against him. Nonetheless, my boyfriend needs me. He works 12-13 hours almost every day, and wants my help by doing normal couple activities for him. He has been spoiled by his mom in the past, and needs a girlfriend like me to help him. However, my parents do not support my decisions and won't give me a bank account or car because of them. What should I do? My mom and I might be trolls, but this has gone way off the deep end and driving us crazy and need answers.