When she first started dating him that he'd lose his athletic body and get a big fat belly and big thick thighs? Or do you think he stopped caring and realized he loved food too much? Or does he not even know he's gotten fat? He looks like he needs to go up at least one size but probably won't. Should he gain another 15 pounds?

She should try to curb them if she has a tendency to the dramatic.

I been with my SO for almost 5years we have no kids of our own we been trying to concieve with no luck. I have PCOS have a son from previous relationship. Well I just found out he cheated on me a year ago with a family friend all my family knows her. Well girl claims it's my husbands baby. She was living with her boyfriend at the time. Claims she only had sex with him. Baby is 4 months my husband was hiding it from me all this time and avoiding her. He claims he was putting me first and hasn't made no effort to meet his supposedly son. She is ok with a DNA test. My hasband wants no DNA test. But his going to step up to the plate and buy that baby everything he needs(everything she is texting him he needs) she don't wrk never has. Yet he says he don't want to loose me and to forgive him. My son adores him. I love him but don't know if I could get pass it . I haven't made no drama at all haven't even talked to the girl. I found out by text of her telling him I already gave u 4 months I can't do it alone with our son what are u planning to do . And I'm going to have to file for child support and your wife is going to find out that way. I guess I just want to get it out since I been keeping it to my self and haven't told no one. And it's killing me inside literally i feel miserable and like the biggest idiot worst part I haven't been able to have kids with him and I know he wants one.

How do you know if a man is unhappy in his marriage? This guy I knew seemed unhappy but sometimes you can't go by that. He used to make fun of her and hated when she came around. Anytime she did he flirted with me. So I don't understand

For our anniversary, I want to set aside some money for us to use on a future vacation. I was wondering if there's a good way to a) present the gift and b) actually set aside the money without just writing her a check? I'd rather there be a way to take it out of my account and have it be somewhere separate but still secure. Thanks!

So my wife is a lawyer. She just recently made partner with the firm. Another guy who work at the firm is constantly complimenting her, asking to buy her lunch but ensures her the relationship is strictly platonic. I trust my wife, but I don't trust him. Along with a few other co-workers my wife and him went out on a lunch-in, and he asked what I did for a living. When she told him telemarketing he made a sly remark about my salary. It offended me and I confronted him. Several month later I lost the job, and he told my wife about his uncles company. He put in a word for me and told my wife to tell me to apply. I did, landed the job. But the worst part of it all is that I had no prior knowledge that it was his uncles company and my position was a favor to my wife. I feel completely betrayed by my wife. She should have never told him I was laid off. She should have never told me to accept a job she knew was a favor from a man who likes her. Me and my wife argued about it and I am not staying in a hotel because I feel like she hurt my pride as a man. Now this man has something to hang over my head and hers. Am I blowing this out of proportion?

Oh, I am not a woman.

Have young kids and do everything as a unit. Wife and I always talk about it, but we afraid to ask ppl to watch our kids. Enough is enough and I need to spend alone time with my wife. What do you think?

My husband of 10 years says I need to get over and move on in regards to someone talking about me to him or behind my back. And I am meaning like his 3 adult kids, his ex wife. mother and/or sister. He said he would defend me if there was a physical altercation but not words. He states this is my problem not his. Because I am insecure. I feel he should defend me no matter what. Am I wrong?

I've never had sex before and I'm nervous for my husband to be to see me naked because I don't have a beautiful body in my opinion and I won't know what to do. Plus, I heard it hurts. My fiancé is gorgeous and he has been with prettier women in the past. Now I'm going to be completely vulnerable

Replying to another poster's question today about her husband receiving a phone call on his birthday from one of his phone contacts. She didn't know this particular phone contact and she grilled him because he had this person in his phone under just the initials "T W". Apparently this person called once and hung up. The wife thought that was suspicious. She has posted before that men or people in general don't need opposite sex friends cause it leads to other things. First of all I don't know every contact in my girl's phone but I'm sure a number of them are male. I'm not worried about it but is this woman in the other question clueless about people having opposite sex friends in their phone contacts? How do yo go through life thinking that you should only deal people of your own sex? Would it bother you if your partner had contacts in their phone that you didn't know about? Especially of the opposite sex.

Replying to another poster's question today about her husband receiving a phone call on his birthday from one of his phone contacts. She didn't know this particular phone contact and she grilled him because he had this person in his phone under just the initials "T W". Apparently this person called once and hung up. The wife thought that was suspicious. She has posted before that men or people in general don't need opposite sex friends cause it leads to other things. First of all I don't know every contact in my girl's phone but I'm sure a number of them are male. I'm not worried about it but is this woman in the other question clueless about people having opposite sex friends in their phone contacts? How do yo go through life thinking that you should only deal people of your own sex?

Hi, my wife always finds something that I did wrong. She throws a tantrum and when I tell her she is going over board she gets worse. I know she is a mature female with legitimate complaints, but I don't even think about her enough to scrutinize here as much as she does me. Should I be alarmed?