bueno ase rato tuvimos una conversación lo e notado últimamente raro le pregunte que si le gustaba alguien mas que me lo dijera en confianza pero me dijo que no que no avía nadien en la platica le pregunte que si no tenia mas que decirme me dijo que nuestra ya no savia si iba bien yo le pregunte que si ya no me amaba me dijo que no que solo me quería después de unos minutos se puso a llorar la verdad me confunde mucho emos tenido muchos problemas en nuestra relación ya nos separamos 1 vez ya últimamente todo a estado calmado pero el esta raro solo tenemos relaciones 1 vez ala semana la verdad yo no estoy a gusto la verdad no lo quiero perder igual si no se puede hacer nada entiendo o algún consejo para que nuestra relación valla bien pero si el ya decide irse no me queda mas que aceptarlo y dar vuelta ala hoja por mas que me duela

My group of college friends went on a roadtrip for the day, on our day off. There was this giant scary ride there and my friends James and Sam went to ride it, I really wanted to ride it but was too scared to, plus it was $150 per person! Well I was sitting at our table and my friend James yells after he gets off the ride "I want Cara to ride this! Cara, come ride this I will pay for you!" (I'm Cara) I hadn't talked to him all day just because we had been so busy but why did he pay for me? It was so much money! Don't get me wrong, it made me so happy! Because I kind of like him haha but why would he do such a sweet thing like that so randomly?

So there this person who is close to. We went to this party and hung out and stuff with everyone. I felt really close to her like I look up to her and thought we were friends and she says we're friends. all the time. And she even said we had a lot in common and keep in mind im 19 and she 23. She said at the party to Me and this guy how she can never be friends with someone who is 19 years old because they would never have anything in common. Then I told her oh I thought we were friends. And she goes "yeah but I feel the only thing we have in common is our culture" But before she said we had a lot in common we have some likes and dislikes that are the same. And I felt our. connection is deep. And we always hug and say I love you like other friends do. And she always worries about me so why would she say that?

This has been going on for a year now. She even called me 27 times in one day while I was working. She leaves me voicemails asking me to hang out. She acts like we're best friends whenever I see her at my boyfriends house and smiles and says hi to me. I just try to ignore her but she tries to hug me so I'm forced to acknowledge her. She wants me to be friends with her boyfriend too. She calls and texts my boyfriend to hang out all the time with her and her boyfriend. What is wrong with her?

My ex and I got into a huge argument a few days ago. It was bc he defended his new gf to us. I've never seen him defend anyone. I've known him for 10 years and his gf has known him 2 whole months. I brought up how his friends would disrespect our relationship. They'd grope me and I'd tell him and he would do nothing so I'd do something for myself. I filed a restraining order against his friend who tried to force himself upon me and he remained friends with him. This guy was actually arrested/deported two years later for raping another girl. After His dad molested his sister when she was 13 (she's 27 now) and told him a few years ago. He did nothing. I brought this up and told him that I shouldn't be surprised at the way he doesn't protect women bc he did absolutely nothing for his sister after his pedophile father touched her. He's still close to his Dad & im not buying the whole "but it's my dad" excuse. His Dad is a pedo and I told him I think his dad is sick especially to do it to his own child. I also said something along the lines of "I can't wait until you have a daughter and your father/friends touch her for you to wake up and realize how you should do something or just AVOID your sick friends. He is now upset and claims that I went too far for bringing up His Dad. I honestly can't see where he's coming from so I'm asking for an outside opinion. Sorry I typed so much.

he had his thyroid gland removed and thyroid cancer is typically the most common and less scary and doesn't spread to other tissues. But i'm scared about his health long term and how this kidney will impact his future

I'm 1.6K and strong

Woman speaks to her doctor. Doctor says her medical treatment will take 1 year. She says she loves this man. Can't wait one year to be with him. Doctor says for her to tell him about her medical treatment situation. Please interpret this. Why is she telling him about her medical situation

I have two amazing young daughters with a man I was abused physically and mentally(mainly mental) by. He was given supervised visits 2 years ago when I left him and when he failed a drug test. He has only used a handful a year because he's been in jail or somewhere without a car on drugs who knows but not there. Anyway I've been in contact with his parents for the past yr as they have seen the kids. He has stayed away from me for a yr after the first yr I left him was harassing me constantly. Now he texted me out of the blue and says thank you(him his parents and them went camping together) and that he is having so much fun with them. I said ur welcome next day he texts that he is doing his court order classes to see them more and is clean etc. Well it makes me happy if it's true(he's known to lie). But I want to stay my distance from him until I know he's really changed should I text him back as he ask about the girls and so on maybe once a weeek or not say anything back? Converse through his parents? In the past when I'd think things are ok he'd get mad when things don't go his way and go crazy harassing me. I'm scared to be in contact with him more or less and don't know what to do? Please help

My boyfriend of 3 years has 2 brothers 'Jamie' and 'Michael'. They are both in long term relationships and have kids aswell. They are both about 10 years older than me so we don't really talk much and when we do its when we are drunk. One night we were all at a party and Jamie came up to me and said 'You've shagged Michael' I couldn't believe what he said and very quickly put him straight and said I hadn't (I don't like him at all like that). Anyway Michael walked past during this so I beckoned him over and said 'we've never had sex have we' and he said no we haven't. Jamie then said to him 'you told me you have' and then Micheal denied it again. Both of them are saying the other is lying. My bf knows nothing of this because I don't want to cause any trouble over a pair of idiots. Jamie has come up to me before and accused me of flirting with Michael. And he stares at me sometimes and I've also caught Michael looking at me aswell. It's making me uncomfortable but I don't want to say anything because I know it will cause arguments and I will somehow get the blame for it. I've never wronged either of them so I don't get why they (well mostly Jamie) says this stuff?

I know so many elderly couples, who have been married since they were 20 or 21. Childhood sweethearts, been happily married and devoted to each other for years. In my generation, 20 and 21 year olds barely have relationships lasting longer than few years. And if they do get married young, what follows is a divorce with the excuse "shouldn't have got married young" Why do you think this has changed? I know so many elderly couples, who have been married since they were 20 or 21. Childhood sweethearts, been happily married and devoted to each other for years. In my generation, 20 and 21 year olds barely have relationships lasting longer than few years. And if they do get married young, what follows is a divorce with the excuse "shouldn't have got married young" Why do you think this has changed? I know so many elderly couples, who have been married since they were 20 or 21. Childhood sweethearts, been happily married and devoted to each other for years. In my generation, 20 and 21 year olds barely have relationships lasting longer than few years. And if they do get married young, what follows is a divorce with the excuse "shouldn't have got married young" Why do you think this has changed?

I'm still friends with my ex boyfriend and he's married. He wants to have an "affair" at a hotel ... I'm not naive, minor in love with him... I know its just sex we hooked up once before (not sex) I just want opinions from people who have dealt with this before? I know it's wrong but I'm tempted...

I don t know why but I feel like either crying or I get mad when someone apologizes to me. Anyone else?

I m not sure why, but I have this feeling that my coworker might like me even though he knows I m getting married soon. He was just recently hired and I was helping training him when he first started. I noticed when I first met him that he would lick his lips a lot when speaking to me and he would stare at my eyes. After he realized I was getting married soon, he stopped doing that. The other day my coworkers threw me a bridal shower and my coworker sat next to me and we played the games together to win some candy. I also noticed for a while that he put his arm behind me on my chair for a while and I was kind of uncomfortable I wasn t sure if he was doing that on purpose. And another thing that happened the day after was that I didn t have lunch and he asked me if I wanted to get lunch with him I said sure because all of our coworkers walk together to get lunch and then he said, "okay, it s a date then." I wanted to correct him that, but I wasn t sure if he was being serious or not. Then what bugged me the most was the other day I was staying late at work and then he asked why I was staying late then he asked, "want me to keep you company?" And right away I said no thanks, but I m starting to wonder...is this guy flirting with me? I always talk about my fiance when I m around my coworker.

Also, there are people I don't remember being there from last year. She had also taken our bird outside but stayed on a screened in porch, but this one shows she was outside it? Is there a way the date could've been messed up?

I think she's too old for that. I mean a hug at special events, like seeing your parents again after a long time, seems normal to me but every day? Isn't that something for little kids?

When you are living in a place where stupid is God and you are going through s h I t with the people and it seems like the only peace you have is being a hermit, What should you do?

So, my BF and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have had sex before, where he has climaxed (admittedly I have not) but in the past about 3 months he won t touch me. He touches me above the waist and talks about how attractive I am but then...nothing. I have expressed concern about it, asking if he still wants me or still finds me attractive. He assures me that he does, but then outright rejects my advances. He never makes a first move. He told me that he needs me to be the aggressor, except when I am he seems disinterested or anxious. I do my best to encourage any touches or small advances he makes, but he always stops and either leaves the room or gives me a reason he doesn t want to engage in intercourse. I feel he must be at least physically attracted to me, because he has a physical *reaction* if I touch him, but he never allows things to progress? I m fairly certain it isn t pornography or another woman, so I don t understand what else I can do. Any advice?

He should appreciate the fact that i was crying for him.

Why is she quiet? There is a girl that has newly joined our workplace, she has been here for 4 weeks but it's quiet and rarely talks. She does talk when it's regarding work. She does get great feedback from customers though. What do you think about her?

I'm getting no answers. We told each other we would text when I'm on vacay. He sent kissy emojis last time we talked. I also went traveling out of the country (across the world). It's been a few days (including airplane travel days) and he hasn't texted. Not even a "have you landed?" Text. I texted him about 8-10 hours ago and nothing.

After being raped and forced to give oral 2 years ago, I can't give my boyfriend a BJ without panicking. We have been together for 1,5 years now, but for the last 7 months, I haven't been able to perform oral sex on him. I received counselling after the rape, and I don't have a problem with having sex, but it hasn't made it easier to give BJs. I told my boyfriend that I panic everytime I give him a BJ, and he said that he didn't care about BJs - he just wants to be with me. But I'm afraid that deep down he really wants me to give BJs, and eventually will get frustrated when I don't and then leave me. I don't know what to do.

Summer-Out of school and missed my chance to apply-Video games all day is pretty boring-Can't drive because instruction permit and laws being in another state-Living with my loner dad in his apartment-I would say I have above average looks but I don't know anyone and too many women playing games-Can't get a job because I need to get my license in another state where no one can drive me-

Like they are trying to ignore u?.... Like beat them up...? Lol... No...