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- Question: My husband's Catholic mistress and I fought. I went into her house and pushed her?
- Question: Is it possible for love to develop in an arranged marriage relationship?
- Question: My ex-husband just got engaged to my new husbands sister. What should I do?
- Question: Do I have to change my last name if my ex husband is getting married?
- Question: After a long vacation and having to go back to work I am really down. Went to FL with the fam and topped it off with a night out...?
- Question: Why would a married man have a long-term affair if he gets sex at home AND has no intentions of leaving his wife and kids?
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- Question: My wife cheated 2 years ago. My sons caught her in the act. I divorced her 2 days later. Quick question...?
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- Question: I think we having 2 young kids and being married for 5 years, my family is a happy one. However, she has said I don't listen. I need help.?
- Question: About a year ago I was not happy in the marriage. I told my wife that amI don't want to leave her, but I was unhappy. Stress got to me?
- Question: That past few days I have felt sad and don't know why. I have had this issue before. Just came back from over a week vacation with the fam..?
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| Question: Filipino-Canadian couple working and living on different continents. Normal? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 09:45 PM PDT Both are professionals, 40s, grown kids. He's living in Prince George, British Columbia and she's in Edinburgh, UK on a 5 year contract. He doesn't appear to be leaving his job. She just moved away for hers. Are they separated and divorcing? They're Catholic , but he's shamelessly flirty and tells women he's "on his own" but he tells other men he's still married. |
| Question: Wife never compliments my penis. Is this unusual.? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 09:42 PM PDT |
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| Question: How do I deal with my anxiety so that it doesn't ruin my potential relationship? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 08:35 PM PDT I've been talking to a guy for almost a year now. It's a long distance relationship and so far it's been good. I might be moving near him temporarily for work. He went on vacation recently and has been sending me videos and pictures of his entire trip. I didn't get a chance to talk to him after he arrived home and it's been stressing me out. I called today more than I usually do and triple texted. He's bee |
| Question: Married women, what do you think about this? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 07:51 PM PDT What do you think when your husband has a female friend who isn't super close with him, but "likes" a lot of his Facebook posts and playfully teases him on Facebook. You've met her, but she hasn't added you on Facebook or anything, although she's "liked" a post that you've tagged him in. (p.s. she's younger and attractive) |
| Question: Agree or disagree: its harder to get a rich spouse than it is to get a poor one? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 07:41 PM PDT |
| Question: Is Donald Trump faithful to his wife? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 07:25 PM PDT |
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| Question: Are you in a sexless marriage? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 07:05 PM PDT |
| Question: I want a divorce but my husband is PSYCHO.? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 06:17 PM PDT My husband constantly tells me why I'm a bad, immature person, tells me I need to lose weight, and that I'm crazy. He tells me every other day how he hates me and regrets marrying me but when I try to take our son and leave he grabs his gun and threatens to kill him self so I end up staying. I don't know what to do. I want out. I can't take the mental abuse anymore. Help! |
| Question: Did something else happen? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 06:17 PM PDT My friend got a divorce 25 years ago. A month ago, the ex husband died. He left behind his second wife and young child. Is normal for my friend to be crying like crazy at work? She needed to take deep breaths to keep going through the day. Or did something else happen in her life. like family saying mean things about her? Please give your insight on this. Friend is private and won't talk about it. She is extremely intelligent not to get wrapped up in things. |
| Question: My husband's Catholic mistress and I fought. I went into her house and pushed her? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 05:55 PM PDT My husband has a mistress he has been with for a year or so. I found her number on his phone. So I found her name, searched her address up and went to her house. She told my husband that I was knocking on her door. My husband told me to leave her alone and stop harassing her. She said that she didn't want to fight. I rang her apartment doorbell, I told her to come outside. She did not want to so I went into her apartment and showed her text message screenshots and pictures of them together. She said they've been together a year. So in her apartment, I pushed her and she grabbed me. She punched me numerous times, scratched my face (I have a few cuts), pulled my hair and kept attacking me. I admit I was wrong for hitting her first but she kept beating on me after I begged her to stop. I even have a black eye that is very swollen, scratched on my face and a patch of my hair is gone. I'm upset that she beat me up. Can I press charges on her for hitting me? My husband found out about the fight from my bruises and is not speaking to me. He is consoling her and he is asking for a divorce. He doesn't even want to be with me anymore We don't have children. I loved him and cheated on him with my ex boyfriend twice a few months ago, but we worked it out. I have cheated many time before marriage but twice in marriage. I was never in love with him but he makes good money. Help me! |
| Question: Is it possible for love to develop in an arranged marriage relationship? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 04:52 PM PDT So I am being arranged to marry a woman who my family knows. My family is helping me out because I am having such a hard time getting someone to date me and I never dated a woman at all. My family setted me up to marry this family friend's daughter in vietnam. My aunt and uncle is friends with her parents and they setted me up with her. We are both vietnamese and I am vietnamese myself and she agreed to this so it is not a forced marriage. I am glad that my family is helping me out since no one here in america wants to date me and I fear of being alone forever. A lot of people don't believe that she and I won't grow to love each other and that we would instead grow hatred against each other. I am actually very nice and kind and so I don't see how I can make her hate me because I am not a bad person. People think that she and I would be divorced as soon as she gets her green card. It makes me upset when people think this. Is it possible for love to develop in an arranged marriage ? Why do people think it is not possible for us to grow to love each other ?? |
| Question: My ex-husband just got engaged to my new husbands sister. What should I do? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 04:51 PM PDT |
| Question: Do I have to change my last name if my ex husband is getting married? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 03:45 PM PDT I kept my ex's last name when we divorced |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 01:16 PM PDT with the wife and ended the way I wanted it to :). It was a great time, but now my mood has really changed. Don't feel like doing much and now I feel like wife is distant. Possibly because she had to go back to work earlier than me and I miss her. I really hate feelin this way. I have no reason to feel sad since we had a great time and I was able to have a night with the wife which is rare. I'm assuming this will go away, but I don't want the everyday life to come back where we work all day, pick up kids and get home at 7. Cook dinner and sit down for a little bit before we all go to bed. Anyone else been in this funk? |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 12:50 PM PDT If he wasn't having sex with his wife, it would be more understandable - certainly not acceptable, excusable, justifiable.... but it would at least make more sense. But if he is getting sex at home, and he has no intentions of leaving his wife or his children... then what reason would a mid-fifties man have for engaging in a LONG-TERM affair with a younger woman? I'm talking 1+ years, not just a couple months. Enlighten me, I am honestly curious. Robert, interesting answer. I would've thought sex with the long-term mistress would be "just a thing of the moment" and sex with wife would be more intimate. Perhaps you're right though. Thanks for offering your perspective. Robert, interesting answer. I would've thought sex with the long-term mistress would be "just a thing of the moment" and sex with wife would be more intimate. Perhaps you're right though. Thanks for offering your perspective. Very insightful answers from everyone so far - I'm really enjoying reading them. Thanks to everyone for taking the time to answer. |
| Question: Emotional blackmail in marriage? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 12:03 PM PDT Would you consider it emotional blackmail if your wife refused to travel with you until she is pregnant? I have been struggling with fertility issues that are making it hard to get her pregnant... Also, she distrusts my judgement on where to go and insists we travel with a Chinese tour group instead. I tried to explain to her that going with a group will result in her socialising with the group and speaking her own language which will completely exclude me. So it would be pointless to travel that way. Plus I flat out refuse to join Chinese tourists. No offence to anyone but I would stand out and I can't stand their behaviour. My wife is completely missing the point that travel for a couple should be about bonding together. One on one time. She doesn't seem to get that at all! Earlier this evening I was questioning the point of being married. Like the direction together isn't clear. Just conceive a child and then what? I don't want the child to grow up in a dysfunctional environment. Also, one thing is very clear...the next time she slaps me in anger, I won't be coming back home to her. Let her feel she might be about to lose me forever. I'm sure her stubbornness will be replaced with worry if I don't come home. |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 11:08 AM PDT I am 100 percent focusing on my children and rebuilding my lie and empire. I see her gaining weight and with a different guy. (Not forgiving her, nor will ever reunite) Please help - I have 50 percent custody and she does not think of the children's health safety and wellbeing. She is 40 now and will probably not give her current BF any kids. Question I have is. What are the pros and cons of me dating a younger woman. I have a commitment to my boys. I could care less about her. I do feel that I should be 100 percent attending my boys. Please let me know your thoughts. |
| Question: Pipeline wives: do you work? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 10:15 AM PDT i'm mainly interested in hearing from wives who travel with their husbands full time. my husband is more than likely going to the pipeline soon, and once our finances are in order, i plan on quitting my job (i'm a pharmacy tech) and going on the road with him. problem is, i have a feeling i'd get bored and end up feeling bad about not contributing anything financially (stupid, i know, since pipeliners make serious money, lol). do any of you ladies have any sort of job working from home (or, rather, wherever you're temporarily based)? what kind of schooling/training did it require? what sort of equipment do you have to have? what's the pay like? any answers are greatly appreciated! |
| Question: How do I be my own person, and stop depending on my husband for happiness? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 09:33 AM PDT Hey everyone, I've recently been feeling really down about myself and insecure with my lack of interests and hobbies and my appearance. A little over a year ago I lost a ton of weight and felt amazing, I was so independent and didn't care what anyone was doing or said. Unfortunately, I have gained the weight back.. plus more. I am 22 years old, my husband is 36... he is very obsessive with appearance and is always comparing me to other girls and what they look like, he always asks "when are you going to look hot again?". This hurts, because he knows I'm really trying hard again to look good (I am not actually that fat.. I'm 5 foot 6 and 150 pounds) I actually gained the weight back because of how unhappy I was in the relationship along with other stresses (guilty for emotional eating) but I find I rely too much on what he says to make me feel secure and happy, I also feel threatened that he has so many interests and hobbies and I don't, and he's a ladies man. What can I do for my mind, to totally shut off the emotions I connect to his stamp of approval, distance myself, be more independent? The funny thing is, he always says I'm too clingy.. yet the second I start to look "hot" and do my own thing with other people and activities, he is the insecure one! Any suggestions on what I should do or how to train my mind into focusing on myself not him and what he thinks? Thank you! |
| Question: Do you think my Husband would ever forgive me? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 09:27 AM PDT We have two kids and had been together for 5 years and though things wouldn't always work out right we maintained a pretty happy family. The problem is about a year and a half ago we were having many problems, he was the kind of guy that would read a lot of books and have smart answers for everything and just squash any argument, the thing was he wanted me to stay at home and take care of the kids while he worked and studied. He was always working or studying or even trying to start businesses but I wanted to work and be more independent so I got a job a warehouse overnight. A few guys started to flirt with me, now I had not gotten that from any man for a long time even though my husband and I did have plenty of sex and honestly he was great in the bed but at one point or another it just started to get boring so I gave one guy a chance and sure enough he was nice, he really made me feel good, he brought flowers and took me to the movies and I begin to have feelings for him. The problem was he was married and so was I but one thing took to the other and we begin to have sex. Now I know that's bad but it just felt great. Sex wasn't so but he's fat and about 8 years older than me but it wasn't the sex it was the fact that he made me feel loved. Where it gets bad is when I would have sex with this man and then pick up my husband and tell him I loved him knowing I was seeing another man. Continued... |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 09:16 AM PDT This is the one complaint I have heard many of times. To piggy back she thinks I don't appreciate her because of my not so good listening skills. I try to listen, but it is hard not to try and fix the problem as I am a male. I do not know where to start. I'm not making excuses but we both work and don't get home till 630 or 7 at night. We then make dinner and take care of the kids. We are both exhausted and I want to rest. Please, I need some help as I want her to feel appreciated and understood. Thx |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 06:05 AM PDT At the time we had a 3 and 1 year old. I am not trying to brag, but out of all our friends I am the dad that bust his butt the most. I was unhappy b/c I felt that she was not into me as we didn't have time alone. She is really into her mom role, but I felt alone. Since then things have got better. We have our stress still with some finances, work and normal life. However, I am happy with our family and marriage. I think what I said a year ago affected her and I understand why, but I wanted to be honest. The issue is I tell her I am happy and I don't think she believes me. We don't have too many deep conversations and I try to show her in any ways that I can that I love her. Any suggestions? |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 05:34 AM PDT Going back to work tomorrow. Had a good vacation and a few days ago my wife and I got the night out while the kids spent the night with a relative (happens a few times a year). Night ended with great sex (rarely get to do). Now the last couple of days I feel down and I don't get it. Maybe a little bit of missing vacation and spending alone time with the wife. Ever since my Mom had an affair and left my dad (5 years ago) I sometimes think my wife will do the same. Not sure what to do, but I can't shake this feeling down. Maybe time will help. |
| Question: Why does my husband hate me after I gave birth? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 02:57 AM PDT |
| Question: What are the legal negatives and positive of getting legally married? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 01:54 AM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We re in our 20 s and we both want to get married but he doesn t want to legally tie the knot. Is this something I should be worried about? What are the legal negatives and positives on marriage. Like I understand tax break wise being single is better I ve heard but I need to better understand. |
| Question: Married man--is he being a creep? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 01:18 AM PDT Why do my questions about him keep getting deleted? I am looking for advice/opinions like EVERYBODY else. We used to work together, he was my boss. He's always been flirty with me, but I never thought anything of it. Any opportunity he got to sit next to me, he'd take. Any excuse to touch my arm or hand or to be in my space bubble, he'd take. The last few days we worked together, he was more flirty than normal and showed extreme favoritism towards me. He allowed me to do things that he wouldn't allow my team members to do (he also had known he was leaving soon, he had put in his 2 weeks already). After he got a new job and left, he invited me and another friend (male) to his church. Whenever it's the 3 of us, he'll chat after service and show seriously flirty body language towards me. When I just go with my mom, he'll come say hello to us, but will leave after the service. Is he being a creep? I'm 26, he's 37. I personally don't think he's done anything out of the ordinary, as he apparently has more female friends than male and I am just one of the, but others say otherwise. By the way, yes I have feelings for him. Trust me, it didn't start off that way. I used to not be able to stand him, but was always sexually attracted to him. Anonymous, nobody ever said anything about being a homewrecker. I never said anything about pursuing this. You assume because I have feelings for him, that I am going to pursue this and I never insinuated that. And if you want to finance my counseling, you go right ahead because I simply can't afford it. |
| Question: My Husband is attracted to other woman but not me..? Posted: 04 Jul 2017 01:09 AM PDT |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2017 12:25 AM PDT We been together almost 5 years. Been trying to have kids but for some reason we havent been able to. It breaks my heart I couldn t give him any kids but his affair got pregnant . I m so hurt |
| Question: Is there any way to not pay alimony to an ex-spouse if they just decide to leave you? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 10:45 PM PDT I'm not married or anything but one of my fears is that one day I'll have a spouse who just decides to leave me and I'll be stuck paying them a chunk of my income for a very long time. I hear that even if you get a pre-nup there's no way to avoid paying alimony. This seems kind of a raw deal in my opinion and now I'm debating whether getting married is even worth the financial risk. |
| Question: MARRIED MEN,WOULD U CHEAT ON UR WIFE WITH ME!? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:46 AM PDT Love married men! its such a turn on knowing their cheating on their wifes for me! lol i luv the attention! |
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