Family: Question: I have this uncle that's divorced and my Mom loves him like a spouse. They don't do sex but are soulmates (but they are sibs). Is this norm?

Question: I have this uncle that's divorced and my Mom loves him like a spouse. They don't do sex but are soulmates (but they are sibs). Is this norm?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 10:27 AM PDT

It is my Mom's brother and they travel together, hang out together, help each others kids, it is sick. I am glad they are close and both are good people but they are like soulmates. My Mom does far more with my uncle then my Dad (Mom is still married). The uncle has been divorced twice and says he does not intend to marry again. He is a great guy, but is this sick? She isn't in love with her married brothers like this (she is the only sister). Is this normal? When I was a kid this uncle's name was dirt as he was moody and I was scared of him. Now my Mom is in love with him ever since his 2nd divorce which was eleven years ago.

Question: How do i convince my dad to get me braces?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 10:22 AM PDT

My parents are divorced and I go back and forth but my mom takes me to the dentist and doctor my dad never does that. But I already know my mom can't afford braces but I really need them. My dad on the other hand I know he can afford them but he doesn't want to. He'll say that he will pay half if my mom pays half but I know she can't .But he doesn't believe me when I say that and he thinks she can and he doesn't want to benifit her by paying for it all. How do i convince him to get them for me I'm 14 and it's summer and i think it's the perfect time, How do i convince him I really need them?

Question: Planning On Moving Away For College! What Steps Do I Take?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 10:21 AM PDT

I am a 17 year old boy. I am going to be entering my senior year of High School and let me just say that this college talk is very enticing yet overwhelming. Why do I want to move away for college? It's because I live in New Jersey and I feel that there is nothing here for me. The only college that slightly interests me is Princeton University, and its going to be a bit hard to get into an Ivy League School with a 3.0 GPA considering that the university average is a 3.5 GPA. What steps do I take to start living on my own in college? I know that i'm a year away from the move itself, but what steps do I take now as far as preparing for upcoming college applications and moving away from home. I've always wanted to go to the University of Southern California, but I've always been terrified of being 3,000 miles away from my parents. Any University suggestions along with the answer would be greatly appreciated (preferably one with a Division 1 NCAA program) Thanks ;)

Question: I'm roasting in my room right now and too lazy to get up. What should I do?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 09:46 AM PDT

I'm a male teen, and I think the problem is my clothes are too wintery. No, I don't have an AC in my room, and no, I'm not going to "git gud and get up" I don't have water near me. Also, I'm home alone so I can't call for help, and I'm not wearing socks or any blankets or sheets. No objects around to fan myself with either.

Question: My Mom gets mad whenever she finds out I have seen my Dad who she divorced. How should I react when she does this?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 09:29 AM PDT

I try to keep it a secret when I see him as I see him about two or three times a month, My mother finds out a few times a year like if she sees my car there or when I leave a holiday party early saying I am meeting up with a friend (she seems to know that is a lie). She wants me to hate him with the same burning passion that she and my sister do. How do I respond as I do not hate him in fact I like him a lot and it is my Mom I get mad at for this. The divorce was 30 years ago.

Question: I have so much anger built up from my father taking his anger out on me and never loving me?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 09:28 AM PDT

Here I am making another post about my dad yet again. Every damn day I look at him I just want to punch him in the nose and rip his nose to pieces. All I can think about is the times where he would yell at me and say "fck you" to my face when I was just a little boy. He acts like a fcking child and he has never ever talked to me like he actually cares about me. He did this so many times and he has never ever listened to me or been a friend to me and he expects me to praise him. I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks I know what he did is wrong. When he dies he won't be able to hide the truth from god. I wish he would open up to me but he's so caught up in his ways he's not ever going to change. I can't wait to move out and I can't wait till the next time he decides to treat me however the hell he wants. I won't be so nice next time dad, you will see the other side of me and I hope you're ready because I'm about to unleash all hell on you and you will see what it feels like to be treated the way you treated me. I have been nothing but good to you and you treat me like I am here to serve you. I'm 22 now i hope by now you know that I have a brain that works and I see right through you. I have confronted you about your behavior and you refuse to even acknowledge you are doing anything wrong. He has been a drinker and smoker his whole life and continues to drink even though he's diabetic he stopped smoking a year ago.

Question: So my dad has been really mad at me lately.?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 09:28 AM PDT

So my mom and I have been noticing changes in my dads mood he will get mad over nothing. Last night I asked him if a friend could sleepover and he got really mad when I told him to just forget about it he got so angry he even took my phone away. I love my dad so much I just need to know what I should do about him. Btw, he is not abusive or anything like that.

Question: My sister died a few weeks ago and my parents are not functioning. How can I sympathetic with them but move on as well and enjoy life?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 09:27 AM PDT

They were mad this past weekend that I went to my cousin's wedding. They saw it as me partying while my sister is deceased (she died Memorial Day of a brain aneurysm). I need to move on, how do I do this in a way that doesn't come across as me not caring? I am 31 and live on my own but still care about my parents but myself also. I am anxiety prone as is. My other two siblings I have one who has stopped living so she can help my parents and the other (youngest) is rebellious and has moved on. I am the oldest.

Question: I'm homeschooled but I absolutely hate it. My mom is super sensitive any time I try to talk about it.?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 09:23 AM PDT

She makes me do school during the summer and I'm in eight grade and she got me 6th grade history because she didn't want to spend extra money so my brother who's two grades lower than me....I do tge same stuff as him. I feel so stupid but when I ask her to get me my age level stuff...She yells at me and says I need to learn humility

Question: Rich Vs Poor/ Do you agree?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 08:59 AM PDT

As a boy when I would ask my grandmother about the very rich people in the area where she lived, the first thing she would always say is that in life there will always be people richer than you, and poorer than you, be happy where you are and keep growing. I wanted to hear if people agree with this Idea or do you believe that people have obtained wealth did so at the expense of others? Thanks

Question: How should I tell my family?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 08:39 AM PDT

How should I tell my family not to worry so much when I get a small amount of junk food? I'm 32 I live on my own I eat healthy and junk food in moderation. My aunt and uncle don't seem to want me to have junk food at all I know they are my family they want me to be healthy they don't live with me they don't see me that much I wished they would panic less when I have a little bit of junk food. My aunt told me last year I would be tortured if i had junk food. I don't have it everyday I think having it once a month would be ok. I think my aunt saying I would be tortured is a little too harsh. I mentioned this to my dad he says moderation is fine maybe he can try to talk to them.

Question: Do you think uk bread church is too much for 6 and 8 year olds, who are not being brought up in any religion. they have maids so don't cook.?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 08:16 AM PDT

Question: Why do some nosy relatives wanted to know your goals/plans?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 08:11 AM PDT

Some of my relatives wanted to know my plans, they ask what I'm up to, if I'm going to travel overseas (they don't want me to travel for some reason.), they ask how much I earn, what sort of job I do, if my marriage is still strong, checking my apartment if I bought some new appliances/things.

Question: What does it mean when someone who is dying to say scissors over and over?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 07:40 AM PDT

So I live in New York and my grandpa (my mom's dad) who lives in Florida is 86 and just over a month ago he was sent to the hospital where he ended up having 4 surgeries in 5 days, his health/condition kept improving and declining like a roller coaster but now he's on death's door and it's just a matter of time. My mom flew down there along with her sister and two brothers to take care of him and just last night my mom told me that my grandpa kept saying "Scissors scissors scissors" over and over. Does this mean anything significant? Any answers would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

Question: That tiger parenting does not seem to work?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 07:12 AM PDT

Am following the tiger mom handbook I am the stepgirlfriend . I demand they have no social life no fun no playing no talking no affection endless rules and destroying their art projects lego houses if they don't look like a professional adult made them. Kids are so selfish.They won't call me mom or tell me they love me refuse to spend extra time with me. I get so upset when they go to playdates instead of spending time with me.It is so unfair I made it look like his redneck lowlife family look like they kidnapped them and they are banned from seeing them and they kids still like them mor ethan they like me. Update: They didn't kidnap them I made the ex think they did Update 2: it is also very hurtful that they ignore me and no one will back me up with this. Like I took the little one's crayons off her for coloring a tree blue and scribbling because that is not realistic and my bf gave them back to her. I made the one kid eat large amounts of hot sauce and soap after I thought he lied but really it was a graphic novel he made and he was telling a story. He stays in his room when he is here or runs to his friends house and will not talk to me.I hate creativity.It confuses me. They get so frustrated when I hover over them and harass them when they try to play. I want them to act like mini adults like the kids in china do. no one will back this up with me. I feel Like I am screaming at the wind

Question: Do you have a good relationship with your mother?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 06:58 AM PDT

I am 24 years old, and I got married pretty young, and on top of that have a 1 year old son. My husband is currently in Army basic training and its been pretty tough having to deal with our son by myself. Luckily, my mother in law lives with me and we have grown pretty close. I see the way that her kids treat her, asking her for advice and guidance and she gives it to them without any form of imposing. It makes me wish that I had that kind of relationship with my mother. My mother was never supportive of my career nor personal nor life choices, and its always been her way or the highway. I sometimes wish she was more understanding, and I have confronted her about this, but no luck. She loves her grandson dearly, but whenever I ask her for advice, she always says, "Well, thats what you got yourself into..." I often find excuses to drive 3 hours to see her and my dad and bro, because they have the same mentality as her, which is pretty toxic. Every time I want to take a break from driving out to see them and staying in my city with my son, my mother gives me crap about me having a preference for my husband s family and staying there with them. Bottom line, I m just wondering what to do, how to go about this relationship with my mother. I thought it would be different since I am older now and have a growing family. Sorry for the rant, but what would you do? Do you have a good relationship with your mother?

Question: 64 YR. OLD GRANDMA THAT ACTS LIKE A KID ????

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 06:56 AM PDT

I'm the grandma that enjoys having fun with my grandkids before that my kids,,,,,I never enjoy being in a group of adults,I am very uncomfortable...My daughter tells me i'm not normal. Well at 64 I want to go to Typhoon Lagoon,a water park with a giant wave pool,I love it....Adults bore me,I don't drink,all they do is gossip,,,Is there something wrong with me,,,I don't know

Question: How to find the name of an object based on item number?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 05:37 AM PDT

Ok so I broke my step dads lamp on accident and I m trying to find a replacement but nothing comes up when I try to search for it so all I have is an item number and a bar code how can I use those to find the name of an object

Question: My sister eats up all of my food, what do I do?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 05:14 AM PDT

She literally eats all of my food and my mom and brother's food. I put away popcorn for nights I feel really good, cause I don't eat popcorn on a regular day. So, yesterday I went to go make a pack of popcorn, when I got to the box it was taped close. I managed to get it open to discover she cut up a magazine and put it in the box. Then, i put away food the day before yesterday from a Barbeque, she ate it all. The funny thing is that she packed her own plate.... Throughout the years while food shopping our mom would let me, my brother, and my sister pick out one thing for ourselves, if we don't eat them immediately she'll go in our rooms (where we keep personal stuff) and eat all of it. I'm looking for revenge. How can I get her back? I'm sick of her.

Question: My sister died a few weeks ago and my parents are not functioning. How can I sympathetic with them but move on as well and enjoy life?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 05:04 AM PDT

They were mad this past weekend that I went to my cousin's wedding. They saw it as me partying while my sister is deceased (she died Memorial Day of a brain aneurysm). I need to move on, how do I do this in a way that doesn't come across as me not caring? I am 31 and live on my own but still care about my parents but myself also. I am anxiety prone as is. My other two siblings I have one who has stopped living so she can help my parents and the other (youngest) is rebellious and has moved on. I am the oldest.

Question: My Mom won't let me see my Dad because he left her. How do I get my Dad back?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 04:56 AM PDT

I asked yesterday but didn't have this update. He does want to see me but says she has to give the go ahead. My counselor last school year said that he can take her to court and reminded her of that. He says he is done fighting her. Neither parent loves me. Dad is lazy and Mom is too busy getting revenge to love me. So how do I get Mom to let me see him as he does say I can visit when I get her permission? I hate my Mom for doing this and so do I tell her that to motivate her? She's mad for good reason but punishing the wrong person (me and my siblings). She has more hate in her towards him then there is water in the world. Thank you both

Question: Why is my ex's mother contacting me?/Should I stay in contact with her?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 04:13 AM PDT

My ex and I split because "he wasn't ready for a relationship". Basically, he doesn't want to be with me. The last time we talked was Father's day because I said happy Father's day to him. He is the father of our son, but our child was born stillborn. His mother would call me during our first break up and vice versa because Iwas pregnant with her grandson. Then, the horrible news came that the child didn't make it and she initiated that I try to get back with my ex. I said no because he broke up with me and she explained that her and her husband broke up or split occasionally. I took the bait and we got back together. This time around I only contacted him for Father's day. Time progressed and his mother contacts me saying hey. I didn't reply because I didn't know if it was her or her son just trying to check up on me. But, then I thought about it and she does have a tendency to meddle. We were close, but she occasionally says things that I dislike and find insulting. It is her personality, but it never sat well with me. (Her own mother used to call her a whore while growing up and a b*tch) Anyway, should I be her friend? We were both pregnant together and I lived in their territory for the last bit of my pregnancy. I even helped take care of her beautiful, newborn daughter. Is it weird though?

Question: How to you tell a forceful parent off?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 03:21 AM PDT

Question: What's up with my little brother? Does he not trust us? After last night , v just carried him 2 r room n cried while cuddling n hugging him.?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 03:15 AM PDT

My little bro is 14 n I m 29 y/o girl. Our dad died due to cancer when bro was 1 n our mom died 6 years back due 2 a heart attack while playing wid him. My wife, 31, (same sex) n I became his legal guardians n his only family. We r worried cos of wt has hppnd. He doesn't talk 2 us, doesn't give us or tk any cuddles, hugs or kisses which he did till a couple of weeks before, he remains sad n lonely , kind of depressed, he has stopped interacting wid his teachers tho he never had any frnds bt still remained happy. I mean he has evrthng, hes at d top of his class, he is a very knowledgeable fan of superheroes n animes n mangas, is in d football team, tho hes shorter than us by several inches hes at 5'7" n very jacked n athletic as v hlpd him by giving him ATHLEAN-X programs which v hd bought 4 us n subscribing to its channel. Despite us taking him out, even being very open about sex, periods n all, nvr reacts 2 seeing us in bikinis, never letting him feel lonely or anything, even reaching out to him as much as v cud.... Now d main problem, last night we tried to surprise him on his birthday so v sneaked out to his room to surprise him his door was open n he hd opened a painkillers box n was about to consume it b4 my wife snatched them off n I slapped him. He just stood der crying facing d ground. My wife found a note on his bed which said dt he didn't wanna be a burden to his "2 sister-mothers" n dt he's better off dead as doesn't wanna kill us like he did 2 our mother.

Question: Trouble with my little brother's behavior?.!?!? Plz bear wid d story for background information.?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 02:12 AM PDT

He is 14 n a half and an d has been living with me for the last 6 years as me and my partner's ward as our parents passed away in a car crash. I m 30 y/o female and living with my same sex partner. He is autistic n dyslexic but is super smart as he is able to solve complex academic n real life problems wid ease as told by his teacher. It started when he was 8, we were watching animes in jap wid eng subs so he wasn't able to understand but instead of allowing us to tell him wt d subs say he just went off n said , " I.. am... will to..understands...what ....it speak." My partner got annoyed at me for making it hard for him. After dt he started studying so hard dt within 15 months , he started speaking, reading, writing and communicating so easily as if he never had autism n dyslexia all the while refusing our help very politely tho he studied like for 7 -8 hrs over our protests. He told us dt he read, practised science, english n math books which he asked us to buy with great difficulty in speaking, so dt he can be "normal" n not only dt has read n watched more animes n mangas n graphoc novels n movies than us. He is so proficient in d subjects as if he was a 12th grader. He nos bout periods n offered to bring us

Question: How to relieve stress?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 01:12 AM PDT

So this summer(I'm still in school, 10th grade) my life has been really stressful and pretty depressing so I'm helping my aunt and grandma move to laurel county in Kentucky..and I wanted to stay with them a few days bc it's a really big house and I wanted to spend time with them. I originally live with my mom and my brother but I just found out today that we lost our house and have no place to live so me and my brother have to stay with our grandma for a little bit. And I just feel so bad for my mom that she has to go through all that and I just love her so much.. and there's just so many things I wanna do but I can't and there's so much going on I can't even explain it all. I just wanted my summer to be good..i know I probably sound dramatic and there's worse things in life but I just feel so depressed bc all these feeling are coming up..like my dad died, my family is poor, I can't even see any of my friends right now. I just feel like a waste of space and money right now.. and what I just explained isn't even a portion of what I feel. All I want is for everything to be normal and my mom to be happy..I can't deal with all this stress and I need help

Question: What if fd is on mothers name and both mother and father died who gets the fd money form the sibling?

Posted: 06 Jul 2017 12:37 AM PDT

Question: Neither set of parents want me.?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 11:39 PM PDT

I am 17 years old and I am going into my Junior year of high school. After my freshman year I moved to my dads house which is about an hour from mom's because of constant fighting (physical and verbal) with my step dad and my stepdad told my mom either he leaves or I do. So she sent me off. Mind you Im not a troubled teen I have good grades and no court record but he'd always hit me and of course I'd fight back. Now that I'm at my dad's I also live in the same city as my girlfriend who I have been with for 2 years now (since before I moved). My stepmom always talks trash about my girlfriend to my face and behind my back and I have no idea why. Like I said I'm 17 and can't even have this girl in my room because my stepmom freaks out about it. My stepmom and I have been fighting lately and it's been about her constantly disrespecting me, my girlfriend and my mother (who I'm mad at but I mean come on it's my mom). My stepmom told me she never wanted me there and when i told my dad he didn't believe me. I work a full time summer job and a part time job every day 7 days a week. On top of that I recently enlisted into the National Guard (68-W) is there anything I can do? I cant last another year in this situation. I live in Ohio. I know laws are different in each state.

Question: Does my sister know I have a foot fetsih?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 11:15 PM PDT

So I've had a foot fetish for quite a while, but I have tried as much as possible not to be creepy about or fetishize my family members. But sometimes I do admit I stare at my sisters feet (she has really pretty feet). And I'm starting to think she has noticed. Before she used to sometimes walk around the house barefoot and sometimes with socks. Now she always walks around barefoot even when checking the mail or playing basketball in our driveway. She takes her shoes off in the car whenever she's next to me, and if we're sitting on the couch or ours beds she puts her leg up and her foot right next to my body (or on me if she's laying down and I'm sitting straight because there's no room). This is really hard for me to deal with I think incest is wrong but it almost seems as if my sistar is tempting me. I hope I'm just overreacting but I think she knows

Question: How do I ask my mom to let me meet my biological father?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 11:02 PM PDT

I'm 13, and never met him. He an my mother had been in an abusive relationship, then I was born and they split up. All I know is currently he is/was in prison in another state for I don't know what; And I have 2-3 half siblings I'd like to meet. I do visit my grandma ( his mom) often, but there's like some unspoken rule to not mention or even hint at anything that could possibly be about him. I just want to meet him, or know what he looks like. There's a lot of emotional/bipolar issues I got from him, seeing as my mom's side doesn't have that, that'd I'd like to ask him about, and learn about the rest of my family.

Question: Where can a 17 year go after running away?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 11:01 PM PDT

I'm tired of being with a ***** *** family that treats me like sh*t for being different and thinks my problems are a joke I have no friends to go to so is there a place to go for a run away teenage girl

Question: What can I do to make moving easier...?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 10:16 PM PDT

I'm 18 and I graduated in May..i still live with my mom but I'm supposed to move in with my boyfriend and his parents the 11th of August..but my mom is technically my great grandma and relys on me so much. I'm terrified to move out in fear that something will happen to her because I wasn't there to help her. I've already told her about me moving out and she straight up said she didn't want me to and that it would be the biggest mistake I've ever made. I just don't know what to do anymore... I'm so stressed out it's not even funny...i want to move out but in absolutely terrified. Me and her live alone. And I will only be moving 5 minutes down the road. Any tips on how to help me be more okay with moving out?

Question: Anyone can read the notes in the link wi/ the info on here tell me what does this seem like if my mom wants another kid?Pls it will be alot?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 10:09 PM PDT

Me & my mom are really close, I never listen to her conversations. Tonight some personal stuff happened with my family, my mom kept going in other room to talk to my dad then she would talk to me about what they talked about, now my father is jealous kinda of my relationship with my mom that every time no matter if I'm in the kitchen/upstairs, we're talking he'll turn the tv down or come in the room & be like what are you saying?all the time. Tonight the first time I did ask my mom what did you mean by.......she jump down my throat, I found it beyond weird since the one other time I asked she had no problem & she never gets that way ever, the only reason she maybe was talking about another baby. Read what happened https://notestoryonline.tumblr.com/post/162582492638 Here's another time she didn't make sense https://notestoryonline.tumblr.com/post/161915204828 https://peoplepicggg.tumblr.com/post/161915217553 https://peoplepicggg.tumblr.com/post/162316433163 Here's the reasons why I don't think she wants another kid https://notestoryonline.tumblr.com/post/162583064698 Please open the first link first and then the other ones, please open and read to understand and if it seems she wants another kid? I gave my whole life to clean, help with kids, cook, in the only one helping. I didn't even go to prom I'm 17 and all my life I've never been out, me and my family go months in the house and never go out people think we're crazy

Question: I want to kill myself but i can't because of my family.?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 10:06 PM PDT

I am in a really hard time and you can't imagine that so please don't tell me life is good.I want to kill myself but my family will be destroyed.Please help me. I am not that strong and i have a lot of problems emotionally and i can't talk with anyone.Every night when i sleep i wish to die and right now i'm crying

Question: Mom doesn't respect my privacy?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 09:45 PM PDT

I am an 18 year old male and back when I was 13 I established a knocking rule if my door is closed. My dad has respected this rule throughout the years. However, my mom has not. Countless times has she interrupted me recording videogame commentary for YouTube, walked in on me when I was undressing. She claims that she knocks but she doesn't. I have told her multiple times to knock on my door. I also work and my dad has told me that he has caught her snooping through my items. It annoys me to the point where I want out of my house. I have requested Locks for my door but she declines it every time.

Question: Need some advice about moving out?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 09:36 PM PDT

I'm 30 years old and I'm trying to move out of my parents house and relocate. But I really need to have breasts reduction surgery due to having back and neck pain. I want to have this done before I actually move out. I may need help after the procedure but it would only take me two months to heal and then I'll move out. So should I get the surgery first and then move out?

Question: My brother is 37 and is working on his real estate license and a bachelors in social work. He says he is ready to advance himself. Thoughts?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 09:18 PM PDT

He is planning on taking the real estate licensing exam in August or September and plans on buying a house once he makes a few real estate sales. He will be finished working on his bachelors around May of 2019. Is this a bad look with him being 37 and getting this done?

Question: My brother who is 37 said he wants to grow his hair out a little passed his shoulders, but will wait until he get advances himself. Thoughts?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 09:09 PM PDT

He said he will wait until he finishes working on his real estate license, and buys his own house.

Question: Trying to move out?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 08:48 PM PDT

I'm 30 years old I still live word my parent. But I am trying to move out. The problem is I need breasts reduction surgery. So I don't know what to do. I'm tired of living at home and want to move.

Question: Am I wrong for this?? Answer and I'll answer 1 for you!!?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 08:45 PM PDT

So me and my gf have been dating 10 months and are both at a state university. Going into this summer I tried for 2 internships (1 was withdrawn in 2 days and the other I got an interview but didn't get) then a month later I tried for 2 others (1 was miscommunication and the other I was too late for). I've been looking for a job in my field since I'm fixing to graduate. Now a month later she's asked me 4-5 times if I'm getting a job and said it was because she was "worried" I was lying to her that I actually didn't want a job. I told her it wasn't, but now apparently her aunt, Mom and dad talked down about for me not having a job and she's having me promise her to get a job. All this while she has a pool job that even her parents have told her is "little" and needs to move on and a counseling job at our former community college (she works a total of 10 hrs a week, sometimes only 4-5). Am I wrong for being mad and frustrated for being looked down upon and talked about when she has jobs you generally have in high school, not college?

Question: Can I do something for my great aunt and uncle ("depressed")..?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 08:20 PM PDT

My two great aunts and great uncle, siblings, all grew up in the same household, all made a business together (they're Italian so they had a pizza place) and all retired together... Then about a year ago one of my great aunts was diagnosed with cancer in all of her major organs, and she died a few months later. I've been there for them when she was dying and they like having me around, they want me to come around more but I never have time.. (I'm 18 and trying to make a living and do school..) The great aunt who died was basically the "life of the party" when someone visited their house, so when she died pretty much everyone stopped visiting them... I think she even knew that, because she had me promise her I would go see them after she was gone... For a while they were both in denial that she even had cancer and they tried to convince her the doctors were crazy.. So now when I go see them, they're happy to see me, but they pretty much have "blank stares" on their faces and they just seem kinda miserable.. I don't think anyone else comes to see them anymore, so I wanna try to find some kinda way to cheer them up..? Me personally, I get happy when I re-live memories of passed loved ones, but with them it seems like they would just cry and be too sad, not be happy that she was here but sad that she's gone now, so how else could I "cheer them up"...? Something besides "being there", which I'll still do, but I can't do it as often right now... They're very old, (70s) only get outta house once every weeks or two for food, probably can't travel... :/

Question: I am 13 years old and I need to make some money.?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 08:00 PM PDT

I live in a hilly area were nothing but the park is in walking distance. My parents would probably not let me wash the neighbors cars or Windows, is there and way I could make money were my parents won't think I will get kidnapped or killed.

Question: Why do I hate my moms husband so much?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 07:42 PM PDT

I can't stand this man! He does absolutely nothing for me never bought anything for my birthday nor Christmas and expects my mom to get his kids something. He is so annoying. I always have to fed this retarded. Which there is nothing wrong with him he is just a fat lazy person. Now he telling me I have to go to be at ten. This is summer and I have to go to bed because you gave me a bedtime. It's not like I'm making any noise. All I do is be on my phone. Than also he makes me go to places with him all I do is the some stuff I do at home. Which is stupid bc I don't want to go I'm old enough to be home by myself. I'm going to stop listening to this fool bc he is nobody important. He doesn't run **** around here. I hate that broke stupid bum. I should have told my mom I don't like him when they was about to get married. I Hate him!! What should I do?

Question: What's my parents problem with me?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 07:39 PM PDT

My parents treat me like ****. I do my chores every day, I am a good person never get in trouble. Today I did my gardening chores, cleaned out a turtle tank. Missed my best friends birthday party for them because I wanted to make them happy. And proud of me but my dad came home and said I didn't do anything. That I just messed around. They think I'm a lazy *** who never does anything right. That's what they call me. But I work so hard for them. I do my chores. At the end of the day I'm sore everywhere and they come home and treat me like ****. Why? It hurts so bad. My brother was supposed to help me with the chores but he didn't and didn't get punished at all. They talk about me at night. They put me down. I'm ignored until I do something and then I'm just put down. I'm 15. This really hurts my self confidence, work ethic, self esteem. Around my friends they are nice. And never act mean. But when it's just me I'm apparently the biggest mistake and problem in the universe. What's wrong?

Question: What's my parents problem with me?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 07:38 PM PDT

Question: What is my parents problem with me?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 07:31 PM PDT

Question: My Mom won't let me see my Dad because he left her. How do I get my Dad back?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 07:18 PM PDT

Question: This is a tough question about a relationship that's so very complicated?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 06:58 PM PDT

Ok, so me and this girl dated for a year and are very much in love. There's a problem, my family is old time holiness Pentecostal, we believe in wearing skirts and all that while she doesn't. My family doesn't support us, and I'm willing to give up the religion for her. She enjoys coming to church and believes it's the right way but she doesn't want to live it. I've been preaching for a while and I'm burnt out. We've tried to quit each other but we can't. I can't sleep, eat, etc without her. I can't imagine my life without her. My grandparents would be crushed and my parents would support us but not be overly excited about it. I just don't know what to do, I love her and that's all I know. If there's any advice out there, please help. I want to keep her but not disappoint my family, if y'all see any way of doing so please help. If I had to chose I'd chose her but it hurts to know your family doesn't accept you. Anyways, any answer will help, thanks

Question: What age did you let your kids sit up front in the car?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 06:56 PM PDT

I'm just after getting a new child minder. My parents are always away on business so that's why we have her. She won't let me sit up front in the car until I'm 15, at the moment I'm 13. She even asked my parents for money to buy a 120pound booster seat which I didn't even know existed until she came. I talked to my parents but they agree with her and say they've been too easy on me? She's also making me go to bed at 10 on weekends and 8.45/9.00 on weekdays even if it's a school holiday, which I don't think is fair. She won't let me out past 7 and takes my phone away at 8 every night. I'm not allowed watch any tv at all or use any other electronic devices. When I try to talk to my parents they say that it's just a good thing and they might consider it when they come home from all their trips. Why is she acting like this? Is it possible she's a helicopter parent even though she isn't a parent? Please I need advice and no this isn't a joke.

Question: Is there anyway i can legally move in with a relative that my parent hates? i cannot stand to live at home any longer?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 06:32 PM PDT

i live with a single mother and brother at the moment. me and my mom just do not get along whatsoever. its always "he said she said" with us and im just tired of it. everyday she becomes more mentally abusive towards me and its affecting my everyday life (school, happiness, etc.). i would very much like to move in with my aunt (from my dad s side) but my mother HATES her and doesnt allow me to contact her (even though i secretly visit her quite often). is there any way legally that i could move in with my aunt without my mother s consent?

Question: How do i make my life change?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 06:25 PM PDT

Im 13 going 14 and im a little depressed. **** this is hard to explain, my mom is constantly telling me to do homework and if i do it she will literally make me erase it and repeat it (really). Im sure youll think i sound like a kid but you have no idea how much she cares about studying and homework i swear thats the only thing she talks about i swear for my life, its just so ******* horrible. She also always screams at me and tells my dad im screaming at her and she starts screaming at me! While i was writing this she started screaming at me. Im also depressed because im American and i live in colombia (a horrible ******* piece of **** country) also my school is an only mens school and everyone is ******* homosexual. I really wanna go to usa. Someday we will go there but i will be too old (highschool). Any advice to make my life better? Pls :'(

Question: Is he blowing us off? Why not just say he's not interested ?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 06:13 PM PDT

Asked my daughters father to go to a baseball game w us ( since it's her first game she is 2) bc i got free tickets. He quickly asked when it was. But now i haven't gotten a yes or no and it's been over 7 hrs. I don't get it.

Question: How can I reastablish my sons sanity after being brainwashed by internet gaming?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 06:06 PM PDT

Question: Do you think that today's generation of children face the biggest disconnection between them and their parents due to technology?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 05:55 PM PDT

So this widespread of technology has obviously affected the way we communicate. Everyone feels the need to show off, and we've become so "connected". My parents did not grow up with this so they have a hard time understanding what this all means. Wouldn't you agree? Do you guys think that teens act differently than they did 20+ years ago?

Question: I really need your opinion on what i should do Please answer this Question and give a HONEST answer?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 05:40 PM PDT

So basically i don't Get along with My Mom Or my older brother and my other brother i think i have lost a lot of respect for my mom and My brothers cause the way they treat me They dont abuse me or anything i just feel my mom talks to me poorly and My brothers i dont have a good relationship with them not even a little And i cant move in with My Dad cause he's in Kuwait Doing something with my army and My Grandma is the only Person that my mom trusts to let me live with But the only problem is My Mom wont let me She keeps saying "ohh noooo She can not take care of you!!!!" But i am about to be 16 in August i can take care of myself I cook formyself at home i can cook my meals i can wake myself up in the morning for school I'm Also gonna get a job If i move to new york my point is i can take care of myself and It will also be a good thing For me cause i wanna be a male model And i live in north carolina and i can't be a male model over there I can't get any work over For modeling over there!!!!! I really wanna Start my modeling career In New york city But my mom always says "But i'll miss you" or "she cant take care of you" I told her about 100 times I WILL TAKE CARE OF MYSELF And like 2 Summers ago she said it was fine My grandma said it was fine i can stay over there but my mom Said well Your grandmother Is never home!!! She said sometimes she can be gone for a week And i was 14 at the time so i could not go but i can now just give me advice pleaseee

Question: How do I move out ?

Posted: 05 Jul 2017 05:38 PM PDT

im very afraid of my dad. He yells everyday and I think he has deep anger issues. He throws and breaks things and get mad at me and my siblings. I love my mom. I really do love her more than anything but she s not easy. I remember once I asked to go to Chicago to meet a friend i haven t in a long time and kept asking when they said no. I don t think it it s abnormal for teens or kids to get upset when their parents say no and keep asking, but my mom got so mad she beat me with a rolling pin and left about 6 big bruises. She apologized and said she felt bad afterwards but the damage was already done and I had to wear long sleeves AN jeans until the bruises couldn t be seen. im a very messy person but whenever my room was too busy my mom would again take out the rolling pin. But I think mostly it s my dad. I never wanna talk to him and he s made me afraid of failure and marriage as he s bad to my mom too. Regardless I love them. I turn 18 in 2 years and wanna move out. But i don t know how to do that and be financially stable (I plan on college) and also how to keep my relationship w parents. I don t need a lecture or "I had it worse", just advice please