She should try to curb them if she has a tendency to the dramatic.

I been with my SO for almost 5years we have no kids of our own we been trying to concieve with no luck. I have PCOS have a son from previous relationship. Well I just found out he cheated on me a year ago with a family friend all my family knows her. Well girl claims it's my husbands baby. She was living with her boyfriend at the time. Claims she only had sex with him. Baby is 4 months my husband was hiding it from me all this time and avoiding her. He claims he was putting me first and hasn't made no effort to meet his supposedly son. She is ok with a DNA test. My hasband wants no DNA test. But his going to step up to the plate and buy that baby everything he needs(everything she is texting him he needs) she don't wrk never has. Yet he says he don't want to loose me and to forgive him. My son adores him. I love him but don't know if I could get pass it . I haven't made no drama at all haven't even talked to the girl. I found out by text of her telling him I already gave u 4 months I can't do it alone with our son what are u planning to do . And I'm going to have to file for child support and your wife is going to find out that way. I guess I just want to get it out since I been keeping it to my self and haven't told no one. And it's killing me inside literally i feel miserable and like the biggest idiot worst part I haven't been able to have kids with him and I know he wants one.

I am in my late 20s, my bf is mid 30s. We have been together 9 months and things are getting pretty serious. I have been curious lately if he thinks about marrying me someday. I went to his family's reunion this past wknd and was introduced to family and friends. A couple people asked if we are married and he said "nope, not official yet!". I was pleasantly surprised. Should I not get my hopes up? Or should I take his word for it?

She is in a lawsuit. The attorney told her this lawsuit would take one year to complete. She said she cant wait one year to be with him. She loves him. The attorney said she should tell him the situation How does telling him improve the situatikn What does she hope to gain

It's quite a cruel thing to do anyway, if you really think about it. We have each other, we can get a pet, every time our dies. WE will save a tone of money and have much more time for each other and ourselves. I don't need a child to be happy, I just need you. If you feel the same, we don't have to have kids. I love kids cos they are mostly good people and in the last 38 years the only people who don't seem to hate me for no reason, but I never really felt I must or even should have kids. I always felt i should have a husband. We can always change our mind in the next decade and have one, I'm only 29, having your first kid at 40 will be pretty much common practice in ten years... I really will not feel i missed out if we don't have children. I'm leaving it up to you, and for now you are way too young to be a dad, it's bad enough you had to get married at 16.

For our anniversary, I want to set aside some money for us to use on a future vacation. I was wondering if there's a good way to a) present the gift and b) actually set aside the money without just writing her a check? I'd rather there be a way to take it out of my account and have it be somewhere separate but still secure. Thanks!

So my wife is a lawyer. She just recently made partner with the firm. Another guy who work at the firm is constantly complimenting her, asking to buy her lunch but ensures her the relationship is strictly platonic. I trust my wife, but I don't trust him. Along with a few other co-workers my wife and him went out on a lunch-in, and he asked what I did for a living. When she told him telemarketing he made a sly remark about my salary. It offended me and I confronted him. Several month later I lost the job, and he told my wife about his uncles company. He put in a word for me and told my wife to tell me to apply. I did, landed the job. But the worst part of it all is that I had no prior knowledge that it was his uncles company and my position was a favor to my wife. I feel completely betrayed by my wife. She should have never told him I was laid off. She should have never told me to accept a job she knew was a favor from a man who likes her. Me and my wife argued about it and I am not staying in a hotel because I feel like she hurt my pride as a man. Now this man has something to hang over my head and hers. Am I blowing this out of proportion?

My kids dad and I were together for 9 years. He would never propose no matter how much I wanted him to. We have two kids. One is 7 and the other is 5. He's a good father. We were on and off. We fought so much. We would make up and break up. He wouldn't even live with me. He would always mention coparenting. He would take our kids and watch them. We finally broke up around 2 years ago in 2015. He met a new woman shortly after. I found out he proposed yesterday on the holiday to her. He NEVER proposed to me. We had two kids together but he couldn't even marry me. I mean the other woman has big breasts and a bigger butt. She's more curvy. Facially, I'm way prettier than her and I'm more educated with more degrees. I even have a better job than her. She's a security guard making an hourly wage. My ex boyfriend is a sergeant in the police. I mean there's a big difference. I'm 31 and he's 35. She's like 27 or 28. I have 3 or 4 years on her but there's no way she's better than me. Our sons really like her a lot. I am hurt when I logged into Facebook and Instagram. I saw her engagement ring. It was very beautiful and clear. I started crying a lot. He kept telling me we could have a family without being married. He kept saying we didn't have to live together. He could propose to her after a short time but not me? Like how could he treat me when I'm his baby mama? I mean we were even having sex still when he and his fiancee got together. Why didn't he want to marry me?

When I asked her, she was very nervous. Almost confused? My sister and I took a walk together and did some jogging. The landlord was NOT happy, but she has always been stuck up. The rabbit is okay. After we took him to the vet when Tim told me everything was going to be fine and that when we go to the restaurant tomorrow, I should invite her. Then Sarah (that's her name) agreed and now Beth (her sister) is going to call the landlord? Beth and I never got along. After the thanksgiving we had together, things can't be the same again. I shouldn't have gone to the vet and now I think Tim is mad at me because of it. The birdhouse I built for him was suppose to be an apology and he faked a smile and pretended to be happy. I know I ruined everything and things can't be the same with Beth and I anymore. I don't know what's wrong. Sarah keeps telling me that Tim is going to the restaurant alone if I don't go, because then Beth won't go and Sarah would be upset and the landlord would be mad because Beth would call her to complain. I'm just nervous about the birdhouse and if Beth is going to be okay after the divorce with her and his wife. I tried to be normal and I can't pretend to be okay anymore. I love her. He's not fit to run. On Saturday, Beth even bought him new shoes and I don't know what else they did, but when they got back, I could see how upset Sarah was about it. It's like everyone is becoming each others enemies and the landlord only makes it much worse. Please help

Oh, I am not a woman.

Have young kids and do everything as a unit. Wife and I always talk about it, but we afraid to ask ppl to watch our kids. Enough is enough and I need to spend alone time with my wife. What do you think?

Tell your story! How did it work out? Did you get caught? If you don't post your story don't bother answering. I'm looking for fap material.

So I used to be close friend with this girl,we're both from the same country and in our late 20's, and she's kinda shallow and has hard time making her mind. We used to take some classes together , and we'd always talk and she used to say that I'm innocent and easy to talk to. One of my friends ( i consider him an ex friend ) is a player and he started to try to get into her pants. then he started saying that he'd tell her that i love her, to make me look awkward when I'm with her. I noticed that she started to use me to make herself look good to others. She told all those bad guys who are in our school about what I've done for her. she makes it as if she compliments me when in reality they all started viewing me that I'm obsessed with her. I noticed that she shares her hard moments with me while takes her good times to others ,and was ungrateful . So i started distancing myself from her and that player friend who tried to use me to keep her around and talk about me. There is this guy who we're very close.He's a nerd and kinda submissive to girls in an extreme way, and girls use him a lot. He'd keep what girls tell him from you while sharing all your stuff with them. He did that before with him exgf whom humiliated him in every way possible. Now this girl and her player friend became curious why did i cut them , so they started hanging out with him. he hides that from me, but i feel like he believes whatever they tell him about me. I wanna share my side of story. If i start talking about girls from my country he'd have that weird smile and if i ask him why he's smiling he'd say nothing. She doesn't like hm but she's hanging out with him to dig for my imperfections. I feel this close friend is wrong to hide that from me while talking about me to them .If we're on train I'd always catch him looking at me with smile on his face which is very awkward . He also gets jealous if girls are flirting with me then later might make it seem i was flirting with them.

stressed about my marriage and I have no reason to be. With the daily work taking care of kids and the run around back, I am a little bummed. A few days ago wife and I had sex (been a month in a half) and it was great. She then asked me to hold her afterwards as we didn't have kids in the bed. Lol I got a good feeling again that she actually still wants me. However, I guess I know it's rare we get time like that and it makes me think she doesn't want me. I have no reason for this. Any advice as I don't want to mention this to my wife and sound like a baby.

My husband of 10 years says I need to get over and move on in regards to someone talking about me to him or behind my back. And I am meaning like his 3 adult kids, his ex wife. mother and/or sister. He said he would defend me if there was a physical altercation but not words. He states this is my problem not his. Because I am insecure. I feel he should defend me no matter what. Am I wrong?

I've never had sex before and I'm nervous for my husband to be to see me naked because I don't have a beautiful body in my opinion and I won't know what to do. Plus, I heard it hurts. My fiancé is gorgeous and he has been with prettier women in the past. Now I'm going to be completely vulnerable

Replying to another poster's question today about her husband receiving a phone call on his birthday from one of his phone contacts. She didn't know this particular phone contact and she grilled him because he had this person in his phone under just the initials "T W". Apparently this person called once and hung up. The wife thought that was suspicious. She has posted before that men or people in general don't need opposite sex friends cause it leads to other things. First of all I don't know every contact in my girl's phone but I'm sure a number of them are male. I'm not worried about it but is this woman in the other question clueless about people having opposite sex friends in their phone contacts? How do yo go through life thinking that you should only deal people of your own sex? Would it bother you if your partner had contacts in their phone that you didn't know about? Especially of the opposite sex.

Replying to another poster's question today about her husband receiving a phone call on his birthday from one of his phone contacts. She didn't know this particular phone contact and she grilled him because he had this person in his phone under just the initials "T W". Apparently this person called once and hung up. The wife thought that was suspicious. She has posted before that men or people in general don't need opposite sex friends cause it leads to other things. First of all I don't know every contact in my girl's phone but I'm sure a number of them are male. I'm not worried about it but is this woman in the other question clueless about people having opposite sex friends in their phone contacts? How do yo go through life thinking that you should only deal people of your own sex?

Hi, my wife always finds something that I did wrong. She throws a tantrum and when I tell her she is going over board she gets worse. I know she is a mature female with legitimate complaints, but I don't even think about her enough to scrutinize here as much as she does me. Should I be alarmed?

I met my husband in college in Chicago. Our marriage was perfect, I believed in God because of our marriage. My husband and I were very loving and affectionate to each other. Even when I gained weight and had no make up, he would look at me like I was the most beautiful thing in the world. Then, his mother in Miami said we could live with her and she would help babysit our child. My husband said we could even have date nights where she babysits and she can help out if I get pregnant with baby number 2. My mother in law has directly taken dinner from me telling me to diet and commenting if I want acne medication for my face. My husband even started to look at me like I was ugly and told me to lose weight. We are always together, there is no other woman, but he doesn't even smile the way he used to at me. He even told me last Saturday he doesn't love me anymore. His mom is bipolar and I thought she would be okay with her medication, but she is also a headache and I have not had one date night here and she doesn't babysit. He even denies ever being happier and more loving to me in Chicago. Once we fought, and he called my mother and told her to take me back in Chicago. I got mad because we are married and he was going to stay with his mom instead of going with me. Finally he said he would think about going to Chicago with me. What do I do? Do you think he will go back to the man I married if we go back to Chicago or stay a jerk like this? He is 31 years old.

I blame myself for my marriage/relationship to my ex husband failing badly. He has depression and I called him a loser and abuse him.

My ex husband and I have 2 kids together and I m married and have 2 kids with my husband we currently live with my in laws and let s just say it is not easy and my ex and his new wife offered us to come stay with them until I get my own place because I just got a new job and it s going to be a little while till I have enough money I want to do what is right for my kids and co-parenting is a great idea but I don t know if it is a good idea to do just need advice.

My wife is 5 months pregnant with our third child (another boy !!!). We had a neighborhood bbq yesterday for the the 4th, and someone brought beers. My wife believes I have a problem with controlling myself at a party/gathering like that. I drink too much; that I need to be more responsible because of our kids. Now she's not speaking to me at all. She's giving me the silent treatment, claiming that I was flirting with another woman right in front of her. She's 5 months pregnant for Christ's sake...I don't need to flirt; obviously things are amazing between us. We've only seen this woman not more than 3 times (she's friends with one of our neighbors). It was also our neighbor's birthday, which is why she stopped by and of course, they invited her to join us for the bbq. Our daughter will be 4 soon and is still potty training. My wife told her to come to me next time she wanted to use the potty, since my wife was so exhausted from running around with the kids (apparently, I wasn't doing a good enough job keeping them out of trouble). Her accusations are ridiculous! I don't need to flirt with anyone. I have a beautiful, amazing wife who puts up with all my sh*t (altho I think it's a bit harsh to say I have a problem). I know I'm not perfect, but I do my best to provide for our family and help her when I can. I don't know what to do...this is so ridiculous. She usually asks when I need to stay with the kids alone while she goes out to do something she can't take them. This time she tells me, "You're watching the kids on Sat." When I asked her what she was doing, all she responded with was that she has to take care of something. I have a feeling it's to go see a movie she's been begging me to take her to. Is this punishment for this "flirting" I supposedly did? After 2 kids already, I know she's very, very emotional and extremely cranky when she's tired. Even if I was--not saying I wasn't--I don't remember. I lost count of how many beers I had, but by her silent treatment this morning, I know something must've happened. Yes, she gets POed when I drink too much, but she's usually okay in the morning after a good night's sleep. I've learned that when she's quiet like this, she's super POed. She didn't even say bye to me this morning.

Yesterday was my husband's 48th birthday and we had a nice cookout for him at our house. All day long he was replying to messages on Facebook about his birthday and well wishes from his friends. Even gotten quite a few text messages too. Late yesterday evening his phone was on ore bed and he was in the kitchen cleaning up. It rung once and when I looked down at it all I that was there were the initials "T W". When I asked him who T W was he said just a friend. I immediately went into 20 question mode. "Who is she? Where do you know her from? Is she on your Facebook?" He got really defensive like "it's just an old friend and she was probably calling to say happy birthday. I don't know all the contacts in your phone or all the friends on your Facebook account. Why are you making such a big deal about it?" I've just learned that when a person just saves initials in their phone that pretty much means they're up to something . Plus, she only let it ring once then hung up. He said they haven't spoken in a while and she didn't even leave a message. He said she probably butt dialed him then realized it and hung up. He mentioned that his brother has butt dialed him several times in the past few weeks and then just hung up. Do you or should you know all the contacts in your spouse's phone? Should I be optimistically cautious about this?

The reason why I ask is because I know some people who have large number of children because they believe that birth control is sinful. They even believe that the natural form of birth control is sinful because it has the same intentions.

However when we do we make the best of it and the night ends up having sex. Few nights ago while kids stayed the night at grandparents she said "take your pants off" as soon as we got home. I know once a month is not a lot, but with young kids, busy schedule and 1 child sleeping in our room it's tough. It's a phase and I know we will get busy again soon. Wondering if I should be sad like others ?

Recently my wife hacked into my phone and read my journal. I feel this is a violation of privacy, married or not, I think everyone is allowed their own thoughts. I mean are people really to give up their own personal thoughts they keep to themselves? I feel I can't trust my wife anymore.

to each other is an area that needs improvement. I've admitted to myself that I am lacking here and need help. I have a best friend that I work with and hang out with very often. He is a great friend. He comes over my house to hang out with me and play with my kids. We share a lot of things. My wife has said to me that I do not tell her anything and my friend knows more about me than she does. There are certain things that my wife wouldn't be interested in or it's a guy question, so I do not let her know. I want my wife to feel like she is #1 as she is, but I obviously have a poor way of showing it. Suggestions? Thx!

I'm around 5 inches, I'm worried it'll loosen her up too much

I know so many elderly couples, who have been married since they were 20 or 21. Childhood sweethearts, been happily married and devoted to each other for years. In my generation, 20 and 21 year olds barely have relationships lasting longer than few years. And if they do get married young, what follows is a divorce with the excuse "shouldn't have got married young" Why do you think this has changed?

The past week, we went on a family trip and had a great time. We also got a night out by ourselves which ended up with intamacy and snuggling afterwards. With 2 kids, 1 who sleeps in our bed for now because of a certain medical issue, I rarely get infancy or to even hold my wife in bed. I probably sound like a baby, but I want more time with my wife. I miss what we had a few nights ago. I m afraid to say something b/c we were not that couple that discussed mushy things. Any suggestions?

How often do you have sex? Do you wish you had sex more? Is applicable, what is the reason you don't have enough sex? Does your spouse spend enough time with you? What is 1 thing you wish your spouse did more of (housework, help with kids, date night, etc) Do you have kids under the age of 13, currently?

How could she do this to me...