Due to her above average body/appearance and aura of confidence and knowing what she wants and how she can see through to your soul just by looking in your eyes.

First of all, I am not LDS, but I have a question about that faith. If two LDS people get married in the Temple for time and eternity, and the husband dies, is the wife permitted to get married again? My understanding is that if the wife dies, the husband can get married again, because even though he is still married to the deceased wife, polygamy for a man is okay, so long as only one of his wives is living. On the other hand, if the husband dies, the wife is stuck, because she is married for eternity to dead husband, and women are not allowed to engage in polygamy. Is my understanding correct?

does this mean that separation is the 1st step of his marriage being over? Or does people separate because they can afford marriage?, or can u only be separated for a certain time and then have to get a divorce? He asked me out on other date but I said I'm not sure.

How do you know if a man is unhappy in his marriage? This guy I knew seemed unhappy but sometimes you can't go by that. He used to make fun of her and hated when she came around. Anytime she did he flirted with me. People knew he liked me and he never told anybody he was married. He would tell his wife on FB that she kept things interesting but then would Nash her behind her back. So I don't understand

supposedly it's when the man finds another woman, either with or without his wife's help, and brings her around the wife to humiliate the wife, and they're like, me and the mistress are better than you! The other woman is called the cuckcake. Yet I would think, it would be much more desirable to have the the husband and wife team up, find another submissive woman as their cuckcake, and both humiliate her with the idea of this is the ultimate guy and I'm his ultimate woman and you better show him and both of us, some respect, you filthy submissive slave! What I want to know is: what's that called? Cause no matter how much I look I can't find a name. Or does it simply fall into the category of "women ain't goin for that yet!"

and by successful, i mean no cheating. ive been with my husband for 5 years now, and he has driven me crazy every single year. some days he gets upset by everything, and he tells me how im a piece of sh@@t, literally, despite me supporting him through all his madness and leaving behind dreams to take care of him. he recently started acting bored by me and everything, and i ask him whats wrong. he gets angry by the questions since he says i ask them all the time, but his behavior is terrible ALL THE TIME. I honestly dont know how other ppl with bpd spouses deal with it. can you acutally have a successful marriage? or will it always be filled with this agony that he causes me more than not?

I mean for the sake of the kids. She's not my friend. I hate her guts.

So I'm getting married soon, and me and my wife don't want to take each other last names, but we both are willing to take on a new name for the sake that we can share a last name. I was wondering if anyone out here could name us.We're open to just about any suggestions, it doesn't have to have a meaning, but if it does that's a plus. Me: Antonio Dupree _______ Her: Sarah Elisabeth ________ Mr. &Mrs, ________

I really love her so much. We don't have to have sex if that is incest. I just want to be married to her so she can do things she did when I was little like snuggle with me or tuck me in at night. I miss her gently rubbing my four head and telling me stories of how bad my Dad is.

So I want to divorce from my husband but when I do that..can I take my children with me to another city?

My husband and I got married too quickly and I made a mistake. He's an alcoholic and says mean things about my past and even threatens divorce when he's drinking. Lately he's been lying straight to my face more about his drinking and I've had enough. I feel like I've fallen out of love with him because he can't respect me and basically treats me like trash. I know he will not stand for divorce but idk how I should go about things since he doesn't take anything well and is over dramatic about everything. Please help. We have no kids or assets together.

I was married to my husband for 12 years and loved him very much. I was grieving a lot after he died. I thought it was time to move on with my life and I started dating 3 weeks after his death. What does she want me to do wear black for the rest of my life

They want to spend one on one time with me and it's just there's no desire for a serious relationship. Some are married already

My fiance and I have been together for 8 1/2 years. We work opposite shifts and the only time we get to see each other is on the weekend. His best friends lives 3 blocks away and him and his girlfriend are at our house almost every weekend. They will spend the night and completely overstay their welcome. He gave them a key to our house without asking me. On the weekend we will be sleeping and they come into our house and wake us up. They come and go as they please, even when we are not home. There have been instances where they have spent the night and have continued to stay at our house after my fiance left for work. They ended up leaving 10 minutes before I got home from work. (I know this because we have a home security camera) I have brought all of this up to my fiance and he doesn't seem to have an issue with it. I also feel like they try to purposely keep him away from me by planning things on the weekend. I have gotten to the point where I will stay home alone and let them do what they want because I feel awkward when I tag along. His friends are TOO involved. Also whenever I ask him to help with cleaning or fixing up our house so we can sell it eventually, he "forgets" or just won't help me. I am so extremely frustrated. I have thought about just leaving for a weekend and not telling him where I am going just to get away from everything. I feel so abandoned and lonely in my relationship.

My wife is philipino. We dated for about two months before i suggested we get married. Well i thought afterwards maybe it was a bad idea. But i cintinued with it anyways. I started thinking about it so much i grew to like the idea. She seemed like a very nice girl and i knew i could make it work. She still to this day is fine. She has her moments but to some degree we all have moments. Well i proposed in vegas and we got married. I love her now but didnt then. But as our marriage has continued ive realized we may not have been ready. I was in and out of jobs and lived with my parents. She moved in with me at my parents and she would have a nervous break down because of stress because of money and because she felt bad for not contributing. So we eneded up moving from florida because i couldnt find work. We flew to los angeles and now are staying with her step mother. She still has her breakdowns from time to time some times. But it comes in waves. She has been getting worse. Last month she said she wanted to go back home to the philipines because she was misserable being in the US. And she said she misses being out with her friends doingnsingle stuff. I was able to talk her in to staying with me and she seems happy still. But i couldnt help but realize i feel the same way. I miss being single and i want to be again. But indo love her a lot. I just think we wernt ready for this. Should i divorce her and talk to her about this? I feel traped these past few day and need avice.

My parents have been divorced for quite some time now, and my dad left me years ago, and I feel like it was mom's fault this happened. They used to fight a lot, and my dad used to have a drinking problem. One day, my mom said a remark about my dad, and I fought back by saying "Well, at least my dad's still alive!" My stepdad has kids in England, but his b****y ex won't let them come to America to see them. I also watched two and a half men with that Judith character getting alimony from Alan, and it made me think, should I hate on the mother or hate on the father for it? And which one suffers more in a divorce? the ex-wife or the ex-husband?

My husband cosigned a car for his ex wife while they were married. They have since been divorced and the decree gave him responsibility of the car.. during the temporary orders the judge ordered him to give full access to the ex until divorce was settled. She took his VA, retirement and work paychecks all out of the bank and he has been playing catchup with all of his bills ever since the divorce was finalized. She has been uncooperative in signing over the power of attorney to him so that he can sell the car. The car is up for repossession. Can he sell the vehicle using the divorce decree or what options does he have so that this wont ruin his credit even more? Update: Listen ladies.. I am just asking to help my husband make the best decision possible. I don't need any judging comments or bitter ex wives trying to take their situations out on me. Thank you!

She'll be teaching Gender Studies courses. I guess we never know who we are taking to on GS board.

to be truly vulnerable (where you are not where I think you need to be) I did not leave room for you to be imperfect cos compared to most people, John, you are pretty perfect. I mean you've heard Jordan, look round, look at other people and you will realise that in comparison to most you're a genius/Tarzan/Spartan warrior. Looking at all that strength and beauty I forgot that thing that most geniuses forget about themselves, even you are sometimes wrong, or capable of ugly things. That you can and should be weak where you are, cos that's the only way to strengthen that bit of you...That you are flawed and thank God for that...How would i reveal my flawed self to a perfect man... I'm sorry. I am too critical of you, but not cos I think less of you than of most people, it's cos I think there's you, few spaces empty and then the best people we know (like Adrian). What I mean to say is, he has 30 year on you but I don't he's stronger or more intelligent or more mature in general, i don't think anyone comes close to you in any way. Which is wrong, it's OK if Adrian is better than you in some ways, it's not a competition, I love you. You're my husband. It's OK if you have things you're bad at and you're weak when it comes too. I always say you shouldn't be too hard on yourself, but all this while I was much too harsh on you, I'M SORRY.

My husband is a trucker and has worked Sunday through Tuesday and has been off the last few days. He sits on his computer playing video games or watches tv, letting the kids tear up as I am behind them cleaning. I work weekends and I suspect he will be just as lazy when I work as well. I have asked him to cut the grass and he refuses saying it is too hot- what can I do?

Hi there.Long story short my husband and I have been married for 7 1/2 months.Together for 7 years.This is our second time being separated and living apart.Of course I want to reach out to him, but he's said he's going to file for divorce although he hasent yet.This is the fourth week since I moved out again willingly. (Doesnt make sense to live with a man who wants a divorce).We have no kids or morgage. We just share a dog together.We attend the same childhood church in which we got married in.Recently while at church we sat apart making it look obvious we have major issues.My husband doesn't want to goto counseling.He did reach out twice regarding our dog and about watering my plants of all things...any thoughts on what should my next move be?It's been 18 days since I heard from him.

My spouse has an ex from her previous marriage whom she shares a child with. I dont care much for the guy mainly because I dont respect him even though I am nice to his face for the kids sake. He's a crappy dad who has passed his responsibilities as a father off to my wife and I and he's also very sneaky and I dont trust for several reasons I won't go into. My wifes parents who are divorced still hang out a lot together. They also fight a lot when they hang out. Id rather not be hanging out with my wifes ex husband unless necessary (functions concerning their child). Is this normal? My wife seems to think I should be more willing to hang out with him just so we all get to know one another. I would rather not do this and she's made me out to be the bad guy for this reason.

I was talking to a friend who said his wife thinks that if you even think about other women it's cheating. So what is cheating in your opinion? Is it looking at another woman or man, chatting with someone of the opposite sex, or is porn or masturbating to porn cheating? Personally I am happily married and really don't do anything I mentioned. However I don't believe that masturbation is cheating. Checking out other women or chatting with wome to me is inappropriate

I can't get my husband to appologize for an argument even when the whole thing is his fault. I sometimes appologize for the argument even when it was not my argument.

There is this married women...she was a stay at home mother with a little business on the side. She been married for 10 years. She is unhappy in the marriage as the husband neglects her and the kids. she had to get a job at to support the family. We meet at her job as i was a customer and we just talked as friends for a few months. Now things kinda went to friends to me having an affair with her. She told me that she is afraid to leave her marriage because she wouldn't be able to support her kids on her own and that she doesn't want to rely on the other people. She said that she doesn't want to not be able to provide for the kids. Well things have gotten pretty heated between us with this affair. She told me she is fallen in love with me. she looked at me and told me that she doesn't cheat.. but when you are unappreciated and neglected for so long things change and you just don't want to be there anymore. She told me what her husband makes and the situation. i told her that i wasn't going to be her meal ticket that her husband makes more than me.She said she isn't looking for a handout she just wants to be happy and have an equal partner. This all sounds so good, but she is always goes home to him.. she just tells me to hang on and she doesn't want to make the same mistake by rushing into things. I tell her it isn't about rushing into things that i want a normal relationship with her and stop hiding. She tells me to hang in there cause this a big change for me and she wants to make sure we both are sure. Our relationship doesn't have much sex in it now, but a lot of passion. She acts like the perfect girl. We try to keep it on the download but people around can see her glow every time she looks at me…. I know this is wrong and she needs to be single…. I know that if she is a cheater she may do it again. I understand she has kids to think about and that doesn't bother. I just want to know is she will leave… I've asked and she says we are still getting to know each other… but how when we can't spend time together. I have a set time in mind if she doesn't make a move I'll walk away, but in the meantime. How do I know she is serious? What things should I look for that she is playing me a fool? Judge me and call me an idiot but looking for honesty answer for the question above. i want to walk away if there is signs she isn't serious about us.

1. She is not a hand holder and says we dont do that and always laughs b/c we joked and thought it was weird. We were at an amusement park while kids were with friends and we got an hour break. She reached out to hold my hand. 2. We actually got a night out to ourselves. Had a great time with friends and when we got home SHE initiated sex. Since we didn't have a child in our bed that night, she asked me to hold her in bed. After that night I started feeling sadness b/c I miss these times where it's just us. My question is since she doesn't discuss this stuff, but from what I mentioned it seems like she still wants closeness at times? Thoughts?

My boyfriend and I are both 24 and We have been together for almost 5 years, but he is starting to drift away. He believes in building a "foundation" outside of the bedroom. He likes to read dumb to "improve himself" he thinks I'm stupid for buying a house when I had only 40k college debt and I think he's an idiot for renting an apartment, for two years when a mortgage is cheaper and not building equity. He says "a house is not an investment in most cases and I'm not stable enough to afford a 100k house" He is no longer adventurous and he's becoming a boring guy. He reminds me of my grandfather always preparing for the future He thinks because he has a 138 Iq he's the authority on life and its annoying. . -_- should I just dump him. He just can't keep up with my lifestyle. I want to live right now! Tomorrow is not promised!!

My boyfriend and I are both 26 and have been together a year and a half. Since we started dating I have always struggled with insecurity but the other night we had a conversation that my only made me insecurity 100X worse. He made a remark during casual conversation such as "if i get married one day" this kind of bothered me since I do have hopes and dreams to get married one day and we have never talked about the future. He started out by saying he didn't mean anything by it but i was still visibly upset. After some time he dropped the bomb of "I don't know if i ever want to get married." He assured me that he loved me and that he can see the potential for a future with me and that is has nothing to do with me personally he just doesnt know if marriage with anyone in general is for him. He said the only reason he has given thought to this is because he sees me as marriage material. At this point I was beside myself in tears and nothing was resolved this day because I could not pull myself together. The next day we talked a little more and agreed that we would stay together and had told him there was no pressure for marriage in the near future but I do want to be a wife someday even if it we do get married in our 30's. In which he responded "well hopefully early 30's" giving me a glimmer of hope...since then hes said subtle things like when i was joking about him wanting to have my babies he said "not yet" I feel confused? Should I leave? what is with this?

We have 2 kids and we want 1 more. My biggest fear is we drift apart. We go out rarely and kids probably spend the nights elsewhere a few times a year. When they do, we go out with friends, have a great time, and YES my wife actually initiates sex. Makes me feel wanted again. I want more of this and more often. With young children I know our sex life will decline, but it's a phase. I'm more interested in staying connected and having conversations while not giving the kids a bath. We have never really talked about this and for some reason I feel embarrassed. I know she is happy with our little family. I am happy, but I miss her. I want to tell her this, but I'm afraid it will make me look week. I don't know how to express these feelings. I have been keeping them bottled up, but it keeps hurting me. Thx for the tips

It s vacation time and I saved money for a year to buy my kids ticket to travel to America for testing summer. My husband says my son isn t going because he didn t make the 90 s average in school and he s waiting on my daughter s results to see if she made the 84 average b4 we buy our tickets. The truth is we as the parents both live busy lives so I can t blame the kids if they didn t do well in school because we didn t help them as we should. But they are not dumb kids they r naturally bright so if they score 80 on their own it should be acceptable. He doesn t see it that way. I feel like buy tickets for myself n my kids n leave him behind. What say you?

My wife doesn't appreciate my comedic genius. Others were in on it. She's been pouting for a whole day now. What if deep down you aren't sorry because it was just too funny not to do? Say sorry anyways? Fake sorry? I could try.