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I am a middle-aged attractive woman. I met a nice man on a date site who keeps corresponding with me almost daily. He is a nice guy and he has a cute face but unfortunately he is a little overweight to the point where it's almost obese. I'm not shallow but I do think that weight matters to a degree. Should I mention to the man about losing weight or should I say sorry I am not attracted/interested?

I'm developing a crush on a guy I've met a few times, he likes me too...but he's not my type, and not what I'm looking for at all. I've made from not-so-wise choices in men (nothing terrible, just guys who I wasn't mean to be with), I'd like my next relationship to be a good one, so I don't want to get caught-up with this crush. But my heart is a ******* idiot and I'm too easily lead by my feelings, plus I find it hard to know when to call an end to relationships too. I know I should have more control, but it's not always that easy with these things. We'll both be out with a group of people on Saturday, I'm worried I'll get too caught-up on him showing interest again just to be disappointed if that doesn't happen or if he doesn't show - I'd rather just be able to enjoy the night without it hinging on this ridiculous little crush, it's ridiculous to be this way so early on but I am.

I am a 13 year old guy. I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost a month and she now wants to break up with me like what the f*ck? I can do a quadruple backflip, front flip and even side flip on the trampoline landing them every single time I try and can do a double backflip on the ground and a triple on a mattress almost on the ground. I can almost land quintruple flips on the trampoline perfectly. I actually was able to do it once. I live in a huge house and am super rich. I might be only 4'9" but I am a complete savage and I am super f*cking hot and fit as f*ck like other girls older than me want to touch my body and they flirt with me and I always wear a baseball cap and have dirty blonde medium short hair with no flaws because I am flawless yet my girlfriend told me she rather date a lame, mediocre guy than me. She says that I just use her, don't truly love her and too cocky and irrogant and she is popular at school, super hot I mean why else would I want to date her. Why doesn't she feel the same for me. I am hot, talented, rich and the most popular guy in my town. Please tell me why she don't want to date a hot guy like me.

I have a coworker buddy that's like the sweetest guy I've met. He got cheated on by his ex. Her ex works with us and when I heard, I felt sad. He was sad and didn't talk to anybody. He saw me slip and fall. He helped me up and actually carried me to a chair. He ran and brought me ice. He applied it to my arm which hurt the most. He brought me medicine and cold water. He stayed with me to make sure I was okay. He and I talked and I told him I was sorry about what happened. He said it wasn't my fault. He later brought me coffee and asked if I was feeling better. I smiled and told him he was being sweet. A lot of girls like that he's sweet. We all heard about how he got cheated on and we've been nasty to his ex.

I feel super embarrassed about this because literally all of my friends are dating someone or have dated someone, and I just haven't gotten to it. I spend nearly all of my time studying or doing internships or volunteering, that I haven't really found time to have an actual boyfriend even though I've been asked twice before. Is there something wrong with me? Is it weird that right now I don't really want one?

There was a girl that I go to school with that posted on an instagram story to add her on Snapchat. I figured I would and added her and she added me back within 10 seconds. Now a day after that, she snapped me a random selfie of her. I responded and then she was like oh I know you and sent about 2 more snaps and then left me on read lol does this mean anything?

Okay so I am a 13 year old guy. I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost a month now and she now wants to break up with me. I mean I am hotter than any guy out there. Why the f*ck would she want to break up with me. I am also skinny (fit), hair isn't too short or long. I am 4'10" but I still got the looks and I can do quadruple flips on a trampoline and can land it every time and can almost do a perfect quintruple flip on it and landed one once. Girls older than me come up to me and tell me I am hot and they be flirting with me. I am also super fast, very popular in school; in fact, I am the most popular person around my town. I got so much to offer but my girlfriend says I am too cocky and that I am using her. She said that she rather be with a lame mediocre guy than someone super hot and rich like me like bruh why the f*ck is she wanting to break up with me. I am the best boyfriend a girl could ask for. My skills and looks are on fire.

Hey i so I m 15 and currently have a thing with this guy. We have been talking for quite a while and we have hungout once. I had a lot of fun, he s funny, cute, and me and him really clicked. We did hook up though which I m okay with but i feel like he s also the type to go kinda fast. He s done a lot more things than i have. He s been asking me quite a lot lately to hangout, literally everyday. Most of the time i can t but sometimes i just don t want to. I feel like i like him so i don t know why i wouldn t want to. Maybe I m to scared? i don t know but i need advice.0

I let him go peacefully and wished him happiness. I know I treated him well and we were friends first but out of respect for that I forgave him and let go (he didn't apologize nor did I ask him to) I never reach out to him. He still contacts me every month or two and is now trying to rub his relationship in my face. what do you think is going on with him? We have some mutual friends. I never speak bad about him. I just say we are giving each other space. He knows he hurt me. What is the point of making me feel bad. Usually, he will ask me for a favor, like email some files, I do it I am cordial but not in his business and then he asks if I want to hang out with him and another ex girlfriend of his. Why would I do that? When he reached out the first few months after the breakup he was nice now it seems he wants to get a reaction. We are in the same small profession (but don't work together) and have mutual friends or else I would have stopped replying already but I am at that point. Thanks for your perspective!

I truly care for my gf. I'm a firm believer that your past is your past and I'm not one to judge for having multiple partners. However, she recently admitted to having 40+ partners. I was really taken aback and although I want to be with her it's hard to forget something like that. It makes me think that since she's been with so many people what we have isn't even special. Tips/advice?

Do girls who date very fit guys feel pressured to stay in better shape themselves?

I met this girl last week and we became extremely close and I can t tell if she likes me, my friends think she likes me. But she rarely ever takes pics of her face on snapchat. Only the things around her she snaps. I even have complimented her a lot on how pretty she is and she still doesn t snap her face. Like I can barely remember what she looks like now since she lives far away and we never see each other. Why do they do this? Does she like me? Is she insecure and is just wondering what i will think about her?

Im 15 and ive been dating my gf for 5 months now so we know each other pretty well. Her parents are strict so they barely let her go out on a date with me until now. My gf is scared to kiss me so we never kiss. We saw a movie and i felt like i should have kissed her but i didnt. We talked and laughed a lot and i had my hand on her thigh and she was really close to me but i felt like i went wrong by not kissing her. She didnt say anything about that but i feel like i disappointed her. Am i overreacting?

ok so we have been friends for a while now but it's like a group friendship. him, my other friends, and me. we're all friends so i never really talk to him alone. but he took me somewhere once and we were there for a couple of hours and i really got to know the guy and ever since then i caught feelings for him. that time we hung out, it was such a perfect mood for a kiss, but it didnt happen i guess? i wouldve reached out to kissed him but i chickened out. ok so months pass and im not really sure he's into me or not but oh well. so i last week i finally got to hang out with him but with one of our other friends and it was soooo fun until it was about to be over but he wanted to kiss me? and i couldnt tell if he was being serious or not. like he was giving hints the whole time we were hanging out that he wanted to kiss, but im a fool lmao. so sadly, our friend pushed us to kiss and HE WaS SO BAD oh my gid,. ok i feel so bad about this but he put his tongue EVERYwhere in my ******* mouth.. he was pretty much cleaning my teeth with his tongue and it was just a horrible kiss. i think i made him feel bad but we did it again and he was kissing really badly again so i STARTED LAUGHING during the kiss and i stg im such a ***** i feel so bad but anyways we each all said our goodbyes and went home. then he said he wanted to do it again so luckily he's not mad or anything, but what should i do? like, im pretty sure that was his first ******* kiss