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- Question: Where to make new friends? Do you have similar interests as mine?
- Question: Roommate situation, best option?
- Question: No friends, no family, no childhood?
- Question: Am I too serious for my age?
- Question: Since my sister is bad am I right to assume her friends are bad?
- Question: What do you call racist and bigotry that what Susan place chat says about I want tell people how feel rather you get it are not just listen?
- Question: Friend problems or more?
- Question: How to make more friends?
- Question: What should I do when a person who owes me money won t pay me back?
- Question: Im 13 and I have had no friends for months I hate being lonely while watching everyone else have fun in there group of friends I dont fit in?
- Question: Are the ones I tend to criticize moreharshly more likely to be my true friends than the ones I don't bother to criticize?
- Question: Should I be upset about this or am I over reacting?
- Question: What if an ex wants to get back together but you just want to be friends?
- Question: It's my birthday and I wanna invite guests?
- Question: How to change attitude problems?
- Question: I'm tired of living. Help?
- Question: Cant delete comment on instagram.?
- Question: I like my friends girlfriend?
- Question: Why does my friend side with my enemies?
- Question: How do I meet new people here in the city?
- Question: What should I do about this one sided friendship?
- Question: Why he only misses me a little..?
- Question: Should I put it away??
- Question: How to make freinds I have no freinds?
- Question: Do you have a muslim friend or do you accept any muslim friends ? please mention your country !!?
- Question: How can I move on with life and get over friends who've hurt/left me?
- Question: I hate my friend?
- Question: What to do about harassment?
- Question: My friend became overly religious and it's kind of getting to me?
- Question: Friendship drama? Party question?
- Question: Should I still be friends with her?
- Question: Am I pathetic to still be living my with parents at mid-30's?
- Question: I sometimes feel like the bad outweighs the good as far as having friendships?
- Question: My friends always bail on me!?
- Question: My friend is being rly anoying, what do I do?
- Question: I just feel like breaking down and crying right now :( how can I stop this feeling?
- Question: Why is my best friend acting like this?
- Question: Why is it difficult for me to be open with people?
- Question: PLZ HELP MY FRIEND IS SCARING ME?
- Question: Did I do the wrong thing?
- Question: I think my roomates who are in a relationship ship might be brothers?
- Question: Hello im a girl and im a loner , i have friend but i prefer to be alone , am i wierd ??
| Question: Where to make new friends? Do you have similar interests as mine? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 05:31 PM PDT I'm 22. I'm always left friendless. Which srsly started to depress me NOW. I look at other people around me and they have their besties. Most of my ex friends ended up finding someone better. They weren't all that good for me neither. Nobody asks me to hang out. I've asked acquaintances and even if they rly liked me usually don't got time to hangout. I understand. What can I do when they already have their priorities and that's not me. I know my qualities. I am an excellent friend. I think the key to long term friendship is finding someone with similar interests. I find it especially hard to find a GF alike myself. I love male friends but avoid them bcs they can't control their hormones. Do you have similar interests? I love: Makeup, Fashion, 70's: Classic/Hard Rock, R'n'R, Heavy Metal, Video Games, Batman, Star Wars, TWD, adore good Movies, Animals, Art, Gigs, Philosophy, I believe in LOA.....etc etc etc |
| Question: Roommate situation, best option? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 05:24 PM PDT So I roomed with "Girl A" my sophomore year & she was the best roommate I've ever had. We were going to get an apartment together junior year but I made a last minute decision to sign my lease and ended up with a different roommate, a HORRIBLE one! "Girl A" also ended up with two HORRIBLE roommates! So now, senior year, we coincidentally ended up being paired again together! The only thing is, she joined a sorority & this past summer it seems like she has company over 24/7! I don't mind company but sometimes I do enjoy peace & quiet. She's also in the sorority that I was hoping to join this upcoming year. But today they "accidentally" assigned me another girl who I do not know. I'm not sure if this is a sign that I shouldn't room with "Girl A" or what. My friend told me that I should room with her again because we're already close & have a lot of common interests, but then again as I said she's apparently turned into a VERY social person. So what do you guys think? Should I room with her again being that her and I get along so well? Or do you think that I should stick with the other girl that I don't know (with the risk of going through roommate problems again) ? |
| Question: No friends, no family, no childhood? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 05:04 PM PDT I grew up with an abusive father, & my mother wouldn't let me do anything that kids were normally doing my age. I'm an only child, really shy, & I have social anxiety. I couldn't leave my home, I couldn't do what I wanted with myself, I couldn't have pets..all I could do was sit up in my room & be on my electronics as the years went on. That's all I did. All I still do. All I could do was go to school & watch the other children. It really hit me when my bf was talking about his friends from elementary school & how he was going out with them & it hit me when he was spending all day with them every day. We are long distance so it's hard as is. But my bf has family, he has friends, his parents aren't divorced, he's got siblings & pets..I'm jealous. I don't want a sibling, never have. But I think of all this & it hurts because I realize he's had these friends for years & they've done all this stuff together & gone places & I realize I'm just the lonely gf with no hobbies..no life. If I ever were to be introduced to his friends..I'm the odd girl out. I wish things were different. But when I think of different in the present..I think, "why?" Like why now? Why so late? They won't be childhood friends. I won't have anything to get back those wasted years I was locked up in my room. I feel I really missed out. I feel he's really lucky & it hurts sometimes because I feel he has everything that I wanted to have, & lots of others. I guess I need advice or just someone to talk to me. |
| Question: Am I too serious for my age? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 04:58 PM PDT I m 19 turning 20 and have just completed maybe first year at university. I don t drink (even though 18 is the legal drinking age in my country) smoke or do drugs and doubt I ever will. I hate the whole drunken nightclub/party scene. I m a virgin and don t really believe in having sex unless it s with someone you truly love and have known for a long long time. When you re a person like me in uni, it s hard to make friends and fit in - I m not antisocial - I love sport and music and a good laugh and I work hard to get good grades but I feel like none of these qualities matter at uni... All conversations seem to lead to people bragging about how drunk the were last night or pointing out the hickey they got from some random guy they ll probably never see again. I try not to be judgemental but it s really hard not to be when I really disapprove of this behaviour. Sometimes I feel like I m the only sensible person in the college apart from a few others who also aren t into drinking an things, but these people aren t particularly socialable - but I am, I just don t agree with the drunken college lifestyle that most of my peers adhere to. What should I do? Should I just lighten up and stop being so serious or just accept that uni will not be the happiest years of my life and hope that as people grow older, they ll be more like me? |
| Question: Since my sister is bad am I right to assume her friends are bad? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:58 PM PDT She has lots of friends but is a bad person |
| Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:44 PM PDT I should be heard when say that black people show hate to one Another you look at my family I come from dysfunctional split up family Nobody get along My on family members don't call me I don't have friends I am telling my truth they call me special need for get that I am not special and I don't have need I do but not being meet |
| Question: Friend problems or more? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:36 PM PDT Lately I've been feeling like none of my friends like me. It's so frustrating because I try, I go out of my way to comfort them, and they don't do the same. They still like their other friends more yet their friends don't do anything I try to do. I've literally had a pretty good friend say that they had a #1 and #2 best friend and guess what. I wasn't one or two. It's like if something happened they wouldn't even care. I try so hard and I'm still the friend they don't like. I've never had a best friend and I don't know why. Please no rude comments, I'm feeling kinda low. |
| Question: How to make more friends? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:04 PM PDT I have like 10 friends but I only hang out with like 4 friends. Any tips to make more friends? I like basketball, soccer, and video games. |
| Question: What should I do when a person who owes me money won t pay me back? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 01:46 PM PDT So I am at fault at this too okay so don t judge me. I met a friend online we talked and met a lot and then a nice stupid person like me was hesitant to buy him stuff and give money for something important. Incident1- Buy him screen replacement which was 30.85 Incident2- Buy him Pizza Hut cause hungry and alone $20.08 Incident3- Begged me $40 for his mom needing medication 😓 He asked me if i can western union him and so i did because i was stupid for being too kind Western Union fee was 4.99 so in total he owess me 95.92 and he just blocked me on every social media pls need money back! Help Talked to his mom promised to repay me but she seems like a lier giving me different days making excuses |
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| Question: Should I be upset about this or am I over reacting? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 01:05 PM PDT Okay so I was texting my friend on Snapchat and then we were talking about going to the gym and then she just opened my snap and didn't reply at all so after the next day I decided to message her again inviting her to StarBucks again she never answered me Should I be upset about this and should I cut her off ? What should I do ? I need advice |
| Question: What if an ex wants to get back together but you just want to be friends? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 11:59 AM PDT An ex desperately asking you to give the relationship a shot but you moved on after he disappeared and he apologies that but the feeling I had for him is gone. I told him we can be friends because he helps out with the grief of loss my family had years ago. But I don't want a relationship with him so I am trying to be nice. What to do? He thinks there is possibilities of us getting back together |
| Question: It's my birthday and I wanna invite guests? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 11:42 AM PDT I have a huge birthday coming up in a month, and I want to do a boat party. For this boat party to succeed I neeed to inveite 35 people and they need to pay 25 dollars each! Is it cheeky to invite them to my birthday party on the bot and make them pay? The money will go to food, drinks and the ride! |
| Question: How to change attitude problems? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 09:23 AM PDT My two best friends have been telling me i have very bad attitude problems and it really makes me upset. i never realize what i say until they actually tell me ... i feel really bad about myself and feel bad for my friends for what they've put up with . how can i change my attitude problems? |
| Question: I'm tired of living. Help? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 09:18 AM PDT I'm to the point where I just don't know what I'm living for anymore. I'm a sophomore in college and I know I have a lot of years ahead of me but I'm so lonely and I don't know what to do. I have no one to talk to, I don't have any close friends and the friends I do have I feel like telling them how I feel doesn't help because they don't really care. My family doesn't care. The only person I can talk to is my grandma and she tells me it gets better but it hasn't. And I'm terrified of the day I wake up and she's not here any more because I see all the pain she goes through as she gets older. I know it's something I shouldn't think about but I can't help it. I just don't know what I'm here for, I cry all the time and half of the time I don't know why. I'm crying writing this and I have no idea why I'm sad all the time. I want to die but I don't want to do it. I know posting on here doesn't help but it feels kind of good just to let someone know how I feel because they don't know it's me. I don't know I guess I just want advice on what to do to feel different and want to live |
| Question: Cant delete comment on instagram.? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 09:15 AM PDT Someone commented "Yuck" on one of my pictures and my friend can see it and i cant delete it :( |
| Question: I like my friends girlfriend? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 09:12 AM PDT Age 17 Okay so it's a little more complicated that the title. My close friend- let's call him Robert, just started going out with my other close friend I've been crushing over for a while. Let's call her Kyra. I only became good friends with Kyra after they started dating so I wouldn't have had a chance anyways. Now I feel like we have a lot of chemistry between us, we can talk for ages. It's to the point now where she's asked me to come with her to school and go to other places. We've hung out in large groups (8-9) but recently the group's have gotten smaller. (2-3) I'm worried because I'm proud of my friend but I can't stop my feelings. Any help? |
| Question: Why does my friend side with my enemies? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 08:57 AM PDT I have a friend who says things like I am slow, I look asleep, and I exude low self-esteem. He says I was bullied and called corroded because I exude something of that quality and children are perceptive. I am on a trip and went to a delicatessen today. The man was subtly obnoxious waving in my face and then asked me where I was from because of my accent. The man at the delicatessen told me I read "into things too deep" and had he confused me, to which I replied that he read into things too deeply (because he's really only required to serve me my food and I am only required to pay). I told my friend about it and he again said I was at fault because the man was only trying to have a light and airy lunchtime chat. My friend told me my falling out with my former friend was my own fault due to the selfishness and vibes that I send out. He never says things like "that's not a nice thing that man said". It's always me who am inferior pushing people into insulting me due to my attitude and mannerisms. I pointed out that he sides with my insulters and he said he's being honest and only fake friends flatter you. I need an outside perspective on this because it seems that he's being neutral, but it also seems like he's hiding behind "objective" and "fair" to insult me as well. |
| Question: How do I meet new people here in the city? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 08:38 AM PDT I moved to a bigger city than I'm used to a few months ago, and I haven't really met anyone around here yet. I'm currently doing online classes and haven't been able to find a job yet so the only time I really see people is at the gym. I've tried talking to a couple of people there but it usually just adds up to being chit chat. I even tried BFF Bumble for a while but the conversations died out pretty quickly. I haven't met anyone that seems to be looking to meet a new friend the way I am. How can I go about meeting new people that are just as open to meeting new friends as I am? |
| Question: What should I do about this one sided friendship? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 08:26 AM PDT I was best friends with this girl in college but not so much anymore. A year ago, I received an incredible job offer and moved my life to Boston. My life completely changed and I worked very hard for it. Instead of being supportive, she implied that I only got this job because I'm "pretty". Since moving, I never hear from her. She never asks me how I'm doing or what's going on in my life anymore. She shows zero interest. However, she isn't afraid to call me when she needs a favor from me or make me feel guilty for not visiting her enough (mind you, she hasn't visited me at all. I have visited her though). She isn't supportive of me and makes zero effort towards our friendship, yet is still incredibly demanding when it comes to me showing her attention. What gives? I would talk to her, but we have had similar problems in the past in which I told her how I felt. Nothing ever changes. How would you all navigate this? |
| Question: Why he only misses me a little..? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 07:50 AM PDT I've been seeing a guy and I text him and told him that I miss his lips and the sound of his voice and then he text me back and said he misses me too a little and included a laughing emoji. Why would he say he only misses me a little and then lol? |
| Question: Should I put it away?? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 05:00 AM PDT A very dear friend gave me a little gift. I suppose it was given because I helped her with her recent move. I don't do things expecting payment..just to help. She gave me what looks like an angel, heart in left hand, & a cat on a leash in the other. On the bottom it says "Friends For All Time". It's a very small figurine. It looks horrible..just horrible, but I was always raised in the belief that gifts are to be accepted graciously, we don't hurt another's feelings. I truly do not want this thing. Should I leave it in the box & put it away? I'd much rather have a cheesecake like she's making for her co-workers that helped her as well. Please help. Thanks |
| Question: How to make freinds I have no freinds? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 03:40 AM PDT I'm going into 8th (its summer) I came to this new school in 6th grade three or so months into the school year my social life wasn't so great in seventh grade I was determined for change I became really boy crazy all I cared about was boys my guidance counselor had talks with me about this and I got in trouble a lot with the principal I just created a bad rep for myself I would chase and run after Boys and harass them (I regret) this made things worse so now I care about school and I am a good person I just wish I had freinds I don't want to be popular I just want freinds |
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| Question: How can I move on with life and get over friends who've hurt/left me? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:59 AM PDT For some reason, I have friends who I can't stop thinking about. They've left me and haven't spoken to me with no explanation. It hurts like hell to be ignored and no matter what I do, I just can't get over it even though I try to avoid anything that reminds me of them. The friends who have stuck by me are long distance. I love them dearly but I wish they were also local. I gave up on the whole best friends thing after being replaced which I learned the hard way. It was a heartbreaking experience and it's a long story. I struggle with making friends because I have Aspergers Syndrome which makes me socially awkward. Whenever I try to reach out to people, it's always awkward and it sucks so I give up. I really just want to move on with my life but can't no matter what I do. Any advice? |
| Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:53 AM PDT I hate my friend and have for a while. I intended to drop her a long time ago, but in a fateful turn of events she got kicked out of her house and is now living with me. Everything she says and does annoys me in some way, I truly cannot stand her and constantly wish for her to be gone. How do I deal with this? |
| Question: What to do about harassment? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:30 AM PDT I became friends with this person last year and everything was fine until recent. They are too clingy, but to the point of harassment. If I ask her to leave me alone she just gets upset that she's bothered me, but continues to message me. She constantly would try to make advances on me while I was in a relationship already. I'd recently become so fed up with the fact that she doesn't listen and will not leave me alone that I ended the friendship (and she STILL messages me). The entire friendship made me feel incredibly uneasy and upset. Turns out, my friend who lives about 300 miles away met her online through friends. Now, that girl is harassing my friend. She's telling her she's in love with her, won't leave her alone, and she's just outright uncomfortable! If anyone mentions that she needs to back off she takes it as an insult and starts fights and is way too dramatic. It's to the point where it's creepy how much she's trying to invest herself into people's lives. Is there anything we can do to get her to leave us alone? I've tried talking to her about the issues, to which she just fought with me about and said I was horrible, and I've tried ignoring her entirely, that made it worse. She lives near me, but obviously not my friend. The only thing she hasn't done to me yet is show up at my house, but that's because I moved. Is there ANY solution besides blocking her (tried that) and restraining orders? |
| Question: My friend became overly religious and it's kind of getting to me? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 02:15 AM PDT I've been friends with her since high school but when I went to college we didn't hang out as much but we kept in touch. Now that I graduated and back at my hometown, I have been trying to hang out with her a lot like the old good days. I noticed that she became overly religious. She thinks Catholicm is the right way and the only way. I'm a Christian (but not religious) and got in a tough situation when she told me even being a Protestant Christian is wrong. All she talks about is going to hell and that she doesn't agree with my way such as clubbing, drinking, not going to church enough, premarital sex, supporting the gays and she thinks that the earth is flat. I try to change the subject sometimes but everything is always about god. Even mainstream music and movies that I enjoy is "wrong" because there's evil messages behind it. She also thinks that practicing yoga is wrong because it's evil. I lover her and have been friends with her for so long but I don't think I wanna be friends with someone who criticizes me. She said that she stopped be Ng friends with one of our friends because he actually put his foot down and said that he didn't wanna talk about god all the time. So I think I'm just going to avoid her rather than confront her ? |
| Question: Friendship drama? Party question? Posted: 03 Jul 2017 01:28 AM PDT So every year my husband and I run around to a ton of different parties, because none of our friends can seem to get along. Thinking this year for Halloween we will throw the party at our place, and whoever comes, great. Or is that drama waiting to happen? We are tired of being the ones always having to go places. For the most part their drama with each other is super petty. Some of it doesn't even make sense. Ex. Our friends who only met once before at my husbands birthday party, One wife hates the other wife over a "vibe" she got..to the point when we tried to get together for the fourth of July, she was saying tell him he can come but his ***** of a wife can't. (in reference to our other friends. which btw our other friends had no idea she doesn't like them!) |
| Question: Should I still be friends with her? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 11:45 PM PDT I have known my best friend since the 4th grade. In the 5th grade I found out that she was cutting and was depressed due to her family life. Once we got into middle school, her depression got worse but since then, she has gotten better. But she sometimes gets back into cutting and having suicidal thoughts. When this does happen, she cuts (once she cut vertically to her arm, the way the vains run and had to go to the hospital. Since middle school (now going into 10th grade) she has made bad choices such as getting wasted and going to parties where there are drugs. She frequently has new boyfriends and we don t hang out as much. We are complete opposites but it s been that way since we met. We used to talk all the time but now not at all. I feel like she only talks to me when she needs something, in her suicidal phase, or talking about her new boyfriends. It s draining to be around her and I feel as though it s always about her, but occasionally she asks about me but I don t tell her anything because I feel like her problems are worse. I m a people pleaser and just want to make people happy and that s what I ve been trying to do for her but I feel like she just takes me for granted. I don t have many friends (feel like it s because I m always investing time and energy into her though I prob shouldn t blame anyone but myself). We ve been through so much together and I don t want to bail out on her, what should I do? Sorry for the long read |
| Question: Am I pathetic to still be living my with parents at mid-30's? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 11:44 PM PDT I've never lived on my own. I want to but haven't been able to secure a good enough paying job. My friends are well off whereas I have nothing to show. |
| Question: I sometimes feel like the bad outweighs the good as far as having friendships? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 11:22 PM PDT For a long time, I didn t have any friends after I moved. It was sad because I didn t have people to talk to about my interests or hobbies or people to just hang out with. But I wasn t miserable. I just enjoyed the other things I had. Now that I ve had friends again for 1-2 years, I am really grateful for them. It s great to be able to talk about things with someone and I care about them a lot. But the amount of sadness they cause me sometimes makes me feel like I d be happier if I just didn t have friends. I trust people and they treat me badly or make me feel like they don t want to be my friend anymore when they re upset. It always makes me cry or just feel miserable. I sometimes wonder if it would just be better to be alone again. At least I wouldn t cry like this so much. Does anyone have any advice for me? |
| Question: My friends always bail on me!? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 11:04 PM PDT I have a very close group of friends who I often hang out with but things are becoming quite different. 3 of my sisters are sisters, 2 twins (Let's call them Da & Do) and their younger sister (Di). Anyway I planned a movie night for all my friends (because they said they were bored and had nothing to do) one of them was baby sitting (she moved a little farther away from where we live but she still goes to our school, point is we don't hang out much anymore) and the other was out of town so I figured the rest would come. Di said they were coming. Anyway my other friend GG showed on time and 30 minutes into the movie Di said they weren't. It was just me and GG and honestly it's been me and GG for a while now. With Di and her sisters they only show up if more people are coming or if it's like a "important party". My birthday is coming up soon and I'm inviting more of my close friends than I usually do and taking them to my beach house in Myrtle beach. Part of me doesn't want to invite them because if they can't hang with me on little get-togethers why should I invite them to spend a week in MY beach house? But part of me wants to because when we are all together it's the best. What do I do? |
| Question: My friend is being rly anoying, what do I do? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 10:26 PM PDT |
| Question: I just feel like breaking down and crying right now :( how can I stop this feeling? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 10:24 PM PDT I just... Feel like everyone else is better than me or more fit or prettier and its bothering me so much because my grandma won't talk to me and I just feel as if everything is my fault. |
| Question: Why is my best friend acting like this? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 09:25 PM PDT My best friend just came out to me as bi sexual a few days ago. We are both 17 in high school and I m the first person he s ever told in his life. When he told me I supported him in an instant and I told him how much I care about him, how I m glad he told me, and how I still see him as the same person as I did before I knew about his sexuality. The next day I called him like I usually would and we talked for a minute then he said he was going to watch tv and hung up the phone. I reached out to him more a few days after and he s been very dry and distant with me, and I feel like he doesn t want to talk to me. Idk what to do because I don t want to lose him as a friend and I know it s only been a few days, but I m so used to talking to him all the time without it being a problem and I ve never felt like this before. What do I do and why is he acting like this? |
| Question: Why is it difficult for me to be open with people? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 09:22 PM PDT There is nothing I'd like more than to openly express my emotions & problems with other people (in this case, my friends), but I just can't bring myself to open up. My main problem is that, (very rarely) I will open up about something deep, and naturally, my friend[s] will fall under the illusion that the ice is broken and we now have a more meaningful friendship. Then, I go through a short period of feeling extremely vulnerable, and am full of regret for having opened up about anything at all. Then, I go back to being closed off, and pretend it never happened. So at some point or another, still under this "meaningful friendship" illusion, they'll try to engage in a heartfelt conversation again, and I shrug it off & change the subject. Then, they are confused that I'm still acting closed off after our last conversation, and the friendship just goes nowhere. I can't understand why I have such a difficult time maintaining meaningful friendships. I'd like for my friendships to go deeper than just joking around and talking about TV shows or trivial things like that, but there's something in me that just will not let it get to that point. |
| Question: PLZ HELP MY FRIEND IS SCARING ME? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 08:49 PM PDT hello!! my name is spencer and i'm a 13yr old female, my friend, let's call him Alex, has been harassing my best friend recently. Asking her out, begging her to love him, sending her 6 paragraphs a day professing his love to her. but the thing is, she doesn't like him back! since he's one of my closest male friend, i sent Alex some memes about being in the friends zone (i think i included a picture of one of the memes i sent to alex) and after a few minutes i got s response that said "spencer, i am depressed, i am now thinking about kms" and he won't answer anyone's texts!!! it's been over an hour and me and my other friend are FREAKING OUT!! He is kinda emo always but usually a happy guy. I don't know what to do, (ps it was around 11 when i sent this so he might be asleep but he usually doesn't sleep until 2-4 am!) i also don't rlly want to get parents involved |
| Question: Did I do the wrong thing? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 08:43 PM PDT I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school so when I joined high school I decided to do something about it. There was a new boy in our neighborhood that had autism, he was homeschooled because his parents knew if he attended public school he would get bullied incessantly. He was the perfect bullied victim, I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him & convinced his mom to cancel his homeschooling. As he entered school, he indirectly shifted the target off of my back and plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the homeschooling program he was in, Thus he is forced to live a miserable high school life, and I am now spared from the abuse. I bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" for what I did and told me to defend that kid the first thing the next day or I would get grounded. I didn't do it, but I escaped punishment through a stroke of pure luck due to that boy telling my mom that I defended him, in hopes that I would be his friend again. However, I did not become friends with him and said it was nothing personal, but if I was I would get bullied too. Everything ended so peacefully for me. It has been four years since high school and I am in college, doing well. I googled the autistic boy and discovered he became a loser in life. He is now a criminal and he blames it all on the bullies. I am starting to feel a little bad about what I did, was it wrong? |
| Question: I think my roomates who are in a relationship ship might be brothers? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 08:19 PM PDT I was looking for an cheap appartment and a friend said she has two friends with a spare room. I met them and they were really nice so why not. They have also been in a relationship for a long time. But some stuff is weird. For one they look alike. Not to strange but whatever. Second I saw a picture that was obviously them as small kids with a man and woman that looks like them. Third they have never had family over and only mentioned an aunt. And they own an old leather jacket. I asked both of them about it sepretly and they both said 'it was my dads'. But the biggest thing is I saw the second man's id and his last name is kidwell the same last name as his boyfriend. He introduced himself as a smith. So they have the same last name but they are not married, have a jacket they both individually claimed was their dads, look alike, no family, known each eachother since they were kids. It's just suspicious. They are great kind guys and I considered them friends but what should I do? I mean it's not like they can have kids so it's not like they can have deformed kids. And they are only a year apart so it's not like a situation where I'm worried one groomed the other. And they seem totally normal. Does this sound weird to anyone else or an I just being crazy? Should I be offended? Ask them? Get angry? Or should I just like let it go. Ether way I don't want to move like I said they are nice it's just weird. |
| Question: Hello im a girl and im a loner , i have friend but i prefer to be alone , am i wierd ?? Posted: 02 Jul 2017 07:29 PM PDT im worried because , i feel that because of this i could be missing out freindships new ones aswell as old because i feel that my friends or other people think i dislike them or that im judging them , when in reality im really shy :( |
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