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- Question: LOST MY BESFRIEND?!?!?
- Question: She won't stop contacting me and commenting on my posts? Should I block her as it's really irritating?
- Question: I'm from India and I don't speak very good english. I have noticed that White americans yell at me why?
- Question: Would she ever miss me???? Or is she done?
- Question: Is it wrong for me to be friends with a man that raped me 14 years ago?
- Question: How to invite someone over?
- Question: Do you consider this being fake?
- Question: How to apologize to a friend?
- Question: Ignoring my friend?
- Question: Would going 7 months without seeing someone be too long?
- Question: Please answer seriously! How do I be more like my friends?
- Question: Why does he get fidgety, upset, and nervous?
- Question: Friend stopped talking to me and I don't know why?
- Question: I think my boyfriends new friend is a bad influence should I block his friends number on his phone or will he notice?
- Question: Whats the advantage of a real friend?
- Question: Help! I feel like a tool?
- Question: How do you get someone to understand your situation? (For a friend who dearly needs it)?
- Question: A friend is calling ..Apologizing for something they said..Is it wrong of me to ignore them because,just do not feel to answer them?
- Question: Not rich at all. But how can i get my lesser fortunate friends to like me?
- Question: How would you feel if you found out your friend is gaming the system?
- Question: I feel like crap lately but have no one I could talk to so I just cry all day. What should I do now?
- Question: I have been invited to bosses house warming/birthday party. ok invite says no gifts, just gift cards. do I have to give?
- Question: My sister spews toxic words at people. How do I get her to stop?
- Question: Why do people get mad when I don't talk?
- Question: Why is my friend so fearful of me deleting my digital footprint?
- Question: Did I do the wrong thing?
- Question: Suicide joke. Why did my friend come looking for me?
- Question: What the freak is up with these answers? Toxic home environment, specify I haven't been home in years volunteering and get strange accusati?
- Question: How to react to old friend who was awful?
- Question: My life is so awful right now what do I even do?
- Question: Is it mean to push someone away who wants to hug you? I just hate hugs?
- Question: Why does she keep starting drama?
- Question: Why do people show more sympathy for strangers?
- Question: Friend ignored my invitation?
- Question: Is it too late to make friends now that I'm in 12th grade?
- Question: How can I get my sister s friend to stop coming over?
- Question: Do you think it's important to have friends of the same social level/education level?
- Question: Trying to decipher my friend's actions?
- Question: Should I speak with her privately or just not share information anymore?
- Question: I ALMOST GOT RAPED !!!?!?
- Question: Is there a decent way to call out a shitty gift?
- Question: How can a person make real friends in his life?
- Question: Why des my "friend" ignore me when I'm trying to be nice?
- Question: I am jealous of this girl in my class..advice?
- Question: Is my friend right here - is this girl really like it?
- Question: What should I do when no parents want there kids hanging out with me because they think I'm a stoner, even though it's just my personality?
- Question: My friend needs a ride to work but my truck is loud and I m scared my parents will hear it?!?
- Question: How to quickly get over a crsh?!?
- Question: It's my gf b day, I was going to buy her tickets to a concert but I won't be able to attend cuz I'll be outa town. A friend would go instead?
- Question: How to tell the difference if you're best friends with someone or just good friends?
- Question: What do you consider a best friend?
- Question: Why does my mom compare us to other kids so much?
- Question: Did I do the wrong thing?
- Question: Should I stay or should I go?
- Question: Why do people/friends that I know ignore me in public?
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| Question: LOST MY BESFRIEND?!?!? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 05:48 PM PDT My name is Kayla, and I had a bestfriend for 5 years. We would hangout everyday and she's the only person I trusted. But back in April I lied to her, but it was to protect her because I didnt want her to get hurt (Long story).. So she told me that I destroyed her trust by lying to her, and blocked me out of her life and told me she didn't want to hear from me ever again. My life feels so different without her, I haven't been able to get over her Because she was my besfriend. I kicked everyone out of my life because I only want to talk to her, I feel depressed ......can I get some advice please!!!!!! :( |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2017 05:42 PM PDT We're good friends (cousins) but live in different continents. Now and again we would message (once every couple of months) and I'd call her on her birthday - things like that. However, 2 months ago, we chatted for about an hour online and I was off on holidays the next day. She said to keep her updated on how my trip was going.So a few days after arriving I sent her a pic of the pool and told her I was having a great time, talk when I get back. She messaged immediately asking me to send more pool pics and pics of the food in the country I was in. I found this a bit worrying as I had already sent a great pool pic. Then a week later, another msg on a photo in FB 'are you now in .....' - when it was obvious from the photo that I was. Since that, she's messaged me 6 times over the last 2 months (including sharing a video). I've responded to none of her comments or messages hoping that she will realise that I'm very annoyed at what I now see as stalking. No other friend or indeed relative does this to me and I think it's almost like bullying. Should I delete her from my FB? By the way, we're both adults. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2017 05:40 PM PDT Everytime I ask White Americans to repeat what they said they start to yell at me. I am in America legally and everything. Is this racism? |
| Question: Would she ever miss me???? Or is she done? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 05:27 PM PDT My name is Karl and I had a really close friend, She was the best person I ever met and cared about me. I called her to come to my appartment to talk because she was mad at me. When she showed up we talked for 10 mins but she walked away, without letting me explain. So I held her for A minute so she could her my side of the situation, but that night she sent me a text that said I crossed the line by not letting her leave. She told me to never contact her again, but I kept trying to get a hold of her, I wrote her a letter and sent it to her house. I even sent her flowers but the police showed up to my appartment asking me to leave her alone. We haven't talked since February and I miss her soo much. Could she ever forgive me????????? I know I messed up and feel ashamed This happened in February |
| Question: Is it wrong for me to be friends with a man that raped me 14 years ago? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 04:50 PM PDT A few days ago he found me on Facebook and wrote to me apologizing about what he did and I accepted his apology. Then became friends with him...now we are starting to get closer. People are telling me that I am wrong |
| Question: How to invite someone over? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 03:42 PM PDT I know this person who I don't talk to a lot but I know a little about enough to know what he likes. I don't have feelings for this guy, I just want to hang out. But the thing is, I was shy for an entire year of knowing him and we barely talked but when we talk online we get along well. We are going to different schools this year so I likely won't see him again unless he wants to come over again if he does this time. Is it appropriate to ask him if he wants to come over and watch a show we both like? How do I do it without sounding weird? |
| Question: Do you consider this being fake? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 02:39 PM PDT If someone is friends with your sister and talks tons of sh** about you does that mean they are fake? |
| Question: How to apologize to a friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 01:40 PM PDT Today my friend sent me a snap on snapchat of a girl and my friend circled the girl and put a caption saying something bad about her outfit.I replied saying that i agree she doesnt have a good style and doesnt look good and i specifically said : "Who dresses up like this?".Few moment later my friend replies that she was joking and that girl was her cousin.I was like ooops and started apologizing.I apologized so many times and i genuinely mean it.My friend said if i said that to her she wouldnt take it serious and that i shouldnt mess with her family.I said i eouldnt have said that if i knew that was her cousin.I apologized again and she was like ok nvm.I dont know if we are on good terms anymore but i want to know if i did the right thing.We all make mistakes and i think i did the right thing i apologized so many times. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2017 01:33 PM PDT Its now an online friendship so we only call and text. Sometimes she texts and I ignore it because she gets pretty annoying. She's a bit clingy and texts about the most idiotic things and gets upset if I don't answer. I just couldn't care less about what she says. Is it wrong I only enjoy her company in real life and not digitally? |
| Question: Would going 7 months without seeing someone be too long? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 01:25 PM PDT I've been meeting up with this guy since 2015. We live in different states we aren't in a long distance relationship. I only see him once a year the last time I saw him was two weeks ago. But I'm planning to go see him again in February so that's nine months instead of a year do you think that's a long time from now? |
| Question: Please answer seriously! How do I be more like my friends? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 01:20 PM PDT I don't fit in at all in school, so I guess I have the wrong personality to fit in. I am loud, witty, sarcastic, musical, funny, theatrical and headstrong. I am not afraid to speak my mind, and I'm not afraid to fight for what I think is right. I am trying to get depressed people to be happy, and I want to save frogs from getting dissected. I love performing, I sing all the time, I love animals and basically all I say is comebacks to roast people who are mean to me. My friends are dark, quiet, depressed, shy and artistic. They are practical and they hate it when I sing all the time. I am happy and positive, but they are sad, negative and they talk about death. Do I have the wrong personality to fit in? I want to be an actress, they want to be teachers. I wear pastel colours, they wear all black. I am lively, they are shy. |
| Question: Why does he get fidgety, upset, and nervous? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 01:03 PM PDT Theres this cute guy at work that I met a week ago when I first started. He's really outgoing and fun. I tease him a lot to get his attention and he teases me back to make me smile (he said that's why he does). My coworkers from my department tease him about me. They ask why hes blushing around me. He responds by telling them to shut up and I'll smile and he'll look down or away when he sees me. I saw him blushing when he got teased about me. He was crushing a cup and playing with it. He then stuttered as he tried to tell them that he didn't like me. Now he's nervous around me, but acts confident around everyone else. |
| Question: Friend stopped talking to me and I don't know why? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 12:58 PM PDT I have known my friend for almost 5 years, but she randomly stopped talking to me. Recently we will exchange a few messages on skype but it always ends with me saying/asking something and her never responding. Recently I sent a message and I know she saw it because her icon turned to "online" but she didn't respond. I don't want to be rude and say like "Why are you not responding?" because I don't want to sound selfish. Any advice? |
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| Question: Whats the advantage of a real friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 12:39 PM PDT |
| Question: Help! I feel like a tool? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 12:15 PM PDT Hello. Lately I've been feeling very dissatisfied. I feel like a tool. People don't care about me unless I'm doing favours for them. Whenever I'm upset people don't care but whenever someone else is upset I have to help them or else I'm a monster. Nobody really likes nor care about me and they take advantage of me. They expect me to be perfect and to a socially be a robot. What should I do? |
| Question: How do you get someone to understand your situation? (For a friend who dearly needs it)? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 11:46 AM PDT My best friend is really in love with a guy and his best friend is with her. She is supposed to choose between the two, where it would in the end just break their friendship. She is really torn and needs a way to convince his friend that it will be okay if when doesn't pick him (And not kill himself becuase of it). PLEASE read this and help, I am sooo concerned for her. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2017 11:42 AM PDT I just...don't know.. |
| Question: Not rich at all. But how can i get my lesser fortunate friends to like me? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 11:17 AM PDT Okay so I'm 18. I am by no means wealthy or rich. But I am fortunate enough to have hard working attentive parents. I don't even think my parents make 400k a year. At the very most it's 375 and The least being 250. We live a modest living and everyone in our house works hard. I pay my OWN car insurance, gas etc. I help whenever I can with measly bills and i worked hard in highschool so my parents wouldn't have to worried with tuition. I only pay for books and i pay it. We have higher end cars but they are older models 2007-2014 so they are cheaper yet still keep their value. And we go on cruises every year but they aren't super costly seeing that they're all inclusive. I'm telling you all this so you have the background information. My current friends i feel secretly talk behind my back and dislike me. They always jokingly say how I don't know what a struggle is, how I don't have real problems, and I'm a spoiled brat. I went on a road trip with one of them and we went half on major expenses. The beach we went to had no parking so i said "lets just go back to the hotel". She however, really wanted to go so she parked in a illegal space. We knew there would be a fine accepeted it and agreed to split the cost. One month later she still hasnt paid me back(I had to pay it, we drove my car and the ticket had my tag on it). The ticket was 50 dollars and i know if i ask she'll inetivably say, "its just 25 dollars thats nothing for you". |
| Question: How would you feel if you found out your friend is gaming the system? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 10:59 AM PDT How would you feel ff you found out your friend is getting help from the government by trying to get on SSD (and already receives SNAP), yet you know they travel frequently, and are fully capable of holding down a job. |
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| Posted: 24 Jul 2017 10:54 AM PDT or how much. they are married lawyers. I make min. wage? |
| Question: My sister spews toxic words at people. How do I get her to stop? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 10:41 AM PDT |
| Question: Why do people get mad when I don't talk? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 10:33 AM PDT Ok so I'm shy and have social anxiety meaning I don't interact much with people. And I work on a register which means I have to speak to customers. And sometimes people ask me why I'm so quiet and don't talk. They even tell my managers I don't talk. But sometimes I feel that people don't want me to talk to them and they want me to leave them alone and get them on their way out. I just don't want to come across as outspoken and very annoying. So why do they get mad? Do they want me to talk their ears off? |
| Question: Why is my friend so fearful of me deleting my digital footprint? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 10:27 AM PDT I have been finding several profiles I had made on websites through the years and completely disabled them (although trace amounts remain if people search me by my nickname) I found an old website profile from around 2007 and my friend was saying "No, don't delete it, it's a part of your history and it would be cool to keep it there to look back on" Needless to say I shitcanned the profile as it reminds me of a failed career venture I thought I could get into. He has also been getting edgy because I have been indecisive about my Facebook as of late, it's like he seems to forget he can ring me on the phone or something. |
| Question: Did I do the wrong thing? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 10:17 AM PDT I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school so when I joined high school I decided to do something about it. There was a new boy in town that had autism, he attended special school because his parents knew if he went to public school he'd get bullied incessantly. I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him & convinced his mom to cancel his schooling, claiming to always be at his side & the kids at our school were nice. As he entered school he inadvertently shifted the target off of my back & plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the special school he was in, Thus he is forced to live a miserable high school life, & I am now spared from the abuse. I bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" & told me to defend him the next day or I would get grounded & she would get him back to his special school. I didn't do it, but I escaped punishment through pure luck due to the boy telling my mom that I defended him, in hopes that I would be his friend again. However, I did not become friends with him & said it was nothing personal, but if we did I'd get bullied too. Everything ended so peacefully for me, it's been four years since high school, I'm in college, doing well. I googled the autistic boy & discovered he became a loser in life. He is now a criminal & he blames it all on the bullies. I am starting to feel a BIT bad about what I did, not enough to regret it tho |
| Question: Suicide joke. Why did my friend come looking for me? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 09:42 AM PDT So I was joking with my friends about committing suicide, which they took as a joke because I wasn't trying to sound serious. I said my life wasn't going right and I was thinking about ending it by jumping. I was unaware that my friend Megan had taken it to heart. A few days later I drove up to the hills to go for a hike. Little did I know Megan had followed and intercepted me. She started hugging me and screaming not to kill myself. All I could think was what the hell? After what I said Megan honestly thought I had considered suicide for real. She was crying and in denial. I really had to convince her that I had been joking. Eventually she calmed down, realizing she was overreacting. What happened really caught me off guard. I mean one of my friends was actually super concerned, most of them could care less. Why was Megan so convinced even though I clearly made it a joke? Is it just how girls react? I'm a guy so I don't know. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2017 09:14 AM PDT I actually downplayed the severity of my home situation . https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170724104904AAm4dN5 I came to look for sincere help and actually underplayed the severity of the situation ... what gives me |
| Question: How to react to old friend who was awful? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 09:04 AM PDT I have this friend who I use to follow around, because she was very pretty and nice. This was way back when in elementary. I didn't mind being the less popular friend, because I genuinely liked hanging with her.. except she always seemed to leave me behind. Someone else would always 'take her away' as she'd put it, and I found it ridiculous how I never let people take my time for her. Throughout middle school, I made many changes to be positive and nice to everybody. I had made two friends on the first day, and so happy that I told her about it. Her first reaction was that not all people were going to treat me good, and I should just stop. She had always claimed she had depression, and I've even seen her in tough spots - but she always left me to do her homework or deal with her garbage. Every time I get upset, she always makes it out to be my fault. I had tried to re patch things, and even got her a gift. But we go through this every time to the point where I really hated her. We aren't friends anymore, and I can now go out and do things while she sits on the sidelines talking crap. I fear that we'll get classes together, and have to talk to each other? How should I react if we do? |
| Question: My life is so awful right now what do I even do? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 08:36 AM PDT So this friday my parents were out of town and I've had friends over in the past with them gone and knowing, so same deal. (i'm 19 btw) Just my friend group which is like 11 people. Obviously we were drinking and hanging out but thanks to snap chat these kids showed up (not that we don't like them but it wasn't that kind of party) they immediately came drunk and started raging and purposely breaking and stealing stuff, we got them out in like an hour. I thought I cleaned pretty well but when my parents came home they started noticing stuff was missing and just what I didn't notice and it was BAD. My dad was balling his eyes out and screaming. The neighbor screamed at my dad because of how people parked their cars. They told me I'm not welcome to eat their food anymore because they don't want anything else stolen so I literally haven't eaten since friday night and I'm starting to get a headache. Every picture of me in the house has been taken down. I don;t even know what to do or how to make this better. |
| Question: Is it mean to push someone away who wants to hug you? I just hate hugs? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 08:14 AM PDT |
| Question: Why does she keep starting drama? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 07:52 AM PDT I used to be best friends with this girl. we had a falling out few months ago, and since then she's always trying to start drama. She tweets about me a lot & assumes everything I do is about her. If I post a picture with my group of friends, it's because I'm trying to make her jealous. If someone I'm friends with followers her on twitter, suddenly that girl is spying on her for me? It's been 3 months, why does she keep starting drama? Why not just move on? |
| Question: Why do people show more sympathy for strangers? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 06:50 AM PDT A lot of people feel sorry for people on tv or sad about posts they see on social media but ignore someone thats close to them hurting. They'll talk distant friends and family through tough situations but will tell you to get over it or you're being dramatic. |
| Question: Friend ignored my invitation? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 06:44 AM PDT So lately I've been feeling like my friends don't think of me the same way as I think of them. At times they say things that are kinda of offensive and expect me to laugh it off due to my silly personality. No one ever checks up on me or ask to hang out like I try to do, I decided I would just stop trying and wait until my parents plan on moving next year and hopefully I'lleet new people. My parents kept asking me to invite someone to go to the theme park with me so I did, I wanted to invite someone I never hung out with in hopes of a better friendship. I asked her if she wanted to go around 10am and told her everything would be paid for. She said yes but then told me she would let me know if she wasn't busy around 6. She said she would tell me around 6 yesterday (since she might have practice) and never responded or said anything after that. She posted on instagram and all but never responded to me through Snapchat messaging. It's the next morning and things like this kind of remind me of why I never try with people because no one is willing to do the same. It's been like this for the last few years of my life. I just feel like she should've at least told me no or said she was busy like a nice person would instead of leaving me hanging. Things like this make me excited to leave my school and go to a new one |
| Question: Is it too late to make friends now that I'm in 12th grade? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 06:44 AM PDT Okay so a little backstory. I've never really been such a social person up until grade 11 where I made a few more friends. So far from freshman year to the end of grade 11 I've hung around EVERY DAY with this one girl and I think she's really funny and we are really good friends. But lately I've noticed she's becoming more social than I am and people actually talk to her and think she's funny but won't talk to me because I know I seem like a pathetic follower because while she was chatting away in grade 11 in our gym class I stood by myself sometimes like an idiot. I am REALLY social now like I really do like talking to people, but I feel like since I kept my friendship circle small throughout highschool so far how can I reach out to those other kids who already have their own cliques and groups? I actually try or attempt but I get no where. How can I improve my social skills and just become more funny, likable and happy? I am happy I smile ALOT but I don't think I have a beautiful smile. I love to laugh and I am super energetic and I try not to swear much because it's rude. What can I do to help myself in my last year? I want to talk to people I've never talked to before, but how do I approach them? |
| Question: How can I get my sister s friend to stop coming over? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 06:38 AM PDT My sister s friend comes over to our house at least 4 times a week for the past three months and I m sick of it. They make too much noise and a mess that I usually clean up. She either comes uninvited and my sister lets her in, or my sister calls her over. They never hang out at her friend s house instead because her mom is a neat freak. I m very tired of them and their shouting, they re 13 and 10. |
| Question: Do you think it's important to have friends of the same social level/education level? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 06:08 AM PDT In the past I tried to be open-minded and have all types of friends. However friends of a lower social level often turned out to be either very jealous of me or used me for money (or both even!). I have a degree, 2 postgrads and speak 3 languages fluently. I own 5 properties. Do you think in the future it is better to just have friends of my own social level? |
| Question: Trying to decipher my friend's actions? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 05:48 AM PDT So I have a crush on my male friend. We both went to high school in one city, and he's just started at my uni in the next city over, which he also recently moved to live. We've talked everyday for the past few months, and I just can't tell whether he's just being a friend, and we're doing friend things, or if there's a chance he likes me too. We weren't really that much of friends during highschool; we were just classmates who got along. Anyway, the first time we met up (pretty early into our friendship) was just after his work, and he wanted to ironically buy a fidget spinner. I lived like 2 minutes away from his workplace, so I guess that's why he asked me instead of his work friends. We didn't meet up again until at least a month later, to get an ID card for him. Again, I guess he asked me since I went to the uni. However, he said he could easily get someone else to go with him, and he also has a few friends at our uni (who I know are closer). The other times we met were 1. giving me art 2. food + going to his house, (he bought condoms 2 days prior) 3. certain shop before uni all these times I literally ask myself, why did I choose to come here? But more importantly, why did he invite me? Especially when I'm seriously SO awkward to hang out with since I mumble and barely talk. We had such an awkward day today and I thought our friendship would be over, but he literally invited me to go to a uni event with him when I got home? The condoms were in case he had sex with a girl who was into him (but he was hesitant since he'd rather do his first with a girlfriend). The day he bought them, we talked for several hours about relationships and sex. He's a REALLY FRIENDLY guy, and he's always posting pics of his friends on instagram, and used to go to a lot of parties (until he moved). I don't think he has friends over often, and I don't know if inviting me to go to a shop for 20 minutes in another city at 8:30 is normal. my friend said he enjoyed my company, I'd just like to know what others think about that? |
| Question: Should I speak with her privately or just not share information anymore? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 05:35 AM PDT We've been friends for 27 yrs. I strongly suspect my friend tells her live-in boyfriend private things about me. About a month ago, he made a joke about who I have as my executor. I've never discussed that with him. Just a few days ago, he made a comment that I "THINK" I have things wrong with me (physically). I looked at him & said.."be careful, you're on thin ice". Even my friend said something to him,but he always covers up by saying he's joking. These things have really annoyed me & whatever I share with her should be kept confidential. Should I speak with her privately about how I feel, or should I stop sharing with her? I DO have physical ailments, & I'm scheduled for testing. Yes the doctors are having problems pin-pointing the cause but I've been told there definitely is something going on. |
| Question: I ALMOST GOT RAPED !!!?!? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 04:35 AM PDT a few months ago I was an 18 year old girl at a college frat party and this guy Dean wanted to "show me his room" in the frat house. I went upstairs and there were a bunch of college kids in his room. They all dared me to take shots of vodka Dean kicked all the other people out of his room once he saw I was really drunk. Too drunk to control my actions. He threw me on his bed and took all my clothes off and all of his clothes off and started kissing me and I told him to stop by he wouldn't and then he kept going and fingered me and then my sorority sister walked in his room and told him to get off of me. Was this rape? I've only told my best friend about what happened and she said I should talk to a therapist but I feel as if it isn't serious enough. I don't wanna be a drama queen, you know? It just keeps bothering me and idk why !!!! Do y'all know why this still bothers me ? |
| Question: Is there a decent way to call out a shitty gift? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 04:27 AM PDT Well, I just received my Birthday gift from my best friend, it was a small coin shaped piece of metal with native american style picture on it. Worth about a fiver I guess. they picked it up on holiday. I know it s the thought that counts but for their birthday a few months ago I actually tried really hard, spent like £120 on a new CD of an artist they like and 2 concert tickets for us to go see them in London, to be given the first cheapass thing that was seen in some random giftshop feels like a giant **** you and im not really sure how to brooch the subject cause its so awkward I know I'm being ungrateful im just butthurt cause I really tried and they totally did not |
| Question: How can a person make real friends in his life? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 04:20 AM PDT i am 30 years old and I still have no friends |
| Question: Why des my "friend" ignore me when I'm trying to be nice? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 04:08 AM PDT Okay so I made this new friend in grade 11 and honestly she was always very rude to some of my friends and to me but eventually she opened up to me and asked me for advice on things and told me things almost everyday at school. Come summer, and she asks to hang out a lot but I know I'm busy and can't find rides, but now she posted on her Snapchat saying she was at the hospital and I asked if all was well and if she was okay or if I could come visit her and she completely ignored me. It seems a lot of my friends do that in the summer when I'm trying to be nice.. why does this happen? I'm so confused |
| Question: I am jealous of this girl in my class..advice? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 03:10 AM PDT I am in high school and last year I had this girl in five of my classes and I don't know if I hate her or if I am just jealous. She has everything that I don't and it seems so natural for her. She is super smart and always gets the highest grades in everything without even trying (and will probably be valedictorian) and is pretty without having to try and everyone likes her and wants to be her friend because she is also really nice to everyone plus she is quiet but everyone still gives her all of the attention, she never asks for it and that makes me even more mad because I am trying so hard and she doesn't at all and gets everything I want. I try to be nice to people and make friends with them but they usually never want to be friends with me no matter how much I try. But this girl doesn't even try to talk to the people that I am trying to befriend and they all talk to her and befriends her!! I don't know why she is so lucky and I am not. I tried to talk to a guy who is also smart and nice but he doesn't ever try to talk to me after what I say. He's not rude but he doesn't want to be my friend either. :( But I saw the girl with him and he kept trying to talk to her and befriend her and they became friends. I am so tired of her getting everything without trying. I know I should just focus on myself but it is so hard when she is always there. I kind of wish she was mean so I can hate her easily, but she is nice to me and I hate that it is so hard to hate her. Any advice? |
| Question: Is my friend right here - is this girl really like it? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 02:27 AM PDT One of my best friends has told me that one of our mutual best friends has a pussy that "[is] 'dis wide, man." He formed right-angles with both of his hands - with his thumb and index finger - and spaced them about four and a half centimeters apart. Can anything factual or relevant be salvaged from this? |
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| Question: How to quickly get over a crsh?!? Posted: 24 Jul 2017 12:51 AM PDT So I think I have some kind ofcrush on a guy in my grade in two of my classes. After watching him perform/sing on a school show thing ..... It's one of those classes where u like someone that u don't even talk to. Because basically that's how all my crushes are. I can't help but feel self conscious when he is around. And get really anxious. I want to stop this. I want to get over it fast HELP?! |
| Posted: 23 Jul 2017 11:54 PM PDT Tickets 129$ each. Her friend would go in my place. The friend would pay me back for the ticket. Plz answer fast |
| Question: How to tell the difference if you're best friends with someone or just good friends? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 11:36 PM PDT I've been knowing this girl since we we're children (6yrs) old and now we're both turning 20 this year. when we we're younger we we're best friends. She still calls me best friend to this day but i don't feel like she is? we still have a few things in common but it's kinda of hard to connect with her now :/ |
| Question: What do you consider a best friend? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 11:27 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does my mom compare us to other kids so much? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 09:57 PM PDT I'm 15 years old from BC, Canada. My brothers are 9 and 12 years old. She points out how other peoples' kids are so perfect. Once my brother said he improved a lot on his grades and that he's the best in his class, my mom just said, "why do you always learn from the BAD people in your class!? You compare yourself to the worst people!". Which he doesn't because his reports are good. She keeps telling me about how her friend's daughter got into the top university in Canada and how I'm not good enough. Then she told me about her other friend whose daughter didn't get into the top university. Her friend YELLED at the girl until she cried, and yelled at her to stop crying and how she's not good enough and the similar stuff that my mom says! I said that it's not good because it ruins her self esteem and at least she got into a college. She said, "no, it helped that girl improve". I told her that it makes us feel bad but she doesn't believe that. Once I asked to use the computer, she simply said that other kids have more homework so why don't I? And she yelled at me for even asking, she didn't just say WHY I couldn't use it or asked if my work was done (which it was!) |
| Question: Did I do the wrong thing? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 09:48 PM PDT I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school so when I joined high school I decided to do something about it. There was a new boy in town that had autism, he attended special school because his parents knew if he went to public school he'd get bullied incessantly. I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him & convinced his mom to cancel his schooling, claiming to always be at his side & the kids at our school were nice. As he entered school he inadvertently shifted the target off of my back & plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the special school he was in, Thus he is forced to live a miserable high school life, & I am now spared from the abuse. I bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" & told me to defend him the next day or I would get grounded & she would get him back to his special school. I didn't do it, but I escaped punishment through pure luck due to the boy telling my mom that I defended him, in hopes that I would be his friend again. However, I did not become friends with him & said it was nothing personal, but if we did I'd get bullied too. Everything ended so peacefully for me, it's been four years since high school, I'm in college, doing well. I googled the autistic boy & discovered he became a loser in life. He is now a criminal & he blames it all on the bullies. I am starting to feel a BIT bad about what I did, not enough to regret it tho |
| Question: Should I stay or should I go? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 08:57 PM PDT My girl friend's dad urged me to come live with them because he never had a son that he can play rugby with and someone to help him operate the backhoe in his farm |
| Question: Why do people/friends that I know ignore me in public? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 08:56 PM PDT I never been a bad friend to anyone. I am 15 year old boy. I am funny nice and smart. I never hurt anyone's feelings or talk bad about them behind their back. And recently when I got in highschool. Friends that I know ever since 5th grade I see them. They see me. And they know who I am. But they just walk right pass me and act like I'm a stranger to them. And they use to be my best best friends in 5th grade. Another example is friends that I made this year. I saw one of them at Walmart one time. They clearly saw me and made eye contact but they ignore me and walk right pass me. Not a hi or a hello! And I see other friends that say hi to every other friend they see. So why does this happen to me? And it hurts me to see people that I've known for years that I thought were my friends and we did everything together. Just ignore me and act like they never seen me before. |
| Question: Super needy friend!? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 08:55 PM PDT So I've been friends with this girl since we were little, I'm 21 now, she's 22. The problem is, she's very needy and it truly annoys me. I couldn't type everything she does because I'd go on for years. But she has a lot of financial and family problems. So she literally calls/texts me multiple times a day to cry about her problems. She dates a new guy every other week, I told her to be careful, but instead she ended up catching an STD. I have two jobs and I'm a full-time student and other stuff, so I usually like to rest and study when I can, but she's ALWAYS calling me. She gets super mad when I don't answer. She always wants to party and I don't. I've spoken to her about this twice, and her other friends have as well, but it seems like she just cries when we tell her. I have a good heart so when she cries I feel bad. It would be hard for me to lose a friend that I've been close with since I was 8. Am I doing something wrong or what should I do because I honestly can't take it anymore. |
| Question: How Do I Get More Instagram Followers? Posted: 23 Jul 2017 08:51 PM PDT So yeah, how do I do it? I only have about 180, and it's not like rlly even my fault. It's just that I go to a small school, and because of that I don't know that many people. But all my other friends, have like thousands, of followers. Who are people they don't even know. How do I get the followers I don't even know? Also, btw, my insta is e_suli |
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