so many companies .have a exciting life full of expensive vacation.has a beautiful wife.very influential..he wants to have affair.i think everything he has.expensive car.why still he wants to have affair?.he can have anybody with his money..but why he choose me to have affair.im too married.. why he wants me to be his girlfriend

After an affair. Do you think it is best for the person that cheated to be an open book and rebuild that trust with you? or is it all up to the person who was cheated on to get over it on their own?

He is a loner type & not used to relationships. I haven't seen him since December when we met a few times after breaking up. Every month he messages me that he hopes I'm ok, but he never mentions his feelings or anything serious. Last time he tried to find out if I'm single & said we could talk later if I wanted. He messaged me 'by accident' the other day & when I didn't respond he said 2 days later 'hope you're ok. Sent that message by accident.' I said it feels like you're trying to remind me of you & he said 'ok sorry won't do it again.' I said I was more confused than annoyed. He messaged me yesterday 'still confused?' & saying that he thought I didn't want him to message me again. He said he will leave me alone if I want. We talked for 2 hours catching up. When I said I'm renting my flat to a girl, he said 'you can say if it's your bf' like I was lying. He said good night to me & we can talk whenever I want. What does he want? If he wanted to get back together he would make more effort & not have left it this long, so is he just lonely?

Quiero expresar mis sentimientos hacia una persona que es muy especial para mi, hacerlo por medio de una carta me parece una muy buena idea, solo que no soy muy buena para escribir y ya me atasqué, ¿Me podrian dar ideas de como seguir? ¿O que le puedo cambiar? Esto es lo que llevo hasta ahora: Te escribo esto por que quiero que estés consiente de lo mucho que significas para mi y dudo que mi timidez me permita decirte todo esto de frente. En este tiempo que llevamos de conocernos puedo atreverme a decir que te has convertido en una de las personas más importantes que han llegado a mi vida. Que adoro pasar el tiempo el tiempo contigo, se que te causaría gracia el ver lo nerviosa y emocionada que me pongo cuando se que me visitarás, parezco niña pequeña en espera de un nuevo juguete. Verte sonreir es una de las pocas cosas que realmente me ponen feliz, adoro tu sonrisa, es realmente hermosa. La fuerza con la que tus brazos rodean mi cuerpo al momento de abrazarme, el sentirme tan cerca de ti, hace que me sienta segura, protegida, deseante

So I'm an 18 year old male, and I've masturbated for years. Lately I've cut back but still do it, mainly because I've been watching really kinky/disgusting fetishes.... like really nasty stuff. Now some of those fetishes don't turn me on but some still do. I can still masturbate to lesbian and solo. So I just don't know if it'll will affect my relationship or if I won't be able to have normal sex (again I still like seeing girls naked) but will those fetishes ever go away completely. So will I ever be able to get rid of those nasty fetishes? Will I be able to have normal sex? Is it normal to think those things at random times?

So I've had this MASSIVE crush on this woman since I was a kid. She used to baby sit me and once I hit puberty I really started getting attracted to her. She's tease me here and there, i'd put my arm around her waist and she'd tell how she loved me doing that. I'm sure she's even caught me checking her out before. Not to seem objective but she's a Latina so she's got a really big butt and she'll wear yoga pants which used to drive me crazy. But I'm turning 18 in a month and she's almost 40. Not even a year ago I went to the beach with her she wore this one piece that turned me on to the point of not knowing if I could control myself around her. But lately I'm just not really that into her. I went to her apartment last month she wore a tea shirt that was cut to show off her cleavage and these denim shorts that showed off her butt, we took a picture together where I'm kissing her cheek and she's smiling but I'm not really turned on by her anymore. I see her social media and it's her at clubs not really doing anything of course there's a some thirsty comments but she's just not doing it for me like she used to. She's divorced zero kids and she doesn't even take pole dancing classes anymore I used to get turned on whenever she's talk about taking them. Now that I'm coming of age should I even try to sleep with her? She still wears the sexy clothes but it's not what it used to be. I've been working out and I'm not the socially awkward kid I used to be.

Hi me and my friend are both 20 and have been friends for 7 years. (I'm in love with her, she doesn't feel the same way, but that's beside the point). I'm currently in the military and stationed in a different state and she still lives with her mother, she's also jobless and has no diploma. She always tells me about how she hates her life and how sad she is and how she gets mentally abused by her mother. Now, if she decided to be with me years ago I would have helped her get a job and school and such but I was too depressed over my love for her to talk to her, and I didn't even know it was bad back then. I just wanted to forget about her. But she really needs help, this whole abuse thing only really seemed to start over a year ago, before that her mother seemed like a cool mom. But know I'm worried about her. I tell her to get a job (nicely and encouragingly) and to try to get her GED so she can be happier, but she won't listen. She says I don't know what would make her happy. If I still lived there I would do something, but since I'm gone I'm powerless. I really don't now what to do. I know she has to try and help herself but I'm afraid she won't. And she has no where to go if she wanted to leave.

So my ex told me he doesn't wanna be friends, told me to delete everything about him, and told me to stay out of his life permently.... We used to play this game together (Wizard101) and I didn't delete him off my friends list bc I wanted the window for friendship to be open if he changed his mind. I believed when he'd log on he would delete me of his friends list (which would delete him off of mine as well) so I wouldn't have a way to contact him. I only log on Saturdays and last Saturday he was still on my friends list. I thought this was weird, but assumed he didn't log on yet to delete me. I logged on today, he was still on my friends list AND he gifted me 4 Wysteria packs. Now this really confused me bc he told me to stay out of his life so I thought he'd delete me off of a game we had in common, not keep me on his list let alone gift me. Why would he do this after telling me to stay out of his life and that he doesn't wanna be friends?

So when I was junior in high school there was this senior I had a MASSIVE crush on. But I did get rejected of course it was all respectful, she's a great person very smart. But since than I've managed to make something out of myself meaning that I've got a bit more money in my life. We're also not in high school anymore and I've set up a date via a mutual contact we have. I don't mean to disparage her because she is a smart young woman but if you wouldn't date me than why now? I'm not ensinuating anything negative but is it disrespectful towards myself? She's 25 I'm 24 so we're still young but I'm just not sure about this. And please don't speak negatively of her because nobody respects that treatment

4:30 a.m like a shot outside the building and then 5:30 the neighbor went out and came back 6:40. What would a person leave the building at 5:30 and return 1 hour later? What did become this city? That's a sing to you Gigapie that you are suffering a lot and thinking that you are a doctor, perhaps your life is ending soon and you are desesperated.

I've had staph infections before and recently thought I might have one. I had touched where it was and only quickly rinsed. Then, a delivery driver came to my house. After he left I got worried, so I called the place where he works and just told them to have him wash his hands. The driver and I ended up messaging, and he has an anxiety disorder. So, he was nervous. I went to the ER and got checked and told him I was okay. He said he felt better, but he took the next day off of work to go to his doctor to be safe. He is getting married next weekend so he wanted to be sure. Now, I am feeling HORRIBLE. I didn't mean to cause panic, I only wanted him to thoroughly wash his hands and if he had a cut or anything, to be cautious. I was trying to do what I thought was being careful. Now, I am worried. I keep thinking that if anything dangerous happens to him on the day off, it is my fault because he SHOULD have been working but had a day off because of me. I worry that maybe next week he will pick up an extra shift, because he had to miss one because of me, and if something dangerous happens THAT is my fault. I caused him to be out of his routine and now I am really really anxious. I keep thinking I am now responsible for anything that happens to him this week because I threw him off of his routine and caused him panic. I tried to text him and ask if he was back to his normal routine, but he didn't want to talk. He said "Yes. I am all set. Thanks." What do I do? Am I over thinking? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

For the record I am Latino, my first language is Spanish and both my parents are brown the thing is that I'm light skinned I've got brown eyes and brown hair I basically look like a white guy. But believe me I know what it's like growing up with vaporrub (and an alarming amount of people will not get that joke). I'm 6 foot 2, I weigh I 152 LBS, I do sit ups and push ups as a workout but believe me I'm NOT mr universe. I speak English Spanish French Arabic and Italian I also plan on learning more languages like Portuguese and Farsi. I turn 18 in September so sabes que I'm going to be barely legal in both ways

Im a 16 year old girl, and the reason I'm asking this is because I was just on social media watching a video of these 2 girls fighting and having so much drama and it made me ask myself if I'm considered a bad teen. Like no I've never got into fights with anyone, but at home I've had argued and cussed when talking to my dad, and have disrespected him, which I know is bad but I just felt like he didn't understand me then, and I've showed attitude at home and used cuss words while arguing but not outside of home but I do think I'm a nice person.. I'm just asking if the way I've talked to my dad and have shown attitude defines me as a bad person?

I m a female and I have a guy friend at work that s married. We both really love Metal and we bond over that at work. We were walking out of work tonight and he mentioned he needed some good metal to cheer him up from work. Would it be inappropriate for me to send him a link to my fav cheer up song since he s married?

Every time I post on my Snapchat "movie night anyone?" This one guys always messages me "meee, i dooo" of course he lives in another state so we joke like that, but why does he do that every time ?

I'm new to dating, I was the nerdier kid in school. But I'm dating my teenage crush so I'm on cloud 9 to say the least. I'm a total virgin and its not hard to tell. I'm barely 18 as to where my girl is 23 but even than I'm only her second serious relationship. To blunt I'm scared of sex but sometimes I do get those urges. It takes a lot of trust and she's known me since I was 11 but still sex has a lot of consequences even with protection. Of course I'm in love and trust my girl she's my best friend but I'm young. I mean I get nervous when she says I'm cute, I still blush. She's called me sexy before and she's attractive but I get nervous. One part of me wants to be like we should wait until we're married and the other half of me just wants to go at it. I don't know how experienced she is and it's really none of my business and it's nobody's business on here telling me I'm not man enough for her. We've kissed and cuddled I guess that's innocent. We told each other we'd always be there for each other but how do I bring up oral sex let alone anal or vaginal because that's got to take a heavy toll on her. I just want to keep it simple and sweet but idk man. Wait until marriage or just let it happen naturally. And yeah I'm young but I love her family their great people I'm not gonna get married at 18 that's silly I want to get all of my finances right but I can say that I've found someone special and that the wait was worth it my dream came true

My husband is in the navy and he lives in japan. He will be there for 3 years.he sends me money for little things when i need it. But he gets a basic housing allowance and i feel like he should send me that money because im married and i still live with my mom. He comes to america twice a year and because i dont see him often when he comes i suggest we take a trip. He always says no because he wants to hang out with his family and save money and traveling is not his thing i feel bad but i understand. I talked to him recently and he said we could go to a cabin in the woods in our hometown as like a couples trip. I did not want to use my vacation days just to go somewhere in my own state. During this same converstation he told me he was going to hawii with his friends. I got upset because i didnt understand why he would take me to a cabin in the woods but plan a trip to go to hawii with his friends. He said its just a plan and but he never likes to plan things like this with me I told him how i felt and he said i was ungrateful. Am i being ungrateful? And were only 20 so what should i expect from in finacially as my husband? And am i expecting to much?

Why are people so militant about it? And why do people place everyone in their life in an order of importance with their spouse being first? That means everyone else is less important? Confused

he has a wife..everything he wants..why is he looking for affair with other people?

The opposite also happens, when people fake enthusiasm when interacting with those who they like or want to ingratiate themselves to. I have found that this happens frequently in the workplace. You will hear people giggle and lose their breath laughing at insipid jokes of their boss or influential coworker, while shrugging their shoulders at unpopular coworkers who are actually humorous.

I am 24 we're the same age .. I've known her since like 2nd grade. She has two young kids now and I am currently pregnant with my first ... she lives about two hours from me .. anyway she hardly texts me first or if she does text me it's kind of brief.. recently she had texted me out of the blue saying she was out towards my area visiting some family of hers and asked what I was up to for the day I told her meet me somewhere and I didn't hear back from her until it got dark and claimed "she didn't get my text til late" and went somewhere else instead.. (yeah sure) btw I haven't seen her in a couple years ... you would think she'd try to see me after all that time .. I would Go to her but I want her to make the effort sometimes! Should I say anything to her about how I feel ? I feel like she'll think I'm over reacting or should I just cut all ties ?

I realized recently that I care to much about things and I worry too much. How can I stop myself from over caring?