I started having a crush on her when I was 11 I met her on vacation went back when I was 12 and feelings started developing on my part but she had to live her life. Didn't see each other or have much communication until I was 16 and by than she was the tourist. She was calling me sexy saying I'm cute I overheard her telling her sister and mom que lindo, she got me at a bad time I owe her something, I was feeling down insecure people making me feel bad about myself she was my rock at that point. But I was 16 and we'd have late night texts, I slid in her DM and took my shot. She said we could always count on each other I know that wouldn't have been said if I didn't get at her and she tried to help me but I just couldn't take the pressure she'd go cold on me maybe cause I was 16 maybe so her boyfriend wouldn't think she was cheating either way I'm still a Slimy. Told myself I wouldn't feel anything but I feel back in love for her and now I'm almost 18 and she's somewhere in the world I just pray she's alright. I pray to god she's happy even if it can hurt me. We haven't talked in like a year and there's no point in me doingthat. She's got the same boyfriend she had in high school she'll be 23 in December you can do the math

Methinks they do.

So, I keep reading stories about husbands going on and telling their wives how their old, ugly and wrothless around the kids then the kids find out their dad is either cheating on their or just being in general a asshole. Is this normal husbands?

..... white European girls of Irish, German, British, French, Dutch and Scandinavian ancestry nonexistent without having recent Eastern European, Italian, Greek, Spanish, Portuguese, Black, Native American, Asian, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Indian and Polynesian ancestors ?

Me and my bf, were invited to go for a picnic and going to hilly area with my two sisters. Anne, and Claire. We went with Anne's family car and Claire was driving us. It was all good until at one stage we were stuck at such steep pathway in the dark and hence, both of them shocked that they didn't see it coming, so Claire suddenly panic after reaching the steep path partly but hesitate to keep going so she stopped with no handbrake on and the car was unstable and so my bf had to help lifting up the handbrake, and now both of my sisters, none could do the job so my bf did try to help to take over driving the pathway. Now problem is, a few days after the gear's been damaged, My sister texted me to check out what gear my bf used to go down the steep path and telling me don't tell him if the car's broken bcs she doesn't want to make him feel wrong/guilty. I asked my bf, he said he used L (automatic car). Anne doesn't ask me to pay but she wants to only make sure if her husband's assumption is right since they were debating about this. Her husband was annoyed with this incident and he accused that someone must have used the L (low) gear. So now after being interrogated, I am the one that is feeling bad. What am I supposed to feel? Does she really have to tell me this after claiming my bf doesn't need to know, but then let me know the whole thing because surely I will feel bad and wrong and responsible because the suspected is my bf. I just don't have enough money to pay now.

This is all I've thought of so far: Bully: There's losers in here. Me: If you call someone a loser, that only makes you the loser, not them. Bully: The exit is over there. Me: If you know where the exit is, go through it. Bully: But im actually wanted here, unlike you. Me: Yes. You're wanted dead or alive for acting like a complete baby. Bully: You suck at bottle flipping. Me: You suck in general. Or I just call bullies peasants, cuz they're not worth my time. What are some more good comebacks? Bully: You're stupid. Me: I'm surprised people don't say that to you more often! Bully: Why are you here, you're not good enough to be here. Me: Do you know where my dog is, I can hear her barking.

I haven't seen him since December when we met a few times after breaking up. Most months he messages me that he hopes I'm ok, but he never mentions his feelings or anything serious. Last time he tried to find out if I'm single & said we could talk later if I wanted. He messaged me 'by accident' the other day & when I didn't respond he said 2 days later 'hope you're ok. Sent that message by accident.' I said it feels like you're trying to remind me of you & he said 'ok sorry won't do it again.' I said I was more confused than annoyed. He messaged me Friday 'still confused?', saying he thought I didn't want him to message me again. He said he'll leave me alone if I want. We talked for 2 hours catching up. When I said I'm renting my flat to a girl, he said 'you can say if it's your bf' like I was lying. He said good night & we can talk whenever I want. What does he want? He's a commitment phobe & likes his own space which is why we broke up. I said we both want different things, but he still wanted to see me.

Or would you hide behind them all?

I can't shake the feeling that something happened to me in my childhood. I could have an active imagination, or it could be real. I have missing memories of my childhood. My mom recently told me that I went to a child psychologist several times. And I've apparently been to the hospital several times too. I don't remember going and I have an impeccable childhood memory. When I ask, she's quiet or defensive. Which is odd. I've looked at childhood sexual abuse symptoms and I checkout with most all of them. How can I tell if I was abused as a child?

for example if someone hates on you and they never met you in their life... i know their probably hating BECAUSE they dont know you but why do people hate or think about people that they dont know... do haters have lives? if someone harasses u and they dont even know you why would they be doing this?

I turn 20 in few months. I used to shy horribly shy in school. I had no friends. Never went out with friends. I would only have at least one good guy friend during elementary & highschool. They cared of me & saw how I was too shy. It's been two years since I graduated highscool. I've been going out more pay my own things,with that it has made me less shy,more confident, I can talk & smile with strangers cashiers,etc. I had a guy friend at one job & hung out twice but now he's in army & has gf. I volunteer every other months at big fun fashions shows in la every other month. Fornwhile I was taking classes online & this fall I'm taking fashion classes in person. At my current warehouse job(Im a girl) I have met many people,few good guy friends but quit. I'm just best friends with guy there & we kiss text daily etc. I keep in touch with my guy friends online sometimes but I'm alone. With that I like it helps loneliness go away but I just have parents. My family is in Mexico.my cousins nearby don't get along well with us. Don't care to visit. My brother is married & lives far & spends time with wife. I do go out alone or with my mom, I make YouTube vids,have fashion instagram page & sell clothes online, but it sucks to be and feel lonely. No friends & I'm still little but shy I only get alone with guys. :( any advice ?

I started having a crush on her when I was 11 I met her on vacation went back when I was 12 and feelings started developing on my part but she had to live her life. Didn't see each other or have much communication until I was 16 and by than she was the tourist. She was calling me sexy saying I'm cute I overheard her telling her sister and mom que lindo, she got me at a bad time I owe her something, I was feeling down insecure people making me feel bad about myself she was my rock at that point. But I was 16 and we'd have late night texts, I slid in her DM and took my shot. She said we could always count on each other I know that wouldn't have been said if I didn't get at her and she tried to help me but I just couldn't take the pressure she'd go cold on me maybe cause I was 16 maybe so her boyfriend wouldn't think she was cheating either way I'm still a Slimy. Told myself I wouldn't feel anything but I feel back in love for her and now I'm almost 18 and she's somewhere in the world I just pray she's alright. I pray to god she's happy even if it can hurt me. We haven't talked in like a year and there's no point in me Doug that. She's got the same boyfriend she had in high school she'll be 23 in December you can do the math Edit

I met this awesome kind guy who I feel like i hit it off with. Hes so handsome. He thinks im beautiful. Well we met today in person and we had a great time chatting. He wants to see me again hopefully tomorrow I text him thanking him for meeting with me. He said "I was just bout to thank you for being so sweet and beautiful. I hope this "relationship" thing can grow into something special" Sounds lame to ask but does that mean hes into me? I like him so far. I've told him. He said he'd text me tomorrow since he had to go to work tonight. Should I mention a date tomorrow or just another 'hang out' ??

I went and looked at myspace.com and searched me and my friends profiles, which were still on there, but it hasnt been updated since 2004/2007. It was so touching. seeing people that are no longer with us, but their myspace profile was on there, and seeing people who are now married, and seeing them on myspace as a wild teen hanging with guys and talking about boyfriends, seeing moments that cannot be changed. Will you go to the graveyard today, aka Myspace and look up your old profiles and your old friends profiles? You all would surely cry.

My parents spent lots of money on my sister, way more than what they spent on me on her education like a private school, i only went to a private school until middle school then i went to public. They paid for everything for my sister even throughout college. I also feel they are afraid of my sister because she is violent, she beats them, and has injured them badly, and has been doing this repeatedly. I do not cuss out or talk to my parents like how my sister does and i don't beat them either. They let her get away with it, I'm never allowed to act this way. I brought this up with them and they said they don't think they're treating us different which is NOT true and they make excuses. They said they think I'm more 'independent' than her, which is not true, I'm the younger sister. So it makes me wonder, why did they spend more money on my sister than me? Also-- could it be that they are afraid of her? Because she gets violent and breaks things and throws a huge fit when she doesn't get what she wants? She's older than me and an adult! @Sirbriggs get a life, and i think you should stop trolling and stfu

My husband and I have been married for 2 years. We have a 2 year old daughter, and are currently by law (protective order) seperated for the past 2 months. We have had several communication (i know we are not suppose to) were at first he was confused as to where are marriage would go he then switched to the loving husband he always was to recently becoming so cold with me saying he doesn't know how he is going to do it but he will know when the time is right to get a divorce and for me not to tell him how or when to do it. (This started because we had recent arguments from the past) he has told me several times I have not showed him I've changed and he can't go back and forth me anymore. I've done all the wrongs the begging and all and he recently told me it means nothing to him and that I can't force him to be with me when he doesn't want to anymore. It has been 4 days since we have contacted each other even about our daughter. Is it really over or does he need space to think this through? I'm really working legally on myself to better our marriage on the future but it feels like it's to late and my husband has checked out already.

My grandmother was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. She was on chemotherapy for one year and during that year the cancer spread to her liver and a bit to her chest. She has become incredibly immature and by this I mean that she throws tantrums and cries over everything. She doesn't listen to anything. If you tell her Grandma you cannot go in their the baby is sleeping she continues to go in their and wake the baby up. She is incredibly dependent on my mother and I. She took the TV (it was a very small and light flat screen so it was easy for her to pick up) from the entertainment room and took it to her room because "she bought it" She asks the same question at least 20 even when we answer it. She is literally a 2 year old walking around in a 60 year old's body. My grandmother has never been like this before she is a very independent and intellectual woman. But lately it has been awful. Could this be related to fact that she is terminally ill?