which makes me jealous. I don't donit so maybe that's why I don't understand. Sometimes I'm insecure because my wife is attractive and has the best personality I know.

I am 38k in credit card debt and using credit cards just to make ends meet. I buy what we need, necessities. When I try to talk to him about getting a job and paying his half of the bills and the credit card debt I am in because I am supporting is both he has the nerve to say "you over extended yourself" and blames me and says I spend too much. I am at my wits end. Why would a grown man act like this? He was a hard worker when we met, nothing like this. I have to use credit cards to buy food for passed 6 years. The good job he had shut down in 2010 and he never looked for a new one because "he wanted to start his own business", but, never did. He turned down jobs "that were too far away" or "bad company" and won't look. I have tried to talk to him about this many times. I always start calm, but, I end up screaming at him when he says "it's my fault". My other problem: the house and bills are in both our names. I cannot just stop paying or I would ruin my credit.

My husband and I have married for 2 years, and together for nearly 5. He never talked much about his past, but I never gave it much though. He s not really close to his family. He has a sister that lives on another continent. She came up for a visit a week ago. We were talking, and she told me this horrible story how her brother (my husband) was taken when he was 13 or 14 for several weeks by a convicted pedophile, and had unimaginably horrible things happen to him in that time. I didn t believe her, and called her a "liar" to her face. I thought that if it were true, he would have told me about it. She told me to look it up online, and I did, and found several articles about a teenage boy who was taken in his town the same year that this supposedly happened. The name of the boy was not revealed, but his sister insist that it was him. She swore me to secrecy not to tell him what she told me. However, I m regretting the promise because I really want to ask him about it. I feel hurt that he felt he couldn t trust me with this. I ve told him every ugly detail of my life. What should I do?

This time we were a little rough and talked a lot more dirty than usual. We even did a few rough things which is not the normal us. Next day she laughed as I had rug burn. My question is I am too embarrassed to talk about it, but I want it to happen again and soon. I'm assuming she like it, but didn't ask. I know she's my wife, but it was new so not sure to talk about it or not.

is it truly worth it to swing with my wife with other couples ? it turns me on to think of her with other men, and she has wanted to see me with other women. we please eachother don't get me wrong our sex is fantastic. she says its better in our own heads than in real life because she doesn't think she can actually handle seeing me with another woman.

fantasize about having sex with daughter in law. I'm in a similar situation. Is that incest?

My Husband Jay and I were careless a few weeks ago when we assumed our seven year old daughter Stefanie was next door at her friend house. She seen Daddy put me over his lap and playfully spank me with my skirt raised. Stefanie said nothing about this and went about her young life....til today Stefanie got a spanking over Daddy's lap with her skirt off. I was in the kitchen with my sister listening to our daughter getting a spanking in the living room. Later Stefanie came in the kitchen in her sweater and skirt off to visit. Stefanie wants to be like Mommy and she wears her hair short and also wears white nylon briefs like I do. She told my Sister that "see my panties are like Mommy's, and Daddy gives us both spankings over his lap. " I then dropped my spoon in the sink! My husband (as well as my sister) finds this hilarious that she thinks he spanks both of us! He refuses to help me out here! Should I set her straight but how do I explain this?

So there's this girl named L and her mom is married to J and J's brother is C and C is Married to H which is my aunt.

My husband has a mistress he has been with for a year or so. I found her number on his phone. So I found her name, searched her address up and went to her house. She told my husband that I was knocking on her door. My husband told me to leave her alone and stop harassing her. She said that she didn't want to fight. I rang her apartment doorbell, I told her to come outside. She did not want to so I went into her apartment and showed her text message screenshots and pictures of them together. She said they've been together a year. So in her apartment, I pushed her and she grabbed me. She punched me numerous times, scratched my face (I have a few cuts), pulled my hair and kept attacking me. I admit I was wrong for hitting her first but she kept beating on me after I begged her to stop. I even have a black eye that is very swollen, scratched on my face and a patch of my hair is gone. I'm upset that she beat me up. Can I press charges on her for hitting me? My husband found out about the fight from my bruises and is not speaking to me. He is consoling her and he is asking for a divorce. He doesn't even want to be with me anymore We don't have children. I loved him and cheated on him with my ex boyfriend twice a few months ago, but I moved past that. He doesn't want to be married to me anymore. Our marriage has been nothing but bad.

I have an aunt who is married to a guy and his brother is married to a girl and she has a daughter.

They aren't even divorced yet but I am sure they are done. My aunt staged an intervention for her husband who is an alcoholic. He agreed to get help but from rehab filed divorce papers. My aunt's husband has been a rotten snake for 18 years. While alcoholism is a disease so he certainly couldn't help that and I am glad he has gotten treatment, he did talk to my aunt like she was a dog or worse. He hit the kids with a belt to discipline and he had a love/hate relationship with his own family apparently (aunt's in-laws). His own family is very wealthy so maybe some of it had to do with that. So he is divorcing her saying she made him alcoholic. So my Mom and other aunt are throwing a party to celebrate his departure from the family. Is this normal in a divorce?

So out of all the bad things that could happen to me today.. this happened. While driving blissfully to buy fireworks.. I was snooping through my husbands phone, (yes I know it's bad but I have trust issues) I found a text going out to my cousin, who is pretty close to me. Anyway my husband sent her texts that said "you look exceptionally beautiful without makeup" & another that said "you look sexy"... There was no reply from her. But I think there's a lot of texts that had been deleted. Well I lost my ****. & he says he was just playing around... this is very wrong right? Or am I crazy?

Her husband was out for the weekend. We had our "fun" on the couch then went to sleep. My lover got a message from her husband's sister that she took a picture of us and sent it to her husband. She never explained how she got in the house and didn't ask our permission since we were asleep.

Like in relationships, do you think people should be able to have sex with more than one person? I know this girl that lets her boyfriend have sex with other girls. What do you think about that? She says as long as he doesn't get an STD she doesn't want to know about it.

She has talked about marrying me, has referred to my parents as her future in laws, and she will text me that wedding ring emoji (at the end of her text) from time to time. Is she actually wanting to marry me, or do you think she is kidding?

Me and my husband have been married for going on 7years we have 4 kids under 5 together. Last month my husband told me he wants to look for a sister wife type of thing. I'm very unsure about this. He tells me that it will help us. And she'll be my best friend. We can't afford a helper around the house so he thinks this will be best. I work full time, so it should just be them and the kids home alone all day while I'm working. Ever sense we talked about it and i hesitated to say yes. Hes been a the hunt, joining online groups and chatting with people. It makes me feel uncomfortable. Last night when he came to bed excited he was watching his phone while he made love to me. It was like morning ever before. We have watched porn together but this wasnt like that. I just feel lile his changing, bigger sex drive cant keep him happy. I just want some other peoples opinions

My husband has a mistress he has been with for a year or so. I found her number on his phone. So I found her name, searched her address up and went to her house. She told my husband that I was knocking on her door. My husband told me to leave her alone and stop harassing her. She said that she didn't want to fight. I rang her apartment doorbell, I told her to come outside. She did not want to so I went into her apartment and showed her text message screenshots and pictures of them together. She said they've been together a year. So in her apartment, I pushed her and she grabbed me. She punched me numerous times, scratched my face (I have a few cuts), pulled my hair and kept attacking me. I admit I was wrong for hitting her first but she kept beating on me after I begged her to stop. I even have a black eye that is very swollen, scratched on my face and a patch of my hair is gone. I'm upset that she beat me up. Can I press charges on her for hitting me? My husband found out about the fight from my bruises and is not speaking to me. He is consoling her and he is asking for a divorce. He doesn't even want to be with me anymore We don't have children. I loved him and cheated on him with my ex boyfriend twice a few months ago, but I moved past that. He doesn't want to be married anymore. What should I do?

A few years ago I was suffering from major depression but that changed after I fell in love. I'm now 26, married and a father to a baby girl. My wife is 4 months pregnant with our second child. However, sometimes it's tough being relied upon on so many levels in such a short time. I have responsibility to make as much money as possible to support my family. I fear how much they'd be affected if one day the money stopped coming in. My family have always been there for me, but I don't want to be a burden.

I ve known my husband since 8th grade, we ve always been best friends but today I found out his life insurance is split between me, his wife, and Jay, his freind, 50/50. It offends me, when I asked him why he chose to do that, he said "idk, so Jay and his girlfriend can buy a house or something. Is it wrong to take care of people?" Which is nice and all but shouldn t he want that other half of all that money to be used to take care of me? And our possible future kids? I feel so betrayed. And my husband is in the army by the way. Am I being irrational?

I snooped on my spouses phone after she got back from vacation from visiting a male friend of hers I'd never met. I found out she was bad mouthing me to this male friend and telling him about or problems but not telling the whole truth about our problems and putting herself in a good light and not telling the whole story. What should I do?

Actually last year was worse, so this year has already been better. Whwn we get a night out she's all for it and she suggest it. When kids are around she's all Mom mode. When they are not she's all wife. Wanting to know if it ever gets better?

My husband left my soon after my second child was born. Now I'm a divorced mom of two very young children(4 and 6). I feel like no one wants a serious relationship with me and the people I met to date all seem to want a serious relationship at first but then eventually break up with me. To top it off my kids have behavioral issues whenever I date and are incredibly possessive over me and will not allow a relationship to happen. My oldest won't allow anyone I'm dating to hold my hand or buckle her into a car seat. Is my life ruined forever?

Why would a guy who people say is happily married would say to someone else all the terrible things about his wife. also she would post on fb funny little things they do together. This happened to me. he complained she always spent to much money, she gained to much weight, he didn't like mentioning her around me and if he did he seemed disgusted by it. People knew he liked me too and told me. Lately he comments on things she posts but to me its more like a friend post. People tell me that he will always be a cheating person. We haven't seen each other since Thanksgiving. he hasn't made any advances except when he told me he would see me around and where he liked to hang out. I haven't done anything. I looked back on his fb page way before he met me and it was all about how he admired his wife and his kids. After he met me he never mentioned her and hated mentioning her but loved mentioning his kids. we did like each other but nothing happened so that's my question why would he Now he is also a church going guy but never mentioned it to me and never mentioned his church life. I honestly think his wife is behind a lot of the reason he doesn't come into where we used to work together anymore. He came in one day and avoided me, and only said hi to a few people then left in aeon the phone like he shouldn't have been there. Then one day his wife came in alone as well and glared at m. Now all over fb he's been acting differently and acting like to doting husband.

We had fun both nights. She asked me to hold her afterwards. I did, but it was like we were dating again. I'm a guy so that doesn't matter as much. I didn't know if she misses alone time or if there was any other reason.

i'm trying to figure out this part in my life. I never intended to go down this road, but i am here. Now i just want to figure it out (Judge me if you like).. I meet this married women with 2 kids about 8 months back. We hit it off as friends at her work. Then one thing lead to another... Her husband is a odd guy... He treats her like **** and always wants her to bring home co-workers to have 3-some but she doesn't and her get pissed. he told her before that he was going to find a girlfriend to screw and she cant do anything about it. They got married fast and then got pregnant in the first year of marriage. you can tell by the way she acts the marriage has never been good but she loves her kids and they hold her together. The last few years its been rough on her it seems. She is looking for a way out but is afraid she cant support her kids on her own and she wants to. She seems very genuine and honest.. At first we were friends. we would joke about stuff sexually... then one day she told me she really liked me and that its been going on for a while.... we just started talking more and more.. we would meet and just kiss and hug... before she had to go home... she only had 5 mins.... the relationship started to get deeper and deeper...we hadnt had sex yet... one day i was flirting with some girls and she got super jealous and freaked out over our secret way we talk.. that night she told me she loved me... that was about 1 month into the relationship We started spending more time together and one time she said she had 10 mins I went down on her, then we ended up having sex… we have done it a few times since… I asked her when she was leaving her husband… she said that she just has to make sure things are right and its right for the kids. She wants this to be her choice and she wants to make sure she is doing it for the right reason, but I should hang in and she can see us doing it… I mentioned it another time… but pointing at her ring and told her we need to get rid of this… she looks at me and says you mean replace it?... I don't know what the hell I am doing but I like this girl… she says hang in there, but I kills me when I can't talk to her… we talk then she disappears. I can't help but think she isn't leaving… What are signs she will? What are signs she is staying?

i'm trying to figure out this part in my life. I never intended to go down this road, but i am here. Now i just want to figure it out (Judge me if you like).. I meet this married women with 2 kids about 8 months back. We hit it off as friends at her work. Then one thing lead to another... Her husband is a odd guy... He treats her like **** and always wants her to bring home co-workers to have 3-some but she doesn't and her get pissed. he told her before that he was going to find a girlfriend to screw and she cant do anything about it. They got married fast and then got pregnant in the first year of marriage. you can tell by the way she acts the marriage has never been good but she loves her kids and they hold her together. The last few years its been rough on her it seems. She is looking for a way out but is afraid she cant support her kids on her own and she wants to. She seems very genuine and honest.. At first we were friends. we would joke about stuff sexually... then one day she told me she really liked me and that its been going on for a while.... we just started talking more and more.. we would meet and just kiss and hug... before she had to go home... she only had 5 mins.... the relationship started to get deeper and deeper...we hadnt had sex yet... one day i was flirting with some girls and she got super jealous and freaked out over our secret way we talk.. that night she told me she loved me... that was about 1 month into the relationship... w We started spending more time together and one time she said she had 10 mins I went down on her, then we ended up having sex… we have done it a few times since… I asked her when she was leaving her husband… she said that she just has to make sure things are right and its right for the kids. She wants this to be her choice and she wants to make sure she is doing it for the right reason, but I should hang in and she can see us doing it… We started spending more time together and one time she said she had 10 mins I went down on her, then we ended up having sex… we have done it a few times since… I asked her when she was leaving her husband… she said that she just has to make sure things are right and its right for the kids. She wants this to be her choice and she wants to make sure she is doing it for the right reason, but I should hang in and she can see us doing it… I mentioned it another time… but pointing at her ring and told her we need to get rid of this… she looks at me and says you mean replace it?... I don't know what the hell I am doing but I like this girl… she says hang in there, but I kills me when I can't talk to her… we talk then she disappears. I can't help but think she isn't leaving… What are signs she will? What are signs she is staying?

Shes been telling me she wants to have sex with other men and i could watch if i want she said she doesnt want to break up but she needs difrent men to **** her if not shel leave me,wat should i do guys?

While being Engaged to me she cheated on me and gave a BJ to a guy she knew from her work by going to his house and staying there for 2,3 Hours. I never cheated on her throughout the period not even messaged another. She told this to me after about two years. That also i get to know through a friend of her. I confronted and my wife admitted. She had no plan on telling me this otherwise. She liked this guy sooo much and because of him she was reconsidering me FOR NO SOLID Reason except for some typical arguments that couples expericnes. I am terribly shocked because i never gave her a reason to cheat on me. She probably swallowed his Mess also its giving me chills. I have no idea what to do i have ALWAYS loved this girl in every possible way and always tried my best to take care of her and respect her! What should i do in this situation? I am totally blank! Please understand this no trolling. I am seeking a real advise. Thank you all in advance :)

My husband loves me a lot enough to come to my country to live for me and work. We are honest to each other and oftenly say 'thank you' and 'sorry' to each other for happier marriage. My husband has been under lots of stress because of my personality. I am basically good one but I had a bad habbit to ask him the same questions over and over and he answers for those and tried hard to make me understand. He did not call me names for 7 years with his stress with me but recently he did several times when he could not handle me anymore in our bad arguments or in my stupid questions. I am very sensitive over his reactions or faces when he is upset (nothing violent action though). Yesterday, i was repeating myself about something and he told me to stop it with some reaction. I didnt like the reaction. Of course I asked him what the reaction means and he said that it was just for fun and it means nothing. But I kinda kept going on about it and I assumed that he was tired to hear my stupid complains again and he said 'You are a *****'. Should I just move on for this? Should I forgive him? This morning, I was still mad about it and he just let our daughter cry, being right by her in the room while I was doing something in other room. And I also told him he was a ***** as well. I know I should not have done it though. My husband usually plays a lot with her and does house chores a lot as well. I know he is a good man, but I am having hard time when he calls me that. Some advice?

So today we when out to eat with my husband and kids and bump into his ex gf who he cheated on me 4 years ago now everything was okay but like an hour later he started acting distant towards me i ask him for a hug and gave me one but honestly like he didnt want to huge me so i told him why was he acting like that with me he didnt give me an answer all he said u say u love me but ur disgusted by me ... i reply to him how am i disgusted by u if i was i wouldnt ask for a hug i honestly got upset because it seems like his looking for an excuse for me not go be bugging him so i told him he didnt need to hug me if he didnt want to or if he didnt want me to hug him to let me know cuase he honestly just put his arm there and i was the one hugging him... then he started to called me ungrateful idk how am ungrateful but i guess he thinks that before today everything was good now today its totally the apposite

yes i really want to be a woman and enjoy being a woman

just so annoyed

my friends think I m crazy but I have strong feelings for my teacher and I m obsessed with her because in my eyes, she s perfect and I can t find a single flaw in her. We both love the same things and she has a great personality. I think it s ****** up how it s nearly impossible for me to persue a relationship between us but it gets me really frustrated imagining her with someone else. so I m about to say **** itvand persue a relationship with her anyway and I know what the consequences of my actions may be but she drives me crazy. I am Aldo on summer break right now so everyday that I dont see her, I go even more crazy. I feel myself losing more and more impatient as the days go on. I even find myself stalking her social media subconsciously. any help or advice?