I asked them if they could help me relocate to another state and they agreed but they're not really thinking ahead. They couldn't give me an address which made job hunting before relocating hard since I was using an out of state address on applications. Then they finally gave me an address to use after arrived in NJ. Initially in our agreement I gave them a three month limit. I have no intention of using anyone or having them spend a lot of money on me. After that three month limit I would go back to where I came from if I couldn't find a job. So recently they got upset with me cause I don't shower them with attention constantly. The only thing on my mind is establishing myself here. But all they want to do is be all huggy and mushy all the time. Firstly they have me in a hotel which they are paying for which has me feeling guilty. My time is almost up so I'm stressed and most of my jobs don't start till next month. When I asked what they will do when the 3 months are up they said they will only stay by me if I take over the hotel payments and they will give me rides where I need to go in exchange. When I did the math and told them that I won't save anything that way and that getting an apartment would be better, they were against it. And now they leave me alone for days at a time cause I don't shower them with affection. What should I do? Should I call it quits and go home? Talking is not an option cause they will play the victim card constantly.

When these women naturally get mad, they will show you drill seargant attitudes at best to get physically violent at worst, They seem to throw tantrums when they don't get their way, and tends to not care anything about you or the position you're in, like they would even get mad if you have to attend your grandfathers funeral over her. They tend to have a unprofound desire to control, wear the pants everywhere they go and engages in manipulation. They would come after someone over a minor offense or get very angry over a minor offense. They usually have a huge clique of guy friends that are not variety, all dressing the same, talking the same way acting the same way and physically look alike.

Dated all senior hs year but i was at a different hs. We graduated and she left to college. I stayed home and we soon broke up. We never had sex because she said she wasn't ready. We'd fool around but that was it. She ended up moving back home a year later because she said she didn't like the idea of being away from home. That same week she moved back home she called me and said if she wanted to meet up. I thought it was weird af that she had called me because we'd been broken up almost for a whole year. Well we met up and we started to talk. I asked if she dated anyone? she said nothing serious {now stop here and re read her answer}. I asked her how far she got in those dates as in trying to find out if she had sex or not. She wouldn't answer it she'd stay quite. I then told her I had sex with one girl only which was true. She got pissed and said "just one girl that's it"?. She began to smack talk more and I never saw her again. About a year later i bumped into her at the mall and she flicked me off and kept walking when i called her name since i just wanted to say hi/catch up. Why couldn't she answer my question about how far she got in her dates??? if she did sleep around then why did she stop talking to me after I told her I slept with one girl? it's like it doesn't make sense. This whole thing is like drinking hot water on a hot day. Like why a year later is she still mad and decided to flick me off in at the malls parking lot? this whole thing doesn't make sense.

I asked them if they could help me relocate to another state and they agreed but they're not really thinking ahead. They couldn't give me an address which made job hunting before relocating hard since I was using an out of state address on applications. Then they finally gave me an address to use after arrived in NJ. Initially in our agreement I gave them a three month limit. I have no intention of using anyone or having them spend a lot of money on me. After that three month limit I would go back to where I came from if I couldn't find a job. So recently they got upset with me cause I don't shower them with attention constantly. The only thing on my mind is establishing myself here. But all they want to do is be all huggy and mushy all the time. Firstly they have me in a hotel which they are paying for which has me feeling guilty. My time is almost up so I'm stressed and most of my jobs don't start till next month. When I asked what they will do when the 3 months are up they said they will only stay by me if I take over the hotel payments and they will give me rides where I need to go in exchange. When I did the math and told them that I won't save anything that way and that getting an apartment would be better, they were against it. And now they leave me alone for days at a time cause I don't shower them with affection. What should I do? Should I call it quits and go home? Talking is not an option cause they will play the victim card constantly.

Me and my bf have been together for 9 months recently we have moved in with each other & now I'm pregnant with his child. He gets so angry sometimes about small things that I can't understand why you would get so angry about. He sometimes gets physical and will grab me really hard by the arm or slap me on my head or push me. As soon as he does he'll start saying sorry and cry. I'll forgive him but sometimes I resent him for all the fights we have. He most recently threatened to kill him self and he has a gun, he kept putting it to his head and saying he didn't wanna live and that he's trash & I don't deserve to be treated the way he does. I just don't know how to control him anymore and I'm beginning to become afraid since everything in our last fight had a gun involved. I have his baby and I just don't know what to do anymore.

The words "I'm sorry" don't actually fix anything. Most apologies are meaningless, but for some people it's super important to hear them anyway. Why?

Hay un chico que me gusta, (va en segundo grado y yo en primero) así que casi no hablamos en persona, hace unos dias estuvimos platicando, me dijo cosas muy lindas (el ya sabe que me gusta). Hoy se acercó a mi, me abrazó y me dio un beso en la mejilla, despues por la tarde empezamos a platicar y me envio un mensaje diciéndome que necesitaba hablar conmigo mañana sobre algo y que talvez me gustaría, no sé a lo que se refiere y no me quiere decir. ¡Ayuda!

I lose every argument, I can argue ok when I have time to think like online but when it comes to having to think up a quick answer it's like my brain just decides not to work and then I automatically just get submisive and second guess myself and feel bad for arguing. How can I argue better and train myself not to be so docile /submissive?

When I asked her, she was very nervous. Almost confused? My sister and I took a walk together and did some jogging. The landlord was NOT happy, but she has always been stuck up. The rabbit is okay. After we took him to the vet when Tim told me everything was going to be fine and that when we go to the restaurant tomorrow, I should invite her. Then Sarah (that's her name) agreed and now Beth (her sister) is going to call the landlord? Beth and I never got along. After the thanksgiving we had together, things can't be the same again. I shouldn't have gone to the vet and now I think Tim is mad at me because of it. The birdhouse I built for him was suppose to be an apology and he faked a smile and pretended to be happy. I know I ruined everything and things can't be the same with Beth and I anymore. I don't know what's wrong. Sarah keeps telling me that Tim is going to the restaurant alone if I don't go, because then Beth won't go and Sarah would be upset and the landlord would be mad because Beth would call her to complain. I'm just nervous about the birdhouse and if Beth is going to be okay after the divorce with her and his wife. I tried to be normal and I can't pretend to be okay anymore. I love her. He's not fit to run. On Saturday, Beth even bought him new shoes and I don't know what else they did, but when they got back, I could see how upset Sarah was about it. It's like everyone is becoming each others enemies and the landlord only makes it much worse. Please help

Her husband was out for the weekend. We had our "fun" on the couch then went to sleep. My lover got a message from her husband's sister that she took a picture of us and sent it to her husband. She never explained how she got in the house and didn't ask our permission since we were asleep.

so I made a girl laugh and she told me "You're funny!" so i replied "Who, you?" then she smiled and laughed more

Graduated school top of class. Went to good college did great, so I can teach or get government job, they told me get a degree in this that and the other to make it happen. Graduated in worst recession under Obama. No jobs. Landed a job not in my field, the people lied about me to get me fired, so they can get a raise. Got a teach job, met a woman there, she turned out psycho and lied to get me fired. Can't teach again. She got hers though. That stress of being falsely accused cause me traumatic accident, I do everything right and it all falls apart. I have half of collar bone, deep scars everywhere. They mistreat me at hospital. They want me on drugs. I'm in pain everyday, they tell me to take over counter drugs or prescribed drugs that make me sick. Cannabis is only thing that helps. It's illegal in my state so now I'm a criminal because I treat my self naturally. I had to start a business, it does ok but I can't buy a house now because my business usually fail 3 years then I have to start over. Rent, but I don't like landlords I need privacy so I can treat myself without going to jail to suffer more... I just want my own house, to be able to make a living, and to take care of myself. Yet society make it hard. I'm sick of it, what is going on !?!

HELL DOES HE LIKE ME????????!!!? So this guy and I used to "talk" but we stopped. So I saw him recently and I completely ignored him and acted like I didn't know who he was. He was shocked but I kept speed walking. IT WAS SO AWKWARD!!! So now we both don't speak but there's so much tension between us it's kind of awkward. So every time he sees me he will not look away, he's always staring at me. We also have a class together and HE ALWAYS SITS RIGHT NEXT TO ME!!!! It's so awkward y'all. There's so many open seats and he chooses the one RIGHT next to me. Also my friend and him are somewhat friends so whenever he sees me with her he comes and sits with us. BUT THEN HE LOOKS AT ME AND THEN IGNORES ME THE ENTIRE TIME. And when he's leaving he looks into my eyes and I get shy and look away. Also yesterday I saw him at an event and I had sunglasses on so he couldn't see me but I caught him staring at me and looking me up and down. I need help guys. Is he mad that I ignored him or does he like me?? Should I talk to him??